Just from the title including “Oneitis”, I’m prepared for the flood of “You pussy beta, go talk to other women and stop being a bitch!” comments. Ha, there may be some value to these comments, but Im looking for more substantial answers to this question. I’ll elaborate.

HS Senior. I am in very solid shape and train fuckin ruthlessly in preparation for my enlistment, and slot to become an Army Ranger. 5 hour rucks, 8 mile runs, and heavy weight lifting twice a week-This is my “mission” that I pursue relentlessly, and generally focus on it more than any woman/plate, etc. This mission, and the very fit physique that come with it, coupled with solid social skills and game has led numerous women to become interested in me. Everything’s good to go-fucking vapid high school sluts and staying focused on my mission, until I notice a hickey on the neck of one of the girls I was fucking-One not made by me.

I do not react to this, remained cool and maintained frame while talking to her, but with forethought I questioned myself about it, and its implications:

Is it beta, or a symptom of Oneitis to be “selfish” regarding a woman? Although I can operate and game fine without her, it irritates me to think that I am not her sole fuck buddy. I am not looking for a relationship, but I’ve got a quite competitive nature, somewhat of a perfectionist-In my mind I presumed that me being a strong alpha, this girl would not want to fuck other guys. I mention the “Ego based oneitis” because this girl is considered quite attractive at the school, and I prided myself on having her as a plate. Of course I do not expect this girl to remain loving and faithful until her grave, but the idea that she would turn to other guys to hook up with frustrates my ego, and somewhat challenges my view of myself as an alpha.

At the basis the question is: Will women still sleep with other guys if they have been fucking an alpha? (Now clearly the implication of this argument is that I am acting as an alpha, which I believe I have, but am curious to see if I have slipped up, and been demoted to less than “full alpha” status in her mind. Thus, the answer to this question will reveal whether I am viewed as alpha or not)

As I mentioned, I am only a senior in HS. Still working on improving my frame, mentality, and alpha status. Maybe I have not mastered the art of plating women, and the mentality behind it. That’s why I’m here. Advice and tips are much appreciated. Enlighten me.