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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's not worth it. That feeling of heart ache won't go away even after you have her back. That pain is permanent.
Invite her out to brunch, spend some time around her with a clear and level head. You will remember why you broke up.
[–]waxradio[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
but its much more complicated than "things weren't just working out" ya know?
[–]HappyJerk 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When you get dumped, your brain goes into "rumination mode" and tries to figure out what happened. This is an evolutionary advantage. Problem is, it doesn't matter what happened. She doesn't want to date you, so you need to move on. Especially if you still have feelings for her.
[–]theginger3469 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Going to have to say move on dude. "Abundance", there are MILLIONS of girls out there. Don't go searching for the same thing. Get to know new girls. You WILL meet someone that intrigues you and you'll find that you haven't thought of your ex in days.
[–]waxradio[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
and its not like i have a problem talking to girls. I have been with more females than I can remember. this specific girl's just really special. im super picky and she was that perfect fit.
[–]HappyJerk 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this specific girl's just really special.
no she's not, that's your biology tricking you.
im super picky and she was that perfect fit.
obviously not
[–]theginger3469 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well if she was truly the perfect fit yall would still be together. Would you not agree?
Being picky is not a bad thing. How old are you btw?
[–]waxradio[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
21
[–]theginger3469 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My opinion, move on man. You will change a lot between 21-25. Go to bars, go to parties, meet girls. She may seem perfect, but as soon as you're back with her the same shit that bugged you before will start to bug you again.
[–]puaCurveBall[M] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl
This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides.
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Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hey man I feel your pain.
DOo you really want to know how to seduce her back.
Are you really sure?
YOU FUCKING SURE?
OK,
the real way to seduce her back is to get on with your life and continue to excel and truly move on while becoming a better person.
I promise you the situation will play out good because
A) This is one of those times where I'm going to throw the age card, but any wiser gentlemen will tell you, when you move on and act unphased, an ex girl will most likely begin to curiously wonder why, start to thinkn of you more, and begin to grow feelings of loss, and want you back
B) She doesn't grow the feelings of loss, but you've moved and and continued to better yourself so much that it doesn't matter, and you've most likely found something better anyway.
[–]waxradio[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
great answer. thank you.
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