Hello all,
We have a men only private group. If you have goals and if you are working everyday for your goals, you can join us.
Why: You are who you surround yourself with. This group serves to improve your life by having an imporant uplifting part in your life. You are positively influenced by others. You positively influence others.
What we do: Report progress. Support each other. Share useful ideas and materials. Off topic chat. Serious chat. Voice chats (regular meetings).
Structures/rules/aims: I wrote the followings because I believe in their utility for ourselves.
This group is an important part of your life and day. You want the best for people in this group. You want people in this group to reach their goals. People in this group are at least as important to you as your neighbors. (With that said, consider this is internet. Use nickname, don't give out identifiable information. Stay anonymous but stay truthful.)
You tell the truth to yourself but you can be vague about it to others. You pay attention. You don't ignore problems. You don't lie to yourself at least, if you can't tell the truth. You are aware of your potential ignorance. You keep your arrogance and narcissism in check. You are positive.
Common sense, respect, sense of community, brotherhood. You know the people in this group to a fair extent because it is a community. Background, age, city, work, school, goals, past, vision etc. You make this group. Level of benefit you get out of it depends on how much you put into it.
You are over 20 years old. You can spot bullshit posts in TRP. You filter the information you get from TRP but you find TRP overally useful. We like TRP, which means we roughly have common views and understanding of life, at least practically in terms of women, goals and self improvement to a great extent.
If you find these structures/rules/aims ridiculous or if you're not willing to take the responsibility to make this group really useful, this is not for you.
Obviously we want to maintain good standards and our members vary. If you must judge someone, you should judge him based on his past, efforts and his goals. Where you are right now would probably not matter. You might be 35 years old and 300 pounds. At that stage, it is harder to fix your life comparing to someone younger and lighter, because your life is more screwed up and it is easier to give up, which might make your progress relatively more respectable and worthy of inspiring others. You might be a 21 years old who is refusing a 6 figure job offer to pursue grad school while trying to learn how to date. Either case you have YOUR goals and that's the focus of this group. You don't impose your goals to yourself as if you are a tyranny to yourself. People who bring down the group will be let go.
Structures/rules/aims written here are inspired from religions, societies, eastern and western cultures, militaries. These are not my ideas. These are very old ideas. If you want to join, you should understand their utility to some extent. This group is not something like a cult leaded by totalitarianism. We are newly starting. So we are going to have adjusting period. I might not be the best person to lead this. If someone qualified volunteers, I might give him my position. I am open to ideas and I am open to getting your help to make this group useful for everyone.
English is my second language. Everyone else is native. This group is US based. EU group might be founded seperately in future due to timezone factor.
If you want to join, please PM me and briefly talk about:
We use discord. It's available on web, desktop and mobile.
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