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[–]Fedor_Fedorov128 points129 points130 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
My ex said she's at the theater, knowing that I would assume her phone was off and not text her. I asked her for a pic indirectly and she accused me of being clingy. Dumps me two days later, new guy in her Instagram.
[–]U-9474 points75 points76 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Girls love pics so the moments you stop seeing pics, it's over.
[–]FritzLn46 points47 points48 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup. The moment it takes effort to extract anything from them, it's over
For most it never began
[–]2stepp59 points60 points61 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Lmfao.
Well she is NOT a slut, no matter how many guys she fucked, so it would indeed stand to reason that the only thing wrong with this situation is that you were being needy. /s
Shit like this makes me not care if humans go extinct.
[–]RRFdev35 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You are needy if she is fucking someone else.
[–]2stepp43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Nah bro, she's fucking someone else no matter what happens.
[–]RRFdev27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's even better (or worse? lol)
Actually to one up this argument, everything you do is needy in the eyes of a woman. Neediness is a label used by women to control and judge you.
Do whatever you want, stop giving a fuck about what a woman thinks of you, and GYOW.
[–]2stepp6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Touché, and well said.
[–]rromero262 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
38 and decided no kids for me,
[–]Ice-Berg-Hermit0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She wasn’t entirely wrong
She was at the ADULT theater sucking dick via glory hole
[–]Astral-Projector54 points55 points56 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
They are on their phones practially every hour.
Never listen to what they say, observe what they do.
[–]Electronic_Record35 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hour?, more like minutes. I saw one in the gym the other day texting and doing dumbbell curls with her free hand. They never put the phone down.
[–]FritzLn14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup. If she's not replying to your text she's either under anaesthesia or not interested (at all or more interested in another guy)
[–]ummagumma99[S] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How to test if a woman views you as a beta orbiter: if she replies to you after she promised to reply, you are atleast not a total loser in her eyes
[–]Gemjab5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro asking them to promise anything is the wrong move. You tell them and specifically word for word. "If you don't text me back then good" you don't need them.
[–]personalityjestcel2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
no, she will see you as being too needy, learn to not give a fuck. if she values you enough, she wouldnt cheat behind your back.
[–]personalityjestcel1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
true only beta orbiters worry and text. she will text you if she respects you enough and doesnt see you as a doormat
[–]peguy200061 points62 points63 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
I never really understood why all of my exes didnt have time to reply to a text for hours when they said theyd be meeting some friends, since it only takes a few seconds to look or reply. And back then i trusted women so i just thought they put all of their attention to the meeting.
And im not a paranoid person either so it didnt bother me but since i discoverd red pill, i dont think i can trust a womens word again
[–]ummagumma99[S] 24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I was pretty anxious when women said they would reply to me, I believed them and waited. But that was 2 years ago, today I wouldnt believe these lies
[–]peguy200036 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Yeah idk, it would go like this for me
Her : hey im gonna be seeing a friend, ill reply to you later Me : ok
6 hours pass
Me : how was it?
Her : good
And nothing after, even after asking what theyd do, shed just ignore it or change subject
Just idk shit like that didnt really bother me but i feel like if youre in a relationship a simple good after spending time with someone you dont even specify with who is just degenerate and shows youre not commited at all.
Thank god i know better now though, im not interested in dating again but if it ever happens again im dumping on the spot
[–]ummagumma99[S] 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree, would dump her too
[–]FanofLemmy7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol did you date my ex, too!!!
[–]peguy20008 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahah maybe man
Awalt
[–]personalityjestcel0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
your problem was asking her how was it. you should've just waited until she replied
[–]peguy20000 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It doesnt matter anymore. I was showing intrest in her life and did my best to include her in my life and friend circle aswell.
I realised female nature and what i want in a woman ( i want a partner that sticks with you through thick and thin) and i think the chance of getting someone like that is close to 0, thats why im mgtow monk mode now.
I feel much happier now
[+]Yantangaki-15 points-14 points-13 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Idk im a guy and i dont want to elaborate and explain what i was doing in details when nothing special happened with my friends. Dont you do the same shit ? Thats boring as fuck having someone clinging onto you freaking out if they dont get a detailed resume of your day every day
[–]peguy200012 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ofcourse dude but thats not the point, its about getting total radio silence and them getting more and more distant.
Like as a normal person youd for example spend some time of the day asking about your partners day and when they avoid your question or just leave you on read theyre obviously not interested in you anymore or lost attraction
Like that shit doesnt happen in the first year, its usually after some time
[+]Yantangaki-9 points-8 points-7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Idk ive never been that long with a girl but personaly if i had a girl clinging onto me like that id probably dump her not after the first year but aftet the first day lol. But id agree that a lot of women tend to avoid saying clearly that its anoying them and instead go distant expecting the guy to figure it out himself
[–]peguy20006 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like you misunderstood me but yeah being clingy sucks
[–]BaffyBob39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She told me she was studying, then she added with some girlfriends. That told me she had found someone else. It turned out he was married, but she didn't care.
[–]JerryNewton729 points30 points31 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
If you don't answer her call/text in less than half hour, she'll say you are cheating.
If you ask her why she didn't answer your call/text for an entire day/s, she'll say you are a stalker and you have to respect "her space".
HONK HONK
[–]FritzLn9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Indeed "what's your problem?" Always their go-to. As if they care. Completely rhetorical
[–]peguy20002 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup ...
[–]38yearsoffreefallin29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Back when I was a blue pulled simp I had a girl tell me she was going out of town to help a friend open a bar. Didn’t hear from her in two weeks. I thought she was dead or something. After talking to her parents and friends before I was going to file a police report I found out that she had went on a ride with a trucker friend across the country and ended up sleeping with him. Didn’t even have the courtesy to dump me, just ghosted. Women are fucked up.
you were just a beta orbiter who she didnt care about and only when she wanted things from you.
[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She likes to flirt with friends. It was only a kiss. That's all they did nothing else.
Honk honk
[–]Sir_fister20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This picture is perfect. Honk honk clown world
[–]christianknight15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
🤡🤡🌎
[–]wolfgang2020 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love the user name, fren
[–]limbojunkie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women today play on their phones almost all the time. If they didn't answer within 30 minutes then they're not interested at all and you're just a leftover. Worse when the girl sees your messages and didn't answer. Just don't text her ever again and move on.
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah she won't she's with Chad, Altought Chad look like he just came out of jail and doesn't have a penny to his name she's more attracted to him (I ain't mad it's female nature) just watch her Instagram/FB story . I prefer it that way instead of wasting my time i'm making banks and just starting reading a new book.
Much love to ya'll !
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You either accept that she's gonna step out on you from time to time or you leave them alone and go full monk gents.
[–]ExistentialLiberty6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seems like this stems from insecurity lol. If someone isn't texting you, do something else. Why put your entire existence around some chick? Would be diff if she made plans with you and stood you up.
[–]FightClubHamster697 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s always out fault gents, doesn’t matter what she did
[–]TigPlaze6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Humans should never have invented texting.
[–]cncdanb6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I knew this one woman who used the excuse “my phone is broken” and yet still always had it in her hand using it. Didn’t seem that broken to me.
[–]harrison_wheels6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex would purposely try to make me jealous and then accuse me of being 'clingy' after I'd get upset. "I talked to this cute guy today lol jk hes nothing compared to u, we have a lot in common" Keep in mind, this was a long distance relationship.
Needless to say, my suspicions were right and she turned out to be an emotionally abusive, unfaithful she-demon.
[–]LotBuilder5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You are getting chased or you are chasing them. There is no neutral. The way to consistently be chased is to casually date several girls at the same time. Competition brings out the best in them.
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[–]LotBuilder0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Less drama for you than oneitis. You can be the guy worrying about her responding to a text or you can be juggling 4 do you don’t even notice how longs it’s been. When she finally reaches out it’s like a pleasant surprise.
The other option is no women at all... and I am just not ready to go there so some lazy juggling it is
[–]Raider_Scavver4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More clown memes plz
[–]drako1671 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Been there
[–]NightOuts1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol. I just made a thread on this. He is bothered because his expectations of her were too high.
[–]frogdogss0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
or you no just trust people.
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