Observing male - female relationships I came to the conclusion that women's shit test, friendzoning, double blinds (i.e. "open up to me" or "we need to communicate more" and as this occurs the resulting loss of Sexual attraction and or respect) and female attraction to dominance and confidence all seem to be methods by which men who seem too weak are denied from reproducing. Most of the underlying mechanisms are instinctive and not consciously decided by women.

"naturals" or "alpha men" who seem to have high success getting laid are not aware of them either, they don't use studied tactics or imitate anybody they simply behave the way their instincts and their core being makes them behave. They pass this evolutionary firewall because their traits are deemed worthy of reproduction, and these traits are not necessarily ones that make them a good member of modern society, such ass assholish behaviour or confrontation, and that is because the mechanism stem from periods long before civilisation even existed.

I believe that most men innately posses the evolitionary desired traits when their health and hormones are in order (it's proven that for example low T and high E makes men more bitchy and insecure and so on), and that they are also unlearned by the works of modern society, social conditioning, unbalance of male to female mentors during the upbringing, etc.

Personal advice: - unplug from TV and hollywood, consume works from more masculine times such as the illiad - damage control / undo your conditioning - seek normal interaction with women and get experience - don't have a really close relationship to your mom - work out and don't be a bitch