It's me again! So another question: How do I initialize sex? Cause apparently I suck at it. Seems like: "Hey let's have sex!" Doesn't work very well. And my non verbal attempts are creepy.
As soon as I am in the panty area I know my way around.
OK this is embarrassing but I tell you guys anyway:
So spooning with my wife, scratching her back, caress her. Trying to escalate. My wife tells me - she doesn't like it. So I say, its OK if she doesn't want to have sex. And then she tells me - no she wants to, but I am doing it wrong. So I ask her what she likes. This works out.
I am not quit sure what I am doing wrong. I guess a whole cluster of fuck-ups.
I read the sex god method twice. I get the DEVI Stuff, but I need some practice. It's not the foreplay part I don't get, it's the part before.
I am not sure if I there is a point, where I am so attractive, that my wife will just drop her panties dripping wet and throw herself to my feet and I am just not there yet ;-)
Till then, what is my problem? Game? What is the recommended reading/material on this topic?
