When it comes to game in the so called manosphere, we will often hear about the supposed successes of married gamers.  When it comes to supposedly successful married gamers, the same three or four names always comes up like in the following comment.

I agree with on on Asshole Kay. But, you’re wrong about the married Christian MRAs and game not working.

Look at Sunshine Mary’s husband. He cheated on her 30 times and she took him back because he is a major alpha and knows how to game her. She admits as much on her blog.

Look at Deti. His wife wouldn’t sleep with him for years. Then, he got game and now she knows better than to say “no” to his advances.

And Dalrock seems to have always been able to keep his wife in line using game.

I don’t think it’s necessary in every marriage; my husband doesn’t use it and doesn’t need it. But, for a failing Christian marriage it can be better than giving up and ending up in divorce court.

What this comment and the others like it don’t address is what happened to all the other married gamers.  I have been watching the so called manosphere for years, and I have seen plenty of other married gamers.  However, none of them are around anymore.  Their blogs have been deleted.  In a few cases, they left a final message they were getting a divorce.  After they left, you never hear about them in the so called manosphere.  What the so called manosphere has done in denying the existence is equivalent to how Nikolai Yezhov was edited out of all records in the Soviet Union when he became a problem for Stalin such as in the photo below.

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I estimate that there are more missing married gamers by at least a factor of 10 than the remaining married gamers in the so called manosphere.  Unfortunately, this is impossible to document because just like the edited picture above, all the blogs of the missing married gamers have been deleted.  The rest of the so called manosphere has decided to conveniently forget about the missing married gamers and never mention them again because it exposes how game is a failure and nothing but a scam.  Plus, the remaining married gamers are trying to live a delusion that their marriages are “safe” because of game.  Eventually, they will all end up divorced and join the legion of missing married gamers.