[META?] Managing Plates? Methods? Tracking Results?

recyclablebanthas · 2018-06-24T07:38:32+00:00

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Curious how to manage multiple plates without insane amounts of effort/data entry (excel doc)

Even 3-5 women running at the same time is probably pushing it, in terms of having to keep it all straight.

If you're pushing it to where simple notes on a phone contact page doesn't cut it to help you keep it straight, then consider either just making that spreadsheet or resigning yourself to the idea that you've reached a cognitive limit here for what you can keep track of.

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Number close 3 women per 1 to 2 hours while just out day/out w/ friends.

Honestly sounds like an issue of choosing quantity over quality. And the very way you're going about this is creating many unnecessary problems.

If you want to number close at that rate, then you're spreading yourself thin. That's just the issue. You're going to be hard pressed to connect well even at a casual level if you're going at that rate, let alone maintaining all your leads.

Just doing the math on a 7 day week, if you have a full time job or school, then developing even 3-4 girls can be tricky.

I mean, if you had GOOD leads or situations that were already developed, then you could cram 2 girls in a weekend day and still maintain some semblance of sanity.

But on a work day, that number realistically drops to one unless you want to sacrifice work performance.

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Struggle to assign priority to tasks, much less which women to pursue/engage

This shouldn't be a struggle. If it is, then you're handling that initial encounter wrong and short changing yourself.

If you don't feel something at all..... A spark or at least a slight urge to jump her, then you shouldn't even be asking for a number.

And if you already have 3-5 regular things going, you don't need more to develop unless you're going to drop someone.

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Thinking of using a spreadsheet to track when I met a woman, the last contact made, etc...

If a girl isn't standing out enough in your mind that you could forget or lose track of her, then you're wasting your time trying to juggle her.

And really, that will show through clearly to her that she's just one of many and it can be a turn off.

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I am like a sex 3 times a day kinda guy so It's not like I don't have the ambition or stamina...

How often are you having sex?
How many different regular sex partners are you maintaining?
How many are just one-offs? And why do they usually end?
How many leads go nowhere?
How many leads are simply being forgotten?

Title	[META?] Managing Plates? Methods? Tracking Results?
Author	Scrub_TLC
Upvotes	4
Comments	1
Date	June 14, 2018 8:15 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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