Good afternoon / Good day I am the great Lord Ajayrob12 or Michael. I am a man who over the course of of 3 years

got to experience female nature in all its glory from cheating to complex lies. From monkey branching to guys with more cash to brainwashing me. All before i reached 19. But that what i get right used to be fully blue pill. But since a year ago i swallowed my red pill with pride. But anyways more on my stories with wamen another time. Thank god i wont get married or not for a next 1000000000 years . Now after experiencing so much with wamen i thought i would show a list of how i cope with the complex thoughts and emotions they stirred inside me. may be a bit long and as its the first part you know it should be longer. This was originally a comment i made on another post but i wanted to hear what the wider community thought

Alright my breddas I'm a give you the sweet old ajay listu :

  1. As Bruce lee said Empty your mind and be as water https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJMwBwFj5nQ To empty your mind is to release the chains of thought that constrict your mind. To release the savage emotions from inside you to ultimately be at peace. It gets easy after awhile, you just have to say to your self what Bruce lee said and focus on it as you speak it and think it. control your breathing and be at peace. To clear your head helps in making rational decisions and allows for better judgement and actions.
  2. Say to yourself " I see this woman or i think about her but what purpose does she serve to me, why should i waste my time allowing my thoughts and emotions to run wild when she either does not care about my own existence or she would not serve any purpose to my current life apart from some attention and sex" As you repeat this to yourself you start to see that wasting productive time and energy thinking and contemplating on a given woman who adds nothing to your life ( ok i know its harsh to say all women but the majority) is just a waste and will hurt you more. Repeating statements like that to yourself hep to bring you back to reality or awaken you from your nightmarish daydream of complex thoughts and unnecessary emotions.
  3. Become productive or do things that you like( except for doing women XD) This helps to take your mind off the lady in question, Helps you to enjoy life you know whether it may be working out, playing games, watching anime or your favorite show, etc etc etc. It helps because as you do what you enjoy you see that more while women are'nt necessary for you to enjoy your life but that depends on the man, because a lot of us have a void or hole and we want to try and fill it. As for me yeah i interact with women from time to time but i rather go outside and spend time with my dogs or do one of the activities listed above you know. AS well as focus on your school work or your job. As for me i want to retire by 40 or 45 though if i keep on having the passion for what i want to be i may continue to work. but you get what i say focus on yourself more while invest, save , have your money work for you then go retire in Asia or RUSSIA. But anyways you understand what i says.
  4. Finally for the time being Dont try to force interactions with said wamen or dont get super excited or giddy to just to interact with her, because when yo do that you set yourself up to be hurt emotional. As more while the wamen in question( does not count for all) is not excited as you, has options so you just fit into the role of orbiter, If your not with her may see u as annoying or is not as interested. This leads to her not giving back as much energy and time as you gave to her. This will frustrate you, pain you, make you feel unwanted and lonely. Destroy your self esteem , your pride. You will look like a fool. The most you can do is manage your feelings for people around you and the emotions expressed take every interaction as a grain of salt or a droplet of water from a rusty pipe on a hot summers day. treat each one as unique and dont expect as much from the wamen you interact with . Because more while:
  • your just an option to her.
  • She has a guy already maybe and your just orbiting around.
  • She was never yours it was just your turn
  • etc etc etc

It was just the first part please tell me what you think if their is anything that is disagreed with i will understand. This is just from my 1 year of observation so i can understand if those who have been going their own way longer than me may see fault in my strategy or may feel im not as experienced. But its cool we all men here and i will understand what is said to me and move forward with the advice i am given

thank you my breddas.