i need your help

DryPraline8 · 2025-03-19T01:39:33+00:00

Bro, first off, you’re not behind—you’re 20, you’ve got time, but the key is to start now. The biggest mistake guys make is overthinking instead of just getting social in everyday life. You don’t have to cold approach like a pick-up artist, but you do need to start talking to people—baristas, gym staff, coworkers—so conversation feels natural. When you see a girl you like, don’t hesitate; just make a simple comment on the situation and keep it light. If she engages, keep it going; if not, move on. Desperation kills attraction, so shift your mindset from “I need a girlfriend” to “I’m building a life women would want to be part of.” Get in shape, pick up hobbies, improve your social circle—this makes attraction effortless. Dating apps suck for most guys, but if you use high-quality pictures (well-dressed, social settings, no selfies or gym mirror pics), you’ll do better. But at the end of the day, looks and logic alone won’t get you far—women respond to emotions, not resumes. You have to make her feel something—curiosity, excitement, challenge—because the guy who triggers emotions is the guy she chases. Don’t overthink, just start engaging with people, keep leveling up, and let attraction happen naturally.

DaygameCode · 2025-03-19T12:12:49+00:00

I’m a seduction coach, so if you want to cold approach during the day to meet women here is a step by step list you could use to have solid interactions:

1 - Opener and setting the playful flirty tone right away. Wanna establish myself as a flirt right away to avoid the small talk and NPC vibe.

2 - Accidental physical touch to break the touch barrier organically.

3 - Switch from impersonal to personal topics of conversation where i get her to talk about herself so she can show the type of person she is and we also can build a solid connection

4 - Make sure that we are isolated to set the stage for flirting without “activating” her defences (slut factor)

5 - Express what i find different about her to justify in a solid way my romantic/sexual interest in the next step. (Getting her to believe she is not just another girl of the countless that i might hit on)

6 - Show/express sexual interest by flirting sexually to create sexual tension and avoid being friendzoned.

7 - Intentional physical touch to test the waters about whether she is ready to be kissed and reinforce the flirtation

8 - Kiss close | Nothing sexual just to reinforced that something romantic happened, and that she is loving a fantasy

9 - Phone close | Suggesting a date idea and if she agrees, then take her number

10 - Consolidate after phone close by talking 2 minutes more fantasising out loud about the upcoming date with her and leave.

11 - First text | An inside joke about the encounter to remind her of the emotional mood she was in before i left.

Ideal time for the approach: 15 minutes

Ideal place to approach: Train trip, public parks/beach

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Title	i need your help
Author	DryPraline8
Upvotes	0
Comments	3
Date	March 19, 2025 12:44 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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