Here's a short back story. I was married for a few years. We planned our child. When he was about 2, my wife told me she didn't want to be a wife and mother anymore. Moved to the nearest city and lives the party life. The wall is quickly approaching.

She did leave me with a lot of debt, but otherwise I kept my house and my son. Over the past three years, I woke up to her use of shaming language to control me. In fact, I probably gave into her too much. I enjoyed the provider role. Or at least I thought I did. Now I focus on accruing wealth for myself and for my son. We also get several hours each day to do father/son things. We do hikes, the pool, the park, etc. I did try to date a couple of times, but they were nightmares. I'm the kind of guy that is 40, but still attracts 21 year olds. The girls I tried to date were nightmares. I'll just leave it to your imagination, and you'll probably be right. I accepted being single and became quite happy and satisfied with my life.

But here is the thing. There has been a woman persueing me relentlessly. She is young. About 16 years younger than me. She doesn't seem to want any other man. I do ok financially, but I don't show it. I drive a 15 year old F150 and live in a small house. I wear jeans and t-shirts. But she is still after me. When I press her as to why me, she says its my deminer, my ethics, and the way I carry myself. When I pressed her even harder, she finally admitted that she wants a submissive/dominance relationship. She has always wanted it. But no man she has dated could give it to her. She wants me to handle all our finances, tell her what to wear, where to go, when to be home, and who she can be friends with. If she does something incorrectly, I can discipline her however I see fit. I've never been in a relationship like that. I am very responsible, carry myself with confidence, and never went along with the crowd. I could fill this role. It would be something I'm capable of doing. I would make rational and logical decisions with her interests and needs in mind. I'm not the type that would abuse her in any way. She would probably live a fruitful life with me making the decisions. I haven't jumped on board with this yet. I need to process this a bit more. But I was curious about the opinions from the men here.

Thank you.