Growing up I didn't have a strong masculine role model in my life, so I never got into competitive sports or anything like that. As a result, I spent my time playing video games and had nerdy hobbies, and that was further amplified by the people I hung around. Throughout middle and high school I saw everybody else but me succeeding with women and in other areas while I was left behind. I finally got a girlfriend and got laid after a couple years in college, but it ended when she decided she didn't love me anymore. Since then, I've been working out more and reading more Red Pill, but I wondered if I should seek out a better social circle too.