Back in High School, I was the type of guy who would play Yugioh, WoW, and League, don't give a crap about school and just go with the flow. That definitely changed when I started developing interests in girls. I've been rejected more times than one can count. I also had bad experiences in parties. Guy's with better charm, confidence, better dance moves can get girls at the speed of sound. Dec 31 was my last day working at walmart. I decided to go to school. (Something I thought I would never do) I'm currently 19 and I'm attending Community College in February. I'm also taking dance classes/and learning another language. I decided to also research current trends and change the way I dress. Because clearly I dress like someone who doesn't give a fk about life. I know these things don't build confidence. But I feel I can gain confidence from doing these things. Is Changing my self for the sole reason of attracting girls worth it? I want to become the best version of myself possible.