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DebateAnalSexIsTheBest34/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:23 PM
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1

Why don't you share some of your wisdom instead of insults?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:02 PM
1

I'd say he's a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:41 AM
1

Wow, wtf 😂🤣😂?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:11 AM
5

Funny how you think you are the one who decides that. Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:44 AM
0

What does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:28 AM
0

Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:06 AM
2

A minority opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:05 AM
1

No, it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:04 AM
1

Most women absolutely do not need penetration to achieve orgasm. Not the point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:04 AM
1

You'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:02 PM
1

A man pathetic and desperate enough to be willing to sell the last bits of his dignity and throw his own brothers under the bus just for a chance that a woman will notice him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:59 PM
1

I am indeed on some women's side, but certainly not all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:57 PM
2

May I haunt their dreams for years to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:56 PM
3

Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:48 PM
2

On the side of simps? Hah! As if.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:47 PM
2

Words cannot describe how viscerally I hate simps and how brutally I'd persecute them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:44 PM
1

No, because my birth and development have been set in motion at the beginning of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:34 PM
19

Those women desire the egoboost from knowing they can take away another woman's man. It has nothing to do with sharing the same man with multiple women, the opposite, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:23 PM
11

At any time a man can refuse any of these things, and the woman is completely shut down. Except that most men are desperate for whatever they can get their hands on. They ain't refusing shit. If every man in her life shuts her down, she's just as fucked the reverse where every woman shuts down a man. Sure and if every human worked together, we'd have an anarcho-communist utopia. The truth is, men are game theory defecting assholes, instead of putting up an united front against bad behavior from …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:20 PM
1

Fine, be evasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:16 PM
1

Lol, wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:16 PM
1

I literally don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:13 PM
1

Your understanding of what women want and like is puerile. In what way? In fact you’ve only to look at your handle to notice that lack of understanding . What handle? Half of women cannot orgasm through PIV - fact (Google it and do some educated research) - and too many men think slamming it in and pumping away like a porn star is the solution. True that. I take it you aren’t very successful with women. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:11 PM
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But for most, clitoral stimulation is essential while penetration is a bonus. My argument is that both are essential. Like having your balls (or butt, for guys who like that) played with - fun but not enough on its own. It isn't comparable. But with a female partner or while alone, it’s not something I particularly feel the need for. We are talking about heterosexual intercourse. Heterosexual women absolutely do want penetration in the majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:03 PM
2

Damn, this is something new. Never knew this before. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:55 PM
2

Every woman I've been with has been 10x better at them than any man I've been with. Could a man ever be a better lover to a woman than another woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:35 PM
0

Again, you are going off the topic. Nobody said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:54 PM
1

That.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:53 PM
2

🤦🏼 Did you even read what I linked? Why are you acting obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:53 PM
1

Yes, very.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:52 PM
2

It's paywalled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:47 PM
4

And that's what I'm trying to say. You are a majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:46 PM
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Penetration combined with clitoral stimulation, in the majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:42 PM
1

So you agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:39 PM
-1

I am aggressive because you aren't reading my argument at all and are hitting me with preplanned retorts that have nothing to do with what I'm trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:38 PM
2

He gets an endorphin-induced brainfog when you fuck him intensely?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:36 PM
1

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:36 PM
0

Read what I have written, for fuck's sake. I literally never said this, I said that penetration as an act is desirable and necessary for complete female sexual satisfaction by most women, not that most women could orgasm from penetration alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:33 PM
1

He does what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:31 PM
1

She literally said it was before an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:31 PM
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I’ve only seen women say that they enjoy clitoral stimulation more than penetration and that if they never had penetration again they’d be fine with that. And I'm saying that this is false in the majority of cases. Most women absolutely do want a good dicking, even it isn't the only thing they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:30 PM
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It's not that they say penetration doesn't feel good, it's that they say it is optional and they wouldn't feel bad if they never did it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:29 PM
3

They do, mostly in clusters called G-spot and A-spot, but a thicker penis can also create pleasurable stretching sensation in a woman's vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:21 PM
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Don't tell me what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:00 PM
2

No, I don't. I meant this. It's even called so by women in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:53 PM
-1

Yes, she isn't most women and that's fine. I included examples such as her in my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:49 PM
2

A bigger dick does make the penetration feel better than an average one, but it isn't enough to make a woman cum on its own. You still need to stimulate the clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:49 PM
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From just surfing on random forums and subreddits I've found that women are just as unhappy with the current dating situation as men are. If women had as much power as RP people say they have, then where does this sentiment come from? They are indeed unhappy, but not for the same reason. Men are unhappy because they find it very hard to compete with other men for female attention, while women are unhappy because their pick of men isn't up to their standards. It's like being an American complaing…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:47 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:39 PM
3

That is indeed a minority issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:33 PM
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Who's denying this ? Apparently a large chunk of insecure men and women who want to comfort them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:33 PM
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That wasn't the argument, though, and I addressed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:32 PM
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Mostly online, as a comfort to men who are insecure about their penis-size, which here seems to be a significant chunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:29 PM
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You said your husband didn't have to put in any special effort into sexually pleasing you because you like him the way he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:02 PM
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I meant in regards to seduction and sex, specifically, not the entirety of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:55 PM
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Sexual chemistry is the ability to put a woman in a very sexually aroused state focused on you and keep her there as long as necessary. It has little to do with correctly touching her body and a lot more to do with putting her in the correct headspace and mentally stimulating her therein. Not an insignificant skill to possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:53 PM
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Question for the ladies in happy longterm heterosexual relationships: do you put as much effort into sexually pleasing your man as much as he does? Generally speaking, men are considered bad lovers by default, who have to put in a considerable effort into sexually exciting, pleasing and bringing a woman to orgasm, while women can just show a bit of enthusiasm and be considered good lovers who make their partners orgasm easily. Is that inequality present in your relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:50 PM
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A normal one? Only very insecure ones stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:38 PM
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Where did you get that in my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:35 PM
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After some thinking, I have come to the conclusion that the single most important thing for a successful sexual relationship with a woman is the ability to create and maintain sexual chemistry. Everything else is secondary and can be either improved or compensated for, but no matter how good you eat pussy or find right angles to thrust, if you can't make her want to ruin her life for you, you're never going to be able to please her and will always be at risk of having her wander off to someone e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:25 PM
2

Man, I didn't come up with it. It's a national holiday.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:08 PM
1

Maybe they should stop whining about bad men and women, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:04 PM
1

It's neither the Mother's Day, nor the Valentine's Day, but the Women's Day, but yes to buying gifts to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:02 PM
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Maybe because you are Catholics. We are Orthodox. I don't know if other Orthodox nations celebrate the Valentine's Day as the day of love, but us Serbians certainly don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:56 PM
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Not where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:53 PM
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Serbia.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:52 PM
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Casual dating is such a demeaning practice, I have literally no idea why people engage in it. Imagine putting yourself and your value under the judgement of some rando who's got more unwarranted confidence in themselves than Russia before the invasion. Could never be me, miss me with that bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:49 PM
2

Except some of us don't celebrate the Valentine's Day because we aren't Westerners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:43 PM
2

Don't worry, bro, when the summer comes in July and August, you'll be beginning for the winter to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:42 PM
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Because he is so nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:27 AM
1

You got that right, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:24 PM
6

Long story short, I used to be a bitter, socially anxious loner with low self-esteem and unhealthy resentment towards women before I saw those exact people here and realised how pitiful and pathetic I actually was for sinking into a pit of envy, despair and resentment that women were swooning over confident, prosocial and capable guys instead of accepting that the problem was in me and doing something about it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:20 PM
1

Tell me you don't know anything about Stoicism without telling me you don't know anything about Stoicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:09 PM
1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:59 PM
1

Apathy is not the key to happiness Ancient Stoics beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:59 PM
1

Unless Achilles and the Spartans were degenerate betacucks, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:55 PM
1

Were they drunk and spontaneous about it? That could be the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:51 PM
1

Lol, that's the impression I also got.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:51 PM
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That's good. I heard prostate massage makes a man cum like nothing else. Need to try that out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:50 PM
1

Nah man, ain't no greater way for men to bond than to share their partners with one another. It's the most intimate thing men can do in-between themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:49 PM
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Hard to find one, that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:48 PM
1

I defo want to try out groupsex and partner swapping one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:37 PM
1

That is natural. People are complex, multifaceted and often contradictory. Integrity is a societally-imposed concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:34 PM
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No one. They are only regional/internal threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:33 PM
1

The latter. Women be very wussy nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:32 PM
1

To men's happiness online, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:30 PM
7

This sub served as a good mirror into my own psyche and a tool to search through my own bitterness, resentment and envy I had felt during my teens. I wouldn't give it too much of a credit, but it did help me grow out of a certain redpill beliefs through a shock therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:30 PM
1

Didn't say that. You claimed you called yourself a feminist and were obsessed with a man and his happiness, I'm just pointing out the contradiction in that statement. You sound as feminists as liberals sound leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:15 PM
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It isn't very feminist of you to be obsessed with a man and his happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:08 PM
2

As someone who would call herself a feminist I don’t think I could be more obsessed with my husband and his happiness if I tried. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:00 PM
1

I mean, I'd like to try out swinging, but for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:59 PM
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One of the hardest pills to swallow; very few people are actually individualistic and they tend to be condemned by the wider society. Everyone talks about being unique and not caring what others think until the time comes to be unique and not care what others think. True individuality demands courage to stand out and most people are cowards who chose the path of the least resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:50 AM
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True this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:48 AM
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L take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:47 AM
1

Even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:44 AM
1

Americans are so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:22 AM
1

Dunno man, I resent my father mostly because he is a loser who can only feel big and manly when he verbally abuses us, but doesn't have the guts to stand up to people who aren't weaker than him. He also keeps 80% of the money he earns for himself and shifts the majority of the financial burden to my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:20 AM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:14 AM
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Considering that I am not an MC with the plot armor to protect me, likely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:14 AM
1

Be careful not to spend the rest of your life miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:12 AM
1

Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:04 AM
1

Reading a bunch of PDF books my player friend sent me. Said he learned everything he knew from those.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:22 AM
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Dunno, never been to Iceland. I just heard it was a really feminist place, even by Nordic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:24 AM
1

Some do, but I'd say a majority doesn't. Most women simply don't have the drive or the will to be powerful in the way men are powerful, nor do they care for things like dominance, conquest, supremacy and victory like men do. Most women's power fantasies aren't them kicking ass and sitting on a throne with a harem of pretty boys around them, with everyone else living in constant fear of their wrath and displeasure. When women fantasise about power, it's almost always about a subtle, but absolute,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:15 AM
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Nowhere is it commonplace for women to approach men, except maybe in Iceland. Most women worldwide vastly prefer to be approached first, no matter how handsome the man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:23 PM
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Modern standards for childrearing are a lot higher and more expensive than they used to be. If you want your child to be a successful participant in the modern society, you must spend a heck ton of money, time and energy into instilling them with the correct knowledge, values and social skills needed to navigate it. Combining that with the modern economy, it is quite clear why most people don't find it expedient to raise more than one or two children. Old farmhands only needed to teach their chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:28 AM
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Absolutely. The modern standards demand you to be a relationship athlete; always on top of your game, or else you will be quickly removed from the competition. For women to swoon over you today, you must literally maximise all your positive attributes and maintain them so, which is a very, very hard (and at times expensive) work. Most men are thus very discouraged that they can afford to be picky, since it seems apparent that a woman can always find a better option, and feel the need to take wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:13 AM
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Lots of coping and denial from women on this thread. Women absolutely think other women are more profound, spiritual, interesting, prosocial, altruistic and all other good things, but are held back from reaching their true potential by evil men whose only greater attribute is their physical strength and social dominance, with women having everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:08 AM
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This research found that while both women and men have more favorable views of women, women's in-group biases were 4.5 times stronger than those of men. And only women (not men) showed cognitive balance among in-group bias, identity, and self-esteem, revealing that men lack a mechanism that bolsters automatic preference for their own gender. Rudman, Laurie A.; Goodwin, Stephanie A. (2004). "Gender differences in automatic in-group bias: Why do women like women more than they like men?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:27 PM
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I wouldn't care what she did with her expartners, I care what she does with me. If she wants to be a born-again Christian tradwife with me while being an uninhibited sexfiend with her ex, that's an immediate dealbreaker because I don't want such a wife, not because I feel insecure over her ex. The same goes for everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:22 PM
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Every word in this comment is golden. Listen to this commenter, OP, they are speaking exactly how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:48 PM
3

So I personally don't think that marriage should be a legal institution at all, I really don't think that a person's relationship has any business to do with the government. It is the government's business when a relationship forms a new permanent social unit that relates differently to the sociopolitical and ecomonic surrounding than single individuals. I think the government should stay out of our lives and our bedrooms Our bedrooms, sure, but our lives? That's impossible. If you are a partici…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:45 PM
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I didn't understand how it related to anything I have previously written. All I've said was that it was a sad thing that women couldn't experience sexual desire for their partners as their partners could for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:33 PM
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Nobody claimed otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:00 PM
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It’s not profound passion. It’s a biological urge. You mean, just like female sexuality? Some men are not starving freaks. They are normal, not red pill guys. They have self control. They have sex with normal women. This is a wordsalad. What were you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:46 PM
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True to that. Guys in the Manosphere have remarkable doublethink in regards to both exalting eugenics and evolution and bemoaning the fact that women are biologically motivated to seek the best specimens of manhood while ignoring the sub-5s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:39 PM
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We feel sexual desire. Just not “visceral lust.” Why can you not wrap your head around this? It's the difference between someone who does something out of mild interest and someone who does something out of profound passion, that's it. A woman enjoys eating food and loves to savor a fine dish. Men devour whatever they can get because they’re starving. Quite an unflattering and biased description, I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:17 PM
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That is indeed sad, but answers absolutely nothing regarding my comment. Edit: I saw your last sentence. It is indeed human, but this isn't about women having self-control, it's about having the inability to feel sexual desire as strongly as men. You don't call a dog with no fangs a pacifist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:37 PM
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That we’re not crippled and distracted by an uncontrollable physical urge? Nah, you just can't sexually desire someone as viscerally and strongly as men can, which I think is just sad. People should be with someone who desires them in a visceral way, not with a semi-asexual. You guys are the ones who think it’s a crime against humanity if no one wants to sleep with you. Nah, I don't think this. That's some incel shit right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:30 PM
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I count it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:28 PM
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Really? That's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:14 AM
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Yeah, but it's still far healthier, more realistic and reachable than that abomination on the book cover, for which one needs to literally live in the gym, use unholy amounts of steriods, track every single microcalory and drink a drop of water a day, plus, it looks a lot uglier and unnatural than Tyler Durden's physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:23 PM
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Isn't the most desired male physique by women consistently been Tyler Durden? https://preview.redd.it/rr7bqg05bi9c1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4157744552811fc9430127c52dc511dc9ba6dfdd
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:15 PM
1

That is true, one needs put in active effort, which is exactly why most people don't have either of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:12 PM
1

I am indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:12 PM
1

I mean, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:11 PM
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Rock, girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:18 PM
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The main problem with modern dating is that we all have far too high expectations and I don't mean in terms of looks or status or whatever, but in terms of personality. Most people are pretty boring, without any profound interests, hobbies, ambitions, personalities or intelligence, just your average bores who wake up, work their boring and low-paying job, go home and waste time on gaming, TV, social media, napping, etc. and certainly aren't self-reflective and strong-willed enough to recognise t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:18 PM
1

Usually the more experienced woman pursued the less experienced man. But it didn't seem to cause a deadbedroom. If anything those relationships were very sexually charged. This gives me hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:10 PM
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That male physique is so unrealistic and frankly disgusting. The guy looks like he's carved out of marble, not an actual human being of flesh and blood. Also, werewolves >>> vampires.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:07 PM
1

Congratulations! I've gotten my CAE three years ago and it was really a tough road to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:06 PM
1

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:19 PM
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Nah man, if you get off on beating the shit out of your partner, regardless of what she says, you're sick. Besides, who says her wants come from a healthy place? Ain't no sound-minded person who wants to be beaten and degraded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:16 PM
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They don't even have to be about control as long as you don't make them. If they aren't about control, then they aren't really about dominance. Sounds to me like you're simply describing a very passionate and intense lover, the one that will slam you against the wall and kiss you all over or something like that, but that isn't what I would call dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:45 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:28 PM
1

Maybe celibacy isn't that bad, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:16 PM
1

I'd say that being dominated isn't necessarily being into BDSM Then what's the D in BDSM for? A lot of women like it when a man holds/pins them down or he can turn them into the position he wants or he grabs their hair...but they aren't necessarily into the whole BDSM thing. This sounds like a contradiction. You don't need leather, whips and gags to be into BDSM. Also there are quite a lot of women who are pretty vanilla. They probably just don't talk about sex that much. I wouldn't say that I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:14 PM
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Nah man, it's called being sound-minded. We don't need to abuse others or get abused ourselves to have fun and get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:07 PM
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I'm just concerned when I see so many women online claiming they like being dominated and physically abused during sex, which is a huge, huge turn-off for me. I guess I'm just not masculine enough to derive pleasure from sexually abusing my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:02 PM
1

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:52 PM
1

Yeah, I would, but this is a hypothetical scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:51 PM
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If my (future) girl is into BDSM, I am breaking up immediately. That's some sick shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:47 PM
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True. Then all women of the world would unite in a global matriarchy, eliminate war, poverty, oppression, bigotry and capitalism, ushering in a new age of anarcho-communist sisterhood and a society built on empathy and altruism, where women would finally be free to unleash their infinite spiritual potential and experience only the greatest of romances, while the shallow, soulless, petty and sex-driven male hordes will clamor and whine at the walls of the Utopia, living and dying alone while wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:45 PM
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I mean, I am profeminist ally and a troll, but I am also a kissless virgin. The username and account description are for shits and giggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:37 PM
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Not at all. I don't care whether my own children are biological or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:36 PM
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I personally would prefer a daughter, not a son, but yes, I would like for them to have children of their own so they can pass on their culture, tradition and experience. It would be a shame if all their achievements and effort spent therein died with them. I don't have a preference how their children come about, as long as they choose to treat them as their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:10 AM
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Trouble believing me what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:04 AM
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True that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:34 AM
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I know. I had a bad domestic situation with an abusive father that resulted in my having a crippled self-esteem, depression and being asocial for the entirety of my teens. My mental state has since stabilised, but I have never developed a habit of going out, socialising and pursuing intimate relationships, so I mostly spend my time alone and engulfed in whatever interests me at hand. People who meet me usually have good things to say, except that I tend to be a bit too tense and hesitant in unfa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:51 PM
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If that happens, you immediately leave her. She is obviously disloyal and you need to have respect for yourself and your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:29 PM
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Yes, it's very pathetic. I am a kissless virgin in my early twenties and I have never been reduced to being a whiny incel because I have other pursuits that I chase and don't base my self-worth on the opinion of and ability to attract women. Never understood men who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:22 PM
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Don't kid yourself, you ain't getting either way, but you're definitely making yourself a fool through simpery and ruining everyone else's good time. Have some self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:10 PM
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When a woman wants a man to put in far more effort into her than she is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:59 PM
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But simps aren't getting laid, that's the point, they are just hopelessly showering women in everything they believe will get them a single crumb of pussy, which in turn inflates women's perception of their own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:57 PM
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Indeed they have. Had they not been so pitifully desperate for just a mere whiff of pussy, women would have to put in work to get themselves a man, instead of being a desirable option just by existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:50 PM
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Depends on several factors, but yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:23 PM
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Indeed. Simpus delendus est.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:16 PM
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Law of Jante, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:33 AM
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Unfortunately true and very sad. It really makes me pity the men as a group, even if I am a man myself. They could be so much more if they just let go of their simpery.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:28 AM
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Dunno what's the point of your post. That after 30, every guy not coupled off is an immediate red flag because the life script says that's what you should be at that age? Weird as hell (and not the least condescending), but you do you, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:54 AM
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Absolutely true, my guy, but nothing's gonna change. Most men are far too great simps and desperate for even the slightest crumbs of pussy. They would literally sell their own brothers out just for a chance to drink cuntjuice. Simps are one true enemy of all malekind and should be persecuted brutally and harshly when found.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:49 AM
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This has nothing to do with preselection. Preselection means a person becomes more attractive to you because people you consider trustworthy find them attractive too. A man wanting another man's wife has nothing to do with her being married. When a woman wants a man because he is married or because he is popular with local women, that's preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:35 PM
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What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:31 PM
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How it isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:48 PM
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Which is just another way to frame the self-interest as something positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:28 PM
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Vast majority of men have the potential. Stop the cap man, spare yourself the shame? We are all descendants of the Chads before us who bred profusely. Dafuq kind of logic is this? We are descendants of a bunch of losers who needed arranged marriages and societal pressure to procreate. Ain't none of them a Chad, unless your forbear is Chingis Haan. Feel free to stick to your blackpilled paradigm though, you don't have to believe me. You haven't provided any reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:03 PM
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Don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:41 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:41 PM
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No, it ain't. You either have the potential, or you don't. Also, just pulling hoes doesn't qualify you as a Chad, unless the hoes are of exceptional quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:40 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:38 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:38 PM
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I meant in the context of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:33 PM
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You don't become a Chad. You either are or aren't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:32 PM
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Remaining forever alone and ostracised.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:20 PM
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Imagine knowing you'll never be able to have standards and egocentrism like a Stacy without severe consequences. Quite depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:06 PM
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Nah, disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:40 PM
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Yeah, guys in general. I was talking about guys here, on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:38 PM
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Sad for you bro 😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:27 PM
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I'm pretty sure most guys here have a problem with dating because they have to put themselves under the judgement of the people they perceive ontologically lesser than them, but still fundamental to their happiness and self-esteem, so their ego gets torn to shreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:20 PM
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I'm neither a Chad nor a sex god.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:16 PM
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True that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:40 PM
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You too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:37 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:34 PM
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Because my real hobbies are studying psychological, sociological and political organisation of mankind during various points in history and studying how various ethical theories are applicable and beneficial to the people who abide by them, which, I understand, is horrifically boring to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:30 PM
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Not at all. You give the impression that you don't consider their opinion important enough to honor them with an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:25 PM
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True, which is why I don't respect almost anyone on this sub. Imagine getting pissed over some random women's trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:24 PM
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Thank you for the constructive imput, good sir. It has certainly changed my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:22 PM
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Women are so crafty and cunning, it's fascinating. They created feminism and managed to turn it from a collective expression of female self-interest into a universal set of integral human values one has to abide by or be ostracised as inhuman. I gotta applaud that, it's as impressive as Christians convincing aristocracy that being downtrodden, poor and pathetic was somehow virtuous and moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:20 PM
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Based egocentrism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:11 PM
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Just shows a lack of respect for yourself and your partner. Why? Who are you to decide what is and isn't a lack of respect for others?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:07 PM
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Quality men do not want to be shared and they value giving and receiving loyalty. If a man wants to be shared like this, he has some massive issues that cannot be overlooked. Massive prejudice and generalisation here. You don't get to define who is and isn't a quality man for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:00 PM
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What does promiscuity mean to you? To me, it means being indiscriminate/having low standards in the choice of one's sexual partner, regardless of the actual number of the sexual partners had. Thus, a man who would fuck any woman who offered would be promiscuous even if he doesn't, but a woman who carefully selects her partners in accordance with some standards wouldn't be promiscuous, even if she fucked a lot. I don't condemn people for fucking a lot, but I do condemn them for fucking/wanting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:41 PM
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Women believe not being able to defend themselves is good because violence is a disgusting antiprogressive thing men do, want a strong man to make them feel safe because they refuse to make themselves feel safe and passively wait for their ideal men to fall into their laps while they just sit there and look pretty. That's pretty pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:57 PM
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It has nothing to do with being agreeable, it's about women refusing to become assertive, powerful and brave because they consider it traits of toxic masculinity. Instead, they delight in being harmless (because the ability to hurt is a masculine trait and thus disgusting and degenerate), needing a strong man to make them feel safe and passively waiting until such a man approaches them, because approaching first is a thing men do, not feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:55 PM
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Women really be thinking that being a passive, weak coward is somehow a positive female trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:34 PM
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Which means you should be refilling her with your muck to keep her affections going.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:33 PM
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Lol, how pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:18 AM
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Don't know about you, but I'm very tired of men always being blamed for a woman's bad sexual experience. Not saying it's never our fault, but it takes two to tango and no matter how good of a lover man is, he can't do anything if the woman he is with is uncommunicative dead fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:05 PM
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Same crap, different wrap. Ultimately, you don't matter, only what you can provide and as soon as that runs out, whether through misfortune or age, you are out. At least those are though processes of such people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:55 PM
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Maybe bimbos and whores you meet in clubs and bars, but most women get very turned on when a man is family-oriented and a good husband and a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:40 PM
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Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:39 PM
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Men are lonely because they think intimate homosocial relationships are gay and effeminate, so they put all their emotional needs into a single basket that is a romantic relationship/partner and suffer immensely if they can't get one, because they have nobody else to be emotional and vulnerable to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:28 PM
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Dunno, but certainly a very minor one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:22 PM
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It isn't. It means he lacks both control over himself and desire to find fulfillment in fatherhood and familybuilding. Ancient Romans and Greeks hated fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:09 PM
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Why don't women just admit they don't like docile nice guys. AFAIK, they do admit this. But please just tell me, what do bad boys do that is attractive? They tend to be confident, assertive and aren't desperate simps who will tolerate disrespect, but will call out a woman on her bullshit and not entertain her if she is beneath his standards. Women find it hot when a man has self-respect and standards he won't lower just for anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:06 PM
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Neither, it usually insecurity and attention-craving.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:03 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:52 PM
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High-quality partner is always hard to come by, both by men and by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:51 PM
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Then we aren't sexually compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:51 PM
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All these stats are meaningless by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:50 PM
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Insecurity and simpery. They believe this is the best they can get and would rather be miserable in a relationship than risk being single for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:24 PM
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Being a woman in an enormous advantage in modern western society. No, it isn't. Women are afforded systemic privilege at every stage in life. No, they don't. The stats prove that. No, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:20 PM
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Competing with men is easy. Competing with bis and lesbians is a lot harder. You really need to step up your game if you don't want a lesbian or a bi woman to steal your partner from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:17 PM
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Normal, well-adjusted women don't, but they aren't those who redpillers encounter when they go whoring around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:15 PM
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They are a lot more united because they have the same oppressors, while men haven't yet realised they share them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:14 PM
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You are the one making baseless claims about modern western society being a patriarchy I got an entire academic branch supporting my claim, but do go off. What rights are afforded to men that are not to women? You are assuming that only because the West has equality before the law, there is no Patriarchy, which is a ridiculous notion to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:10 PM
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No, in the study they looked at dick models, not actual dicks and they looked at visible size, which means that they have determined the non bonepressed ideal length, despite official measurements being bonepressed This is ridiculous. They made the models according to the bonepressed measurements, even if they didn't include fatpads. 68% of women with small dicked bfs wish he was bigger Yeah, but that's only of the 6% of women with small-dicked boyfriends. 66% of men had average penis and 27% ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:08 PM
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Baseless denial often is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:01 PM
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What modern generations call rizz. You gotta be funny, charismatic, confident and interesting. You gotta have stuff going for you in life that don't revolve around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:59 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:55 PM
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It very much is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:55 PM
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My main demand in a relationship is that I get to eat as much ass as I want, so can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:55 PM
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Avē Caesar, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:54 PM
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Correct. If she doesn't let me flood her ass on the first date, I'm moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:51 PM
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Completely understand you, bro. I gotta wear glasses because I am near-sighted and I hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:49 PM
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*doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:48 PM
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My guy, women aren't doing anything, that's the point. At most, they are being rude, something you compared with inner city theft with an implicit understanding it should be punished and sanctioned. Chill, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:45 PM
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It's the opposite, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:42 PM
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See, that's what I mean. Women insulted you and now you want to browbeat them because your ego can't withstand being insulted with what it considers lesser beings. The difference between misandry and misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:42 PM
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why do the women here so obviously hate men so much but expect men to not feel the same. Because men already feel the same and have felt the same far longer than women have hated them? It's just that their hatred comes from scorn, while women's hatred comes from resentment. "how dare men not be nice to me." Only a minority of deluded women say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:39 PM
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It's because, in patriarchal society, the oppressed hating the oppressors doesn't have the same weight as the oppressors hating the oppressed. Women say a few rude words, men want to kill them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:35 PM
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Yes, because people are inherently self-interested animals. She will also have to accept that you are with her partially because she is pretty and sexually exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:33 PM
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Ideal non-bone-pressed dick size is 6.4 inches (so officially pretty close to 7 inches). First off, this is bone-pressed, because that's how penis size is measured. Second off, this is the ideal length for one-time encounters. For longterm partners, the ideal size is 6.3" x 4.8", which is high average in length and completely average in girth. Take note that this is average ideal, not a universal reality. Also, 20% of women report rejecting a guy due to size. Which means 80% of women didn't. Sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:09 PM
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It is a possibility, but you gotta max your other attributes out. You gotta be megafunny to pull it off, à la Pete Davidson.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:52 PM
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It ain't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:51 PM
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An average man can't date a 10/10 woman. Dunno why you're even asking this question. Such women either date 10/10 men, or at least 7/10 men. Guys in the range of 4-6 aren't even on the radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:48 PM
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Most men are such cunt-starved simps they cannot fathom ever refusing even a drop of cuntjuice and are utterly baffled that women won't fuck the first man who asks just to get to some cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:31 PM
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That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:51 PM
1

That is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:50 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:48 PM
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Because I know that arguing with someone whose insecurities blind him to reality is a futile thing to do. You are only going to repeat the same-old arguments I've heard a million times before without bringing anything new. Ain't gonna bother with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:47 PM
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He didn't enlighten you, he blinded you. I don't know where to even start on that pile of manure he wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:46 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:44 PM
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Yeah, but that range encapsulates most living men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:43 PM
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Upon logical deduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:33 PM
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I perfectly understand that it is a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:25 PM
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It's not really cucking unless it's your gf/wife being fucked. People simply get turned on when they see other people fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:15 PM
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As a man, I will never understand male insecurity about the size of the penis. Imagine thinking that no matter how good of a lover you are and how expertly you pleasure a woman, a guy with a few additional inches to him will always effortlessly outclass you by the sheer virtue of his huge cock. It's just a huge cuckold fantasy at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:10 PM
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Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:16 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:51 PM
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Why not? No woman is thirsting over a man as she is over a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:51 AM
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Dunno, I see lots of women bemoaning the fact they are heterosexual and exalting lesbian sex and women as something very desirable. Comments thirsting over lesbian-coded women are predominantly female, unlike comments thirsting over men. Plus, the expectations and prejudices women have for men are a lot higher than for other women. I feel like women compromise by engaging in relationships with men and would most gladly enter a homosexual relationship were they so inclined. It's like lesbians are…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:51 AM
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I am low-key envious of lesbians. No matter what I do or how I look, I'm never going to make women feel as comfortable and as good as a lesbian can. You could be Eros himself, but always remain a second fiddle to Aphrodite. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:41 AM
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A 2/10 woman can go hit on a good looking guy and will never get shamed for it. My guy, this is an absolute delusion. Every single man I know would tell you that such a woman is shooting far above her league and would mock her for it. Stop with the cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:38 AM
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Probably those highy sought after men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:21 AM
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It could be because of the social or internal pressure, or simply because they wanted an ego-trip. Not everyone has casual sex just because they like sex or find that particular person attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:17 AM
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Not necessarily, because women for the most part didn't have a free will in choosing their mates. It was imposed upon them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:08 AM
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Male celebrities almost never date fans, they date women of similar socioeconomic standing as them, i.e. supermodels, socialites, entertainers, etc. It's the same for female celebrities. Now, if by "date" you mean "have sex", I'd say male celebrities still do it a lot more, but that female celebrities do it more than we think, it's just that the PR fallout of such a thing getting out in the public is a lot more severe for women than men, so women expend a lot greater effort into hiding it, espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:59 AM
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Ooo, komšinka. Ima i nas Balkanaca ovde, ko bi rekao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:35 AM
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In a good way, I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:49 PM
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Dunno man, I'd be very upfront about, exactly so that I wouldn't waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:48 PM
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Never lower your standards, not even in the face of lifelong celibacy, my friend. Better to live single than to live in miserable relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:02 PM
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True that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:44 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:32 PM
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Few million bucks, mostly because changes in the stock market are unpredictable and any lesser amount can be made useless through hyperinflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:25 PM
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Your girl is dumb, mate. Sorry to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:24 PM
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I'm a simp because I want to eat a woman's ass and would refuse one that didn't want me to? Where the hell is logic in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:10 PM
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pre-alpha widowed What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:09 PM
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Yes, Serbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:51 PM
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My greatest requirement for dating a woman is that she allows me to eat her ass. If she doesn't want to, I swipe left without hesitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:51 PM
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People of my nation celebrate it on January 7th, so it's too early for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:47 PM
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Don't say this outloud, you'll be very downvoted. Men seem to believe everyone else should just bow down to them just because they have penis and testicles. When it comes to actually taking up the responsibility of a father of the household, suddenly there's nobody there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:44 PM
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They are trolls who purposely ragebait insecure men here to laugh at their reaction. Don't take them seriously, because they don't take themselves seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:40 PM
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The main problem within giving self-help advice over the Internet is that you have no idea what exactly is going on on the other side. Sure, the people can tell you their circumstances, but how truthful are they? Not saying they are deceitful on purpose, but maybe there are things they themselves do not see, or things they see from a very warped perspective. The point is, you personally need to know the individual and their circumstances in order to be able to give specific advice, or else you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:35 PM
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Men being massive simps and virulently defending their own simpery as something inherent, uncontrollable and unavoidable has lowered my estimation of them from "tolerable" to "actively scorning". From a kissless male 21-years-old virgin, y'all absolutely pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:49 AM
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Weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:44 AM
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Weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:44 AM
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As a man, this is true. I am a kissless virgin and I rejected a girl I saw beneath my standards without any regret, even if I knew I could easily get her to bed. Men being massive simps is the root problem of everything else in the dating scene. If men had high standards and abundance-mentality, a lot more women would be putting in active effort to get a mate they want, instead knowing they only have to look pretty and approachable. This is what is meant by the misunderstood phrase "women want y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:41 AM
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Why are people obsessed with having a large quantity of love interests and being the most desirable? Who? (Popular group) is always gonna do better than (medicore group). What does this mean? I can’t see how it’s good to live your life “needing” the most validation from people. It has to be desperation for validation. It isn't good, but lacking healthy self-esteem. Why not be fine with a few people liking you and leaving it at that? It's likely because they don't feel those people genuinely like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:27 PM
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When you want to know what women want, never consult a Liberal. When you want to know what women don't want, never consult a Conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:00 PM
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I doesn't remove any of their agency because they can always free themselves. You don't hold them down with all your strength so they can't move even if they want to, you hold them down gently. It's like hugging; you can get away from the other person at any time you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:07 PM
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"whether you want it or not" I don't recall I ever mentioned this. whoever's getting dominated is surely below even if it's something they are enjoying This is true, which is why I'm saying that passionate sex =\= dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:58 PM
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Maybe if you squint and turn your head to the side in half-darkness. It could easily be interpreted as "lay down while I give you unimaginable pleasure", which is very passionate, but not dominant at all. Dominance is about hierarchy, which I don't see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:53 PM
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Why would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:48 PM
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I don't believe a man should rule as a despot over a woman, but men definitely need to stop being desperate simps who let women walk over them. Have your standards and stick to them. If a woman feels she can disrespect you, both subtly and openly, cast her away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:04 PM
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I do agree that most women prefer a physically strong men far more than they want starved twinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:01 PM
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So it's more than being very into you when you talk about the former form. It's about being overpowered physically, being manhandled, feeling like the man is being primal about fucking you. I don't like this description, because "being overpowered" implies that women put up a resistance they want you to overcome, which may be in line with niche rape-roleplayers, but by-and-large isn't the case. Again, the point of my comment is that a man being primal about fucking a woman has nothing to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:30 PM
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One thing I have noticed about women's description of dominance in men is that, in a significant chunk of cases, women mistake a man being very passionate and intense as being dominant. Like, a man passionately kissing you all over while holding down your arms, or thrusting hard and fast into you while maintaining intense eye-contact and roaming his hands all over you isn't being dominant in any way, just very, very into you. A dominant man is the man who supplants your agency with his own and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:49 PM
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It is better to be alone than a pathetic simp and this is coming from a kissless virgin. I've rejected a girl who was clearly into me because I found her stupid and ugly and I do not regret anything. I am not a desparate hound, I have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:33 PM
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A traditional relationship is defined as a strict hierarchy with the father of the household on top and everyone else below in the appropriate order. The father bears the responsibility of the economy, protection and good standing of his household in the face of the wider society. Usually, when men talk about traditional men, they focus on the authority he wields over his household. When women talk about traditional men, they focus on the responsibility he takes up for the sake of the well-being…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:28 PM
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You'd be surprised, because a decent chunk of men seem to conclude that having standards and not immediately falling to your knees for a woman means being emotionally unavailable and an asshole. Besides, most men cannot fathom refusing a willing woman, so they tend to think that a man who does has something wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:18 PM
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Yeah, but they are a very small minority. There is an exception to every rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:32 PM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:16 PM
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Remember, you can want sex but not be "sex driven" to absurd levels. True, but the thing is that men's sex drive spurs them to action, while women's doesn't. What woman would go and slay a dragon just to be able to lay with a handsome prince? Not saying this is most men at all, but it is telling we don't have similar stories about women and their lust for men. Women do actively show their desires. How? Creepily smiling and fluttering eyelashes at the men they are interested in doesn't really cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:53 AM
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"Why do men insist on believing that woman don't want sex as much as they do?" I mean, because women aren't as sexdriven as men are? Because they don't actively show their desires? Because they dislike initiating sex? Because they don't masturbate nowhere near as frequently as men do? Because their arousal is as sensitive to disturbances as a seismometer? Because getting them aroused in the first place takes a lot more effort than arousing men? Because making them orgasm requires a lot greater e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:56 AM
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There are several reasons: 1) Maidens are seen as more nubile than promiscuous women, who are stigmatised by the society, have very damaged marriage prospects and bring shame to their families 2) Fathers know that heterosex is inherently a man sexually humiliating and degrading a woman and can't bear the thought of their daughter going through that 3) Fathers perceive their daughters as extensions of themselves and since heterosex is often perceived as a conquest and domination of a woman by a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:53 AM
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I certainly don't see women doing horribly embarrassing shit at the possibility of getting a crumb of D and I certainly don't see women suffering because no man wants to give them the D.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:08 PM
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"Why so men insist on believing women don't want sex as much as they do?" I mean, because women aren't as sexdriven as men are? Because they don't actively show their desires? Because they dislike initiating sex? Because they don't masturbate nowhere near as frequently as men do? Because their arousal is as sensitive to disturbances as a seismometer? Because getting them aroused in the first place takes a lot more effort than arousing men? Because making them orgasm requires a lot greater effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:51 PM
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Because society considers male virgins in some ways defective and repulsive and shames them for it. After all, they say, if they weren't those things, he would attract women. There's also the fact that men themselves derive a significant portion of their personal value from female sexual attention. That's why you see male virgins online feeling so depressed and ostracised; no woman is lusting after them and that annihilates their self-esteem. Plus, women are repelled by sexually inexperienced me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:03 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:53 PM
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People often say that radical feminism is what brings bad name to feminism, but I disagree. That's liberal (mainstream) feminism. Which one of you actually knows what radical feminists are saying? Do you know any radfem authors and their works? No, you don't, because radfem designation has become used just to brand someone one disagrees on theoretical ground. The actual radical feminism is unknown and invisible to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:22 PM
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