Disclaimer: this story was 2 years ago, after this encounter I got a long term gf through arrangement via her father.

First time out gaming since breakup/ graduating high school

I (M19) got out of a relationship in 2020 when the pandemic was on the upturn. She supposedly broke up with me for being emotionless (frame?) but I saw it as a manipulation tactic to get me to apologize for nothing and emasculate me so I never questioned it or contacted her again. I was 17 at the time, more social but also more naive and gullible to the lies I was (probably) being peddled.

In-between then an now mainly focused on myself and wasn’t worried about women a whole lot, I saw all the bs they were up to so I was happy I was out it. Recently though I’ve gotten sick of not getting any action and realized the game is way different when you’re not in high school, at least to me it is. I was a chick magnet and had to do little to no work for girls, I was very sociable and good looking. Now in the “real world” you have one shot to impress a chick, you wont see her tomorrow or another day of school. Basically I was a previously pretty social guy and am now a quiet guy due to pandemic and adjusting to the new norm. So I have a lot of experience talking to girls, just only in a school setting.

Here’s the fun part. I plan to meet up with a fellow male friend and we plan to practice our game and just hangout. We’re looking for an H&M and we go to a directory. Then, two girls walk up. Im thinking, “2-man play” so I initiate (first time I’ve initiated with this “intent” for a long time) and ask them where are they heading. They say they’re looking for an H&M or Zara and I’m like bingo. I’m obviously showing interest to one of the girls, eye contact, friendly, undressing with my eyes, etc but the ugly friend pulls her away and off they go. I’m not chasing her. Onto the next.

Fast forward to a weed dispensary, planning to cap off the night with a nice infused pre roll with my friend. We get there and there is a black cashier with the a juicy ass (she had those leggings that help), perky tits begging to be noticed, and she’s acting flirty. She comes up all friendly and I’m looking at her dead in the eyes so she knows I’m interested. She’s helping us out and the music stops. I ask if she paused it. She asks if I want to control the music, adding if I make music. I see this as a shit test and agree and amplify, I tell her yeah I actually do I can show her later. I then ask for her number so i can show her but she says instead of her number, take her Instagram instead. I get it, complete the transaction, and leave.

Things I learned from this: Just say anything, they’re expecting nothing Acknowledging lust is good You gotta go for it in the real world Say something to entertain yourself too, it makes it more fun

So i got 1 number, and talked to about 2 women so I’m pretty happy about my progress today. These are my questions:

DMing same day to link up and have sex is green or do I wait a little after acquiring the info? Approaching groups?

TLDR: No play for 2 years. Saw a juicy ass while buying weed, got the instagram. Ecstatic for some reason