Anyone else went through this?

monodi34 · 2020-04-28T17:22:47+00:00

Yes, been there. The same gaslighting, shittesting and all the other bullshit. When I think about the past, I used to be angry at her/them for everything, then as I accepted this is their nature, I started to be angry at myself for letting it happen and being a retarded simp for some worthless lesser humans. Now I just laugh at these days, sure the whole process was a huge waste of time/money/energy and everything but it also had to happen to make you who you are at the moment, so dont regret anything.

countinginsolitude · 2020-04-28T21:09:30+00:00

I've been "MGTOW" for 3 years and I had to just look up gaslighting to see if I was using it in the correct context. So it's basically manipulating you into thinking one thing when she's thinking another.

My ex. Before she broke up with me, she was saying "she only wanted me", yet was pregnant with another man's kid. It was almost as if her infidelity had brought her to the realisation that she could string me along by saying nice things to me, but not for much longer.

So when she did break up with me, it was a HUGE shock....I mean, a magnitude of which I'd never felt before. My entire world collapsed. Gaslighting, and women who do it are the worst kind. It's somewhat psychotic to lie to someone and string them along whilst you don't give a shit about them.

I mean, picture it.... My ex was saying she only wanted me to my face, whilst she'd been on her back, legs wide open in Chad's bed. I honestly think MGTOW saved my life in many ways. It really opened my eyes when I found that so many hundreds, maybe thousands of guys had all had similar experiences. It's no coincidence. It's female hypergamy.

DigitalScetis · 2020-04-28T17:53:46+00:00

This is good work, penguin. I think you are on the way to becoming better.

I guess my question to you is, looking back, do you think you had a choice to suffer what you did? Or did you have no choice but suffer how you did?

The intent of the question isn't so much to lay blame on you, or to trivialize it. It's just a question to get at the source of the anger, so you can recognize it, understand it, and move beyond it.

DangZagnut · 2020-04-28T17:33:37+00:00

Don't get angry. Getting angry isn't a failure of the world, it's a failure of you.

Anger is a result of inaccurate expectations conflicting with reality, and causing an emotional response.

You had inaccurate expectations, and in the end, that is, unfortunately, 100% your fault.

You had bad beliefs as to how reality is.

So don't be angry, just learn and move on. Change your view of the world. The world isn't the problem, it's your fantastical expectations of it.

DeakinFrost · 2020-04-29T05:34:59+00:00

You know when you are on that level in that game, and there’s that door, and you spent hours trying to open it and find the key, literally hours.

Then you cracked the shits and google a walkthrough and find out the key was completely irrelevant and you have to use fire or a weapon to knock it down, and you’re fucked off because of all the time you wasted when the answer just wasn’t fucking obvious at all but stupidly simple.

It’s like that

Title	Anyone else went through this?
Author	the-space-penguin
Upvotes	16
Comments	16
Date	April 28, 2020 4:48 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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