Ill try and keep it as short as I can.

My Ex and I have split up just over a month ago from a nearly 2year LTR where we lived together. I went looking at wedding rings to propose this fall and two days later she left (which I should have seen coming) claiming that she isn't happy with the person she is (she really had been changing for the worse the last few months as far as her happy personality goes to becoming a straight up bitch who is irritated all the time but from what I have heard/seen, shes getting back to being her old self again), misses her girlfriends and has never actually been out on her own and felt she was only going to bring me down and needed to find out who she really is.

The breakup was terrible for me, love is one hell of a drug, but it opened my eyes greatly about all the blue pill bullshit I was allowing myself to do and become. I was complacent not only in the relationship but also in my own life. I made her the center of my world for some stupid ass reason. I have a bunch of loser "friends" not doing anything with their lives so I preferred to not hangout with people not going anywhere in life so I spent most of my time at home working on my hobbies and goals and with my ex and had also signed up to go back to school just 2 weeks before we split up, in hopes that I could get us a better house with a job making more money and better hours. She said I "never do anything". whatever. I see the light now and have been lifting, staying busy, banging other chicks and everything TRP says I should be doing.

My Ex and I have talked a few times, mainly because it took her forever to get her shit out of my house (long story short: she only had so much space in a storage unit until she finally got a new place and roommate) but also because some of her mail still comes to my house. I went no contact other than the mail for the majority of the time weve been split up. She recently texted me and was asking about coffee mugs and if I had any that might be hers or any I wasn't using that she could have (why not go buy new ones????) which led into her telling me about her new place and ended in her asking to let her know if I do/would have some mugs for her.

I've been reading into the Warlock ex plate thing and I have been thinking about using it on her just to experiment with it. BUT I want to know if it might be worth it or if Id be making a mistake...so here I am.

TL:DR: Ex and I split up over a month ago, she texted me today and asked to get some coffee mugs from my house or if I had any I could give her and then proceeded to talk about her new place....is it smart to be her chad?