So how do you lead someone who doesn’t want to be led and who says things like this:

“You know if you helped more around the house I’d be more comfortable and we’d have sex more”

How do you handle that conversation? You don’t.

Guys have been asking misguided questions like this for years: What books I can give my wife so she will trust my captaining? What …

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