What does the man pay for? Rent, housing, utilities? Everything? (Clothes, childcare etc) I’m a black single mom (want more kids) and in 3-5 years I expect to make $90-130k. I still want to be taken care of. Is there a chance of me not splitting bills but also not having to deal with a rich asshole type? How do you go about this?

Edit: I don’t intend to live with anyone I’m not engaged or married to and I live in a HCOL area where a 1 bedroom is like $2k/mo.