Here's a little background: It's taken me about 6-8 months to become half decent at seduction. I have girls on my arm as I walk down the college hallway. Since I work at the college, the girls at work also see the social proof and tease me about it all the time. They like it. I also have girls at work getting turned on as a result.

The problem? They think I'm this over-sexualized, experienced dude, when in reality, I made out for the first time a few weeks ago and couldn't even have sex because my fucking dick wouldn't get up.

I saved my makeout screwup by teasing the girl for it as if she had messed up, which was great push/pull and worked well in my favor. She like stuck her tongue right in my mouth and we hit teeth a couple times, so I decided to end it quickly.

I know making out is supposed to be a natural thing. But that's why I'm here, and why most of us are here (I think)--we're fucking nerds who just don't have the same intuitions/physical inclinations/ease/know how about us in these situations.

I have the opportunity to get with a few more chicks right now, and I don't want this to happen again, especially since there's this expectation that I'm supposed to 'be the shit'. Social proof is a damn interesting thing, sirs.

How do I fix this shit? I'm actually raging pretty hardcore about it, not to mention my ridiculous fail-sex event. I'm moving out of the newbie category, so I should be happy with my progress (and I am), but I'm the kind of person that just wants to keep pushing things further and further and getting things done right.