propinquity means seeing them on a regular basis. like planting seeds, getting to know them until it's a full plant and then fucking the plant like seth rogen says in the 40 year old virgin.

i'm not talking about a long term career, we are talking minimum wage jobs with lots of people coming and going. food service, a movie theatre, etc. not a law firm.

basically, is it better to ask a co-worker you want to bang out immediately (first day you meet them and they see how alpha you are) or wait a while until they have seen you a few times before asking? i can never figure out the best way. cuz what if you wait too long and that initial attraction they had for you on the day you met isn't as strong?

or would the attraction still be there so long as you hold your frame? women seem to have low attention spans, and get bored easily. so is it better to try and fuck them immediately, or wait a bit?