Recently Jin and I decided to start a weekly seduction challenge series for all you guys here on r/seduction. The goal is to stay engaged and focused on your journey, expand your reference experience while taking your game to the next level. Having a specific Goal to focus on every week is a constant reminder and good way to achieve that. Providing some structure to follow so you're not all scatter brained thinking

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SHIT I'M GETTING NUMBERS OUT HERE, BUT WHAT DO I DO NEXT?

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Another big part of it is crushing some bad habits that we all seem to have early on when we learn the basics.

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..NOW WITHOUT WASTING ANY TIME

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Let's start with building a good foundation. I was hit with a realization the other day thinking back on my first succesful approaches and even a bit later on when I started achieving crazy shit like makeouts within minutes of meeting a girl.

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One situation in particular stuck out to me. Some years back I witnessed my main bro Jin approach a chick on the street. Union square Manhattan to be exact. Within minutes this dude was making out with her, rubbing up her thighs and shit. In my head im thinking..

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"GOT DAYUM, THIS IS INCREDIBLE.

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BUT!....come to find out a week later he had hit her up shortly after and guess what??

....SHE NEVER REPLIED!

SHE GHOSTED MY GUY!

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I was dumbfounded...

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wait what the hell happened, how did you attract her enough to get all hot and heavy in public but not enough for a day 2/followup date?

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The answer is simple, with pickup/game/seduction for the most part we seem to focus on attraction and the front end so much that we forget about the back end. Building a solid connection is overlooked and then were left wondering why we get phone numbers and only a small percentage text back.

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We then try to play the numbers game. Approach 100 damn chicks a day and get 20 quick numbers so that we figure atleast a couple will respond back enthusiastically.

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Not realizing that where we went wrong is missing an entire component. You know how many videos I see of all these super fast 2 minute infield number closes. In my head im just disappointed. Knowing how many dudes out there are being mislead thinking that the right approach is speed pickup by attraction and going for the number right away. Then just going about your day.

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NO MORE FLAKEY NUMBERS!!!

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Don't get me wrong. Attraction is VERY important and you have to know good stuff in order to even get a number that quickly. Also for a guy whos never had success with women and who struggles with confidence getting so many phone numbers that quickly or getting a makeout on the spot is a victory in itself. To those guys I'd like to say...GOOD JOB!.

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HOWEVER....lets change the way we do things. Lets put this madness to an end. The Flakey no-reply numbers have got to stop. Lets take this to the next level.

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HERE IS MY CHALLENGE FOR YOU FELLOW SEDUCTIONISTS:

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For atleast the next week (preferably from this point forward), No more quick number closes. In fact I'll go as far as to challenge you to not number close at all...atleast not until you do this....

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INSTANT DATES ONLY

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Its insane how much of a difference it makes going on an instant date when you approach instead of just a witty, playful and flirty interaction then quickly number closing.

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An Instant Date can be ANYTHING.

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Taking a walk together for a few blocks, or walking a few blocks away to a cafe or pizzeria or coffee shop for a conversation. Somewhere you can actually apply the good habits of conversation more comfortably (Refer to my 10 steps to become a Pro at Conversation post for more on that), instead of standing in front of this chick in the middle of the street trying to do this shit while she has this feeling of having to get somewhere.

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For the sake of this challenge if she doesnt want to go on an instant date then MOVE ON. If she is genuinely busy and has to get somewhere go ahead and get the number but approach someone else after.

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After all the point is to apply building better connections. What better way than to go on a bunch of instant dates. Doesn't matter if its 20 feet from where you approached her.

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Just move her somewhere where she subconciously feels herself being lead by you, and then go into building that deep connection and talking about her hobbies, passions, family, fond memories etc.

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Plus just think about it is she gonna remember a quick flirty convo and you getting her number more, or will she remember you wisking her away to do something and sitting down having a deep meaningful conversation. It's almost like you swept in and took over her world for a sec. She's left with a curiousity of wanting MORE

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AND THEN...THATS WHEN YOU GO FOR THAT NUMBER CLOSE AFTER YOUR DATE! DONT FORGET TO TIMEBRIDGE AND SET UP A 2nd DATE/DAY 2!!

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Are you up for the challenge fellas? If so...PROVE IT!

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SIDENOTE: Little word of advice for this challenge, dont try to get her on instant date after like 5 seconds of interaction of course. Build up to it by getting her invested in the conversation then drop the idea like...

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"wow, hey you have an interesting mind/energy. Id love to explore your mind more and learn more about you. Theres actually a coffee shop/cafe/whatever near here. lets go grab a cup/bite real quick, 2 seconds itll be fun".

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If shes playful and flirty/already invested in the convo you can throw in a joke reversing the roles so she doesnt feel weird about it like....

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"but HEY....no funny business. Dont try to push me into an alley or have your way with me missy. I dont put out right away".

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NOW...with that being said guys good luck out there and I hope to hear back from any of you with reports and results to trying this challenge out!

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Also If you guys like the content and look forward to future challenges, You can Subscribe to me and my main Bro's ---> Seduction Unleashed CHANNEL & Jin & Juice PODCAST (Available on Spotify and just about all streaming platforms)<--- where we get even more in depth into Game, Relationships and all aspects of Self Improvement to help out on the journey.

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Its up to you bro, Good luck out there! 👊