Love Yourself

momonboi · 2019-06-22T14:01:35+00:00

If “being loved by another” means “being loved by a woman,” then you’re probably out of luck.

Edit: My personal experience is this: When I tell someone I love them, I’m not only saying, “I have this particular feeling towards you.” I’m also saying, “I want what’s best for you. I want you to be happy and I’m committing myself, morally, to see it through. If there’s anything I can do to improve the quality of your life, I will gladly do it.”

Meanwhile, she really is only saying, “I have a feeling,” which allows her to do shit she knows will ruin me mentally and emotionally, while still saying, “I love you.”

No, bitch, you don’t love me. That’s not love. That’s something else.

countinginsolitude · 2019-06-22T16:12:14+00:00

A few years ago, i'd have looked at this as a pointless meme with no real meaning behind it. Today, I look at this and realize that "loving yourself" means that you "accept" yourself and you take ownership of your life and the direction in which it's heading; you don't need someone to make your life complete. You don't need someone who is going to upset and hurt you. You need to focus on your life goals. Your life ambitions. I could talk about this stuff for hours. Thanks for the post OP.

bamabeatsny · 2019-06-22T15:08:30+00:00

When a woman says something to you, in your mind, insert "right now I feel like" in front of whatever she just said. It will help clarify the confusion they purposely and maliciously spew as communication.

F*ckin harpies.

delibeko · 2019-06-22T12:30:54+00:00

I find this important in nowadays

RealBiggly · 2019-06-22T12:50:39+00:00

Very true.

Chaos1990 · 2019-06-22T13:43:39+00:00

Wise words.

RangerDanger_14 · 2019-06-22T20:25:22+00:00

Very True 👍💯 Sadly, Mental Illness makes that very difficult some days ..😒

[deleted] · 2019-06-23T00:22:58+00:00

Yessir, once you learn to love you’re self first you learn that a women will only love you so much and why she really loves you. I can never fall in love a took the biggest red pill and never going back, it’s all about knowing you’re self first, and guess what I still don’t know who is am but I know that I don’t want to be a “provider” for a woman who Does not know how to appreciate shit. If I had a wife I wouldn’t have all that I have and what I have is a lot for me. A woman is just like a little daughter, you will put them on a pedestal and give them everything just to have them take a shit in you’re mouth 🤣 I read all the stories on this reddit mgtow page and I learn from all the divorced guys watch by the way I have a lot of respect for surviving and having the balls to get away, pardon my constant commenting it’s just o really like this community. 🍻

T05KA · 2019-06-22T18:54:15+00:00

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Title	Love Yourself
Author	NovaPrimer
Upvotes	389
Comments	15
Date	June 22, 2019 12:21 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/c3p2s5/love_yourself/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/love-yourself.441973 https://theredarchive.com/post/441973

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