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This post will have two parts, the first part will be about a naked bultler agency and the second part is about an article of the sun about naked butlers.

Part One:

This agency of naked butlers made a poll with their butlers.

https://www.stagandhenliverpool.co.uk/blog/secret-confessions-of-a-butler-in-the-buff/#

According to thins poll, 66.4% of the party they attend, onr of the woman try to grope them or kiss them, not ask but try. Other things that happen is women cutting their apron or flashing.

You would thinl that the agency will take it very seriously, make a post or a section with rules about respecting the butlers, their boundaries or asking before anything. But no. The agency make fun of the situation. You must now that agency who have female strippers/naked waitresses have strict rules on their website about either "no touching policy" or "respecting thr boundaries of the performers". Some of them even prohibit from asking the girl about their romantic life etc. No agency will makes fun of the situation if they were female.

If you look at stripper/butler/waitresses companies, among the ones who have rules/FAQ/Terms and Conditions on their website:

-Male performers companies are more likely to doesn't say anything about touching.

-Male performers companies are more likely to say things like "of course" or joke about it.

-Male performers companies are less likely to have strong rules about respect.

-Male performers companies are less likely to have a "no touch rule".

-For mixed sex performers companies you sometimes find that the rules are gendered to focus of female peeformers.

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I send this agency a mail via their contact mail about not having any information page about respecting the butler and his boundaries (touching or indecent requests).

Part Two:

https://www.thesun.co.uk/living/2967606/naked-butler-reveals-all-about-his-trade-from-the-women-who-are-most-handsy-to-the-secret-code-that-means-lets-get-the-hell-out-of-here/amp/

The articule is obviously wrote in very light and a funny language. Some Quotes from the article:

"There is a “strictly hands off” policy but this can be hard to enforce as the drinks get flowing. Tattooed Adam said: “You can’t be walking around a party with your a*** out and not expect a hand every now and then.

“You’ve got to keep them happy.” He continued: “Sometimes towards the end of the night, when the drinks start getting involved, you do get tongues in earholes and slaps on arses and people asking for sex.

“But you’ve just got to know how to talk to people and explain that it’s a ‘strictly hands off policy’.”

If over-keen Aussie women are bottom of Adam’s list then it appears – despite being straight – parties hosted by gay men are near the top.

“The blokes I’ve worked for have been super respectful and they are very good with tipping,” he said.

Men are more respectful than women despite "toxic masculinity" and far less agressive despite the fame "imbalance of power" between men and women. At least the agencyof these butlers support them on the right to "enfore no touch policy". But if they were quitting these reservation because their boundaries are not respected, I still doubt that the agency will support them as much as if they were female.

It is very diffuclt to find the experiences of sexual abuse of male sexual entertainers (I only found two article, one about male strippers and this is the other one). So I will feel grateful if you can find me other sources. Thanks.