Summary: Approaching someone creates visual impact on how they see you for who you are.

Body: I will not go into explicit detail. I approached a girl at a gym doing stretches. She happens to have a logo of a university that I happen to go to. I went to her casually and asked her that I go to that university as well. Turns out we have things in common based on our majors. Her major reeks of a 1st year student because it was something that does not require effort (like liberal arts). While I was talking to her it was hard to retain frame when you become attracted to someone you first see. I was transparent and she saw through me regardless of me stretching and talking to her. My gesture was based on a slightly higher pitch of voice, giggling and smiling. Conversation ends with her saying she had to go with the look of "I don't want to talk anymore, bye."

Analysis: A casual approach at the gym and finding common interests between two people was on the point. Execution was off tangent and poor. Frame was lost due to physical attraction causing change in voice of pitch and different expression. I can term this as a kid who wants a shiny pretty toy with built up anxiety.

Application towards another person: This was indeed successful because I repeatedly see this person from time to time, the circumstance was the same because I was attracted to her. What is different was my frame was held with a “I don’t give a fuck attitude.” In addition I minimized my gesture mentioned earlier where it was only subtle but I ignored her. Result was her trying to seduce me in her skirt during class, she had a ring on her ring finger giving implications of being in a relationship, I ignored her cues. (Personal choice)

Lesson: This is somewhat an advanced technique for those who have a good foundation of their SMV and approach towards women. This is because you become very receptive to woman you are attracted to and need to actually have a strong mentality and boy do I mean it. (A specific case) It’s very easy to perform your “moves” on someone you are not attracted to (you’re plates). Not this case for people you become transparently attracted to. What you build and worked on gradually shows throughout life. (Lifting, Grades, Social interaction) I mention this because people think you can start from scratch and do these techniques with ease, they need to understand and have prior experience because there will be cognitive dissonance in which you don’t understand why this or that works (you start to panic). Tell me what you guys think I would like to discuss about this phenomenon.