too attached

fuzzyface1980 · 2016-10-13T14:00:18+00:00

Like run away from your problems?

I'm MRP, awoken after being married for 7 years. I got no where to run. I gotta face this shit day in and day out. You learn fairly quickly, you want someone to love you because you got a problem loving yourself.

Now you can most certainly throw away the plate for being so reflective as to remind you of your weaknesses...or work on your weaknesses.

And if you do that, you'll have true abundance mentality. Models by Mark Manson is really helpful at explaining this. Really, I can't recommend it enough.

CopperFox3c · 2016-10-13T14:33:30+00:00

The moment you feel like you can't live without something ... is the moment you should turn around and walk away.

May sound a little harsh, but I've found it to be generally a good rule to live by. Attachment is indeed the root of all suffering. Doesn't mean you have to leave it behind forever, but at least pull back for a while. Time and space provide clarity for the mind.

MattyAnon · 2016-10-14T04:05:07+00:00

No, find another one just as good.. or another 3.

IronHeights24 · 2016-10-23T01:24:13+00:00

Well I went in for the relationship she was happy then told me a few days later she didn't want a relationship... Story of my life

too attached

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The above is solid advice.

Title	too attached
Author	IronHeights24
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	October 13, 2016 1:46 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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