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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | 27 yrs | 3404bbl | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/26 10:14 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | 27 yrsI agree, the more I talk about it the worse it gets. But nevertheless I will still go the therapist appt and see how it goes. Last night I starting writing down the random thoughts that were going through my head. Out of nowhere my hand wrote down the words "if you love her, set her free". That one hit me pretty hard. The only way she was going to be happy was to get away from me. If I can rationalize the divorce as a positive it will let the woman I still love to pursue her life without me in t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/26 06:45 PM |
| 4 | 27 yrsI appreciate all the advice and info guys. It helps to have a group of people who have been in the same situation to lean on and get advice. Some days are better than others. I woke up today feeling rested and mentally focused. Daughter's wedding is tomorrow and I'm ready for it. As a side note, I have not had any alcohol in at least 4 weeks. It really wasn't that hard to quit which surprised me. I have a therapist appt next week. Buddy of mine who went through divorce said women therapists are … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/26 04:45 PM |
| 1 | 27 yrsI knew that my drinking could get out of control so I made it a point to tone it down. My support structure so far has been a couple close friends who have also went through a divorce. I also have a life long friend who is a pastor now and he has been invaluable. He checks up on me daily and tries to keep me motivated to stay the course and get better. Believe me, I don't want to feel this way but first I have to get over hating myself and realize that I'm human and unfortunately we have the abi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/26 04:24 PM |
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