To start off i'm an indian guy after this jewish HB8. I know she's interested in me but i've never had a long conversation because I never really hung out with her by herself, and her friend that she's always with never shuts up.

So I recruited a wingwoman, a mutual friend of ours. I chose her carefully because she's good-looking and seems to know about social norms and the whole social matrix.

So today I catch the HB8 with FRIEND_1, a mutual friend of me and wing. I wanted to go gorilla and straight up ask her out, but didn't want to do it in front of FRIEND_1. So I called on my wing, and she told me that HB8 only dates jews!

I was like what the hell now? Do I still even go up to her and ask? I didn't want to get blown out because i'm not a jew lol. But I believe that social norms and pressures are simulated and can be overrided by our minds, and thought okay one date isn't a fucking sin. But my wing was completely psyching me out and discouraging the fuck out of me, she made me even more nervous, and wouldn't help me out.

What should have I done? Gone gorilla and went for it anyway? Or am I better off not giving a fuck.