Lets discuss how Impairment defines a partnership. This topic is dear to my heart.

To begin I would like to give an Example of a relationship that works. (Absolutely not Redpill she is feminist to the Core) My SIL whose Partner has Aspergers is married for 5 Years now. .Her Son is Aspergers too. She is a Woman I greatly respect, she takes all the difficulties with Aspergers in stride. That begins with her Husband wanting to eat the same 3 weeks straight to his Field of special interest being the only topic he talks about for weeks. And it ends with all these little Problems that emerge when a Partner is unable to decipher Facial cues, emotions, and also does not posses the means to identify problematic behavior. Friendship (yes with females too) might be borderline relationship. But the person would be unable to recognize this.

My Husbands Injuries were reason for him to assume I would leave. To me that was utter Bogus. One does not leave the Partner because he is unable to lift his Arm or bend his torso. One does not leave the Partner when he is in Pain. It is however Time to structure ones life to adjust to circumstances. I got days off from Work. MIL, a trained nurse, was a huge help. She showed my what I need to know. Adopting our Son was his way to feel like a Captain again. I loved him so much. Still do.

Why do Men think Women leave their men if they are Ill or Injured? Is it not so that Men leave if going gets rough? I think that this is not a case of AWALT. Even if todays Men think so.