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DiscussionAlarming_Ask_244/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:30 PM
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Woman works at commercial business, encounters stupid people for the first time, blames one entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:12 PM
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One woman for every nine men, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:39 PM
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What is this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:58 PM
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It's been a while for me I'm pretty sure the big dating apps are way more than $14/mo these days. Like $30+/mo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:51 PM
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The skills involved in finding versus building/maintaining a relationship are not the same. They intersect, but the venn diagram is far from a circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:42 PM
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It’s certainly no guarantee, but women have a much higher chance of success with this strategy than men do. “Okay we just started dating, time for you to start hitting the gym, dressing nicer, find a hobby and get a real job”. Plenty of guys want to do all that anyway and some romantic motivation is all they really need. I can’t imagine that working on virtually any women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:21 AM
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Oh well if that’s what women say then reality can’t possibly be any different
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:12 PM
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>Because there are plenty of women out there that would happily go dutch with you This is simply not true. There are SOME but they are not plentiful or easy to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:26 PM
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>average It's technically true that the average woman (and man, for that matter) is fat, but the word "average" is also used colloquially to mean "normal" instead of the literal "mathematical mean of the data set"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:29 PM
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Post hoc rationalization
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:05 AM
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I love solipsism I love solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:06 PM
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Disproportionately represented would mean over 50%...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:38 PM
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There are so many submissive men with kinks that involve *themselves* being put in discomfort or pain that there aren't enough dominant women to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:37 PM
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Thirty years ago, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:01 PM
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I’d love a robot sex toy but I don’t think I could ever develop an emotional attachment to one. For men who think they can, I guess it all depends on what you mean by a “legitimate”replacement. I think that you are overestimating the value some men place on the “social currency” of having a real partner, but I also think that some men who would claim to want a robot wife are underestimating the value of a real emotional connection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:39 AM
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ChatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:59 PM
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Idk I know which one I’d rather have
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:11 AM
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I am a 28yo man, 250lbs, 5'4 How much does your GF weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:53 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:32 PM
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Brother, you cannot read.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:27 AM
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In this context, when men say good they mean “okay” and when women say good, they mean “great”. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:26 PM
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I think the average woman find men 3-5 years older most attractive. Which is not inherently a bad thing, but it does leave 18-23 year old men in a rough spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:03 PM
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Just hop on a dating app and filter through a few hundred matches? No extroversion required
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:30 PM
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Im a man with this fetish and it’s probably my strongest one. I can’t really explain why. I don’t hate women or want to hurt them in any other context. I would never do anything sexually to a woman without prior consent, but the fantasy of doing so does turn me on. When other men say that the idea of being the “perpetrator” in CNC role play makes them uncomfortable, it doesn’t compute in my brain at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:33 PM
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Ending the Ukraine war by rolling over and giving russia everything it wants isn’t a praise worthy accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:55 PM
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That’s not really what I’m looking for but tbh the only women I’ve ever met like that are lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:25 PM
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Reread my original comment. I don’t think he should have done what he did, I just think she and the commenters are dramatically overreacting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:23 PM
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He only asked her out once(?). She does say he stayed in the shop for 3.5 hours but again it’s a coffee shop, it’s not clear if he was just working on homework again or what
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:12 PM
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Nah, they’re usually pretty aware that ugly guys get no play
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:55 PM
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“He came into my coffee shop one day and then came back a second day and politely (but too firmly) asked me out” Oh the horror
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:53 PM
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Sure, no one’s saying she had to impressed by his confidence and charisma and leave her husband to go out with him. But she didn’t have to assume he was Ted Bundy either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:52 PM
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There’s a difference between “I don’t want to eat these cookies, they’re probably fine because that guy was probably just an awkward dude who never baked before and went overboard asking me out, but I don’t know him and don’t want to take the chance” and “that guy was awkward therefore obviously there are poison cookies”. The first one is rational, the second one is true crime brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:51 PM
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There’s a miles wide gap between “that guy was awkward and pushy, it made me uncomfortable” and “that guy was definitely an evil stalker, I should post his handwriting on the internet so people can analyze it and tell me what his nefarious intentions are”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:47 PM
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Oh, a guy who’s in a coffee shop working on a (school?) project meets a cute girl and keeps looking over at her while he works beyond what’s socially acceptable. He’s literally an evil demon and should be put down like a dog. I’m not saying any of his behavior was normal, or charismatic, or that he should have gone about it that way. I’m saying him being awkward might be uncomfortable, but nothing he did was scary. Over the top? Sure. Too pushy? Sure. Evil stalker behavior? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:45 PM
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Even the additional context makes him sound like a nervous autistic guy instead of an evil stalker. “He was pacing around before he asked me out”, oh you mean like how nervous people pace around anxiously? Shocker. It’s unironically kind of a female privilege thing. She’s never had to ask anyone out, what would she know about nerve-wracking it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:37 PM
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I bet it was his first time baking tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:34 PM
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I bet it was his first time baking tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:34 PM
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If you want the government audited so bad, YOU should be the one mad that it’s being handled by a serial liar. Donald Trump knew Elon was a liar when he picked him, why would he do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:33 PM
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Women 🤝 failing to imagine that dating might be different for men, name a more iconic duo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:09 AM
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Not work? You don’t think you could find fun things to do for eight hours a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:05 AM
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Were they yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:05 AM
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You would have to trust Elon musk, a known and proven serial liar, to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:04 AM
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No but plenty of evil people are genuinely stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:03 AM
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Awkward guy asks girl out at her work, Reddit assumes he’s the devil incarnate Yeah you shouldn’t ask people out at work, yeah you shouldn’t bake them cookies or give them a note like a sixth grader. But this really seems to me like a socially awkward guy (autistic? Developmentally disabled?) working up the courage to ask out a girl (for the first time?), being nervous about it, and all of his nervous behavior being misinterpreted as “creepy” by redditors who have that brains melted by true crim…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:02 AM
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30 to 50% of Americans are stupid and/or deranged psychos who actively support whatever bad thing the rest of America wants to fix
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:20 PM
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90%+ of unattractive women are literally just overweight, including this one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:53 PM
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Trying and failing is a kind of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:51 PM
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Every single man at some point in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:08 PM
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Five year age gap is the sweet spot for attraction in both directions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:46 PM
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Delusional lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:48 PM
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Probably yeah. Seems like it would only improve my life and I don’t see many significant downsides
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:38 PM
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“I don’t want to hate women but I’m starting to” is pretty common in the early incel pipeline
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:25 PM
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I have basically no social life in this city and I’m scheduled to leave in four months so it feels pointless to try to build one, but also four months is a long time for social isolation esp because I’ve been isolated for like the previous four already
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:11 PM
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What's your BMI tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:17 AM
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https://x.com/cimmerian_v/status/1884838064159351040 Stupid right wingers love to be wrong about classic literature
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:01 AM
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Not 100% but a high chance
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:20 AM
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99% chance this was written by another incel who is still in the denial phase
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:18 AM
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I did the same. Worst decision ever for my social life. Such an alienating and disconnected experience. Hopefully it works out better for you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:16 AM
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He was flirting with you smh my head
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:10 AM
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Men’s standards: be a woman. Don’t be fat (optional)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:09 AM
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I would say the opposite, tbh. He's like 5-10% more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:17 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/51rw1wwmvzfe1.png?width=730&format=png&auto=webp&s=b01e80bd5bd427425d14d58091516c4cc80dc450 They're looksmatched, though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:43 PM
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Oh, now that you mention it, her hair probably closer to "long" than "medium"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:08 PM
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With that race and that body, I have a feeling she would look good with virtually any hair style
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:19 PM
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Your question takes it as a given that the set of qualities that most women are looking for is a reasonable one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:14 PM
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The internet and its consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:12 PM
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Kind of sad to be honest. 99% of them could find a good partner without much real effort but for whatever reason that's too much for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:02 AM
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You get forced to do a lot of things or get fired in the military
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:46 PM
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Alcoholic (more than everyone else) Trump loyalist (over the constitution? We’ll see) racist crusades larper
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:19 PM
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Hegseth is an embarrassment to the military
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:15 PM
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Just focus on having a good time out with your friend. Drinking is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:25 PM
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You might be right, the same way some women believe in things like astrology
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:21 AM
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Dull eyes, allegedly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:30 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/j8dsnyuxm9ee1.png?width=748&format=png&auto=webp&s=774da8591f4f20e4395e83d58fd00616630e49db Would women really do that? Just go on the internet and tell lies?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:24 AM
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"I don't get what's so hard about dating apps, just have abs and a lot of money"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:28 AM
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100-200+ dates? Damn, I should have been born an attractive instagram normie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:21 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:50 PM
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I asked this last night but it was too late and nobody saw: How far can a man get involved with buying clothing for / dressing his wife before it becomes a negative? I wanna buy cute things for my hypothetical future wife and see her wear them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:38 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/tff9xylof0ee1.png?width=758&format=png&auto=webp&s=8747c432ecd767d24585714d154efb7a44432f9b
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:27 PM
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This post reminded me of a tiktok crush I had a couple years ago before deleting the app, actually painful longing has re-flooded my body thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:06 PM
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I may have posted this thought here in the past but sometimes I wish I was blind. It's really hard to find a partner that is both physically and emotionally/socially/mentally attractive. Being blind would eliminate the physical aspect and I could just focus on finding someone I click with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:51 PM
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How are your trump coin returns coming along
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:18 PM
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Hypothetical future wife
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:34 AM
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How far can a man get involved with buying clothing for / dressing his wife before it becomes a negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:31 AM
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Not by men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:15 AM
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"Yall a rather get "healthy" for revenge than love and that amazes me"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:47 AM
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It's not for everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:56 PM
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I have seen a fair bit of this yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:48 PM
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My healthy bmi (19-21) kinky wife is out there somewhere and I have to find her somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:47 PM
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I'm hoping it's a social network I can find a mutually kinky wife in, but polyamory/open relationships are super common so I'm pessimistic. It might lead to a fwb situation at some point though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:47 PM
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This one's pretty clean. There's nudity but no sex, and they have sanitizing spray for the equipment like a gym. As for gross, well, that depends on how much you like seeing the average person naked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:45 PM
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This one's open to the public on fetlife, just a small cover charge
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:40 PM
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I've been going to a BDSM club for a few weeks. Nothing much crazy has happened, mostly just watching people who are some combination old, ugly, and/or fat whipping and tying each other up. Yesterday, though, I got to watch a couple attractive naked women around my age practice fire play on each other, which is basically like a massage where you tap the receiver with small torch. I got to try it myself, but the girl who did it to me was pretty fat, so it wasn't very erotic. It did feel good thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:35 PM
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Every time I’ve had sex I tried my best to make my partner orgasm, and they always seemed to do so, so frankly if they were faking it then that’s in them, I don’t really care
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:46 AM
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It's sexist to treat one sex differently than the other out of fear. Okay, women first
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:17 PM
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That was her making a move. Men are so oblivious to women flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:27 AM
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I could never make myself like kimchi. Bad texture imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:22 AM
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I just finished Like a Dragon: Infinite Wealth. I was going to try to 100% the game but it's too fucking long. I rolled credits with 101 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:24 AM
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I just finished Like a Dragon: Infinite Wealth. I was going to try to 100% the game but it's too fucking long. I rolled credits with 101 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:22 AM
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Rightoids become experts in forest management when its time to blame democrats for something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:58 PM
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<image> If a blue dots is above the red line, it represents a woman in this study overestimating how attractive men would rate their photo https://x.com/Aella_Girl/status/1880020621876478084
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:54 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:45 AM
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Negative five figures, trending downward
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:34 AM
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Some of them are not so funny but they can be a fascinating window into the divide between boomer Reaganite republicans and zoomer browncoats in training: https://preview.redd.it/0cmx14gig3de1.png?width=758&format=png&auto=webp&s=4c8ef394131c2c47761632a0ebb97a4c0da2d3a6
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:33 AM
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I'm currently falling down the alt-right pipeline on twitter. I liked a couple posts talking about how the current generation has it harder than previous generations and now 80% of my feed are open nazis talking about the great replacement. If I was a teenage boy instead of an adult man with a developed worldview, I'd probably be halfway to ordering a copy of mein kampf by now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:27 AM
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Idk I only picked it because it was picked in this tweet. It's inflation adjusted so I don't think it would matter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:04 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/cywreqok83de1.png?width=512&format=png&auto=webp&s=03a028e78dc5ec6db5f12ed9e489dafd728ce17e In 1980, ~15% of american households made $100k+/year. In 2023, ~3% of american households made $400k+/year.* 100k/year was a lot of money in 1980, and relatively speaking a lot of people were making it. Today the same amount of money is 400k/year, and a lot fewer people are making it. * 3.8 million / 131 million households = 2.9%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:52 AM
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Is it better to have loved and lost or to never have loved at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:47 PM
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<image> Wise wisdom from @/FatBitchFucker
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:13 PM
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I’m a little insulated from it living in New York City where it’s less severe, but out here it’s… well, I used to be slightly on the “people should learn to eat well and exercise instead of using ozempic”, now I’m starting to think we need to start putting ozempic in the drinking water
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:57 PM
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Just went to the hospital in a medium size midwestern city to visit a family member and I know there’s selection bias at play but wow, normies are so fat these days. I could count on one hand the number of sub 30 BMI people I saw, and most of them were nurses
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:36 PM
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I mean, relatively speaking, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:10 PM
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Most of our problems are coming from people who still believe, or profess to believe in god
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:56 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/1z0pgr0vrsce1.png?width=596&format=png&auto=webp&s=7318c167d44dca7bc09ef4b0a2818735d43c7e10 I mean, what would he have to say to normal looking men who aren't twitter misogynists and DON'T have women approaching them for dates (and, naturally, aren't successful in approaching women themselves)? Or do normal looking, non-misogynist men who struggle with dating just simply not exist? Because the twitter misogynists clearly have a narrative to offer them, while will stancil/…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:39 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/eet8cfvcrsce1.png?width=740&format=png&auto=webp&s=403a4e12567613074d1697e344b477df6d3bc77b Bonus followup: "stop taking about women don't approach you (or most men) for dates, and maybe women will start approaching you for dates"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:34 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/9vfhg9zwqsce1.png?width=735&format=png&auto=webp&s=04fb39331b42795ebffe69517f964523e18394b6 This is gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:33 PM
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Men love quests
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:45 AM
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If he's a 4, then I'm a 6-7.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:55 AM
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<image> I look like a hotter version of this man, if anyone is curious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:29 AM
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Anyone can see women getting socially accepted and included much more in social situations along with getting made fun of much less Tbh, I think a lot of women actually are blind to it. But it's an active choice to ignore it when it's brought to their attention
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:23 AM
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You could extrapolate that reddit and social media in general, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:05 AM
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I think acknowledging it and being open to discuss it as a societal issue is all men can really ask of women on this issue. "Not outright denying it" is a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:04 AM
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I think it's a problem for society as a whole to address
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:58 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:54 AM
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<image> There is NO male loneliness epidemic. Ignore everything you, as a man, have experienced and seen other men experiencing. Relationships are exactly as easy to find and maintain as they were in previous generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:46 AM
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Not while your father is there trying and failing to evacuate you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:09 AM
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<image> Everybody's been talking about birth rates, but maybe it's been relationship rates that have been the real problem the whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:04 AM
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But as a child, would you want your father to stay with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:57 AM
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I saw so many people on twitter basically trashing her for leaving and saying shit like "well, **I** would have DIED with my child" and like... I'm an adult man. I love my mom. I would be so pissed if I couldn't escape a fire and she pointlessly died alongside me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:44 AM
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Fattie women, all you need to do is this one thing to excel at what you're trying to do Alas, that's where you're wrong. They're likely getting plenty of matches despite their weight
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:10 AM
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For national politics I'm inclined to agree, but you should be engaging with local politics regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:41 AM
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I think it's a cropped mirror pic but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:26 AM
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<image> Literally, unironically, 100% with-my-chest, this is my dream girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:03 AM
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It's like 99.99% certain that he paid other people to play on his account to get it to a high level with good items
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:47 PM
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Elon Musk lying about being good at Diablo 4 and Path of Exile 2 isn't even that funny anymore, it's just really cringe and sad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:08 PM
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They can have it after they change their ways
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/xbstgmwcjmce1.png?width=743&format=png&auto=webp&s=78bd7d43fa8e6052ca50a3c5401ca63cef014df9 Regardless of how we feel about the N-count discussion, at least we can all agree that crypto bros don't deserve love
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:39 PM
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the donor doth protest too much methinks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:40 PM
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If you're at the point in the relationship where you're moving in together, shouldn't you also be at the point where you're starting to pool your resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:28 PM
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I think that "moving in together" and "beginning to merge finances" are basically the same step in relationship development
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:16 PM
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Very vigorous doggy style, I assume
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:14 AM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:57 AM
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Literally a fake religion that is just based on feelings I mean...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:51 AM
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Technically using a logical fallacy doesn't mean you're wrong, it just means your argument is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:49 AM
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There's a lot of churches with delusional religious people, especially in rural US
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:45 AM
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Nah, even for chad, very few women are on the average man's level
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:41 AM
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Men's purpose is to be asymptotically approaching 25.0 BMI while maintaining 10-15% bf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:39 AM
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<image> Sure bud
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:33 AM
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Sex feels good and validating. Even if you don't want to do it, it shouldn't be hard to understand why other people do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:42 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:03 AM
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He's got a better face imo, if he lost weight he would severely mog her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:02 AM
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My bet is he's a regular guy who goes like rock climbing twice a week and meets up with friends, but she's attracted to him so to her that basically makes him an international man of mystery
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:52 AM
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<image> to be fair, I had to scroll pretty far to find this, she seems to be mostly followed/replied to by men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:41 AM
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coming home to my empty apartment after trying to keep another woman's attention: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:39 AM
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I've always hated drinking alcohol with food. Ruins the taste of the food imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:38 AM
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me trying to find a wife: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:36 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:36 AM
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I don't think missing out means that it's 100% over for you, but I do think that some level of romantic exploration/success in your teen years is an extremely important milestone in developing confidence as an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:17 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:15 AM
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I relate, to an extent. I don't really care about having those except insofar as they would be a mark of her presence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:29 AM
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I think you were fine lol but I'm not a mod ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:27 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:20 AM
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Two wrongs don't make a right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:20 AM
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I'm jealous of my trump supporting family members, I wish I knew what it was like to be excited about a president starting their term
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:03 AM
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All humans are wired to worship something This is projection For women it's easy to just worship pop culture, celebrity culture, and modern degeneracy This isn't worship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:30 AM
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Sometimes it means you look, act, and sound like a gay man, but feel you aren't getting enough attention
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:40 PM
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You're probably not really her target audience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:39 PM
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Fire all of them, [REDACTED] half of them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:33 PM
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Given the way latino voters swung this past election, I can't really argue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:28 PM
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Which makes it effectively meaningless because the COL in poorer countries is commensurately lower
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:28 PM
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Michelangelo's David would look better and have more artistic value with a normal size penis
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:26 PM
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Better than trump supporters
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:22 PM
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https://i.redd.it/1hl6udnqv7ce1.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:21 PM
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He won
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:20 PM
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There have always been ugly people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:18 PM
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Oh true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:57 PM
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Ironic?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:49 PM
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Nah, I hope they're happy together, I just wish people looking at couples like them would call a spade a spade
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:13 PM
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It's definitely possible, depends on how her face would end up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:11 PM
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You're equating the features they have without taking into account the severity of those features. He's a little bit ugly, but she's a lot overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:10 PM
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I agree on all points, actually, I'm commenting more on how other people (mostly women but also men) perceive them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:08 PM
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I'm not saying he's winning any modeling gigs any time soon, but putting them on the same level is heavily inflating the woman's attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:03 PM
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By that logic, he's above average because the majority of american men are fatter than him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:57 PM
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Ohhhhhhhh you should have put it in quotes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:54 PM
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Probably yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:53 PM
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One of these people is average and one is significantly below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:53 PM
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I agree both genders do it to an extent but I think that women do it significantly more often and with significantly higher weights
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:52 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:49 PM
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Talking about it helps men who observe women behave this way IRL understand that they aren't crazy for noticing it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:49 PM
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Women are wonderful effect: women will see this and say they are looksmatched (or even that it's a beautiful woman with an average man) https://preview.redd.it/9t0e4x1t37ce1.png?width=1018&format=png&auto=webp&s=5a4b9eb61940445bb8121b40a9194f1985d64d02
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:45 PM
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therapy time, yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:38 AM
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Knowing that I'm not getting cheated on keeps me up at night (because I'm single)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:34 AM
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Why not just take it to a roulette table? It'll be over quicker
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:26 AM
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If you follow the causal chain behind any given problem in the world, 99/100 times it leads back to someone's unfettered greed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:25 AM
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Male subs vastly outnumber female doms, so yes, you have the advantage there too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:10 PM
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Average woman on hinge tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:08 PM
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As much as I don’t care for the feds, fuck the Branch Davidians
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:00 PM
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If they only show you the thin ones, you’ll run out of people to swipe on in an afternoon
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:59 PM
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Male rite of passage: reach 15-20 years old, struggle with dating, search for answers on the internet, and find ten million pieces of advice that read like this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:09 PM
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"your standards are unrealistic" and the standards are >30.0 BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:25 PM
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It depends on the circumstances for me. If she's cute and we share values/interests, I can overlook her being a little bit of a girlfailure tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:52 PM
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22
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:47 PM
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They should make more of those
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:18 PM
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most men are too afraid to queen out with their girlfriends and that’s why there’s a male loneliness epidemic Sorry ladies, guys can't get this silly with you because he gave you the ick because he used chapstick or something
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:47 PM
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Subtle?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:33 PM
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I'm watching a vtuber reacting to/reviewing two other vtubers flirting on stream. It's making me think about flirting as a concept. How did you learn how to flirt? How should an adult virgin/incel/introvert go about learning how to flirt? One of the things I hate about flirting/approaching women is feeling like I'm "targeting" her, singling her out, etc. I think I need to broaden my scope and focus on socializing well with everyone at the function so that when I do start "targeting" a girl A) I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:20 AM
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Ohhh I see, stuffed versions of actual animals lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:10 AM
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Actual animals make great gifts?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:52 AM
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Any good sex bot should be good enough for a massage, too, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:35 AM
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No but I think it's cute when girls do. I wanna date a squishmallow girl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:33 AM
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No more than men can be. It would be misogynistic to treat them special
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:20 PM
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They're not the only ones
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:02 PM
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Women say it, just not out loud. Actions louder than words, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:57 PM
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It's the same as accepting a drink from a man you are not interested in. It signals interest that isn't there. It's basically just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:25 PM
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Q 4 M you meet a woman but her feet are bigger than yours Wyd Unless they're comically enormous, I honestly might never notice. I dated a girl for ~1 year and I couldn't tell you if her feet were bigger or smaller than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:14 PM
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Elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:12 PM
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I think this is a way bigger factor in modern dating issues than many will admit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:03 PM
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And some of those simps are completely average looking guys, at least in their pfps. They should be out of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:02 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/s7qokd9k2mbe1.png?width=497&format=png&auto=webp&s=15965a3c0407fa22700d1e1c8e1e5cc6aebc4bef lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:00 PM
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Joe rogan tier gorilla brain
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:58 PM
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Easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:54 PM
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Yeah, but not every era has the same ratio of winners and losers. If you're a loser today it's perfectly plausible that you wouldn't have been a loser in a time when there were fewer losers/things were easier
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:16 PM
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Do you think they're wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:03 PM
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I wonder why there's really no femcel representation in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:54 PM
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I have no idea what this is trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:19 PM
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slippery slope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:10 PM
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It's okay I don't care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:13 PM
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It's okay, I have one of those faces
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:10 PM
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Fumbled again 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:09 PM
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It's a big sub, it got served on my front page
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:01 PM
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I think you have the wrong guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:01 PM
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Wait what did I do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:56 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/pm0kyq2jx0be1.png?width=348&format=png&auto=webp&s=59da5b6d5cf0c729ec3a2f60e13db4d34510f5b7
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:54 PM
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Update here because I can't post two attachments in one comment: turns out the person who made the blackpeopletwitter post mocking poly people is one of the mods lol https://preview.redd.it/0hg608p6w0be1.png?width=927&format=png&auto=webp&s=9542768262b6bab86b0479b309b78d96f8d71131
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:47 PM
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The point I was making was that you shouldn't mock other people based on stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:44 PM
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Pointing out bigoted hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:43 PM
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I don't see how any of that is relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:38 PM
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How is that stirring shit up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:33 PM
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I got banned from blackpeopletwitter because they didn't like me pointing out that black people are also targeted by smell-based stereotypes while they were busy mocking poly people lol https://preview.redd.it/i4ncox3bs0be1.png?width=1231&format=png&auto=webp&s=dfc0efd2d4e8980b51a41c2f1d038aa6b7ef6480
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:25 PM
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They also have positive reinforcement mixed in, or else they wouldn’t be fuckboys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:29 PM
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It’s not about winning or losing, it’s about human psychology and positive and negative reinforcement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:17 PM
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No it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:07 PM
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Asking women out is like playing a game show where you are presented with a thousand identical buttons. If you press a button, it has an undisclosed chance of either giving you an undisclosed amount of money or an electric shock of undisclosed severity. In theory there are strategies for picking which button to press that increase your chances of pressing a good one, but in practice, you just have to start pressing buttons and see what happens. Under this system, it’s only natural that people wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:05 PM
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No one likes a male coward. Girls can be as shy and anxious and demure as she likes and it will be neutral at worst and cute at best
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:47 PM
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I'm not red pill but 99% of the time on this sub I do speak in terms of male/female. I recognize and respect the rights of trans people to identify however they want to, but 99% of interactions between people in my life happen between cis men and cis women, so it's rarely relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:59 AM
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It's not predatory but it is weirdo behavior. They also sound like a child from the way they write
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:30 PM
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Having grown up in a rural area around a lot of country music fans, for many the answer is yes they would definitely call you a slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:49 PM
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Then your theory holds true even for that fictional character, because she was pretty normal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:48 PM
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I think that's a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:46 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/zz7su3oxwuae1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dedad51743b41d56bc9a46ab022ca2c8bae7e666 I could tolerate anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:41 PM
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Or something they'd like to believe is true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:38 PM
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I don’t think I would consider that flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:26 PM
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What do you mean by like a telemarketer?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:12 PM
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I believe she mentioned in another tweet that she's in a relationship with a girl who picked her up, so you're 100% correct
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:10 PM
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I tend to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:06 PM
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I went to a small rural high school. I hung out with a couple girls, asked a couple out, got rejected, and then I was out of options
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:03 PM
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That's like my least favorite part of them tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:01 PM
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Thoughts? https://preview.redd.it/wu5oplrtouae1.png?width=743&format=png&auto=webp&s=ee88b0e3b00b5e0d82731e6ec01f0ab3d9ab5729
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:55 PM
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The real question is, what percentage of men who struggle with dating fail to meet reasonable hygiene standards? We all know some men (and some women, for the record) who are slobs but still date. The real reason "get better hygiene, take a shower" is such common advice in dating subs is the just world fallacy. People subconsciously want to believe that life is fair and if a man struggles with dating, it's because of something he is doing to deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:06 PM
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I've played nearly 50 hours of Like a Dragon: Infinite Wealth since Christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:44 AM
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Why is she scared of treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:33 AM
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That kind of sexual frustration is just going to breed resentment long term. So you guys are just never going to have any kind of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:26 AM
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I feel like there's a misconception on THAT sub about what nice guys really are. The type of entitled jerk in that sub certainly exists, but they're far outnumbered by, well, actually normal lonely nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:25 AM
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Inherently gross or frequently gross? If my future wife is bi I'd love to try that out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:17 AM
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Hm, it do be like, doesn't it. I think that most of the people whose opinions I actually care about wouldn't think less of me for it but it'd definitely be a big factor to consider
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:14 AM
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I think there's a good chance I would be an escort if I was woman. I don't have any shameful hangups about sex and it seems like a pretty easy job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:42 AM
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That's not how it works with any other kind of trauma. That doesn't work for, like, veterans and fireworks for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:19 AM
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Anecdotal but I have actually been around one extended lesbian group because my best friend for a few years was a lesbian, and none of them struggled to date. It was a big city though, so it mostly solved the population issue. I can’t say the same for my male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:53 PM
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Fantasizing about finding a happy loving relationship feels more unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:46 PM
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It’s less impressive than a man sleeping with many women because gay women are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:42 PM
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I'll add it to the bucket list
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:40 AM
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I can't tell if you're joking but that sounds fun. I've only ever had sex drunk, and usually too drunk tbh. If I ever find a partner I want to experiment with that kind of thing more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:34 AM
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Are you speaking from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:26 AM
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I think that might be the ideal tbh. Close enough for an easy-ish visit, far enough to not be smothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:54 AM
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I'm still kid undecided, no serious relationship but that's the goal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:54 AM
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How far away do you live from your family? I'm coming to a stage in my life where it's time to decide where I'm gonna live long term and it's a tough decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:42 AM
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Yeah, I don't blame you. It's where my whole family lives though, so it's hard for me to justify living so far away anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:37 AM
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Not a fan of the midwest I take it? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:18 AM
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I live in New York but I'm likely moving back to the Midwest this summer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:09 AM
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I think you're probably overestimating, but what does it matter anyway? It's only temporary and you're already very thin
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:09 AM
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I don't see how that's possible. I don't think you're a very objective observer of your own body
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:52 AM
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Why a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:49 AM
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To make what stop? The exaggerating? Or body obsession?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:44 AM
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Even if there was as real chance, I'm too embarrassed by my mopey incel posting on this account lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:44 AM
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You're exaggerating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:38 AM
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5'10" ✅ mostly healthy lifestyle— not overweight, on drugs, constantly eating junk, etc college degree ✅ politically engaged✅ likes animals✅ average face✅ prefers a chill lifestyle instead of going out and doing extreme activities all the time✅ values commitment and stability✅ affectionate✅ not a tradcon or manosphere type✅ Southern accent blue eyes✅ Damn, I got 10/12. If I quit the junk food and went to a voice coach I could be your perfect match
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:37 AM
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What flavor
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:28 PM
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I’ll take your word for it, I’ve never experienced this as the smeller or smellee
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:27 PM
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A quick shower, maybe, but I don’t think that’s really true for a normal shower
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:58 PM
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Early 20s is 100% valid age range to start worrying about singledom as a man. For men, if things aren’t heading in a positive direction relationships-wise at that point, nothing is going to change unless we make it change
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:41 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:35 PM
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How would this be an obstacle if he showers every time he goes out?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:34 PM
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New insecurity unlocked
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:33 PM
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At a certain point it’s not fear of missing out, it’s just “missed out”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:03 PM
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From what you've indicated in this thread, anyone pressuring you to lose weight is delusional and you should utterly ignore them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:26 AM
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She looks the best out of all them but she's also probably the least fat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:07 AM
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<image> All two of the women I have dated/slept with in my life were way above average
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:05 AM
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I think you just aren't differentiating between "ugly" and "not your type"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:55 AM
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That shirt color looks terrible with his hair and skin tone, this guy's gotta wear dark colors 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:52 AM
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I'm way hotter than that white guy, social anxiety is all that stood between me and chad-lite life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:51 AM
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Are we psychically connected
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:42 AM
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Good luck, genuinely. It seems like handicapping yourself for little to no gain, though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:38 AM
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People will point to outliers to deflect
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:37 AM
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I don't think we're really disagreeing on anything here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:36 AM
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After a lot of strenuous activity, not after walking up the stairs to the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:18 AM
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Given the same level of physical activity, the 108lb lady is gonna have an easier time than a 208lb+ one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:18 AM
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Like, 5-10% fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:06 AM
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Note to self: don't be 40 pounds overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:04 AM
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You think the average woman is even hornier than the average man? On what planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:00 AM
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The 19-21BMI guy is my favorite because we agree in principle but his standard is way more extreme than mine (like idk 20-25 is fine), so he makes mine look more reasonable by comparison. I'm thankful for his service in shifting the overton window, however slightly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:55 AM
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This is like saying a piss kink isn't really about wanting to be pissed on, it's about domination and humiliation. Which is true, but it's still a piss kink, and a rape kink is still about being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:25 AM
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Good news for men with a raping kink (hypothetically)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:24 AM
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My PP is safe from fat women, but unfortunately, thin and average women are also safe from my PP
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:18 AM
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childhood sweethearts, high school sweethearts, college sweethearts, childhood friends who started dating as adults. Bleak for adult virgins/incels
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:12 AM
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>Both genders have burdens of performance Maybe so, but I maintain that this one is uniquely male. No guy is ever going to care that his wife struggled to date in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:07 AM
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Hence "least worst" option.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:04 AM
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Being an entrepreneur isn't cringe but most entrepreneurs are individually cringe, and the rest share that association
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:54 AM
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Woman mostly for novelty. Assuming I'm born in the west still lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:54 AM
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>that jaw They might not be completely looksmatched but they're pretty close
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:53 AM
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He's not that ugly. He's like perfectly average
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:52 AM
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Here's a uniquely male experience: if I ever find a partner, I will probably have to lie about why I've been single for my entire twenties, including three years living alone in a major city. Telling the truth about struggling with confidence and socializing is only going to diminish me in her eyes. My best (least worst) option will be to say something like "I was focusing on school/career the whole time". I'll also have to lie about dating apps, if the topic ever comes up. "Oh yeah, my male and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:47 AM
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Sleeping with 1000000 people is definitely worse than happening to catch an STD the first time you have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:26 AM
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Not very church like of him tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:25 AM
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Probably some kind of unicorn who likes me back and shares some of my interests and hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:24 AM
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99.9% for fun, 0.01% for the off chance that we fall in love, get married and tell people we "met online" but don't specify where
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:06 AM
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I would flirt with women in these threads but they're just going to look through my comment history and get turned off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:59 AM
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First, I'll wonder if I'm dyslexic. Then, eh, whatever, chlamydia is curable with antibiotics, so what's the worst that could happen? (disclaimer: I've never had chlamydia)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:57 AM
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I would flirt with women in these threads but they're just going to look through my comment history and get turned off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:55 AM
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Do you know any men who are craftsmen (potters, carpenters, etc)? Are they knee deep in offers from women? Do you think this is an example of survivorship bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:48 AM
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They were afraid people would try to spring him lol And tbh I think they were right to be
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:10 AM
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Only if you enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:11 AM
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Are ladies nights feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:24 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:10 AM
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2019, I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:23 AM
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Sure I'll take that link
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:52 AM
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I vaguely remember that post. It got removed? What was the justification? And does anyone have screenshots?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:33 AM
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Depends on what percent of her income that is, but I'm guessing from your tone it's not a small one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:04 AM
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It's my last assignment for the semester from a pretty chill professor in a gen ed class, so I'm not too worried about it. Gonna be a long night though...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:25 AM
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I don't know, I haven't read the prompt
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:16 AM
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I have an essay due tonight (technically tomorrow, but I'm flying home tomorrow), and I haven't started yet. It's 9pm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:05 AM
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These days the patriarchy might be hurting men more than women (in the west)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:46 PM
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I would trade shelter for pussy 10 times out of 10
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:42 AM
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I went to a couple anime cons solo the past couple years but it felt very awkward trying to start conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:56 AM
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If there weren't any other major issues, I think I'd be able to handle that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:19 AM
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He followed rules 1 and 2
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:53 AM
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I bet I have an idea why
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:14 AM
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They need to invent cigarettes that don't kill you. But unfortunately that might be what makes them sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:53 AM
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By Syria?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:53 AM
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Older Ciri looks weird. I don't think she's particularly attractive or unattractive, but her face doesn't really look like an older version of Witcher 3 Ciri's face
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:23 AM
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Gigastacy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:23 PM
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I only got five hours of sleep last night and I’m trying to push through to a normal bedtime tonight so i don’t further mess up my sleep schedule. Desperate urge to nap rn even though I know I only ever wake up from naps feeling more tired…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:17 PM
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Was your cat raised from birth? Mine is a former stray so I don’t think he’s as prone to loneliness, just boredom. Even when I’m home he’s not very clingy/affectionate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:31 PM
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Women will see this and call it a dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:18 PM
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How long is it acceptable to leave a cat alone in an apartment with a once daily drop in cat sitter? I feel bad about leaving my cat alone for about 25 days even though I’ll be paying out the nose for someone to drop by and check on him and play with him once a day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:17 PM
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Funny how the tone changes at this point in the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:14 PM
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You lucked out, there’s probably only like 100 dudes who fit those criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:51 AM
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likes me Female Attractive (optional) Not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:50 AM
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Isn't she just saying that couples should be flirty/sexy with each other frequently even if it doesn't lead to sex 100% of the time? Men should be happy with that state of affairs if it leads to more sex overall
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:55 AM
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Flip side is being cannabalized by people who take your time, love and genuine effort only to reward you with either betrayal or “why won’t you give me more?” when you’re exhausted I think this exactly what I'm talking about in reverse. I can understand how that's terrible on an intellectual level but it's such an alien concept to me, without having experience it, that I don't think I can *truly* empathize with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:52 AM
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I'll take this guys 100 person orgy then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:39 AM
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i do kind of see what they are saying with her feeling guilty she didn't give all the guys "a good time," and interpreting that as not consensual. Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:31 AM
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I think it's only depressing if she's actually sad about it and the tears weren't like an endorphin rush or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:30 AM
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I think it's actually kind of crazy the lack of empathy that women and normie men have for non-misogynist incels. Like, usually the most you can get out of them is a banal "yeah, being lonely sucks" usually qualified with something like "but everybody feels like that sometimes". Going many years or even your whole life so far without romantic connection, the creeping fear that increases with every passing year that you may actually be alone forever... it's a profound sense of sadness and isolati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:29 AM
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Being able to choose to be attracted to fat girls would unironically improve my life 100x at least
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:13 AM
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Good evidence in this thread to act on these beliefs if you have them but then take them to your grave
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:59 PM
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If I start cheating too, is this just polyamory?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:27 PM
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Literally described Trumpism to a T lol. OP is purely projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:26 PM
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Women really want to be included though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:35 PM
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Women keep rejecting him for less attractive emotionally intelligent guys with lots of hobbies /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:17 PM
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The hoe_math “not people zone”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:02 PM
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I want to hold and be held
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:30 PM
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There’s a pretty big difference between flirting between two single people and flirting between two people in a relationship. In the latter case you already know your partner is into you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:29 PM
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Are you a bear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:25 PM
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OP is sabotaging the competition
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:24 PM
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I got one a while ago and it does feel better than my hand but not so much better that’s it’s worth the hassle of cleaning it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:56 PM
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Can confirm, I’ve never talked about dating struggles or loneliness with any of my female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:52 PM
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Why should we care
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:21 PM
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Have you dated any men that were friends with you for months before they asked you out? Have any of your female friends done so?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:21 PM
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Sounds like she could use a little exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:48 PM
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Men who can do that are rare, women who can do that are not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:52 PM
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For me, I think "the best relationship possible" involves sharing porn with each other. I like porn, a woman who's truly compatible with me would probably also like porn. Most of the porn I like is drawn or written, though, so I don't think it has the same negative effects you think traditional porn does
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:09 AM
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Talking to a woman without wanting to have sex with her is the opposite of simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:45 PM
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One side obviously has it much easier lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:34 PM
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Another guy just went for an unoriginal dinner date that was cliché Another time she bumped into her friend who was on another bumble date making things awkward Womens' dating problems include being taken on dinner dates and running into friends. Truly they have it so hard :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:32 PM
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First?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:02 AM
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Even if you really had a connection? There's always someone better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:17 AM
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Cute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:04 AM
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Out of it being too invasive or just not wanting to get nicked? I feel like a partner would have easier access for one thing, it's hard to reach down there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:04 AM
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Can't argue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:01 AM
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This type of response is honestly surprising to me. I expected the responses to be either "no I don't want to shave at all" or "sure, less work for me". I didn't expect multiple women to say "yes I do want to shave but I prefer to do it myself"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:54 AM
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Free spa day for you then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:45 AM
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I wasn't really thinking in terms of "would it be embarassing for a bf to this", moreso "if you find it rude/wrong/imposing for a bf to want his gf to shave, is it less rude/wrong/imposing if he offers to do it himself"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:33 AM
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Yeah it really represents the universal real answer which is "it depends on your partner"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:21 AM
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This is encouraging lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:20 AM
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What if you don't like it better natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:20 AM
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It seems like it's generally seen as a negative for a man to prefer his partner to keep their body hair shaved. Ladies, would you view a man who wants his partner to keep shaved better if he offers to groom her himself? Like, "oh I'll give you a spa day every couple weeks, draw you a bath, wash your hair, and shave everything myself." I think that bathing each other is cute and intimate, and I generally dislike body hair on women so it seems like a win-win
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:05 AM
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If heaven and hell are real, we all know where he's going
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:24 AM
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It was a text based game, it was mental sexual stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:46 AM
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Is it any different from a single woman "substituting" a real intimate relationship with romance novels about pirates or biker gangs or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:13 PM
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What’s horrendous about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:56 PM
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I prefer the term “hopeless romantic”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:16 AM
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I was playing an erotic furry text RPG full of sexual deviancy of all kinds the other day, as one does, when I unexpectedly found myself following a quest line where you meet nice, cute, shy, introverted girl who likes to reading romance novels and baking. It was a slow burn where you talk and flirt, go on walks and hold hands, then go on candle lit dinner dates and eventually get married and have kids. This experience made me feel incredibly sad and lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:03 AM
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Would your male friends and relatives feel safe expressing that opinion to you, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:51 PM
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Beating your partners (impact play, canes, belts, whips, etc) is like the #1 most common kink
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:01 AM
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We're both on the same page that it would be casual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:37 PM
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I went to a party a few nights ago and got handsy with a girl for the first time in like 5 years. I thought it would make me happier, but the fact that she's a single mom and like 8 years older than me makes it feel less... validating, I guess. Even though she's asian and I thought she was younger than me at first. She didn't want to go further because I don't have a recent std test. She doesn't know that there's no chance of me having an std because I've been involuntarily celibate for years, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:06 PM
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He was the only non-british man in the area
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:50 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:18 PM
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The segment of men who want a traditional relationship but still want to split the bill is much much smaller than the segment of women who want an egalitarian relationship but DON'T want to split the bill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:26 PM
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Maybe in Bumfuck, Tennessee but in civilization it’s neutral to positive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:30 PM
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best I can do is patronizing platitudes and an annoying DM
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:32 AM
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I mostly don't but it's 1am and I'm lightly drunk which makes me flirty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:08 AM
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ohhhhh no way we have so much in common
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:57 AM
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You saw my other comment first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:54 AM
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I'll go marry a horse girl and we can trade
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:53 AM
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I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:52 AM
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I can't talk about this shit anywhere else I'll get called transphobic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:45 AM
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Interesting, I think that holds true in my experience as well. also you're the second person with an asuka avatar to reply to me tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:44 AM
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Related to my last comment but a slightly different thought: sometimes on twitter or reddit or occasionally even IRL I'll see a girl expressing interest in something traditionally male coded like anime or video games and I'll be like "oh cool hell yeah" and then moments later I'll be like "wait, that's a trans woman isn't it", and sure enough, it frequently is. As a straight guy who doesn't want to date trans women, I think this is my brain subconsciously going through the "is this an ideal part…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:39 AM
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I'm beginning to think this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:28 AM
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If you asked me that unprompted, I would probably say "yeah I guess"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:23 AM
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That's cheating /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:20 AM
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cis women are better artists?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:20 AM
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why do you think you guessed that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:20 AM
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That could definitely be a factor. I can see why someone who feels they were born a woman but lived as a man would "overcorrect" like that, intentionally or otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:17 AM
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What gives it away? I thought the same but can't figure out why
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:13 AM
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Without looking at the creator's account or reading the next paragraph first, what kind of person do you think made this comic? !I cannot explain how or why, but somehow I knew from this comic that the creator was a trans woman. I have no idea what it is, but something about this comic makes my brain subconsciously think "this was not made by a cis woman". !<
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:10 AM
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Says the woman who just made an entire thread ranting about basic men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:39 PM
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Ask about her interests "So... uh... you like travelling? And uh... dogs? And The Office?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:57 PM
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Where I live dating apps are saturated with men. It's like 9 men for every woman on an app. Oh you also live on Planet Earth? What a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:51 PM
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We agree that most men aren't attractive enough to pull that off. we disagree that any o f the other things you suggest are going to do anything, because we've been doing them for years and they don't work. Men should either become attractive enough to "pull that off" or just get off the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:41 PM
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And there are also thousands of 5'4 men with normal photos and normal bios that you also didn't match with. Your guy got lucky, most don't
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:28 PM
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Good lighting, good angles, showing hobbies, showing pics at events or clubs when we’re trying our hardest to look good, et Is this what you think the average woman's profile loos like? You could take any 10 women's profiles and you would be hard pressed to find a single hobby among them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:22 PM
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I did that. It didn't change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:09 PM
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I had two female friends take over my account, once. They took and chose all of my pictures adn and wrote most of my profile. I stildidn't get any matches
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:05 PM
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That's 99% of what I saw too, I'm in a big city though so there's a few cute ones. Whether or not they're real is another story though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:04 AM
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I find some trans women attractive, but I've never thought I would date one because I'm not that into them. I saw some trans girl on twitter talking about using grindr so I thought what the hell and tried it out. I thought maybe I would stand a better chance than straight dating apps because trans girls on grindr would be used to creepy old chasers, so I would stand out just by being normal. It felt weird not needing to match to send a message. It also felt easier, lower pressure, probably becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:04 AM
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It's easy to be comfortable while single when you know you can find a relationship at the drop of a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:30 PM
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A fire hose that you have complete control over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:28 PM
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... that sounds like initial attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:39 PM
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No, but out of all the times she's liked being approached, they have all been tall
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:53 PM
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Practice the same kick 10,000 times?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:51 PM
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She gets approached 3x a week and ALL of them are creepy except for one who just so happens to be tall? You don't think there's anything going on there?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:50 PM
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It do be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:47 PM
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Totally agreed, but it would be nice if she and women like her could just be honest about that instead of blaming the men's approaching skills at best or demonizing them as creeps at worst
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:46 PM
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I'm not saying 100% of the guys who approached her before were short, but I am noting that 100% of the guys she was receptive to was tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:22 PM
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I'm not saying it's the only factor, but she gets approached 3x a week and literally the ONLY time she's ever been "very happily receptive", he just so happened to be "a good bit taller". Surely it's just a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:21 PM
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From dating advice: 26F and recently, a man approached me in a way that I was very happily receptive to, for the first time ever. This says a lot, because I probably get approached in one shape or form maybe up to 3x a week, and not one has ever felt right. Here’s what this guy did right: ... ..... he was a good bit taller than me .... Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:37 PM
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Just World Fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:03 PM
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"Hey, I always have a great time hanging out with you. I think you're cute and I'd love to see you more. I'm doing ___ thing next week, and it'd be great to have you there as a date. No pressure if you're not interested or you're busy, but think about it and let me know if you're interested, here's my number. See you around." I can't articulate why but this is cringe as hell to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:09 PM
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I see no problem with pursuing escorts if you can mentally get past the fact they’re interested in your money and not for who you are. For a lot of men, it’s a boner kill. I would not be interested in a relationship with a guy who has had a history of escorts though. These two opinions seem contradictory
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:19 PM
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The kind of older dudes who say they love younger women for their souls and can have great conversations with them are probably having quiet relationships with one younger woman at a time, and thus you are exposed to them less than the lecherous types you're complaining about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:09 PM
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Neutral sex IS unwanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:46 PM
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His imagination is available 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:46 PM
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This is just you agreeing with him then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:18 PM
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Humans are naturally hardwired to desire sexual variety
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:15 PM
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Some women are obsessed with rape and will work it into any unrelated conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:34 AM
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If the average woman rejected men more, she would still likely find a relationship. If the average man rejected women more (whether that's rejection women who approach, which never happens, or more likely simply approaching women less), he will likely never find a relationship. The two situations are not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:26 PM
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If Ric really loves her, he should have an intervention before she eats herself into an early grave
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:55 AM
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I gagged
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:45 AM
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The definition of “Infidelity” isn’t “finding sexual pleasure anywhere but your partner”, it’s about breaking your partners trust. That’s why it’s called sexual infidelity, and other types of infidelity exist. Marriage, or LTRs, are agreements and they don’t all have the same terms. If two partners agree that they shouldn’t watch porn and one does so, then that’s infidelity, but if two partners agree that they can have sex with whoever they want on the third weekend of the month, that isn’t infi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:18 PM
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If anything it should make it easier to find an LTR, because people who are not serious about dating but seek LTRs for sex will be removed the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:54 PM
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Don’t threaten me with a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:48 PM
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“ it reduces the motivation of people to get into relationships”. Self report? I would be lying if I said that having sex wasn’t one motivating factor for wanting a relationship, but it’s not the only one and not the main one. I want love, romance, a best friend, a partner. Even if I was having all of my sexual desires satisfied by friends (or escorts or strangers or whomever), I would still want a relationship just as strongly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:47 PM
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I only have an old/inactive instagram account, if I do that it will probably make me look boring and friendless. My plan was just to chat before/after class a couple of times to break the ice then ask her out for coffee and go from there. I guess I'll have to ask for her number then but ideally it won't feel like it's completely out of the blue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:57 PM
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There's a cute girl in one of my classes. I want to try to talk to her but after class she speeds out, all the other students are slow as hell and I don't want to chase her down like a hyena, and before class I was too nervous be direct, sit next to her and chat. I will try again next class though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:22 PM
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It's reassuring to see another normal looking guy struggle on the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:49 PM
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Sounds like a goth son
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:30 PM
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The wealthy or European youngsters, anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:28 PM
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Another way to put it: most men will never have a woman feel sexually attracted to them in the same way that men feel sexually attracted to women (lust)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:26 PM
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I'm amazed you have more than one person in your life who even knows who John Carmack is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:21 PM
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Ugly guy: "we have nothing in common" Hot guy: "omg we have so much in common he likes the beatles"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:05 PM
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"How did you solve it?" "By solving it"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:09 AM
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No, but I am correct in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:24 PM
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That's not what that means lol. I grew up religious, I'm perfectly aware that "fear the lord" means "FEAR the lord".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:44 PM
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Has to fear the Lord and love the Lord Religious brainwashing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:41 PM
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Religious brainwashing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:22 PM
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Who said anything about 5'4" 160lbs? That's a 27.5 BMI, not 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:01 PM
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It's crazy how many problems are solved with this one little trick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:35 PM
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Nerdy / Not Fat / Single. Pick two. Story of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:01 PM
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A 5'4", 128lb, 22 BMI woman is not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:43 PM
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It's true, a woman with a 22 BMI is weeks away from death /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:02 AM
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This comment is legitimately evil lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:05 PM
2

Like smoke weed and play video games or drink wine and watch tiktok for nine hours a day
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:47 PM
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The two are not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:09 AM
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"For every man doing hard work to improve his appearance there are two women doing easy work to improve theirs". Wow, profound
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:28 PM
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I don't know why you're bending over backwards to make this sound evil. All people have preferences in physical attraction, sometimes people fall in love with partners who don't fit 100% of those preferences, and sometimes cosmetic operations can change those features. It doesn't seem that profound to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:34 PM
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There's more to love than physical appearance, shitlord
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:07 PM
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If there's an easy* cosmetic surgery that would automatically make me more attractive in the eyes of the woman I love, and we have the disposable income for it, I can't imagine NOT taking it. *Idk anything about boob jobs, but regardless the principle still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:06 PM
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Ideal body types did not exist before porn, clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:50 PM
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In a "we're all gods children with beautiful souls" kind of way, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:49 PM
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It’s that a cosmetics brand?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:50 PM
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Obesity ages people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:40 PM
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You, for some reason, in response to lonely men desperately seeking a crumb of platonic or romantic connection: "fucking sex fiends"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:28 PM
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Me personally I wouldn't really want to attached to someone I thought was going to burn in hell for all eternity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:35 AM
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Perhaps you should be consistent in your principles then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:54 PM
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Consent was not being discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:50 PM
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Time to change your flair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:52 PM
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"For men, sexual performance pressure is sexual performance pressure. For women it's [list of things that aren't sexual performance pressure]"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:43 PM
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Women 👏 don't 👏 wear 👏 make 👏 up 👏 for 👏 men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:42 PM
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I love sugar
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:44 PM
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Everything I hear about him so far makes me like him more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:31 PM
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That’s 99% of women in the west lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:52 PM
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aw you're so cool and edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:38 PM
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The supreme court doesn't care about the constitution though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:48 AM
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Do you feel the same way about germany?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:38 PM
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At this point I think that's just racism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:39 AM
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I'm not saying that no women struggle with dating, simply that it is significantly less common than it is for men. Obviously neither of us is going to convince the other by saying "actually it's X% of women and Y% of men", but I'd bet if you asked your social circle what dating has really been like for them throughout their lives, the men would report a lot more struggle than the women, in aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:03 PM
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I see women who don’t think it’s normal to not be able to date at all This IS downplaying dating for men. Yes, yes, most men eventually find a relationship or two and eventually get married, but it's certainly normal for men to go long spans of time without being able to get dates even when actively wanting to do so, and it's unquestionably more common for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:56 PM
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Except for dominance, none of that is masculine or feminine coded. Those are all just descriptors of interest. No man is gonna see is gf initiate sex and be like "wow this is so masculine of her"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:56 PM
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It's not much of a burn to say that men are 10x fatter than they should be when women are 9x fatter than they should be
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:44 PM
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It's not the same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:40 PM
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Most South Korean male youth wear makeup and are gamer nerds. They serve 18 months in the military. Most North Koreans work their asses off in fields and don’t own a computer. They serve 10 - 13 years in the military. It's the 21st century. No serious military conflict is going to be decided by who has the manlier and tradpilled soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:31 PM
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this image legitimately made me nauseous for a second
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:31 PM
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The uterus in a non-pregnant woman is tiny, soft, and situated behind the bladder and intestines. It's definitely not visible, no matter how little body fat there is. There are dozens of r/badwomensanatomy posts discussing this myth, or you could just image search female marathon runners and ask yourself why none of them seem to have a uterus
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:49 PM
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You cannot see the uterus through the abdomen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:56 AM
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Women like her are the reason men aren’t willing to discuss their feelings and struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:59 PM
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Women feel like they have to be charming?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:23 AM
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Trying to get “man over bear” supporters to say “it’s hyperbole, women wouldn’t/shouldn’t literally choose the bear” has been like pulling teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:32 PM
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Let's see her without the shaping elastic pants lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:12 AM
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That's just naive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:58 PM
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Despite appearances, the supreme court has no idea and/or doesn't give shit about what is or isn't constitutional
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:31 PM
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Downloading french duolingo ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:25 PM
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Men face the same potential outcome with fewer initial options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:49 PM
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What percentage of the male population of your school would you suppose that offender comprises? More or less than 1%?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:53 AM
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The vast, vast, vast majority of men have never committed a rape and are not "48 hours in the woods" away from doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:17 PM
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Do you seriously live your life under the assumption that the only thing keeping Bill from accounting from raping or murdering you is the presence of witnesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:13 PM
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How many grizzly bear encounters have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:11 PM
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True crime has poisoned the brains of any woman who would pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:25 PM
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Why save a small percentage of a low salary as an 18-25yo when you could save a higher percentage of a higher salary when you get a real job?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:45 PM
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I wonder what their height preference is compared to the height distribution in their region, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:15 PM
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Casual relationships are a type of relationship. Should we draw you a venn diagram or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:49 PM
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Imagine one day a new 19 year old intern comes in with the appearance and personality of a 30 year old. He looks old for his age, talks about politics and art and harry potter or whatever millenials are into, drives a modest car, volunteers at the soup kitchen, maxes out his Roth IRA and goes to bed at 9pm. Would you be willing to date this person? If you say yes, then you're not really opposed to dating younger men. If you say no, then it isn't really the "childish" behavior of the regular inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:46 PM
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Having a fling with an attractive woman a decade older than me is the WORST thing I can imagine /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:41 PM
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Consider two scenarios: 1.) Early 20s man goes to bar, meets a woman. They are mutually attracted to each other, have things in common, hit it off. He finds out she's actually 18 but he doesn't immediately cut contact and just starts dating her like he would another early 20s woman. 2.) Early 20s man has a thing for 18 year olds, prowls around college bars, ignores all the older looking women and only tries to proposition the young ones. If he finds out a girl he's connecting with is actually 25…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:40 PM
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It's incredibly hard to find a relationship OR sex as a young straight man, so only having the one problem seems like an unmitigated improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:13 PM
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Your experience may be an outlier. I've frequently heard of the opposite experience occurring: bisexual women who are used to having an easy time dating men (don't have to approach, don't have to put in as much effort, lots of potential suitors), then start dating women and learning that it's not a walk in the park to try to do so, even as a woman. I'm not a bisexual woman and I haven't exactly done any scientific studies, so I can't tell you which is actually more common, but I can say that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:12 PM
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Have you seen a woman's first message lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:12 AM
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Stop treating chatgpt like the fucking oracle of delphi. It did not say that 21% of women are age 18-35 because it consulted the available data. It said that because it sounds like a string of words that make sense in that order.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:33 PM
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Oh, so accountability is only for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:28 PM
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Accountability is if you have a kid you take care of it and provide for it ... so, no abortions, ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:34 PM
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Not by that much, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:30 PM
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Hyper focusing on the negativity constantly rules over positivity for them, I suppose that is human nature. Yeah I guess so. I think it's also a perspective you can only arrive at if you never experienced true scarcity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:42 PM
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Obviously I was not trying to say that the messages are automatically deleted from your inbox lol. I was just saying that they are automatically filtered out from your dating pool, because you can just delete their messages and sort through the remaining 60+ normal messages at your leisure. Men would kill to have this level of regular access to potential partners, even if it meant 1/3rd of them came with dick picks or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:20 PM
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"I got over 100 messages and a third of them filtered themselves out automatically" What's the problem here exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:39 PM
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This is just sex negativity from men. If you don't view sex as a degrading act for the receptive partner, you don't have this problem. In other words, skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:26 PM
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Yes and no. A lifetime of romantic isolation motivates me to want to permanently settle down with a good partner at the first opportunity. If I had had reasonable romantic success over the course of my life, I might be more willing to have casual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:47 PM
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She looks like she is clinically obese, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:44 PM
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incredibly blackpilling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:43 PM
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Exactly, so if there are fewer good, normal weight options, then their value as partners will increase proportionally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:58 PM
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Show me someone with a 30+ BMI and I'll show you either an obese person or a bodybuilder. And there isn't a bodybuilding epidemic, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:57 PM
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Which men? The podcasters themselves? Maybe. The listeners? Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:37 PM
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Is everyone who doesn’t fit your preferences shitty or just that group? I’d appreciate it if all the fat chicks got off the apps so I didn’t have to filter through them but I don’t think that makes them shitty people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:32 AM
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Exactly. Game for women can be as simple as "put a single ounce of effort or interest into the conversation"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:08 PM
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That's not game
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:05 PM
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You don’t have to date ugly guys but don’t pretend that filtering out ugly guys is a safety measure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:03 PM
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Do you think ugly guys are more dangerous or something? Standards have nothing to do with safety vetting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:26 PM
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Isn't "women and society" a longwinded way of saying "men and women" or just "society"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:57 AM
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I don't think my feminine female friends would appreciate being called butch
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:55 AM
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"Third space" doesn't just mean "place where you can ask people out". It's about access to regular free/low cost social interaction. The bank lobby doesn't become a third space just because you got the receptionist's number.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:03 PM
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People are saying it in this very thread, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:23 PM
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maybe we can take turns /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:08 PM
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women have responsive desire. This isn't libido
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:04 PM
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I’ll never get understand stranger dates. You don’t know anything about them This is like saying "I don't understand going to art class, you don't know anything about painting". The point of art class is to learn to paint, the point of dating is to get to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:27 PM
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Uh, yeah, I'm not worried about living up to someone in the air force lol Unless he was a pilot, but officer wives are out of my league anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:00 AM
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There's still an uncanny valley effect to them that makes them look wrong. Maybe they're convincing if you cross your eyes. Still very impressive to see how well it understands the prompts, very interested to see how it advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:41 AM
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Assuming suicide is not an option, Rebecca, but it's a tough choice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:37 AM
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You can only (successfully) advertise the traits you have that are positive, not the ones you WISH were positive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:16 AM
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Given that the threshold for who a man will fling with is lower than who he will marry, that seems unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:55 AM
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Same as everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:44 AM
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Then you'll grow out of your ben shapiro phase
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:43 AM
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Okay grandpa lets get you to bed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:40 AM
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Religious indoctrination from birth is bad mmmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:49 AM
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Does having sex with someone you’re actively dating count as hooking up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:07 AM
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Todays society would look down on someone using a sex robot, but consider how different todays society is from society 50 years ago and imagine how different it will be in another 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:56 PM
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“I’m sure people who spend $500 on a video game console so they can repeatedly shoot and stab people pose no threat to society whatsoever”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:53 PM
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Plenty of people who grew up with half siblings and step siblings didn't have any issue with it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:00 AM
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Are women psychic? Are they reading my comment history? Or is this just a post-hoc justification?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:58 AM
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You gotta make something work for you if your face ain't doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:00 PM
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Of course it's a gradient, but it doesn't matter if there's a gradient when a woman's selection criteria is filtering for a single type
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:59 PM
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Selection bias
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:56 PM
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Pathetic, waterboarding wouldn't get this out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:56 AM
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why would you marry someone you aren't willing to merge finances with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:31 AM
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What? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:28 AM
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Women don't know how lucky they are to be able to date decent men who aren't swarmed by potential partners. They don't believe this is true. The only men they're willing to date are the top fraction who are also swarmed by potential partners, so women feel like its an even playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:27 AM
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"A Guide for Men -- How to Ensure You're Alone Forever"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:35 PM
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not in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:19 AM
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Maybe for blind people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:53 PM
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looking up at you its joever for short kings RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:56 AM
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The only reliable sign women show of attraction towards a man, short of explicitly stating her interest, is her continued responsiveness to his escalating advances, ie he approaches and she responds positively, he starts flirting, she responds positively, etc, etc. All other potential signs women use, consciously or unconsciously, are effectively indistinguishable from kindness and politeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:55 AM
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Surprised not to see astrology mentioned yet. Few things make me lose respect for a person faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:31 PM
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I like Taylor Swift and believe in astrology 🎵 one of these things is not like the other 🎵
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:45 PM
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It's true that alcohol reduces anxiety and makes socializing easier, but it also makes socializing more enjoyable even for non-anxious people with no trouble socializing. It's a win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:43 PM
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I have zero interest in going on a date with someone I don't already know and haven't vetted. True crime and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race. Getting coffee with someone IS vetting them, or at least the first step in the process. ​ Someone being physically attractive is not what I consider "the basic level". Your brain makes that judgement before you're even aware of it. It may not be the highest priority after weighing all factors, but it's certainly the most basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:48 AM
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And we know their interpretation of events is accurate, because they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:42 AM
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you know absolutely nothing about me other than my looks/appearance Yes, but this is not a bad thing. It's simply an invitation to get to know each other. The entire subtext of a cold approach is: "Hi, I find you physically attractive. If you find me physically attractive back, then at least know we are compatible on the most basic level. I would like to invite you to the process of finding out if our personalities are also compatible (aka dating)".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:21 AM
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many women are highly intuitive. if women you don’t know are getting creeped out by you a lot, there might be some truth there. Highly controversial toxically masculine ultra sigma red pill hot take incoming: women aren't psychic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:13 AM
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Going with a group of friends can be fun. Going alone is a snorefest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:05 AM
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... are they? I've seen a lot of men shamed for not being able to get a woman off, I'm not sure I've ever really seen the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:23 AM
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The vast majority of men don't even have enough experience to gauge good vs bad performance from a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:35 PM
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Men should just pull themselves up by their bootstraps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:23 PM
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Anecdotal, but I've never had a sexual encounter where a woman volunteered any information about how they prefer to have sex. All of that was either completely nonverbal or had to be drawn out by me asking. If I either wasn't good at reading their responses or didn't care enough to ask/try, they probably wouldn't have gotten off, and because all the burden of good sex is on the man, I would have been "at fault". TLDR: women need to advocate for themselves if they want to get off. you can't just …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:17 PM
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Virtually every scientific study on happiness concludes that the number one most significant predictor of people reporting higher happiness is strong relationships, whether its family, friends, or romantic partners. The aspiring writer with a desk job and long happy marriage who never got that manuscript finished is going to be happier than the lonely successful author like 99% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:11 PM
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Being ugly is behavior in the abstract sense, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:55 PM
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Demonization of male sexuality is extremely real. Once you recognize this, you start seeing it everywhere. A completely identical statement or conversation can be acceptable from a woman but "creepy" from a man, simply because people see male sexuality as inherently negative, a bad thing that women allow men to do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:54 PM
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Modern therapy isn't a silver bullet for all mental health issues. Even before things like access and affordability, modern therapy techniques are simply less appealing and less effective for men than they are for women (don't take my word for it, take it from a therapist). Men should still seek therapy when possible, sure, but the simple fact that therapy exists is not a conversation ender for the entire topic of the loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:24 PM
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Sadness that turns into anger. The sadness is still the root cause. Happy secure men aren't logic-ing their way into misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:13 PM
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because that’s literally the only solution. This is ridiculous. You can only come to this conclusion by refusing to even make an attempt to imagine potential solutions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:06 PM
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I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:05 PM
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But it wasn't like a flip of a switch. we've been getting progressively fatter that whole time, and these issues have been getting progressively worse on the same timeline
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:57 AM
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Nature, by definition, doesn't do anything by intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:36 AM
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Some things are more than the sum of their parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:14 AM
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I don't think sexual is the right word but there is an intimacy to it beyond what I feel when hugging other men. I don't think there's any harm in that as long as you don't go out of your way to hug your female friends too much, try to hug female friends you're not that close with, or otherwise somehow make it weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:03 AM
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North Carolina? Actually maybe some prices are too steep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:25 PM
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I don't think it's entirely their fault. Due to a lot of different factors, going out regularly to build and maintain a social network requires more effort, more time and more money for less of a return than it ever did in previous decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:22 PM
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It made think that perhaps, guys dropping back on approaching has actually begun to affect a balancing reaction....? It would be nice but I'm not holding my breath. Tell us where you're finding all these magical approaching women, though, I'll head there tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:22 AM
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I think it's both, ie she knows her fat friend is less attractive than her but in group bias leaves her unable to realize the extent to which that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:40 AM
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You also see it when women talk about their friends. Men will say "I have a buddy Steve who's average looking and struggles to get dates", and you look and its an average looking guy. Women will say "I have a STUNNING and GORGEOUS friend named Susan and SOMEHOW she struggles to find a man" and you look and she's a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:12 PM
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Caring about your genetic line and being in a relationship are not synonymous
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:10 PM
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An ugly famous rich man marrying a beautiful nobody woman (aka, par for the course) doesn't prove your point that beautiful famous women are frequently marrying ugly nobody men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:55 PM
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Hypergamy is a trend, not a law of nature. Some women will deviate from the trend, including some famous women. And the fact that you call them "flawless" women just proves my point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:52 PM
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I'm not really familiar with famous/non-famous marriages, but from a quick google they all seem pretty matched to me. You probably just like the way women look more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:44 PM
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Or maybe they lack proper social interaction where they can organically meet new women. This is the root cause of 99% of the issues discussed on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:03 PM
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Yeah I'm sure there's no overlap at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:02 PM
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Women have a massive in-group bias evaluating other women, so of course you think women are usually the better looking half of a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:01 PM
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Normal people don't care about their genetic line, they just want to be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:39 PM
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... and also according to men's own lived experience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:25 PM
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attractive It just so happens that all the things described in OPs post contribute to what a woman finds "attractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:25 AM
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You can't walk into a bar, look around at everyone drinking, and conclude that most people *outside the bar* are alcoholics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:34 PM
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And yet I bet I'll let you know when my masters thesis doing a meta-analysis on the masturbation frequency of the different genders is ready to publish
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:47 PM
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And the female sex toy industry is worth literally billions of dollars And yet I bet if you counted how many times each gender actually masturbated, with or without toys, the entire female population would be outnumbered by merely the teenage male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:11 PM
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There's a whole sub for HL women All twelve of them don't really outweigh the entire male population. There are almost zero male prostitutes There are many male prostitutes... 99% of them are for other men. It's a statistical claim. The vast majority of men have a much higher libido than the vast majority of women, and *some* women having higher libidos than most men doesn't disprove that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:09 PM
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Many women I know, would have sex with some of you guys if you brushed your teeth, shaved, got a haircut, put on clean clothes, and got some therapy. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:55 PM
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Say "men are hornier than women" to a mixed crowd of normal people, and you'll get a dozen responses like "actually women are just as horny as men", "actually men are just conditioned to be more open and women more reserved", "actually men only say that until they get with a woman who's hornier than they are". I have heard of all these in real conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:45 PM
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That would justify women prioritizing indicators of safety, not indicators of wealth/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:58 AM
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Honesty isn't rude, lying is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:46 PM
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No one should be shamed for immutable characteristics - whether its a womans "loose" vagina or stretch marks, or a man's hairline or height. That said, there's nothing wrong with being attracted to and seeking unnatural physical features. We have more ability to control our appearance today than any point in human history, we should take advantage of that more (within moderation). I don't want a woman to ignore her attraction and settle for me, I want to *be* a man who is attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:19 AM
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This is the answer. Studies show and women readily admit that, to women, attractiveness is more than physical. It's no wonder that there's a mile of difference between in attraction towards "the older guy with nice clothes, a house, a car, and disposable income" versus "the old looking guy in my class with none of those things"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:13 PM
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