New to TRP

vandaalen · 2014-07-12T09:56:02+00:00

TRP isn't about satisfying your oneitis, but about curing it.

Cut contact with this girl. Delete her numbers, block her on facebook and so on. Start improving yourself by going lifting, dressing better, getting some hobbies, meeting new people and making new friends.

Start approaching other girls. This one is not special. There are more than 3.5 billion femals on this plantet, many of which are nicer, sexier, more intelligent, more fun, etc. pp. than this girl.

Forget her.

[deleted] · 2014-07-12T09:31:41+00:00

Kid, TRP is not some personal love doctor column you can ask advice about "this special girl"

Read the fucking sidebar and come back when you understand it, because you clearly still don't.

Tbh I think people who have obviously not read the sidebar should get their posting privileges removed.

theredpillager · 2014-07-12T09:59:14+00:00

Do, literally, read the sidebar in its entirety. Go back and read the ones that strike the biggest cord a second and third time. The answers are all there, but I'll tell them to you anyway.

It's too late for this girl. The only way you will ever get this girl (you may not ever) is by forgetting she exists and moving on. If you would legitimately like to keep her around as a friend and can move on under that circumstance, it is possible, but I don't think you can. You have a slight case of oneitis, which is very unattractive to women/girls.

RPthrowaway123 · 2014-07-12T14:11:59+00:00

Oneitis. You need to get this girl out of your life.

laere · 2014-07-12T17:09:05+00:00

Cut off all contact. Improve yourself, game other girls, and just forget about her.

On a side note:

Listen man unless a girl is cooking for you, cleaning your apartment, inviting you into her social circle and hooking you up with her even hotter friends, then there is no reason to ever befriend a girl. If you're hanging on to girl-friends for validation and attention you're doing it wrong.

If you want to fuck a girl you make your intentions known DAY FUCKING 1. You ask her out on a "DATE" don't say "hang out" or any other variation, just say date. On that date escalate on her, be playful, ask her open-ended questions (passions, etc) make statements to keep conversation flowing. Try to get her back to your house where she's isolated and then just go for it.

The whole not making your intentions known really cripples guys, they're scared that they will seem rude or disgusting for wanting to have sex with a girl. Do not let that cripple you. It is completely ok to have sexual intentions for a woman, it's part of your biological makeup, don't be ashamed of it, embrace it.

Good Luck, and just remember there are 3.5 billion women on Earth (burn this into your head ASAP).

kami_kakushi · 2014-07-12T19:30:13+00:00

need to lose that jealousy, its not attractive.

just ignore her, and let her do what she wants.

whats the big deal if she only spoke to someone else? its only talking?

go after some other women, dont worry about what 1 of them does.

manoftheredstar · 2014-07-19T03:05:28+00:00

This sucks so bad, I'm going to Korea in 8 months. I kinda just want a friend for alittle, until then. I don't have any other friends. How bad could pretending to be friends really be for a little bit?

Title	New to TRP
Author	manoftheredstar
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	July 12, 2014 8:46 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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