Hi all Note: Sorry if to long I am a 24 year old single M (tried being in a relationship onitis mind set i ended it really did not enjoy it. I was blue pill at the time but i ended it as i realized i needed to fix my self as i had a lot to learn), Work as an IT admin earning OK money for where i live. living with my parents ( saving money). saving 65% of my income i have invested some in stocks and the rest saved in the bank. From a young age all the way till half way through 2016 at the age of 23 i always felt my life had no purpose. That i was just a body with pre selected tasks that i had to do to survive.

Have friends maintain friendships (socializing was my strongest ability IDK why), have a job maintain the job, go to the gym maintain going to the gym etc...but never did i make any gains in any area of my life. Until i found my break through and discovered a new meaning to life as my name suggests it created a new me (heart break lol well i broke my own heart but it was the greatest decision ever made even though at the time it did not feel that way). I have called 2016 as the year of change and 2017 as the year of accomplishments.

So as the year is coming to an end i would love to know from everyone here if you were to go back to your 20's what would you do differently that you think if only you could go back and change. I am a huge believer in learning from others. So travel more or travel less and save more? take drugs? don't take drugs? advice on trusting people(already learnt a valuable one friends come and go but the time invested i can never get back), finance etc basically anything that you made a huge mistake in i would love to know about it so i can learn from you and so if i run into it i can take your advice on how to approach it.

Also for anyone who is reading this who is also working in the IT industry would love to get any info from you on how i can progress to a system admin as that is my next goal. What i need to know etc i have three years exp so far. Thank you