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I’m not very familiar with traction alopecia but I have seen “seamless” clip-ins touted as really good for fine hair. I can’t vouch for the quality, since I haven’t tried them, but Lucy Hair has products specifically for fine hair. I’m sorta in the same situation because I have a lot of hair strands but they’re very fine so I would like to add fullness and length that still looks natural, which is tough
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/25 01:14 AM
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More touch sounds very fun 🔥😉 I don't know your husband's personality but I'm hopeful this will also encourage him to reciprocate in his own ways to make things more fun and sexy – cause it's not all on you! you're just the one asking for advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 12:53 AM
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It also depends on what you consider foreplay vs sex. Are manual and oral considered foreplay? If so, then 30 minutes of foreplay sounds a bit more reasonable. Okay, yes! At least I personally would consider all of that to be included – I see it as anything used to get all folks involved feeling warmed up and ready to go. It could be a lot of things but yes, I agree it's not just kissing (unless that's what everyone involved prefers!)
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 10:12 PM
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WHAT!? "sounds like a ton" compared to who? maybe people have different definitions of foreplay but this is encompassing other lovely sexual activities so that an orgasm is imminent. Less than that is a quickie, which is fine, but not fun for every night!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 05:20 PM
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oh absolutely not, that's not fair of him to expect that – sometimes, yes it is just a release but not every night. Where is the connection in that? You already have a lot of great advice here but I just wanted to reaffirm that no, that's not a fair expectation on his part if that's how he expects sex to be most nights...I agree that y'alls schedules aren't the most compatible but no one is at fault and there just has to be rearranging/compromising.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 05:17 PM
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Oooh yes! I like this advice a lot – like maybe he would prefer putting money toward a meal delivery service and eating out 2x a week so you don't have to cook as often, or maybe some aspect of chores don't get done as often, etc. Also, OP I read that y'all are having a hard time getting enough foreplay in but it's crucial for most women so hopefully that is also something that can be adjusted in your favor. Maybe there are ways to have some sexy foreplay during the day via text, or just physica…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 05:13 PM
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I will, thank you for suggesting it ✨
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/25 04:14 PM
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I just got the book from my local library so I’m behind a few weeks but just wanted to comment that the Introduction alone was amazing. I hadn’t really admitted to myself that was I afraid of dating (despite definitely longing for a loving, romantic relationship) so her pointing this out right from the beginning was exactly the message I needed. I scored in the middle category and 100% related to her comment about becoming afraid the moment a man flirts or notices you. I have some courage-buildi…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/25 06:44 AM
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Whether it’s a monologue or a video game, just touch him on the shoulder. In a conversation, you can grab his hand and say “my turn”. You can still be playful about it, sweet, or encouraging. Oh my goodness, this is a really cool way of shifting the dynamic without being rude or mean – I wish you were my therapist lol I am ND and can be so blunt/curt sometimes. Things would probably go smoother for me if I could learn little ways to get my thoughts across in a "lighter" manner.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/25 02:51 AM
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creepy DMs are definitely another deterrent ugh!! but I'm sure other women have asked a similar question before in that sub so I'll see what I can find without putting my profile out there
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/25 03:15 AM
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I'm scared of that subreddit lmao (except as a lurker) but you're totally right. I've gotten a lot of good tips here, though, to at least get me started and maybe I'll see what similar questions people have already asked in r/askmen
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/25 02:55 AM
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Mmmm more of a nerdy, intellectual type or an outdoorsy person. Even though I'm not religious, I do like old-fashioned men but haven't had the best luck finding that outside of a church or something. As I'm thinking about your question, I'm realizing I know more about what I don't like vs what I do 🤨 I need to think a little more about what I want specifically.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 03:06 PM
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LOL your comment so relatable re: accidental dates and going with a neutral shoe to combat stereotypes (also happy cake day!!!!) I'm curious since you said this isn't your style anymore, what caused you to switch up your style and how would you describe your current fashion?
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 05:30 AM
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This is one of the things I'm really coming to appreciate about this community/subreddit – the honesty about playing up our advantages and deemphasizing weaknesses. You make very fair points about honestly assessing my better attributes and playing to them. I'm working on my physical fitness at the moment and growing my hair so I think as I improve in those ares, maybe I can get away with a more quirky style. Or as another commenter said, go for more "normal" outfits and then introduce a chunky …
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 05:06 AM
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That is adorable 🥹
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 05:02 AM
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Thank you for sharing more about your style and how you adapt it to your dating/social goals. Also, I LOVE LOVE Monica Bellucci and that type of seductive yet dainty style, I just don't have the features or personality to pull it off. I'm like Miss Honey from Matilda but have the inner sensuality of a Monica for sure. I wish I could more comfortably express that side of me on the outside but I like my kind teacher/grandma personality as well. White flouncy dresses, lots of cotton, wool and linen…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 05:01 AM
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Hahahaha yes, my sisters say I look "fruity" (in a funny/respectful way, not in an anti-gay, derogatory way) when I dress like this – I just love this style so much and always laughed it off. You bring up a lot of good points. I was formerly religious, am not at all anymore, so maybe some of my past has played a part in my style choices. Women always had to wear skirts, etc. I'm not looking for a religious man (I think another commenter mentioned this as well) so I will take your advice to keep …
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 04:54 AM
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Oh my goodness, thank you for your advice – I read down to the other comments you left and I hadn't considered the body size implications of wearing more baggy clothing like this. I just really like the airiness, the movement of the fabrics, and the "wholesome" prints. Fabric texture and comfort are very important clothing factors for me so I think that's partly why I've gravitated to this style. I also really appreciate your tips about not combining too many oversized pieces together!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 04:49 AM
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Mmm that's a really fair point...that wouldn't be the type of man I'm interested in attracting – although you never know! But at face value, I'm not attracted to those things (except for the long hair 😍) so maybe this style could be a barrier to attracting the kind of guy I would like to date.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 04:46 AM
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That's a really good question...I hadn't thought about whether a certain kind of man might be into it, I just figured it was probably too whimsical. I'm not religious so I'm not looking for a traditional man in that sense but in terms of gender roles, etc. yeah definitely. Your comment makes me feel more encouraged I can still find ways to be "me", thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/25 04:24 AM
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