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I’m 43. Being a single parent to an infant and toddlers at 50+ sounds completely exhausting even if you do manage to stay in tip top shape. Are you sure you wouldn’t rather have them younger when you have more energy to play with them?
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 02:09 AM
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Have you considered just donating to a sperm bank?
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 02:05 AM
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Our first was a girl and we didn’t find out until she was born. Due to medical reasons our second was going to be our last. We decided to find out. I had my self so psyched up that it was going to be a girl (since everyone would want a boy in that situation) that I didn’t really believe it when it came back as a boy. It actually took me a couple weeks to “mourn“ the girl that never existed except in my head. My wife gave me space and I worked through it. I’m not sure if my story helps at all but…
/r/RPChristians18/08/20 01:50 AM
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I bet they'd call Job's response to his wife abuse too. ​ Job 2:9 His wife said to him, “Are you still maintaining your integrity? Curse God and die!” 10 He replied, “You are talking like a foolish woman. Shall we accept good from God, and not trouble?” In all this, Job did not sin in what he said.
/r/RPChristians17/08/20 03:41 PM
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man needing to be worthy of his woman. I’m trying to figure out how Titis 2:2 fits in, “Teach older men ... to be worthy of respect.” Is it just the context is more general and not specific to the husband wife relationship? Sanctification, pursuing God, and a mission should result in a man worthy of respect. The other places I’ve found about being worthy of respect and the parts talking about the qualifications for deacons and overseers so that seems to line up with that direction and the parts …
/r/RPChristians15/08/20 03:36 AM
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Hey, I was hoping you could comment based on another CBMW article, on this idea of the husband should be the primary pursuer in the husband-wife relationship. It seems to be another complementarianist idea that is flawed. It seems to be coming more from chivalry than from the Bible. I'll take a shot at this one first: Here is the quote from the CBMW article: The Gospel-Centered Husband PURSUES. In the same way Christ has pursued us, we should continually pursue our bride. It is common to see thi…
/r/RPChristians13/08/20 04:10 PM
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The more I think about it, a body like Brittany Perille is too masculine for my taste. It's certainly better than being clinically obese though. Looking through a few body fat % charts, 20% and a little higher for females seem the most attractive to me. I find 25% more attractive than 15% or less. (edit: I looked up the Navy recommendations and it happens to agree here that 20% to 25% is ideal). That pic of Brittany looks like she must be somewhere between 10% and 15%. A body like Brittany Peril…
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 11:15 PM
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Do a good job and the fitness tests will go down to hardly anything. Often when my wife makes one subconsciously, all I have to do is wait a few seconds. She realizes what she said/did, and retracts it.
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 10:09 PM
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Eve took care of the meals "Here, Adam. I got dinner for us." "Where did you get this fruit? I don't remember us having this for dinner before." "Oh don't worry about it. A snake and a hamster told me it would be fine." Anyway, back to being serious. First, it says Adam was with her during this, so so much for each taking care of those things on their own. Second, if dinner was entirely her responsibility, what was Adam's sin?
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 09:56 PM
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The feminist version of headship might be that he has to be a mind-reader and better make the decision she wants! If he mistakenly starts to make the wrong decision, nothing a little throat-clearing by the wife can't fix! When I was a kid, me and each of my 2 sisters got 1 vote, my Mom got 4 votes, and my Dad got "8". Mom used hers often to overrule us 3 kids, but never once did my Dad ever pull out his 8 votes to overrule all four of us. He rarely voted at all when Mom was around, so in practic…
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 09:40 PM
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nah Why would you say someone should not take responsibility for the consequences of their decisions? /boggle
/r/RPChristians06/08/20 03:43 PM
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Thanks, that helps. I think you just reinforced everything I was trying to say. I knew the bulk up thing is a myth, maybe I just didn't make it clear enough. Seems like a to do item for a mod: update the lifting post to include women. I can't be the only one not entirely understanding the tone vs strength thing. Edit: this is also helpful for teaching my wife and daughter thanks!
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 09:27 PM
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No problem. It wasn't directed at you. Thank you for showing your humility. I imagine you could also write more than you already have about the good things you see in him as well. I really can't think of anything positive about being unemployed for a year and not really looking. A good man would be spending multiple hours a day, 5+ days a week looking for gainful employment. It really shows a lack of ambition and leadership. For the physical boundary side, I'll share a bit of my story. I was and…
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 09:21 PM
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Oh, and you need to lift. Women don't get a pass on that. Could you elaborate on this? The stickied post on the sidebar about lifting seems entirely directed at men and makes no mention of any differences in how women should approach it. Some of the things there simply don't apply for women (examples: 1) ED 2) dread. A woman using dread does not work on men. Or at least it shouldn't. If it does, the man tends to lose frame which leads to her loving him less). Men focusing on upper body strength …
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 08:57 PM
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True. I guess I just want to emphasize that it is her decision to make, not ours. She needs to own it and take responsibility for any all consequences and not rationalize it with, "RPChristians told me to do it! It's their fault, not mine!"
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 08:45 PM
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One thing I learned from the side bar materials that I never really realized before is often posts like the OP already have their mind made up and and are not truly looking for advice, they just want affirmation and validation that their decision is correct. They have a tendency to not admit any flaws of themselves or say anything that a potential responder would jump on them for. I am NOT saying that I assume this OP is this case, but it does happen in general often enough that taking things wi…
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 08:36 PM
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Thanks for the support. I did the modern chivalrous things when I was dating -- holding doors, paying, walking on the traffic side of the sidewalk, etc. I figured the type of woman I wanted to marry would either like it or not be bothered by it and any woman that hated it would not be someone I was interested in. There has to be at least a little reciprocity though. I dumped one girl after 2 months when she never called me, asked me out, made dinner for me, write a note, or did anything for me. …
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 01:07 AM
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Jesus used similar techniques in Matthew 21:24-27 and John 4:16. I would hardly call Jesus uncharitable. I don't believe it is a sin to challenge people to state what they believe in.
/r/RPChristians03/08/20 10:49 PM
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yet we aren't supposed to judge anyone That verse (Math 7:1) gets taken out of context in order to support a PC, bluepill mentality. Mat 18:15-17 explains that sin should be confronted and how to do it. Eph 5:26-27 is specific to husbands confronting sinful behavior of their wives in order to help sanctify them. You can't really do that without judging whether a behavior is sinful or not. The point of Math 7:1 is to keep reading a little further because it immediately explains what it means. It'…
/r/RPChristians15/07/20 06:35 PM
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Thanks, that helps a bunch!
/r/RPChristians14/07/20 08:42 PM
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let the sanctification of your wife be a waypoint that, while not necessary... Could you explain further how you arrived at the conclusion that sanctifying our wives is optional? When I read Eph 5:25-27, it seems like it's saying sanctification is the primary way we show that we love them. Is this incorrect? Mat 7:3-5 does say we need to take care of the plank in our own eye before worrying about the speck of sawdust in our brother's eye. In that context, I see how husbands need to get their own…
/r/RPChristians14/07/20 05:20 PM
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There isn't a single point that says or implies a man should be "Mr. Nice Guy." Correct. Your article does not recommend or suggest that men become Nice Guys. I did not mean to imply that it did. When I use the phrase, "nice guy", I am using the definition found in "The Biblical Masculinity Blueprint", section "Attractive Jerks vs Unattractive Nice Guys.", starting in loc 2383 of 4958 in the Kindle version. The opening chapters, especially chapter 3, do a good job describing how Christianity has…
/r/RPChristians14/07/20 04:16 PM
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Thanks for the constructive feedback. Push over is a better way to summarize it quickly than simply being nice like how I worded it. I'm in the middle of "The Biblical Masculinity Blueprint" and he usually simply refers to those type of men as "Nice guys". He has a pretty good description of what he means by it and also a good explanation of how many young Christian men end up in that mode (like me, back when I was 13-22). I did buy "No More Mr. Nice Guy" too and will probably be reading that on…
/r/RPChristians13/07/20 10:45 PM
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Solid points, but this could be dangerous for Christian men operating their marriage relationship in "Mr. Nice Guy" mode as almost all your points could be used to reinforce that perspective. It's not wrong, but it is incomplete. For example, responding to nagging by being nice is the wrong way to handle it.
/r/RPChristians13/07/20 05:55 PM
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I've made the point I wanted to make. I'm not here to argue with you.
/r/RPChristians13/07/20 05:40 PM
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It was a bit of a trick question to see if you have read the sidebar materials. Both are flawed. This seems to be your first post in this sub from what I found in your post history. This is not a generic Christian sub. Please familiarize yourself with this subs position on passages such as Ephesians 5.
/r/RPChristians13/07/20 01:14 AM
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Do you ascribe more to Complmentarianism or Egaltarianism?
/r/RPChristians09/07/20 04:03 PM
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OYS #1 July 8th. 42M, wife is 43, married 13 years, 2 kids. I had a wake up call 20 days ago from reflecting on what was important in life and how that didn't line up very well with how I was spending my time (letting my faith slip, too many video games, and not spending enough quality time with my wife and kids). There wasn't any event that triggered this. At 42 years old, maybe it's just my mid-life crisis or maybe it's God telling me to get my act together. Found this sub around a week ago. P…
/r/RPChristians08/07/20 07:53 PM
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Disclaimer: I'm fairly new to this sub, but its core aligns very well with how I handled things when I was searching for a wife 17 years ago, so I think my perspective may be helpful. Feel free to correct me if I'm out of line with anything that this sub is about. It's pretty simple. You take the lead from getting her # to getting that 1st date all the way through courtship. If she asks you out here and there, just enjoy it. It's not like you have to say no to that. Do things that test her flexi…
/r/RPChristians07/07/20 02:51 PM
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