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Let's clear something up

stranger_on_a_train

November 16, 2013
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Title Let's clear something up
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stranger_on_a_train

Upvotes 1
Comments 12
Date November 16, 2013 11:36 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1qsgus/lets_clear_something_up/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/lets-clear-something-up.8024
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[–]redpillshadow3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably none of us can reach you. Seeing you are a 15? year old teenager brainwashed into beta oblivion.

But well, just to put it out there. The feminist idea of banning words doesn't make that much sense.

You will have a lot of those high level revelations in your life, where you think you know everything. Looking back you will realize you know nothing. But that is fine, that is part of growing up.

[–]1Zackcid1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Who said anything about being owed sex? Being in the friendzone just means that, in her mind, she placed you in the non-sex worthy compartment. And when you're in that category, she'll display a certain bundle of personality traits that she wouldn't necessarily show to a sex worthy guy (or Alpha).

And if she doesn't want sex with you, it sort of is her fault. I say "sort of" because we can make an exception here and plug in the fact that it's the man's fault for being a beta, thus meriting no sex. But if she doesn't consent to sex, then that's on her. It's not the guy's fault, because he already consents to sex. It's her fault that sex isn't happening. She's the one that's not allowing it.

You reek of feminist trash and it's obvious when you start spouting shit like "she doesn't owe you anything", "she doesn't owe you sex". You're just so convinced guys think they're entitled to shit the same way females generally feel entitled to the world because of their genetalia. By that same logic, I could easily start saying shit like "your man doesn't owe you commitment.", "you're boyfriend doesn't owe you the privilege of only fucking you, he can fuck whoever he wants because he doesn't owe you anything".

[–]andromede81 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

No.

Friendzone = someone you're are NOT interessed in sexually. For a women, it would be betas, while for the men, it would be the fat ugly chick. If a fat ugly chick tell you she want sex with you, would you say yes? No (not sober at least)

Friendzone is more applied to women toward men because women wont stop talking to a guy just because she's not interessed in him sexually (he still can bring her validation) while men have generally no point to continue to talk to a woman who he's not attracted to.

YES there's exceptions but i'm talking in general.

Where the friendzone theory fail is when it's say that once you're in the friendzone, there's no turning back. If the fat chick became hot you would probably change your mind as much as the woman would if her beta start being an alpha.

Sorry if my english looks retard, i'm french and partly drunk. Thank you.

[–]-Fony-1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

but the friendzone cannot exist if not for the male's voluntary participation in "it". there is absolutely no such thing in my life as the friendzone. the ONLY women who speak to me and i have not fucked them or am not related to them are old friends from school i see in passing and do not associate with, the girlfriends/wives of my friends or co-workers because i choose not to fuck women at the job.

i know hundreds of women, i hang out(in the platonic way) with exactly none.

[–]andromede80 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well that's exacly what I said by '' Friendzone is more applied to women toward men because women wont stop talking to a guy just because she's not interessed in him sexually (he still can bring her validation) while men have generally no point to continue to talk to a woman who he's not attracted to.''

I dont like the term ''friendzone'' either, but that's how I understand it.

the childhood friend/coworkers were the exception I was thinking.

Men can have a female friend without sleeping with her at any point. BUT if the occasion is there (you want, she want, it wont hurt anyone), they will take it. I can assure you that a woman can be friend with a guy without wanting to sleep with him. Ever (if he doesn't change).

[–]stranger_on_a_train[S] -4 points-3 points-2 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

let's make clear that I hate the culture here on /r/theredpill

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you hate the culture here then why did you post? Did you actually think that you would change our minds? Do you actually believe that you are somehow smarter and better put together than all of the people here? Enjoy your arrogance.

[–]p3ndulum1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

None of us give a fuck.

[–]stranger_on_a_train[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Good. that's good.

[–]p3ndulum3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The concept of "the friendzone" stems from the fact that the woman knows that you are interested in sex, but she strategically speaks/acts/behaves in a way that keeps a man believing that he has a chance to get laid at some point.

It's a girl who is being manipulative, and she knows it.

"The Friendzone" is a title/label given to a social/relationship dynamic.

It's not what a person does, it's how they do it.. There are the words that are used in communication, and then there is subcommunication, body language and tone.

Yes, nobody owes anybody shit, we understand that. The "Friendzone" is about how they leverage that attraction to suit their own agenda/needs/gains. Girls know that guys want to fuck them, they aren't stupid.

"Let's clear something up".

Ha. Like we didn't already fucking know this shit.

[–]andromede80 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's ok, I hated it the first time I came here.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you on your period?

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