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Thanks for this post, man. My mood has been on a skyrocketing trajectory since I cut off contact with an ex who wouldn't leave me alone yet wants to be entirely platonic friends, and this kind of confirms everything I've been thinking lately. It feels like my entire life is in a much better place this year, the best in a long time. I'm starting to achieve all the things in the passions I want, I keep a busy, varied life doing things I like doing, loneliness issues subsiding since I now have a sm…
/r/seduction23/01/17 09:24 AM
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Yeah, I see that now man. I thought from the way she initiated and kept saying she was in a confused place with romantic history details that meant I could safely open up to her emotionally and that it might help things, but it doesn't. Made things worse for myself most likely. I stupidly thought she was "different" to other women, but nah. Until they're sucking your dick every day, they'll lose interest at the slightest hint at neediness. I thought from her still clinging onto me and trying to …
/r/askTRP17/11/16 10:10 PM
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I think I know, but care to point out the specific ways?
/r/askTRP17/11/16 02:54 PM
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Absolutely, man. There is a 1% out there. I know a group of about 10-20 IT students in the year below me who are genuinely passionate about game development and they're always coming up with cool game concepts and ideas. They're a bit socially awkward, but they're chill dudes. They'll get out of their shell eventually. You're right though, being a judgemental asshole doesn't help anyone lol. I think it's just frustrating for me because I used to be that very awkward guy when I was a teenager, an…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 07:40 PM
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OP very nicely introduced the problem with this type of guy. I think there's a certain type of "study hard" person that likes to devote the first 20 years of life to academia in a certain field, but financial and academic success as well as family pressures are only reasons they do it. They haven't got any real passion or interest in it, they just do it because their mom told them being a doctor is a good idea and they haven't thought beyond "well this makes economic sense so I might as well". T…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 06:15 AM
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I never said I was red pill. I'm working on it to the best extent I can.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 11:13 PM
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Correct. Ding ding ding. That's what I'm seeing now. My past close-to-girlfriend friendships started out with me being very good friends with a girl before growing feelings - they knew, too - letting them use me as an emotional support rag whilst I was never really given anything in return, and unsurprisingly, it always went up in flames and ended on horrific terms. They'd abandon me as soon as things would get complicated or too hard for them to deal with emotionally. I always ended up being us…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 11:09 PM
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Yep. Thanks for the explanation, I'm working on building that abundance mentality. It's difficult doing that as a helpless romantic, but again, the recent hook-ups are helping me develop that.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 02:26 PM
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:( Too familiar, bro. Too familiar. Luckily my lack of experience means that with every girl that 'friendzoned' me, I was scared of that risk, so I intentionally kept my emotional distance and I feel like I didn't get crazy invested in anyone before they rejected me. But years of rejections and dead ends still hurt. I'm ok these days with that, though. Having had success with women lately in the last year, whenever it's happened I've always walked away feeling oddly unfulfilled. It's never been …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:35 AM
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I appreciate the bluntness. I'm genuinely trying to go for more women now rather than my picky type, so if I see IOIs from women I'm not into I still try to force myself to go for it as a way to build up experience anyway. You're right, I'd likely fuck it up with the hotter ones, and I'm very worried about doing that right now with a 9 I seem to be really clicking with I met the other day. But I think I've learned from past mistakes this time, so we'll see how it goes. As for the rest of your ad…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 03:29 AM
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Too right, bruva. I'm trying to live in the moment more.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 09:33 PM
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Yeah, I know fam. I'm working on it!
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 04:20 PM
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You don't need to lower your standards. If you want to change your results,you need to change you because you cannot realistically change the world. That's exactly what I'm agreeing with lol. I'm not saying looks are entirely the case, but it seems to mostly be the case with the kind of women I go for and am attracted to. I'm not saying the problem isn't me, either, I definitely have the habit of chasing girls I'm into a bit too keenly or not making my intentions clear, so I'm working on improvi…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 02:24 AM
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I agree on the multiple girl thing, but I didn't have many options at this one. The party consisted of old friends I've known for years and hang out with frequently plus 3-4 people I didn't know as much, so I didn't see much point in having more same-y conversations with people I know very well, and the other people were guys. I bounced around between everyone, but often went back to her since Models said the flaking issue was because I don't build enough of a connection in person on that initia…
/r/seduction16/02/16 10:11 PM
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Having been "friend zoned" before, I can say this - it's bullshit. It's bullshit that "it doesn't exist", it's bullshit that it does, and it's bullshit that romantically inexperienced guys put themselves through it and get resentful rather than move on. It's this simple - you need to be direct about liking someone. If you like her, don't try and be her friend for too long, or that's all she will see you as because she'll think that's all you want. Don't get upset if she says she just wants to be…
/r/seduction28/01/15 01:46 AM
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