Last year around this time I was volunteering at a stand getting people to sign up for helping freshman move in for the fall semester. I meet a girl (aspiring actress HB 8.5 although I didn't find her as attractive as everybody else did though) and we start talking about things and she mentions something about world politics. I transitioned into my extreme love for Israeli military stories in the six day war. It's very humourous stuff, great conversation for anyone into world news which she clearly was. Come to find out she's Palestinian and her family still owns land there...and the breaker...her father fought in that war(as a captain). At first I considered back tracking, but instead instead I went in full force. Situation saved through not giving a fuck,I looked extreamly confident.

fast forward to this past November

I'm at a bar for a church event...you heard me... and I get distracted and open a set which includes this HB 8.5. Pretty quickly I turn into younger advice guy. I'm about three years younger than these girls, but I'm passing off advice about relationships like a pro. So I peak HB 8.5's interest again. Now I'm smart, confident, attractive, I don't give a fuck, and I'm not trying to get in anyone's pants(now my pants are the goal, lol).

She comes over to my house and stays til 4 am...I make no inkling about being attracted to her, flirting, it was literally just a six hour conversation where we traded stories and thoughts the entire time. Now you might be thinking...Darth, what on earth are you doing you could have gotten this girl a long time ago. That's true, but first it's not as fun...and second I would be far less legendary to her. So one night I'm guiding her to the door with a massive possibly relevant erection...my body does not like this strategy, lol. She turns to me and just blurts, "I'm crazy about you". Awkwardly faced with the potential of her looking down, I reached with my left hand and dragged a chair in front of me and thus between us as I said, "that's awesome, I like you too".

Fuck, that was lame...but funny, I ask her out when I see her the following day.

Why does this belong here?:

Well, it belongs here because I was calculated the entire time. Many guys walk around closing on girls that they don't have any knowledge of. I do this too, otherwise I wouldn't be here in seduction. However there's second way to get someone, and that's through soft selling. This girl was an aspiring actress, president of the token atheist club at my college, going to grad school the following year and was not seeking a relationship or anything with another guy. She was solely focused on going to grad school in Boston and then pursuing acting.

By soft selling I am not going for the gold, but rather seeking to please the costumer, or in this case a girl to bite on my line. I appeared confident the first time I met her and I appeared smart, attractive, fun the second time. All this was just normal behavior, but instead of me trying to get things done, I left it to her. I drove her nuts by not flirting too heavily or asking her out. I disarmed her disdain for religion one of the first times she was at my house, basically over the course of time each conversation point made me more attractive. Until she couldn't risk not knowing whether I liked her. It's important to get girls to pursue you because other than being fun, it also adds a new dynamic to a situation. Is it the best way to close...no way...but is a ton of fun and it elevates the targets opinion of you to be really really high. Everything you do or say elevates the opinions of all the people around you until they can't let you go...they'd be stupid too and then not only are you pursued, BUT you are in control of the tempo when the relationship begins.

A close that would have been just a few times turns into me at her house every night. We break up in May because she's going to away for work and grad school is coming up. Neither of us have interest in really trying. The maximum potential of the relationship was reached and thus this past school year was incredibly fun. So yea...serve your costumers guys...don't go out with the idea that you need to close in some form. Just be awesome and let them decide the product.