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[–]DangZagnut36 points37 points38 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Friends with women is a polite way to say "I'm a beta orbiter who holds her purse when she shops and I buy her lunch because I'm so desperate for any sort of emotional affection".
If you can't have any male friends, one has to wonder why that is. And it's beta cuckery and dreams of sex. Or perhaps some sort of serious low confidence issue that makes one terrified of men.
It's ok cuck, just simp along and hold m'lady's purse.
[–]cypresstalker16 points17 points18 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I've seen the opposite side of it. My buddy is a metrosexual Chad. Girls trying to jump on his dick all the time. Problem is that he has a heart condition that makes him impotent.. So he goes around friend zoning straight whores. Its refreshing to see their heads explode
[–]DangZagnut18 points19 points20 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh they hate rejection. They've never experienced in life, 99% of their lives is manipulating situations to escape rejection.
[–]gkp19857 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's gotta suck for his self esteem - even if it is a blessing in disguise.
[–]q_alt8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, i always see my friends who have female "friends" running errands for them like a message boy lol. It's amazing that they can't figure out what's up.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hi, can you say more on this topics or share links?
I had been dating a woman older than me for 4 years now. When she kept complaining, I cut her off. She then reaches out saying she misses our friendship. I told her I have other obligations and ghosted. And yes, I do feel like she wants me to stick around to serve as her emotional tampon. It seems like she was done with the sex and just done with the relationship. And from what I have heard, women tend to keep creating drama until the guy leaves since they're afraid to end it. And since I stopped hanging out with her, I have realized how much emotionally draining she has been on me for years!
[–]DangZagnut2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What's important is that you're free now.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's actually what's incredible. I did not realize that just by being with her she was draining so much of my energy. I honestly think she was feeling insecure and required more and more of my attention to feel like I was still into her. Finally, I just told her it's over. It was very had since she was a good girl. However, over time, I have learned to move on with out her and have discovered all this energy that I had lost. I have more energy to focus on my business, consulting, etc. I also have realized that I was essentially paying for sex with countless hours of being an emotional tampon to someone who was not even good at sex or was excited to do it with me. LOL (My guess is that most men are stuck in an emotional maze and forget who they were once they get with a woman.) Never underestimate the emotional intelligence of women. So I stay away.
[–]TowerOfMG22 points23 points24 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My head doesn't explode, however it does shake in disapproval at their delusion that the women they "get on with" don't have ulterior motives.
[–]Docbear645 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It wasn't until long after most of my female friendships that I saw I was basically the same as a beta orbiter . I'd tell them that they were pretty , I'd more or less take them out on dates and comfort them, when they wanted to talk about how shitty the men they were chasing were I was there and they gave very little in return .
They were not particularly supportive and more often than not were a drain for my free time and money with the added bonus that I wasn't even getting laid. complete waste of time all of them .
[–]TowerOfMG3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly.
[–]CyborgHermit3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can get along with women just fine, but I’ve never really enjoyed having a female friend unless they were some kind of chill lesbian (not the man-hating militants) or just acted like dudes in general. Most women have completely different interests and hobbies than I do
[–]SUEDE2BLACK[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's really true.I did meet a chill lesbian and we had similar hobbies we would hang out alot.She was pretty and easy on the eyes some lesbians just try to hard.Things went well for awhile but she was always telling me to talk to "bitches" which started getting annoying.Our last conversation I hit her up see if she wanted to grab something to eat she knew about all these little holes in the wall resturants.She said she's busy and I should be out talking to bitches..So I said I am talking to a bitch she went off and never spoke to me again.She had alcohol and drug problems and it was no great loss of a frienship.But forawhile it was fun.
[–]PactEU4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s perfectly possible to have a mutual friendship with women without it getting absurdly sexual. I have some great relations with women over the years that were quite a lot of fun, from playing soccer together to just chilling somewhere discussing life. Just like men friends, as long as you don’t do stuff that’s dating related and you pick the right ones it’s generally just another friend and it doesn’t get confusing.
Tensions are always there, sure, but I’m not that hormone crazed I need to fuck whatever talks to me. I’d say having a or multiple female friends is interesting as they have offer good insight into other perspectives of the world, however you want to judge them.
[–]AdrianoWerneck2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Any assexual relationship between a male and a female is highly assymetrical in favour of her. Not only that, a considerate amount of sexual relationships are also moderately/ mostly tilted towards her side. Now, in regards to modern marriage, it is totally ionic and she gains it all while the man loses everything, many of which turning into assexual themselves. In the end, any sexual association that is not a pump and dump or a short term relationship ( less than a year) results in the man having many more responsabilities and far less rights than the female counterpart.
OMG, I CANT COMPREHEND WHY A MAN COULD WANT TO HAVE WOMEN FRIENDS WITHOUT BEING SEXUAL
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes, I just had to make this decision. And I chose to walk away. I would appreciate it if there are any videos you can share on this topic.
[–]AdrianoWerneck0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X1sRs-xosxw This video from Big John summarizes the relationships over time.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks!
[–]Csedilla1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's pretty easy to get along with people, when they're not treating you like shit.
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