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Don't worry bro, I still have situations where these happen.
/r/seduction28/01/18 11:15 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction15/01/18 04:48 PM
3

It's your responsibility. Not hers.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 08:32 PM
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Was "okay" the last text? If so: Dude, you did not, I repeat, you did not arrange to do something. "We should do something then" is as vague as it could possibly be. It needs a day, a time and where or what. You missed all of that. How could she know? It's your responsibility to set it up properly. Nothing is to blame for her.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 08:27 PM
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Why? It's not like 18 is a magical age where everyone suddenly is mature and it's all good. OP mentioned that 17 is the age of consent, so that's no reason to wait for the age of 18.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:01 PM
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I agree. I'm here in the Netherlands and so many girls are just in their head or listening to music etc. They don't seem open to be approached. I really want to try out day gaming (especially since I don't have much possibility to go out at night due to logistics), but this seems so difficult.
/r/seduction15/03/17 09:36 PM
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Then get in that state.
/r/seduction14/03/17 09:32 PM
1

You still need to tell that friend you gamed though, he isn't watching you 24/7.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 09:45 AM
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Well, it works if you are actually willing to burn that money once you break your contract. I could see how many people still won't do that after breaking that contract.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:03 PM
1

Wait. Let me get this straight. You have a girl of interest. She has a female friend and that female friend has a boyfriend, right? Talk to whoever of the girl of interest friends are there at the time.
/r/seduction19/02/17 08:54 PM
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Why does it matter her friend has a boyfriend? Are women with boyfriends suddenly not allowed to talk with other guys? What makes communication with them difficult? It's kind of vague.
/r/seduction19/02/17 07:55 PM
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Time for a small quiz! Who will decide if you can take a girl of your interest home that night? Is it A, you? Is it B, her? Is it C, her friends? If you choose C my man, you are correct. Befriend her friends. Give them some attention as well, just not too much.
/r/seduction19/02/17 07:50 PM
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Bullshit. There are tons of ways. Dropbox for example would do completely fine. You did this on purpose. You want to make money.
/r/seduction16/02/17 08:43 PM
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It would depend on your age. Are you 28? Sure, it's a little weird at the minimum. Are you 19, it's not weird at all.
/r/seduction02/02/17 08:23 PM
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Absolutely. Seriously, throwing a stick and needing a lawyer? Here it would be a warning or fine at most.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 09:10 PM
9

Approach a lot of girls and your oneitis will reduce. Not saving a girl's number is not a good way to reduce oneitis.
/r/seduction28/12/16 07:08 PM
2

as it reduces the chance of me getting oneitis. Shouldn't it be a good sign that oneitis reduces?
/r/seduction28/12/16 07:02 PM
3

Glad to see a fellow Dutch person on here :)
/r/seduction28/12/16 07:01 PM
7

Bonus points if the girl is really called Jackie.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 09:28 PM
5

Body language is incredibly important and should be one of the main priorities for anyone getting started.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 08:56 PM
12

Don't forget the light smile.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 08:41 PM
37

"Of course, look at me." "Yes, that's why I'm approaching a random woman." "No, you?" "Oh how cute, you like me! There is no other reason to ask me that." "You are exactly my grandma. She asks that every Christmas as well!" Pick one. As always, how you say it is important.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 08:26 PM
1

While Uber isn't really active here I believe, the cab ride might be an idea. I'll keep it in mind, thank you.
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:38 PM
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Thanks for the suggestions. Let's hope it's not driving because most people here (Netherlands) drink. Re-escalating at her house would ofcourse be necessairy, because attraction decreases the more time it takes to get there.
/r/seduction05/12/16 06:54 PM
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How would they do it if their logistics are not as good?
/r/seduction05/12/16 06:52 PM
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How would I know if she has a house / place on her own close to the city center, without directly asking? For the club escalation; would I then go to her house (with the above point in mind)?
/r/seduction05/12/16 11:53 AM
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Thank you, logistics was the word I was searching for. Any idea how I could know if she has a place close? I suspect you should not ask that directly.
/r/seduction05/12/16 11:52 AM
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Because you're trying, but you're making the situation worse than necessary for yourself.
/r/seduction05/12/16 05:03 AM
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Genuine question, why should I not worry about / think of one night stands? I agree with the fact that after three dates the distance is less of a factor. I don't know if it's me (as I'm new to this and I mostly read a lot of theory), but isn't three dates before sex a lot? Especially since same-night-lays are more and more common now.
/r/seduction04/12/16 09:22 PM
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Going out solo is really difficult, especially when you just stated the night. Later in its easier, but it still requires a lot of courage to actually start going out alone.
/r/seduction04/12/16 09:07 PM
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I don't know a situation where you would ask for a kiss. Always take the lead. Other than that, I don't understand your other points in your comment.
/r/seduction04/12/16 08:52 PM
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You went to one club and decided to approach 85% of the women in there? Rejections bring some negative SMV (your SMV decreases). Also, women do notice it if you're getting rejected or approach a lot of people. That's why it's generally recommended to stay in one spot as much as possible instead of walking around all the time. Approaching 10% of the women in a club is already a lot. Besides, if a club has 250 people in (which I would think would be a minimal, or else it's relatively quiet), that …
/r/seduction04/12/16 08:48 PM
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When you feel the moment is right. There is no static moment. It's not: this and this happened and she did this, so now I should kiss. Every situation is different and you most likely will feel when the moment is right. If you go in for the kiss, and she rejects, don't make a big deal out of it. The 'no', often means 'not yet'. Just say 'okay, not yet.' and try again in 10 or so minutes. The 'not yet' - situation can be found on other scenarios as well. When you first approach a girl, she might …
/r/seduction04/12/16 08:25 PM
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Ah I see. Glad you went out again. :) I went solo last night. The beginning was difficult, but later in the night it was getting fun. Didn't really feel the mood to approach girls somehow, so I didn't really do that.
/r/seduction04/12/16 12:02 PM
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A more detailed description (and the other things that happened that night) is in this FR I wrote: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5dta2r/fr_first_time_going_out_and_trying_out_seduction/ Maybe it shows more similarities with your situation. My friend cancelled on me, so guess I'm going out solo tonight.
/r/seduction03/12/16 04:28 PM
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I know what OP means and I had experienced the same as well. The girl had a drink in her hand, I had not. I tried dancing a little with her and escalating, but with only one hand of her 'usable', it's a little more difficult and greatly reduced my possibilities. I'm going out again tonight so I'm keeping an eye on this thread.
/r/seduction03/12/16 01:31 PM
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Why leave? What am I missing?
/r/seduction30/11/16 03:17 PM
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Got it!
/r/seduction30/11/16 05:07 AM
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Good one!
/r/seduction30/11/16 05:07 AM
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It should be said in a little sarcastic tone.
/r/seduction29/11/16 09:29 PM
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Do you get nervous talking to girls? "Oh yeah, absolutely. Girls are so scary." Genuine question, would this be a good response? Just came up in my mind and I'm trying to learn.
/r/seduction29/11/16 08:17 PM
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I think they mean 'kino', which should be easy to find around here. Physical escalation and it's important.
/r/seduction28/11/16 08:24 PM
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I'm still new in this as well and I've been an introvert for all my life, so I know exactly what you're talking about. I only speak about this with a specific few of my friends who I know won't let me down or be absurd about things like that. The three second rule seems like a good start. I haven't used it a lot so far, but I will in the future.
/r/seduction21/11/16 05:58 PM
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Wingmen can be a good thing, however I have no friends that are into pickup, so they are 'worthless' in that field for me. A wingman could make approaches easier and you could make each other accountable. I messaged a few far away friends that know I'm into pickup that I was going out, so I don't chicken out. I wish they would live closer so they could be wingmen.
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:15 PM
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I don't know if this is a cultural difference thing, but while still a lot of people here go out in groups, there are still enough people that recommend going out alone, as it's a good challenge for yourself. Besides, girls wouldn't know if you came here by yourself or with friends, but just split your ways temporarily. A wingman would be a good idea, however none of my friends are into this PUA thing, so I don't have any possible wingman available. For the rude girls: I haven't seen them yet, b…
/r/seduction20/11/16 07:52 PM
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I actually haven't approached groups of girls. I was approached by two girls (like I said in my post) and approached a girl that got separated from her friend, when she got approached by another dude. Approaching groups seems a little more difficult and I don't know how I would do it. I guess I just got to try it out and see what happens.
/r/seduction20/11/16 07:31 PM
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Yeah, that could have helped. The other girl might get a little more attracted as well, but especially training myself is really important. I'm planning on going out again soon, this time solo. Who knows what will happen. At least I'm kind of forcing myself to approach people, because else I'd be alone and that's not what I want.
/r/seduction20/11/16 07:14 PM
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Yeah I agree. I knew that awkward silences can work in your favor, but it was the first time going out, so everything came at once and it was a bit overwhelming. I can't do everything good the first time. Hell, nobody can. It's a good learning case and I hope to do better other times. At least I learned :) I could have escalated further, yes. I wasn't really into her (more her friend), but at least I could have used it to learn and get better. Too bad, that chance is over. Thousands of those lef…
/r/seduction20/11/16 07:01 PM
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Well, it was my first time as well. I've read some material before, but the best teacher is yourself when you just try it out. Step out of the comfort zone, it's difficult but I like it. Next time I'm probably going out solo, as you might have guessed after my conclusion. It's really awesome, you get more results and it's just better to overcome AA and to expand your comfort zone.
/r/seduction20/11/16 06:26 PM
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Oh no, absolutely not. It's more it decreases your possibilities and I want to know how I could bypass these obstacles.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:32 PM
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It happened in one of my four approaches last Friday. After that, I noticed many other girls were holding drinks, so it's a common obstacle.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 04:38 PM
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For example the dance move to 'close her in'. You have both her hands, one stays at the same spot and the other is used to turn her around. After a round, she is 'closed in' and could dance with her back against you. This would be difficult to achieve when she has a drink in her hand. You could hold her hand more difficult and doing such things makes it easier to spill. Also to note that it are real glasses, not plastic stuff.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 04:26 PM
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Thanks for the wise words man. I try to improve every time I go out and make sure to learn from my mistakes. Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction19/11/16 07:29 PM
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Ofcourse I would rather have pulled during the night, my own fun is so much more important. Girls shouldn't change that. Rejection? Okay, too bad. NEXT! If I would feel really sad afterwards, it'd ruin my night. No way I let that happen.
/r/seduction19/11/16 05:52 PM
1

Zuiden!
/r/seduction29/10/16 10:33 PM
1

But if I take off my sunglasses, I'd have to put on my normal glasses because I would like to see a damn thing.
/r/seduction20/06/16 09:38 PM
1

How should I actually isolate her and kinoescalate if she is barely alone? And I agree it might have been too late, guess I just need to try and do my best.
/r/seduction28/11/15 08:56 PM
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