It's kind of discouraging to read some of the response on this sub reddit that throws the "read the sidebar". There are some of us that really have read the side bar and generally are asking for help and recommendation. I myself can't hold all the information from the sidebar, books that are recommended and tips and tricks that are being suggested.

Is there a mindset of abundance that you tell yourself daily that reminds you that you are the prize? What do you say to yourself when you get shit tested, or disrespect when life throws bitches your way that want to fuck you, be your friend, or wants to be your LTR? I'm starting to sense that, this is second nature to you guys that you don't need to "read the sidebar" and can read in between the lines in a heartbeat.