Women. Somehow can talk and talk for eternity without taking a breath.

During the days of Pre-TRP, I had this ex. We would spend hours on calls , till 3am and shit like that. At the time I thought it was me being considerate and Great Bf to her by listening to how her whole fucking day went. How her mom gave her comment which she felt so offended by -to- What she thinks of the chick which sits at the. Back of the class.

And it was just me going " hmm " , " oh " , " really?" And throwing unwanted advice because I thought she wanted it.

Now I have this thing of being a listener. I have come a lot of far from that emotional-tampon version of me. I just listen to them now for the few minutes I can spare for them then tell them I gotta move even though I am not gonna do anything. And also am working on holding myself back from giving advice because now that I observe that your advice is only absorbed by your Bros.

I wanted to know if I am doing it right and what can i change/add/remove. And how do you wonderful people deal with it.