I have been reading sidebar again,because I am starting to forget it

I recently finished “The Female libido” chapter and I have been seeing that girls dont have sexual desires for men at all,and that for example,when they are shopping,they focus more on what to buy than on a man that maybe passes by.

I am asking: if they seem to have this lack of sexual desire and sexuality, why have I experienced how a girl can left everything to be with me or showing a lot of interest?,opposed on what it is written

It is causing a lot of discordance to me