Long time lurker, blah blah blah. Just have some thoughts I'd like to share/discuss, in light of my increasingly awesome day-to-day life under redpill tutelage. Conversation with a friend ends up being redpill worthy.

There's an enormous case to be made for women and hypergamy. While it's obvious all women would love to bag a male 10 with a trust fund, my friend couldn't understand why so often you see them with what he calls, "stereotypical assholes" who have nothing to offer but get all the luck. He's a decent person with average looks. Super nice guy, too nice, beta-orbiting-get-it-together nice. He wants to believe in true love, and Disney fairy tales bs, even though it's landed him with a money hungry ex-gf, 8 months pregnant with a baby that may or may not be his, rough. My explanation was simple. Lots of guys want the seemingly unattainable trophy wife/girlfriend. They don't care if she cooks or cleans so long as she's a head turner and delivers in bed. At least, until they're knee-deep in marital troubles, Women aren't too different. It's primitive. How many men are concise, take initiative, and are in decent shape in Western society? So few that "stereotypical assholes" can really stand out. Women want their "trophy" too. If it seems different/exotic from the herd and unattainable, that's desirable. Socialization between men is generally one of real friendship and comradery. Vastly different from the hierarchy of false sisterhood, bad bitches, and superficial amongst our ladies. It doesn't always matter if he can buy her everything and provide good conversation if he gives her tingles and leaves her girlfriends jealous. At least, not until she hits the wall. It's part of why TRP advocates putting yourself first mentally and physically.

Remember gentlemen, goals first and foremost. You. Come. First. Ladies are drawn to masculinity, sureness, and success. It makes you stand out. Sometimes it only takes two of the three. Don't lose sight of everything over a woman. Grow wise through trials, developing hobbies, traveling, and taking care of mind, body, and soul. Strive to be successful in everything you do. The more time you put into yourself, the less effort goes into attracting women. I'll repeat that, "The more time you put into yourself, the less effort goes into attracting women." It's not luck, it's preparation. Real talk.

"You see, I don't want to do good things, I want to do great things." - Lex Luthor

Edit: I'm on Alienblue so not sure about adding flair.