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| 1034 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approach | -all-that-glitters | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 07:31 PM | |
| 882 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakes | -all-that-glitters | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 10:13 PM | |
| 660 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work. | -all-that-glitters | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 08:52 PM | |
| 4 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Picked up by a pick-up artist last week, both literally and figuratively | -all-that-glitters | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 09:48 PM |
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| 2 | Need help/advice/inspiration with solo night club gameAll you have to do is not be the guy standing on the edge of the dancefloor staring at girls' asses like they're going out of fashion. Approach the first set you see when you enter the club, bounce directly from them to the next, and so on. As long as you stick to this, no casual observer is going to see you as the guy who came alone...if anything, you're the guy who knows everyone. Additionally, there'll be one or two sets of these sets that stick particularly well, but for whatever reason can'… | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 01:38 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachBars I can hear most things alright, clubs there ends up being a lot of inelegant 'WHAT?' shouted back and forth. Depends where in the club though. Trying to talk on the dancefloor is madness, but away from the speakers it can be passable. Obviously the smoking area is always ideal. | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 02:37 PM |
| 3 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachLike anything else, it will work on some and it will not work on others. But I'd say you're unlikely to get anyone taking massive offense (or giving you a slap), provided you keep it gentle and do it with a smile. If that's true, then it ceases to be a high risk approach, and there's nothing to stop you continuing to pull it out until it hooks. Saying that, if it feels massively out of your style, then that's going to show, and that's when you get the 'creeper' label thrown around. So don't do a… | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 02:15 PM |
| 1 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachAllo darl. I'm afraid I don't know how much help I can be here. All my past hook-ups and relationships have come from either night game or social circle game, so I don't want to talk out of my ass about something I have no experience in. Super sorry, and good luck! | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 02:08 PM |
| 1 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachHey man :D So at no point did I anyone say that anyone should be passively waiting around for these signals. I actually said the opposite in the very comment you're replying to ('I'd say don't actively try and look out for these signs if you think it'll mess up your natural game'). So not really sure what you're trying to say here.. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 05:49 PM |
| 6 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachAh man, don't get me wrong, I do approach. I'm a massive fan of being straightforward when I'm feeling gutsy enough, and I'd say I approach guys at least 10x more often than any of my friends. I'm always trying to improve on that, but I'm 20 years old and most girls my age aren't even considering approaching, so I think I'm doing alright. The important thing is, I haven't written about these approaches, and have instead written about approach signals, because guys already know that the game is o… | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 05:43 PM |
| 6 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachThis is something only you can decide. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 10:50 AM |
| 4 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachI prefer to read this as pointy ass-necklace. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 10:23 AM |
| 5 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachI can 100% confirm this. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 10:21 AM |
| 6 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachThis sub has helped me a lot! That's why I'm trying to give something back to the community with ample dick jokes and some occasional content. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 10:21 AM |
| 7 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachThe idea of you reading this aloud to your roommates makes me feel simultaneously fuzzy and violated inside. I think I like it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 10:16 AM |
| 13 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachThank you, it's so nice to get some positive female feedback! :) I was beginning to think that my friends and I were just excessively calculated weirdos. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 10:07 AM |
| 43 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachThank you! It's a treacherous but ultimately rewarding journey. | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 10:04 AM |
| 8 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachThank you! I really love the whole writing process, not just the content, so comments like this make me the happiest panda of all. | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 11:26 PM |
| 17 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachIf I say something high I'm vain, something low and I'm fishing for compliments :D | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 10:00 PM |
| 21 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approach6' of pure emasculation, right there. And I don't really know. I stumbled upon Seddit and found it interesting, so I just kept going. I'm also a Psychology student, so there's that. My motivations behind making the posts are a) I really like writing and b) I want to help the people in the community as much as possible. Seduction makes guys more attractive; why wouldn't I want more attractive guys in the world? | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 09:22 PM |
| 19 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachPicture for 'reference'. :D Would also like to mention that the friends I write about in these FRs are all HB7s and 8s (and possibly one unfortunate 6). But obviously I'm not going to post their pictures, so you'll have to use your sordid imagination. | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 09:14 PM |
| 50 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachThank you for saying what I was trying to say, but so much better. | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 09:00 PM |
| 33 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachThat doesn't mean we're not trying ;) | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 08:53 PM |
| 10 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachWhen you take away all of my dick jokes and rambling bullshit, there is really not much to this. I'd say don't actively try and look out for these signs if you think it'll mess up your natural game. But the fact that they're in your head will mean that you automatically notice things sometimes, and when you do, you're free to act on them if you feel it appropriate. | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 08:52 PM |
| 11 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachNo way of telling I'm afraid darl. There are definitely some girls who will do that as some kind of hint to you, but there are also girls who do that shit willy nilly because bitches just love instagram. The only way of knowing is to ask her out. And if she says no, go ask out ten more. Rock that abundance mentality like a motherfucker. | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 08:32 PM |
| 6 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachLet's wed. | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 08:28 PM |
| 41 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachAllo there! You make a whole host of fab points. I was only trying to express some things that myself and other women I know do, so I definitely shouldn't have spoken like I'm the authority on all women. I think the whole thing about my post was to just encourage these guys to open the women who display these signs. Obviously there are going to be all kinds of instances when the woman is displaying the signs for other, completely unrelated reasons. But the point is, these guys are obviously not … | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 08:27 PM |
| 12 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachAbrupt. But yes. | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 08:09 PM |
| 9 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachAh man, I'm sorry. To be honest I was just super happy with the feedback I've been getting and wanted to carry on helping as much as possible...but I guess it's hard to tell what's going to be useful sometimes. I really appreciate your feedback! :) | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 08:03 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesThe answer to this question depends so much on who you ask. Personally, I don't really notice what a guy is wearing unless it's a) particularly peacocky or b) particularly out of place. You can be out of place in a good/neutral way (e.g. hiphop style in a white suburban club) or in a bad way (scruffy and unkempt when everyone else is dressed up). The most important thing is that your clothes fit well. After that, just wear whatever is your style and make sure you look clean, uncreased and presen… | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 07:12 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.Also, thank you for the massive compliment! | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 11:47 AM |
| 3 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.I'm sorry man, a few people have asked me this now and I'm afraid my experience is depressingly limited in this area. I actually live in a smaller town outside of London where cold approaches in the daytime are not at all the norm (I choose to believe this over the possibility that men have to be hammered before they can even consider this booty). | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 11:46 AM |
| 8 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesThis is a fab point and I hadn't even thought of it like that. | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 11:38 AM |
| 6 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesMost girls want tall guys, regardless of their own height. But tall girls want it with a more ferocious hunger. | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 08:45 PM |
| 3 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesIn my opinion, if it's done right, it's fine. It's not supposed to be brutish or grabby, it's just supposed to be a non-verbal way of initiating an interaction with a girl. I'm not offended by a guy wanting me to pay attention to him as long as he is respectful if I choose not to (i.e. RELEASE THE CLAW) | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 06:39 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesNot going to lie, height helps. But in this FR, both guys were tall. One closed, the other failed miserably. I'm 6' and will still get with short guys if they're good at what they do...the average sized girls should be fair game. | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 06:17 PM |
| 11 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesOk so as far as I know there isn't actually an international signal that goes further than a facial expression thrown over the guy's shoulder which screams 'help me!'. However, my friends and I have developed an (extremely complex) 'thumbs up/thumbs down' system, and this is something I've seen used by other girls in club situations too. Unfortunately, if you're the inciter of the distress signal, you're unlikely to see it because bitches be sneaky. But if you can learn to identify the 'by god r… | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 02:57 PM |
| 9 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesBut...you told me you were curious about me... :( | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 11:30 AM |
| 24 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesI'm not going to lie. I have read over four thousand books on the topic. Disclaimer: Ididandwillcontinuetolie. | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 11:20 AM |
| 44 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesIf I know what you're doing and you're doing it well, I'm enjoying the fuck out of it. Everyone here knows that that seduction isn't about tricking the girl into falling for you, it's about making yourself more attractive so that she'll want to fall for you. Seduction is fun! If I know you're negging me to get me to qualify myself, maybe it'll change my outward reaction in that I won't necessarily play into your hands right away. But that doesn't stop the attraction I'm feeling. It might even be… | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 11:18 AM |
| 94 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesGenuinely a bit starstruck to have you comment on my post. Is that sad? I think that's sad. But anyway, thanks man, I appreciate the fuck out of it. I'm adopting you as my new little brother. | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 11:08 AM |
| 5 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.It had never happened to me before and has never happened to me since. I like to think it was because he had a girlfriend, but perhaps I just came across as some kind of evil swamp dweller seductress. | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 12:55 AM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.I like direct openers, especially of the 'Hi, I'm here to hit on you' variety. I know that's why you're here, I know you know that's why you're here, and hearing you acknowledge it is somehow puts me at ease. It's like when a comedian comes onstage and they're female/disabled/inexcusably tall/wearing too much corduroy and as soon as they make a joke about it, the audience visibly relaxes. Nodding at the elephant in the room is massively powerful. Saying that, my bitch shield would definitely go … | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 12:52 AM |
| 43 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakes1) I genuinely am a legitimate guardian of female genitalia. I posted a picture in my first thread which you may seek out for signs of ugliness at your leisure. 2) I never claimed to be a PUA grandmaster. I'm just really into this shit. I digest a lot of material and try to put it into the context of approaches I'm on the receiving end of, in the hope that you guys might get something from it. I'm sorry if you find it derivative, I try to be as original as possible. 3) I definitely didn't want a… | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 11:33 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.Aw, thank you! I'm not sure I feel worthy of an AMA though. Feel free to ask me any questions here or in a PM, I love this shit. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 10:36 PM |
| 4 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.Let's stay together forever. I will call you Eggy. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 09:44 PM |
| 5 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.Check this thread out. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 06:03 PM |
| 3 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.I posted a picture in the comments to try and quell the 'It's a trap! A penis-related trap!' suspicions. I guess this could easily be a picture of a random girl, but man, do you guys have no faith? I really don't want to have to submit my timestamped vagina. But I will. Disclaimer: I will not. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 05:58 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.Maybe he was just too scared to consistently approach all-female sets. And maybe he had only just met all of these people. The point is, I have no idea...all I see is a guy fun-loving guy bouncing around the place giving value to everyone he meets, and goddamnit I want a piece of that. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 02:33 PM |
| 1 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.To be honest he was probably actually average sized, but as a distressingly tall girl I unfortunately tend to process people in two categories: 'taller than me' and 'shorter than me'. But anyway, he insisted on a crouch picture because I was 'making him look bad'. Pretty poor game in that instance, but it was my 5'2 friend he was trying to pull, so maybe it didn't matter so much. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 02:05 PM |
| 3 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.When a guy uses a technique or a phrase that is so obvious I have the opportunity to call him out on it, it's the best thing ever. You probably made that girl's night. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 01:41 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.That was most definitely not me. I'm so glad other girls know their shit! | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 01:30 PM |
| 5 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.What are you talking about? I am ghetto as fuck. Bro. Um. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 01:06 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.Paha, this did cross my mind. The feel of the group and the way they all reacted afterwards did make me pretty confident it was intentional though. I've been on the receiving end of some terrible kisses in the past and the perpetrators always tend to look confused when you give them the 'wtf' face. This guy just looked smugly evil. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 01:05 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.Watch this, use the searchbar, and keep a lookout for girls who are continously eyeballing the club and/or go to the bar alone. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 01:01 PM |
| 5 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.I will definitely be giving this some thought for my next post. I loved reading your comment, it genuinely made me so happy to think I've had even a small effect on your mindset. I feel like I might have a pretty decent idea of the sort of guy you are and to be honest, if you're getting unsolicited approaches from girls then you should definitely feel comfortable pushing for whatever you're looking for on that particular night. GIRLS HATE APPROACHING. SO MUCH. However wrong this is, we do feel l… | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 12:44 PM |
| 5 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.I'll make sure to include some of this in my next write-up! You guys just like hearing about this so you can feel smug though, don't you... | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 12:29 PM |
| 6 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.I'm unsure if there is a reference, I may just be talking shit. But I'm thinking level 7 would fall somewhere between hacking into your Facebook and making a coat of your skin. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 12:28 PM |
| 18 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.All I can say is keep approaching. There are SO MANY reasons a woman may not be receptive to a particular approach on a particular night. Many of them are related to you, so yes, never stop improving your game. But so many of them can be completely unrelated to you: she has a boyfriend, she sort of has a boyfriend, she just broke up with a boyfriend and is heartbroken, she's had a bad day, she's having a good day and doesn't want to stop, she's feeling unnattractive, she's too drunk, she's not d… | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 12:26 PM |
| 13 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.At the time of this particular approach, I was only hoping for a K-close. The friend I mentioned is Christian and doesn't do the whole sex before marriage thing, so I wasn't really thinking of it in those terms. But then I was overcome by vagina. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 12:08 PM |
| 10 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.I know right. Also because of his accent (he turned out to be French), I at first thought he'd asked if I had any cannabis. Considering I was half naked at the time, I thought the evening had taken a confusing turn. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 12:06 PM |
| 11 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.Who knows, man. 4 or 5? We're talking hygiene, preferably health and a basic impression of scrubbing up well. You can still get results if you're overweight (for instance I've had two overweight boyfriends), but you know it's not doing you any favours. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 12:04 PM |
| 2 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.YES. I've hoped to run into Gambler ever since I found his stuff from the Under 21 Convention. One day I will run my hands through those ridiculous locks. That's actually the material I was referring to when I mentioned how HG7 maintained eye contact despite the loud club environment (this video, 35 minutes in). | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 12:00 PM |
| 65 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.Ok, so... My friend and I are at a bar, it’s nearing close, and we are tipsy but sobering up. For the past half hour I’ve been keeping an eye on two attractive guys and, upon mentioning this to my friend, she admits that she has been too. Game is on. We discuss our targets and decide to let her have the more attractive one as she rarely approaches guys; she begins to ask how we’re going to approach but I am already dragging her towards them by the arm. I let it be obvious to the guys that I have… | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 11:23 PM |
| 17 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.I think this is a really great point. And the second approach in particular kind of highlights the importance of escalating the fuck out of a situation if you're planning on ejecting to look for something better soon anyway. As an aside, fucking love seeing sedditors from London on here and wondering if they've ever tried to pick me up. Small world situations give me the tinglies. | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 10:43 PM |
| 29 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.To be honest I’ve only had a handful of one night stands in my life, and all of them were pretty much orchestrated by me, so I’m afraid I might not be much help on that one. Still waiting to be well and truly seduced into bed. Also, thank you so much! | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 10:34 PM |
| 66 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Three examples of approaches I have experienced: what worked and what didn't work.Attractiveness matters. But if you’re above a base level and you’re spitting mad game, of course you have a chance. And if you’re incredihot with little else to you, you’re not going to get very far. | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 10:30 PM |
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