How to make the move/close

WIA20XX · 2019-06-12T23:54:48+00:00

Start with the end in mind.

Do I have condoms?
Where are we going to hookup?
How do I get the girl back to my place?
Does the girl trust me enough to take her someplace?
Do I need to deal with her friends?
Does she want to hookup?
Is she taking my leadership?
Is she invested?
Is she attracted?
Do I have something to say?

Etc. The better you get, the more specific you get, the more clear it is what you need to do. You will switch the order, add more things as you puzzle out the different situations.

Right now, You are trying to pull a chick home without a plan. You think you can just say some slick shit at the end of the night and she'll just go home with you. You can always do that, but your results won't be consistent.

The player starts his process when he sees the girl.

Recently a girl literally walked up to me at a party and started talking, then directly told my friends she wanted to hook up with me. My dumbass kept talking to her, went to a pizzeria with her friends and then she went back home with her friends because I didn't do shit.

You had no plan for this.

Me? A chick trying to bang me off rip, I don't need another notch. And a chick calling the shots usually means I need to reverse the roles for her to be happy. I'm gonna fuck with her and get some cooperation before I take her seriously.

Let's say that's not where your skill set is.

The first thing you want to really know is if you want to hookup with her?

If that is yes, then you need to get some privacy. Usually i say never kiss a girl if you can't close her, but here you need to see if she can kiss. You don't want to bring home a chick that you don't have chemistry with.

Bring her back to the friends, and then you let her say goodbye. Where just find hang out. And then you leave.

If her friends are haters, you will have to win them over at the pizza place, but then you leave with the chick...

Brandonva804 · 2019-06-12T23:05:41+00:00

In order to understand you I need to know what you think is the best way to move/close a girl.

My first question is.... Do you make moves on her during a date or would you attempt to?

bachaterothuf · 2019-06-13T01:59:10+00:00

It all has to do with confidence,confidence,confidence. Girls like the smell of confidence,but not the smell of nervousness.

You need to practice to be less nervous. You need to put in your mind that you are better then her,you don't need her,she needs you. This girl isn't the only girl in the world,I can talk to someone else tomorrow.

You are getting nervous because you put in your mind that she is better then you. Once you put in your mind that you are better then her,you will get less nervous.

Once you learned to be calm and confident. When you start talking to the girl,if she enjoys the conversation, then you can start making some moves. You can start light,compliment her hair and start brushing it. If she reacts positivitely,then you are doing good. Make excuses to grab her hand ex. Grab her hand gently and start complimenting her nails. This will only work if you are calm and comfortable and confident. If you are doing this being nervous,she is going to be turned off so fast, and she will call you a creep. Make sure you are calm when making the move.

Title	How to make the move/close
Author	dealclosing
Upvotes	2
Comments	19
Date	June 12, 2019 11:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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