At first I was going to post an abridged version in /r/happy but then I figured it was also related to seduction. It might be a little long for some and I don't want to put a TL;DR.

Little background:

Not too long ago my girlfriend and I decided to call it quits. We were off and on for the past few years but we kept going back because "all the guys just wanted her for one thing." She was hot, so I'm guessing you can figure out what that "one thing" is. And I kept going back because I didn't go out much because I had no money and hadn't gotten my license yet to actually get anywhere unless I wanted a ride from my mommy. And figured I have a girl why do I need to get out? WHY? Because after all our stupid teenage shit (started dating at 14-20 1/2!) I lost contact with most of the girl friends I had and most of the guy friends I had. Except one. My best friend since elementary. Now, with all that shit it had to end somewhere and now I had almost no one. I have occasional contact with 2 other long time friends but 1 always looks for trouble when he's out and I'm past that. The other just likes to sit at home with his brother and smoke weed, smoke cigarettes, watch their TV and drink redbull. And guess what? I'm past the sitting at home doing nothing phase too. And my best friend is willing to do almost anything with me (too pussy for skydiving and bungee jumping). Now tonight I decided fuck it, I'm NOT going back. I deleted ALL her relatives that I had from facebook. Mom, sisters, brother, everyone. That felt fucking great. Something I never did before.

This Friday I decided to go to this bar downtown with my best friend and we had so much fun that we decided to go again Saturday. And now we've officially made it our spot! I indirectly know the owner(s) of the bar so my friend and I were treated alright. When we first walked up 3 of the owners/partners were standing outside, and recognized me so we all shook hands, introduced my friend to them and we both walked in with a big smile and headed straight to the bar. We didn't do too much those first 2 nights except scope the place and chill to get a feel for the place. We mostly sat at a booth and talked. The music is great, the people are great, and the vibe is great. I'm not going to call anything a fail because I think these are all success'. Because we actually learned from our mistakes. In the car we made fun of each other for being idiots.

There was these 2 goooorgeous girls sitting at the booth in front of us, looking bored. My friend and I caught one of them looking in our direction and smiling. Blatant fucking IOI, right? It would have been so easy to open them but instead we sat there like fucking idiots. They left the bar. About an hour later these Asian chicks from out of town walk in and sit at the booth in front of us. After a bit of drinking they get up and start dancing with each other. A little later they end up dancing next to our booth, I look up and one of them says hi. We say hi and that's that for now. A little while later the girl that said hi was dancing with some other guy and another one from the group comes to sit at our booth and strikes up a conversation. We get to talking to her for a bit, then she goes back to her group. My friend gets tired of fucking around and finally dances with the girl we were talking to and ended up getting her number, but she's not from here. Fast forward to the next night and we walk in after the outside greetings with a big smile and head to the bar again, get our drinks and grab a seat. A little while later there's not too much room to sit and it's just my friend and I taking up a big booth to ourselves so 6 girls and 1 guy end up asking to share the booth and we say of course. Now I was sitting in a shitty area because to my right was my friend, left was nothing, and in front was the guy. To the right of my friend was all the girls. Boo for me. He talks to the girl beside him for a few mins and then she goes out for a smoke with her friend. When everyone's back I went up to order drinks and one of the owners told the bartender not to charge for the next round of drinks, so I had 9 shots brought to our table, handed the dude the first shot, he seemed a little surprised he got one at all (muhahah) Then handed out the rest. Now it was around 1 in the morning on SATURDAY so 2 is actually 3. Closing time. So we lost 1 hour at the bar. Not cool because we didn't even know until it was closing and I didn't get many words in. Around 30 minutes before we left the girl saw us playing with my blackberry so she said let me scan your barcode and grabs her friend's cell too. Again we talk and laugh about the night in the car.

And that's my first FR. I'm going to use this as a little journal I guess of every weekend to see how we progress. I'm also pretty damn glad I can take my BEST FRIEND along for this journey. The little bit of "success" could have been because of the owners coming up to us during the night and terrorist fist jabbing us, having little convos and seeing if everything was alright but I'ma say that, that's awesome for us. I can't wait for weekends now!

TL;DR Don't read it then!