I put this up on a different conversation, but I felt that it was good enough by itself to warrant its own post, mainly for those of you on here who are a bit confused by the issue.

For future reference- anyone who doesn't masturbate for personal reasons, I'm not speaking about you, omit yourself entirely lads. I bring this conversation up for all those jackasses who act like they're "better mgtow" because they don't occasionally rub one out. (was going to say "milk their meatstick" but that just sounds horrid)

Don't listen to the chumps on here that buy into that no-fap bullshit.

• 1/3 of them think they are "better than thou".

• 1/3 are concern trolls that know porn is a great tool for cessation and just want you to come back to the plantation.

• 1/3 bring up a bunch of fake science shit about how "porn is destroying Society!"

When you don't bust that nut every once in awhile and you walk around with sexual thoughts in your head all the time, you're much more likely to do something stupid like get with a woman.

Been mgtow for 6 years now, and I couldn't have done it comfortably without kenjataimu

Also, another link

Now, if reaction to sexual thoughts with stimulation was based off of learned behavior, then we could be having a different conversation. We could find ways to separate and rid ourselves of the drive by abstaining contact with stimuli. But it's just not that way. We have survived millions of years of evolution up to this point because we have an ingrained system of reproductive imperative built into us.

Think of it like not smoking when you crave a cigarette. You can try to master not thinking about the cravings and it will eventually go away. If you continue to not smoke then after a while your body will acclimate. you will rid yourself of the craving. You will separate your association with cigarettes and the physical addiction.

The biological impulse doesn't just go away by not thinking about it. It keeps coming back more and more until you cessate it for a while. Some have lower sex drives making it easier for them, but it never goes away because it is part of our biology. It decreases with age because of physiological restrictions, etc.

Refraining from masturbation doesn't "make you cool and in control" like some people on here think it does, it just makes one endure unnecessary emotional/physical repercussions based off of the strength of their sex drive. The release is going to need to happen sooner or later, or one can face the internal consequences of not dealing with it.

You have 3 choices to decide for yourself- act like a "tough guy" and "ignore it", be in control and rub one out , or Pander to pussy and to get yourself in trouble.

Don't feel guilty for having the urge and wanting to fix it. It's natural mate.

"To deny our own impulses, is to deny the very thing that makes us human."

-Mouse