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[–]thecajunone1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Eh. Not so much solipsism as she is just a shitty teenager and he is a shitty dad. He should have put his foot down long ago.
[–]MrStinky5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Solipsism: : a theory holding that the self can know nothing but its own modifications and that the self is the only existent thing; also : extreme egocentrism
Sounds spot on to me
[–]TRP Vanguardss_camaro[S] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
OP in case deleted:
There are so many things wrong that I have no clue where to begin. Ever since she became a teenager, her behavior has been appalling. She treats my dad like he is worthless and it really stresses him out. We live only with him and have since we were very young. He stepped up and became a single dad of two girls and I really respect him for this choice. She however, hates him. He really is not very smart, nor is he reasonable, but he is our only parent and he tries incredibly hard to help us. She is a senior in high school and he still pays for everything for her. She gets money at the beginning of the month that is supposed to be it for the whole month, but she runs out in the first week. We're talking $200 in one week and she has nothing to show for it. He is then forced to give her money daily so she can go get food or have fun with her very expensive friends. We have had to pick her up off the side of the road countless times because she managed to run out of gas, and that is ruining her car. She was given a car for her 16th birthday, a little over a year ago, and has now been in 3 wrecks with 2 tickets. She has caused our insurance rates to rise and lots of expense towards my dad. I mentioned earlier my dad is a single father, well he does not have a very good job because his major from college didn't allow him to find good work. He has no career, but he works constantly to make enough money to pay for everything we need. She puts constant financial stress on us and our family. These wrecks have cost thousands of dollars and so has fixing her car due to her treatment of it. He has very little saved and we have no college funds. The more she does this, the more we struggle. She also hates me. We go to high school together and are in the same grade (long story). We hang out with lots of the same groups and she talks about me consistently behind my back. She convinces all of my friends that I have anger issues and talks about what a bitch I am. I think this is ridiculously unacceptable. She spreads lies about her own little sister to ruin my reputation. When I confront her about it, she refuses to admit that she has been doing this. I'm no angel, but I certainly don't have anger issues, and I get shit done. She has no plans for college, she thinks she may move in with my dad after he moves because his job is not in our town. She has no job, no work experience, has only taken a standardized test (ACT/SAT) once because we forced her to. While most of us are applying and researching college, she lays on the couch and does nothing. She is the laziest person I know. When confronted about this problem, she claims that because she has no money to go, she shouldn't, but there are all kinds of financial aid available. Until recently, she was in a long term abusive relationship. Her boyfriend (ed. Lol -- can't have a hamster analyse a hamster without one of these) was also a sociopath. He was abusive to her family, friends, and her. He threw things at our house and forced his way in when we asked him to leave. They dated for like 2 years and finally they decided to break up after both cheated on each other multiple times. The neighbors have called the cops on them fighting in the yard. Several members of my family have disowned her because they couldn't deal with him. She covered for him and refused to listen to us. Oh god. This is so long. I'm so sorry. I have more examples if necessary, but I need to know how to get her behavior under control enough so my dad doesn't lose his mind. TL;DR My sister is crazy normal, she lies constantly, treats everyone like doormats, wrecks her car, wastes money, and refuses to acknowledge that she does anything wrong. This is just a piece of it. Need help adjusting her behavior.**
There are so many things wrong that I have no clue where to begin. Ever since she became a teenager, her behavior has been appalling. She treats my dad like he is worthless and it really stresses him out. We live only with him and have since we were very young. He stepped up and became a single dad of two girls and I really respect him for this choice. She however, hates him. He really is not very smart, nor is he reasonable, but he is our only parent and he tries incredibly hard to help us. She is a senior in high school and he still pays for everything for her. She gets money at the beginning of the month that is supposed to be it for the whole month, but she runs out in the first week. We're talking $200 in one week and she has nothing to show for it. He is then forced to give her money daily so she can go get food or have fun with her very expensive friends. We have had to pick her up off the side of the road countless times because she managed to run out of gas, and that is ruining her car. She was given a car for her 16th birthday, a little over a year ago, and has now been in 3 wrecks with 2 tickets. She has caused our insurance rates to rise and lots of expense towards my dad.
I mentioned earlier my dad is a single father, well he does not have a very good job because his major from college didn't allow him to find good work. He has no career, but he works constantly to make enough money to pay for everything we need. She puts constant financial stress on us and our family. These wrecks have cost thousands of dollars and so has fixing her car due to her treatment of it. He has very little saved and we have no college funds. The more she does this, the more we struggle.
She also hates me. We go to high school together and are in the same grade (long story). We hang out with lots of the same groups and she talks about me consistently behind my back. She convinces all of my friends that I have anger issues and talks about what a bitch I am. I think this is ridiculously unacceptable. She spreads lies about her own little sister to ruin my reputation. When I confront her about it, she refuses to admit that she has been doing this. I'm no angel, but I certainly don't have anger issues, and I get shit done.
She has no plans for college, she thinks she may move in with my dad after he moves because his job is not in our town. She has no job, no work experience, has only taken a standardized test (ACT/SAT) once because we forced her to. While most of us are applying and researching college, she lays on the couch and does nothing. She is the laziest person I know. When confronted about this problem, she claims that because she has no money to go, she shouldn't, but there are all kinds of financial aid available.
Until recently, she was in a long term abusive relationship. Her boyfriend (ed. Lol -- can't have a hamster analyse a hamster without one of these) was also a sociopath. He was abusive to her family, friends, and her. He threw things at our house and forced his way in when we asked him to leave. They dated for like 2 years and finally they decided to break up after both cheated on each other multiple times. The neighbors have called the cops on them fighting in the yard. Several members of my family have disowned her because they couldn't deal with him. She covered for him and refused to listen to us. Oh god. This is so long. I'm so sorry. I have more examples if necessary, but I need to know how to get her behavior under control enough so my dad doesn't lose his mind.
TL;DR My sister is crazy normal, she lies constantly, treats everyone like doormats, wrecks her car, wastes money, and refuses to acknowledge that she does anything wrong. This is just a piece of it. Need help adjusting her behavior.**
[–]JimmyTheIntern1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks, ss_camaro. I can't count the number of times I've gone to linked submissions only to find them mysteriously deleted. Red-pillers seem to have a knack for finding hastily posted truth on reddit before it can be concealed.
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