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That's the hardest shit you've had at your age??? Haven't got imaginary numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:19 PM
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Math ain't mathing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:03 PM
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you're fat, or an ugly ethnic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:58 PM
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maybe there's something more urgent you should have done that distracts you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:28 PM
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not just free time, depends of how quick that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:20 PM
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Everyone and everything, except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:46 PM
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Nah. I don't buy people want to be celibate. This is their ego saving tactics, they're just insufferable picky and lazy losers with insufferable egos. And when you look at actual incels what do you see: insufferable picky and lazy losers with insufferable egos, but aware. Same shit, really. People are alone always because they can't get what they want easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:27 PM
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Everyone with a bit of brain power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:19 PM
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This appears as a "young guy mindset" to you but this isn't. This is a "experiencing rejection" mindset, which affects young guys the most. Don't conflate correlations for causations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:19 PM
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There's no such thing as fakecel or volcel. If you don't succeed you're an incel. End of story. Men's success will be about sex, and women's about commitment. You're not married or having a flourishing LTR by 24? Absolute femcel, don't even debate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:38 PM
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Simply don't answer the phone and privilege asynchrone communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:45 PM
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Sucks to be friendzoned. Simply don't answer the phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:26 PM
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yeah everyone thinks their behavior is the direct result of how they're treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:40 AM
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Solo leveling wasn't even that great why you be waiting? It's pure braindead entertainment. Plenty of better animes out there. My fav being Attack on titan which mixes both entertainment with good world building and good writing. And plenty of good entertainment animes. Currently watching re zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:20 PM
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80% of poverty would be instantly resolved with therapy and accountability. the rich
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:10 PM
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23 minutes is what it takes for the mod team to get through reports on my comments and get my comment removed for contentless rethoric Meanwhile women's, pink piller's and blue piller's contentless rethoric comment still not removed weeks after reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:02 PM
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Sorry for knowing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:12 PM
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Think thoroughly of what men and women typically provide to society, which gender you typically interface with to access to both provisions, and you'll get your answer as to why people easily forget what women benefit from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:04 PM
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Men benefit women's lives. It's just that men were so good at it that their immediate presence is no longer necessary for their existence to benefit women's lives. So now some women turn around and show the full extent of their ungratefulness. -Most men have unrealistic expectations of what a women should look like That's on women. That's entirely women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:36 AM
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I neg pretentious narcissistic people because that's what they deserve, simple as that. And on the contrary I compliment insecure or humble people. it's not about how I look vs how she looks, it's how she looks vs how she thinks she looks. Most of the time they'll not be that beautiful but believe they are 10/10. Because people like you tell them they're beautiful non stop. They're most likely sightly above average and their behavior is a total mismatch of their actual value. In fact, their beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:15 AM
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Words have meaning. Not getting laid means nothing of the rest is also accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:21 PM
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When men ask you to gender swap what you say to check out if you'd be offended, you call it whataboutism. People who think toxic behaviors are "men being men" are just rural third worlders. Men who claim are lonely are actually lonely though. Not sure what you mean. Loneliness is an emotion not an environmental thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:45 PM
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No the joke is worse than that. Women are often concerned about their safety in contextes where men are more at risk than women, but will claim they're more in danger than men. That's the entire problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:14 AM
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English is half french half german maybe english ppl should sit their own language out. When a woman is old and classy with robust features she's handsome not pretty. Pretty is for femininity. Beautiful also works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:23 PM
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One of the most frustrating thing is trying to explain to people that there is nothing that makes me both happy and meet new people. And then, yes, something that makes you happy and makes you meet people is no guarantee of anything. But that is hard to believe for a woman because existing anywhere will make ppl gravitate around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:24 PM
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what makes you believe you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:50 AM
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that's not pretty that's handsome. As usual women are blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:48 AM
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It's the same reason why people like to video tape themselves doing things to post them online and be complimented. But personally I'd do it just because I'd hate them doing it and fuck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:42 AM
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Aren't you conflating with okcupid? Because men and women had the same messaging patterns where they essentially messaged the top 40% of people, only women were convinced they were messaging ugly or average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:57 PM
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twas just me attempting to joke
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:02 PM
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Lmao this article. The reason for this gender disparity is probably not that women are more appearance-focused than men. The most likely explanation is that women, who are generally less likely to initiate contact, have a higher threshold when they do so. For many women, though certainly not all, if they are going to break with gender norms, it is only going to be for a really attractive guy. "The reason isn't women being shallow, it's women being super extra shallow but expressed in a way that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:11 PM
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You got topped by all the people skipping answering you altogether. Not me sadly because I wanted to inform you. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:05 PM
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Dismissive and hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:43 PM
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Are you? Just because it's Q4W doesn't mean there's no other premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:12 PM
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Not equivalent. It's not about liking or not liking. OP doesn't make a post addressed to you obviously, why answer it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:21 PM
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Then why do answer the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:32 PM
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In every social way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:48 PM
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Strawman or you didn't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:07 PM
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That’s literally a condition. See? Right there! Even when someone isn't agreeing with either sides, the blue pill side will always push everyone to one extreme no matter what. Show me where I said I agreed that it's entirely unconditional. How do they not realize that what they've written is a proof they didn't read or understand, or either a proof they're bad faith? Oh, right--because in their world, only them are right, only their extreme right. Your tone is so infuriating especially when it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:05 PM
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the gravity of the negative effect is not nearly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:03 PM
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I already answered. Confidence conveys things that are illusive and not useful for seducing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:02 PM
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How are you here and do not know the basics of PPD? That you agree or disagree with doesn't even matter. In a sexued specie, whichever gender carries the babies is intrinsically the bottle neck of reproduction and therefore innately more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:01 PM
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Mentally ill women don't suddenly lose everything over depression or some shit. People are more lenient with them. and having a bad boyfriend is worse than being single. it’s dangerous. Yeah so mentally ill women who lose everything are at risk of "potential dangerous boyfriend or being single". While their equivalent men have suicided or are homeless. Case on point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:28 PM
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That's true for american people I guess. Women lose their youthfull perfection around 25 (aka the wall) but they're still hot if they're not fat, and men enjoy it, even though they still perceive the changes. The thing is women are still more innately valuable even after the wall hit them. Men's issue is not necessarily bankrupt, but I think them falling into mental illness and losing everything is a good common example. Women are mentally ill all the time and are still kept around, being dysfun…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:11 PM
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It's a lot more frequent for men to suddenly lose everything that made them valuable to women than women to lose everything that made them valuable to men. Again, since existing as a woman is intrinsically more valuable it's harder to lose that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:02 PM
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I don't care about all that. I'm setting up the raw logic that makes men believe it's entirely unconditional. They're half right and half wrong. Women's value is much more innate and stabler, less likely to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:52 PM
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If women's value is more innate than men's, and men's value is more constructed than women's, then men's love for women is more unconditional than women's love for men. Inexorable logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:43 PM
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He has a point. She looks sad, but the picture is only one fraction of her existence though, could have been a bad shot or could be she was just distracted during the shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:41 PM
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So what? I know zero good looking people who have "poor social skills". This was the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:03 PM
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IDK what any of that has to do with what has been said or with the topic. "Social skills" are acquired easily when life smiled at you since the beginning. Your brain as a successful kid will develop better, you'll have a stronger puberty and a more balanced chemistry overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:12 PM
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I don't like the way you phrase it. I was never confident. But assertiveness paid off. It's just not my job to reject me, it's other's, that I think I'm ugly as shit doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:11 PM
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IDK where to go. I'm pinned with kids to take care of as well so not much time IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:09 PM
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Thanks for agreeing women treat chads better. Now we can maybe talk about how women want to be treated like stacy as the bar minimum and are trying to convince society men suck because they don't in fact like to do that to non stacy. Which are provoking societal changes that screws men over and which makes women treat men even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:59 PM
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I do try and tell them what strategy they should have to not feel overwhelmed lol but they don't care, they just complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:55 PM
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Well they can do that easily. All they have to do is to not accept everyone in just to flatter their ego that they're very popular. But they don't, and then they complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:49 PM
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Who says it’s devastating? The women. It's like the casino telling the gambler winning this much is difficult. Maybe if you talked to women, you'd know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:41 PM
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Yeah there's some learning to use tinder for women, but many at first are just tempted to have 50 matches just to bolster their ego. I personally stopped reading profiles though. I just swipe according to if I can feel affection for a face or not. Reading profiles actually makes me hate them and I know most of that doesn't matter. I only read if I get a match or if I'm indecisive on a person's pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:35 PM
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But having so many matches that they can't tell which to pick is apparently devastating to a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:20 PM
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no, percentages are perfect. You need to remember that on the other side, 90% of men don't get approached by women at all and don't reject any woman ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:19 PM
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Yeah second thing that pisses me off, women who think it's somehow not the same dynamics IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:16 PM
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Not only am I going to believe what I want but I'm not reading your comment any further than the first 4 words
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:13 PM
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It pisses me off how women refuse to acknowledge things are just more difficult for men. My female friends are like "we got so many matches on tinder we don't know what to do of them we need to filter it's difficult finding a good one, when men get a match they're sure of success" Like they don't talk to 99% of their matches and they think match = success for men? No matter how I explain to them that men do not get matches, when they get a match there's a high chance they don't answer to you, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:06 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:56 PM
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You focus on details unnecessarily, it's the same shit in the abstract, maybe with less users though. But 9 years ago, you'd still get harshly moderated if you were a man or a red piller while blue pillers like lilith would spill their nonsense without problems. The sub is obviously getting less users though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:10 PM
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Why do we have so many doomers "sub is dead" "sub is black pill" "sub is weird" fucking hell I've been here for 9 years and NOTHING HAS CHANGED
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:02 PM
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A positive state of mind isn't everyone's comfort and creative zone. It might not lead to assertiveness. It's bad to say confidence when the key is assertiveness. It's bad to say "do X" when people's goal is Y, because X has historically led to Y in normie attractive people. It's a classic defect of female/blue pill advices to men, it's always too indirect, or only works for women. Women are the one who ought to be confident, they don't need to actively perform they need to exist and to be attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:59 AM
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Confidence isn't conveying action, it's only about emulating a positive state of mind. Assertiveness conveys action, you can believe you're the ugliest mofo and not have confidence, if you act for your interests you'll have more chance of success. Why do you talk of social science, this is literally word definitions, you're using the wrong words as an advice to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:33 AM
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Confidence is bad. Conveys the wrong principles. Assertiveness is good, conveys the right principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:55 PM
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"both men and women [...] are quite shallow and [...] don't want to acknowlege it" Men do, women don't, that's part of the point of TRP and PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:56 PM
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why are men obsessed Is always followed by something men are actually not obsessed about. This is also a brag post "I'm 32 I'm hot look at me!". Unless you were fat at 20 and slimmed down, you probably didn't glow up. All you're describing is more ability to groom, and grooming doesn't make you more attractive, it just makes you pretend to be attractive better. Probably only other women are sensitive to it, probably also why you think there are "so many" older women who look "phenomenal" (they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:12 AM
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Well we're not answering questions to lazy people on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:04 PM
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First of all, turn based jrpgs are mid in term of gameplay. I played the demo and found out it wasn't even trying to make it fun. Secondly, turn based jrpgs carry you with good characters and story. Octopath traveler is shallow as hell. The turn based jrpgs I played were: FF7, 8, 9, 10, golden sun, mother 3. They all had huge gameplay defects, but had good other things to carry themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:35 PM
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No dissing, this is her-core
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:32 PM
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that's a strange way to stay single. I had issues because I wasn't assertive enough, I learned to just go for things I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:52 PM
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That sounds severe enough. You're likely one little trauma away from spiraling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:50 PM
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/u/leosandlattes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:50 PM
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Messaged a girl who ghosted me 3 weeks after she ghosted me. Just asking for a check up. She said she was sorry but that she kind of gave up on dating due to problems, and I wished her good luck with her problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:49 PM
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By articulate she means his big jaw is sexy when it moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:48 PM
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"these rich people tell everyone to stop making everything about money" "these rich people tell everyone to stop comparing everyone's wealth" "CEOs want you to stop comparing your pay with your coworkers" If good looking ppl tell you to stop making it all about looks then it means it's very darn important for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:45 PM
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No, it's garbage. Nintendo isn't for good solo games.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:42 PM
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You can message all three undesperately you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:41 PM
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Have you tried seeing a psychiatrist for your germophobia and OCD?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:40 PM
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It shows you people above your league first, then it gets lower and lower. And it does the same to them, it shows you when they run out of people at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:32 PM
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That's tinder. Tinder has no way to buy more visibility, it's selling you lies. The algorithm does figure out your worth. It prioritises your values and interests. It just does so much more though, like periodically showing you dead accounts, bots, and the like, to give you the impression there's any woman on it. And that's where your thing doesn't work. You are under the impression there are as much women as men who want to be on a dating app. It's a 90/10 ratio. Having equal distrib of matches…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:54 AM
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And who will fix that local culture? Sounds like an impossible ideal. The local culture is going worst, not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:48 AM
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So women are hard to get everywhere but it's a mistake to go where you're more valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:20 AM
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I think you make it unnecessarily binary. You simply pay for everything you're not good at. One way or another. It might not always be material, sometimes it's also labor, power dynamic, ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:41 PM
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Oh yeah that happens too when there are other criterias, like for instance if the main criteria is the guy's family and not himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:37 PM
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IDK white societies generally did a good job in having men and women meeting halfway there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:09 PM
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Yep and parents who would vet for men to marry to their daughter would do the same thing, get good guys their daughter isn't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:01 AM
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Actually never went there, it looks expensive and mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:35 AM
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You do seem kinda dry in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:45 AM
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Look I'm a software engineer and before that I was always building and managing my own computers ever since I'm 16. Listen to this very carefully because this is the most expert shit you'll ever hear. With some people it never works and never makes sense, that's you, you're that people. You are cursed with technology, it won't work with you, just fucking give up and don't bother other people with your tech problems that make no sense. You're welcome. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:43 AM
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It's true that internet for millenials was mainly an art thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:42 AM
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My sexual life with exwife was not terrible but there has been lows. I shit you not the moment I had most sex with her was 3 weeks before AND after we decided to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:39 AM
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Most guys do think of it. Source: talked to most guys, twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:37 AM
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First show that women are picky and hypocritical Then raise awareness Things will balance on their own once that is done Because the problem right now is that the spotlight is on fat black women who are unhappy at sydney sweeney. How do you expect things to get better for men when the privileged gender insists they're having it worst?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:35 AM
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Did you know that you can easily google people and find their name and address? I can't get mine all the while knowing my full name. I can't get infos on most people I Know either. There must be leak database out there with my older addr, since so many scammers are calling me with these info, but you'd need to know where to search, they're not on google. Whenever I stumble on something about me on google, I contact the website for them to remove it, and they do it, because they're legally oblige…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:03 PM
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Sorry, you don't get to ignore my question and ask me to answer yours. You ignored 90% of what I said so I'll wait you address every single of my point before I answer your new ones. But I do note that you believe doxxing is free speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:59 PM
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This is a loaded question, with the false premise that "so many men" are actually defending rape threats and CP. Can you at least say "tea app is wrong and this isn't about free speech"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:48 PM
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Doxxing is wrong, someone else's data aren't yours to dispose of and publish, this isn't free speech, and in enough 1st world country it's already straight out illegal. Your freedoms stop at mines. Are there even people on here advocating for the "free speech" for 8chan but not of tea app???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:39 PM
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Women might not like the adaptations. In fact, the entire problem is women won't adapt to anything, not even to the moral they insist is the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:53 PM
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"Hey guys why don't you increase your standards and aim only for the 5% minority on a criteria that isn't that high priority?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:14 PM
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"Just go to the club bro that's where women go to find men" The women at the club: "Couldn't we just have a girls only club?" np.reddit.com/r/justgalsbeingchicks/comments/1misoxn/lets_all_go_party_at_earlybirds_club/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:15 AM
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Remember guys. Femcels aren't women who can't get sex. Femcels are women who can't retain men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:58 PM
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Men want to be desired the same way they desire their partners. You can accuse them of solipsism, you cannot say whatever that entire post is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:14 PM
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redpill is descriptive not prescriptive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:44 PM
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The problem isn't falling for it. The problem is moderation are favoring them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:06 AM
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"This says a lot about you"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:38 AM
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Ok I didn't understand your initial statement, but I think society has an irrational outlook of sex and porn, it's still doxxing just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:53 PM
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Not the topic again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:51 PM
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Believe me, it takes a bit of effort to convince every woman you talk to that it's just wrong. Their first gut reaction is that it's good for women and that men had it coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:50 PM
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No, it's not just the trolls. It was the most downloaded app......
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:44 PM
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Lies, male versions went done and birthed laws to protect women. You're defending something that's illegal, immoral and full of shit, think about it slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:43 PM
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Not the topic tho. It's controversial when it should be considered plain illegal without any controverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:42 PM
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The points you make aren't the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:00 PM
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That's not the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:45 PM
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nothing you said here made any sense or is reflecting a reality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:30 PM
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That's what my mom thought when she was raising me the result was that no woman approached me and I had to relearn everything but with a delay. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:16 PM
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TIL. Doesn't change anything though, so nothing's out maneuvering nothing. But whatever you say you're going to be the one who knew better, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:14 PM
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I'm glad you spent your time and managed to find something negative to tell to someone mister golden retriever energy. I did know, the fun part is tea app was the tip of the iceberg of women being just awful people. The difference is FDS got banned from reddit. You can blame facebook for its inaction. But an app literally designed for it should not be controversial, it should just not make it to app stores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:04 PM
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I would never have thought that the DOXXING app would be so CONTROVERSIAL. When it should be considered unequivocally wrong. It's illegal to dox and to post people stuff online, it's been doubly illegal ever since we wanted women to be protected from doxxing, revenge porn and online harassment. Takaway: 1) Society and the unconscious collective cares the most about female victims from male offenders, and then female victims from female offenders. 2) Women are not less immoral and misbehaving tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:38 PM
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Tea app rage just proves women are immoral and unfair. Anti doxxing laws and regulations are literally here in the guise of protecting women. And now women want doxxing men in the guise of protecting women. This shows you should never listen to women when they talk of equality or protection of women, because they'll go 1984 if you let them do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:11 AM
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Don't forget that it should allow revenge porn as well since nobody has anything to hide, gotta see all these women who lie about their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:03 AM
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It does the same thing to men they do to us irl. No it does the same thing women do to men irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:02 AM
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In fact, that shit is illegal in europe and laws exist to make it easy to remove content from websites with the idea that it'll protect women from doxxing and online harassment. Even though revenge porn and the like were still obscure shits. The circle never ends. Women have a tiny problem -> we make laws -> women want to do something to break that law to control men more -> we don't comply -> women call men weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:00 AM
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It's not surprising, but considering all the garbage out there you'd think it's not so hard to make a restaurant where food tastes good. But a successful restaurant isn't about tasting good, it's about getting cheap resources that you sell extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:46 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:27 PM
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Yes my man there's functioning mentally ill and "can't function in society" mentally ill. What made you think I was talking of the former? Is inferring that difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:54 PM
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Most of the time homeless people are mentally ill. Not sure why you make it about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:40 PM
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Fun fact monster_lily doesn't have 3 grandmothers. She has 2 grandmothers and then someone else with no blood relation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:36 AM
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For every hot woman there's a dude tired of fucking her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:06 AM
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Same with people caring about "emotional intelligence"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:07 PM
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why???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:07 PM
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Oh well you can continue going to all the third world countries you like I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:20 PM
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Please do so and stay there :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:28 PM
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Mixing up everything. And no women who are lied to still don't believe the lies, they're just using the lies to bolster their false sense of self worth compared to you, but their insecurities are still talking louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:52 PM
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In my world, if a woman tells a man she's attracted to him, he believes her. if a man tells a woman she's attractive, she still is insecure no matter what, no amount of real life experience will unfuck her insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:38 PM
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Bruh thinks he can give me lessons and tells me the most insane naive pill I've ever heard. There's no amount of repeating something to women that makes them believe it, women just do not work that way, men do. Are you 16?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:27 PM
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I had a gf not so long ago who wouldn't fuck entirely naked, would only fuck in the dark, and wouldn't let me touch everything anytime. Didn't know it'd make me feel like it was barely sex, felt lame and unintimate as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:04 PM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:59 PM
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If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:32 PM
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Why would they block me lol, tired of seeing me appear?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:32 PM
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I don't match and block them, that person apparently did. Why would I get banned from tinder because someone did this to me? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:31 PM
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"I don't care to be inconsistent and hypocritical" Weird flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:28 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:39 PM
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No since men date down in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:39 PM
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Men always end up being given job positions that make more money. No. Men always end up TAKING job positions that make more money AND THEN working more in it. Women always end up picking a man who earns more. And so they decide to work less. It's actually a female privilege. Women are being given high earning jobs like crazy nowadays anyway. Women get raped and abused and courts are light on these crimes. Out of topic out of nowhere, still wrong. Courts aren't light on these crimes when women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:24 AM
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Oh I thought she canceled the match. But no she matched then blocked me? Ppl are wierd...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:21 AM
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Nowhere in that definition is it specified that the status has to be ECONOMIC. It is disingenuous to act like modern status doesn't have economic success as a parameter. Also men don't warp the definition of hypergamy to exclude physical attractiveness, because men also believe women date up in looks. So really you don't have a premise and you don't have an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:07 AM
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Tinder outdid itself Told me I had a match. Went on the app and there was no match. Then it keeps sending me notifications to send a message to this new match.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:45 AM
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Agree with A and B. But C? Men usually contribute more to the household, in the form of money and time (commute time very often). Society clearly is designed to favor women. And women act like this is still not good enough or that men are the problem. No, women ought to adapt to be better deals for men, or men are not going to build the society you need to feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:43 AM
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Yeah me too. But you're blue pilled, there must be somewhere where you say that women can do what men do, that a society without men could exist, or some other shit that suggests women aren't more neurotic than men :p I'm patient, I'll find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:38 AM
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It's bigotry to do so by your own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:37 AM
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Actions speak about values. If men are ready to pay for it then sex is more valuable to men. "insecurity and jealousy" is purely your imagination or projection. With your logic, women want commitment and exclusivity from men only because they're insecure and jealous. If they truly loved men they'd not want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:21 AM
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You're literally not calling out men's bullshit right here, so us, good guys, will call your misandry out. Absolutely reprehensible behavior. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1me8cp9/comment/n6avp2t/?context=3 here a comment you posted where you point out that criticizing an entire gender's behavior isn't a thing, it's bigotry. Isn't that some level of hypocrisy and cruelty, and lack of self awareness hm...?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:18 AM
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You're literally not calling out men's bullshit right here, so us, good guys, will call your misandry out. Absolutely reprehensible behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:10 AM
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Saving this reply for the next time you act like one fundamental difference between men and women, caused by neuroticism, isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:08 AM
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We get it, you're black.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:08 AM
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Where is the contradiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:04 AM
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They're perfectly capable of forgetting the past, considering they're ready to doxx their exes entirely to the eyes of everyone else on apps like the tea app.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:03 AM
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exemple 1 Highly illegal in europe. The laws that make the tea app illegal are the laws that were maid to PROTECT WOMEN. For instance protecting them from revenge porn or online harassment. This says a lot about you if you think this was a legitimate tool for women to "choose better". Because it was very likely never going to inform anybody of anything other than serve as online harassment tool. Example 2 If you think not wanting to date trans is a red flag you're the walking red flag. These sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:08 PM
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Other women don't like the idea of cooking for """men""", they don't like the expectation, they'd probably do it for a man they love. Men are the same about paying for dates, they're against the idea, but in front of someone you like you might want to pay for the dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:52 PM
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You probably don't know because you were flooded all your life with only women's idea of what should or shouldn't be considered love. Things in reality aren't simple or a button flip for everyone. It can be a spectrum that progressively improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:51 PM
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Mid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:51 PM
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Done
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:07 AM
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post on instagramreality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:33 AM
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Our genes are not mutating they're set from the start. Our organs are neutral and then get specialized. We all start with nipples, some dicklike organ, and some ovarylike organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:51 AM
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1 match a week that don't talk to me 1 match a month that talk to me Not counting obvious bots
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:18 AM
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Yeah not watching 35 min of it it probably fits in 2 sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:29 PM
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there are tops that are good for flatish women, just not this one. Balcony type tops are typically good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:08 PM
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if you got no tits it's going to look like you got even less than no tits
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:49 PM
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AFAIK it wasn't hacked it was just free to collect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:34 PM
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Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:24 PM
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You're acting like women never claimed they're capable to detect evil misandrist men from miles away to justify why some men are getting no attention and why it's not about their looks. You're just wrong, there's nothing to argue. Women will say anything to protect their image of not being shallow and picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:46 PM
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You say I can't flip it but you totally misunderstood the flipping. The point I am making is that most ppl aren't in danger, most people terrorized of going outside are the least likely to be in danger, and yet we still made it illegal to assault people. Same is true for doxxing and defamation, I'm probably not likely going to end being exposed on these apps, but I still think it should be illegal and that it's deeply wrong. And I think the wrong men are going to be doxxed on these apps, not the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:12 PM
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"I don't think the average woman thinks about being assaulted. I think the vast majority of women who are constantly talking about being assaulted are bitter femcels and radfem people who don't even go out to begin with" Assaulting people is still illegal though. Just because you don't think it'll happen to you doesn't mean we shouldn't discuss it and regulate it. Thankfully all that shit is already illegal in europe. And it's already illegal why? To protect women from revenge porn and other fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:25 AM
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No. Women should not be "giving guys a chance". Women should realize that these guys they think they give a chance to are their male equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:08 PM
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yeah confirmation doesn't hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:26 PM
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I didn't need a chatbot to do that automatically using my brain. Good luck doing that with oral and non verbal communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:35 PM
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If you feel that you're "damned if you do, damned if you don't", it's rather that you're damned for something, and damned even more if you try to compensate for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:37 PM
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I wasn't single until recently and have always been vocal about being a 3.5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:35 AM
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only do what matters, and not what don't matter! Why is nobody doing it???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:03 PM
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This is the way. Pooping on paid time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:44 AM
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I see it now. Women and blue pillers will say anything to make women seem like victims/good, even if it has 0 link with the topic. I guess this is the new way to circumvent "no contentless rhetoric". And no, sexual revolution in the west doesn't ONLY exists because of the great wars, it exists because of centuries of certain culture mechanics at play. Which don't exist in syria.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:57 AM
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I'm discussing the nature of sexual revolution in western countries and then they bring up third world infanticids and abortion patterns wtf is wrong with you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:54 PM
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My performances on tinder have improved! I now have more matches. Next step is to have matches who answer. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:56 PM
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This seems totally off topic. And I don't care about third world stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:53 PM
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So you tell me before it was a method of choosing where multiple people intervened in the decision, and now it's just the interested two, and you think it's more eugenics than before? You're arguing against yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:22 PM
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Sexual revolution was about sexual morals not about who to pick to reproduce with. You don't have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:03 PM
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Eugenism is intentional and globalized, whatever pattern emerges from the collective behavior of people isn't eugenism, it's called evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:36 AM
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Why do you think more money and more free time is worse than less money and less free time????
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:29 AM
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You tried to ad hominem me and you ran out of ad hominem to pull. you simply can't. Go back to anarcho capitalist subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:10 PM
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Boy I am French. The only regular french of this subreddit. I'm almost a celebrity. America is all about megacorps. Europe is maybe the only place with very little megacorps and you fucking dare to say that... Not saying europe is perfect, but fat better than the USA because the regulations are more in favor of the working class. We literally passed a regulation for nintendo not to have the right to fuck up your switch 2 remotely. It's benefiting the consumer, not the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:03 PM
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Explain why europe is doing better for the poor and middle class with more taxes and regulations? Taxes and regulations that help the rich do increase the power of the rich yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:27 PM
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It's so funny how it sounds exactly like the argument of rich people telling poor people to stop polluting. Sorry bro but I'm going to keep doing what needs to be done for me to be happy. The only solution for this is the same as the pollution one: tax or regulate the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:35 PM
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It's always hard to determine who started it, and maturity is accepting not to judge people. There are relations where the two are normal but driving each others crazy. And there are legit just crazy people. When someone is the crazy one or is with crazy ones in every relationship you can be sure it's suspicious. Internet being the biased place it is, they'll generally tend to believe men are crazy and women have been driven crazy. Always this "men are guilty and women are victim".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:59 PM
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Are we going to pretend biological imbalance are traditional gender roles? Here's one traditional gender role for you: men die a decade earlier and in much worse conditions than women. Now that things are balanced again, we can talk of how women are still marrying up, even the high earning women, to men who have more responsibilities, more commute time, more work hours, and are bitching about having to contribute to the home, while pestering that men's higher income is just luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:10 PM
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people have to accept that sexy women and sexy men in entertainment is for everyone's gaze. Women too do not imagine a female superhero that isn't attractive and confidently sexy with curves. That being said, there's still very little backslash against unhealthy male images in entertainment. Kpop men are very female gaze and the shit they have to go through to maintain their looks is just as insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:04 PM
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Most femcels I saw in pics were attractive but had insane obsessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:24 AM
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I mean it's not explicitly voicing jealousy, but you can be sinical about the fact a juvenile guy was chosen by a rapist solely because of his height. That face is juvenile that should be repulsive to all adult women. I've seen femcels voice jealousy over horrible shits though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:23 AM
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Look women, he's bashing men! Who wants to fuck him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:13 AM
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In my experience women who "can't find a good man": Attractive women who can get attention but who have either low libido, are bad at sex, are prude, and/or have standards above their pay grade, so that their man retainment is poor. Your idea of a good man is their idea of "not a real man". For those who see no benefit in being with a man: Usually can't get the initial spark, can't get much attention, either behavioral problem or just plain ugly and not ready to make compromises. Cute women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:07 AM
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I'll add, plenty of us guys can be friends with people, even they want to fuck constantly as well, even when they don't want to fuck them. That someone is valued as a human of sexual desire (because we don't desire objects) doesn't mean we can't value them in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:43 PM
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This is the 3rd world version of madonna whore complex. Madonna whore complex is already an issue that only afflicts some simpleton NPC men with the emotional capabilities of an oyster. Remember this is a western subreddit. Going to call NAMALT on this one and strongly suggest you stop posting on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:31 PM
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Oh They just say they're in australia so you don't bother them with coming or some shit. I'm actually french, they claim they'll come back "in a month", like that trope I've read it 50 times, exactly same. "i'm from taiwan/china/singa/... I'm in australia, I'll come back to <<insert where you live>> in a month"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:45 PM
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They always appear <1km away on me. Sometimes it's easy to spot them because their pics are too cliche, sometimes it's harder to know if it's just a regular asian woman or not. Sometimes they like me and I match just to piss them off a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:40 AM
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This is new information to you? My exwife can get a date + sex + anything she wants within a minute on tinder from very attractive rich men. The men aren't even P&Ding her, she's wants casual sex and they want something serious after spending a few hours with her. Meanwhile me had nothing off tinder. I don't even get the prostitutes. Just bots and some rare ppl who match but don't answer. Admittedly my ex is hot and I'm not. But when I look at what I compete against there's no amount of gymbro p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:38 AM
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well this is 99% of my matches on tinder even considering I'm swiping left on the obvious ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:25 AM
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I'm very successful on tinder. I've had my 50th conversation with the 50th asian lady who is in australia and comes back next month. :))) Edit: for ppl who don't know, these are scammers they're just dudes from third world trying to get money off you. They'll play the long game and then want to meetup and "oops I need money for <<insert excuse here>>"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:03 AM
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Guess is makes sense in american system.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:10 PM
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It's often due to layoffs. Yeah, so literally just middle class taxpayers paying for the greedy decisions of the rich class. It's even worse. Which is why the employer pays it. Not the government. Employer doesn't pay unemployment? It's the government with the tax money. At least in europe it works like that. Insurance pays people's medical bills who are a member of their plan. Ok my bad you are very very american. In europe Insurance pays people's medical bills, it's government's money, it's ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:54 PM
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Why would society pay for anybody's bad decision? Unemployment is just that: paying for ppl's bad decisions. Refunded abortion is tax money used for people's bad decisions. Insurance paying for people's medical bills when they have injuries is also paying for people's bad decisions. And why is it the man's bad decision and not the woman's?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:46 PM
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You can't think in hypotheticals? I know unemployment doens't allow this yet, all I'm saying is it'd fit IMO. The husband pays taxes for other people's unemployment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:40 PM
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I think unemployment benefits should be a thing rather than alimony. But my country might be nicer with unemployment than the USA so it makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:54 AM
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Ok I still don't see any argument in favor of alimony since that concept doesn't exist in normal partnerships ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:51 PM
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Ok, why would your business partner keep paying you shit then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:44 PM
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I'm seeing a chick who is a bit uglier and a lot poorer than me and yeah the amount of shit she's ready to go through is insane. Edit: It's not shit I'm voluntarily making her go through tho. I'm not sadistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:33 AM
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You truly pay everything bad in relationships. Having matches or having relationships isn't a proof of equality in any way. When someone matches with you on dating app who seem more attractive than you, 100% they're going to expect you to prove yourself and do all the efforts, while they're going to be at their worst behavior. When you see two ppl with mismatched looks together you can be sure their dynamic is affected. Most of the time the hotter one is like mentally ill and the uglier one is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:43 AM
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Likely misaligned teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:37 AM
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It's a debate subreddit, so I'm not going to care about fallacies, distractions or intimidation attempts. You either deal with my argument or you admit to being wrong, you chose the later.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:38 PM
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Well you get to the point of scrutinizing what I say and denying my experience, you clearly lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:13 PM
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Well it depends which kind of rape. Cold forced rape from a stranger? Probably as rare as murder. "he put a surprise finger in my ass that's rape!!!" probably more common than mugging, sure. Stats are generally clear that women are more at risk with people from their home than from strangers. While men are more at risk against strangers. There are places in every big cities you just don't walk in as a man if you want to keep your items and shoes. There are places you risk getting mugged or assau…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:55 PM
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It's like this in every big city, women are essentially risking snatch theft, sexual harassment, sexual assault (rarer) from stranger men. Unless they're getting in relationship with these guys, they risk way more: domestic violence, rape, murder. Men are risking being violented, mugged violently, assaulted, killed, from stranger men. All the same type of ppl perpetrating those: easily recognizable thugs or bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:43 PM
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Women can avoid them by not dating them. Men cannot avoid being assaulted, rattled, ect...??? Like I literally lived in a place where women could wander freely besides being harassed a bit and men would get stabbed if they're at the wrong place at the wrong hour, or mugged randomly in the street in front of everyone. How do you avoid that you ask???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:39 PM
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And I've never met a feminist who's against paid parental leave. Nearly all feminists I've heard of strongly encourage men to take on more childcare responsibilities. That's funny, paternal leaves was big talk from socialists. Then feminists too the mic and that topic totally disappeared from my country's landscape. Still not seeing it popping up much anywhere except in nordic european countries. Equal parents will always be less competitive than the people living the provider model. Indeed. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:35 PM
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It sounded like an attempt at strawman to me Women are the minority in violent non sexual crimes. It's that simple. People don't want to violent women, men are more at risk of violence than women, even when they're trying to help a woman away from an harasser men are risking a lot more violence than the said woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:23 PM
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you think women are the minority of victims in violent crime only because men protect them? Quote me saying it I've no patience for people making stuff up about what I said. Men trying to defend women are risking a lot more than the said women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:43 PM
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That's more reasonable than you'd think. The thing that's not reasonable is how people think a career is fucked up by a year or two of pauses. But somehow men having to lowball their jobs for a year of two because they're involved in their kid's raising is not a problem. You know a simple solution to all this is to give men paid parental leaves like the women's. But feminists are never going to allow equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:34 AM
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Why would you think the two are incompatible? Men can spot dangerous men it doesn't mean they can avoid them. Men who also try to protect women from dangerous men are more likely to get harmed or killed than the women being in danger. Women cannot spot dangerous or abuse men and throw themselves at them. A good equivalent would rather be how men throw themselves at jobs with obvious abusive work conditions and abusive managers/bosses. But women are also championning fucking themselves up in terr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:29 AM
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what is this new job supposed to be? Someone else's wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:14 AM
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Life is full of compromises regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:13 AM
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Grand to say that when OP has been showing their hatred of men, according to your logic. Some things are just not meant to be taken seriously regardless of how much you think men should love it. And it's very immature to think people should like even your bad sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:00 AM
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An actual high quality man only sees you as a sextoy or a plebbeian, and that is only if you're attractive. You thinking you wouldn't touch it with someone else's 10 foot pole is only ego speech. And they tend to marry actual high quality women which aren't women going on RPW. high quantity woman Now that's a woman capable to solve men's polysexual needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:07 PM
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You think he's not constantly "performing" for you? You think he's not constantly toning himself down so you don't get crushed by his insensitivity to your female bullshit? That's called a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:05 PM
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That's not what RPW is about. RP believes women are inclined to cunt and emasculate their man. If the man bends they lose attraction. If he doesn't they burn themselves out trying to bend him. This is something they need to stop doing. A "truly high quality man" doesn't commit to them. A "high quality man" to them is a high beta, balanced men, who are stable enough but to who you're sexually and romantically attracted to. I'm always impressed how much ppl are willing to debate things they do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:02 PM
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RPW isn't traditionalist AFAIK, and "traditionalist" american women aren't even traditionalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:59 PM
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FDS is crazy yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:38 PM
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RPW isn't to get better men it's to not emasculate your already high quality man and ruin your relationship. FDS is for women who can't get a high quality male to begin with. But while I've not read the details of FDS I feel it lacks a bit of pro-active girl game. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:07 PM
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I'd go with her and criticize the physique of the waiters and pick my favorite with her. I'm not even bi but I get it, it's fun. I'll even flirt more than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:37 PM
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Women's "feelings and intuition" for filtering men is basically a halo effect and thorn effect fiesta that's why they're told to do better. Men have zero issue spotting the dangerous men out there it doesn't take much intuition it takes being observant a bit and silencing certain urges. "Are We Dating The Same Guy" is fine for just finding out cheaters. But it is also going to be bias central place, "unhappy exgf" is a pleonasm. Some women will do everything to justify keeping dating the hot guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:58 PM
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It's nice to have a francophonic on PPD, yeay. I'm not in the mood and at any energy level to read all of this though. I get that you partially agree with me but for now we can just conclude that this is just a difficult societal problem to solve impartially. But if you could condensate all of that into a few simple points I'd gladly answer tomorrow. <3 Sorry to be this tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:24 PM
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Look, I'm french, but this is hilarious, you've sent me like 25 comments and one of them is randomly in french ,wtf is up with you why :''')
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:12 PM
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Yes you don't. Nobody in this thread is against 50/50 when separating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:35 PM
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Without jame's wife career, james would have more money, james would have a better wife, joe would have more money, and a wife. All men would be valued more twice: 1) because women wouldn't make their own money as easily 2) because men would make more money more easily It's like saying you unleash indian people to work in american market and claim it's good for the local white people. No it's not, it's good for the CEO class.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:32 PM
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Husbands care more about random men than about themselves ? Men care to have financial and sexual opportunities in society. The top men might be glad to have a wife who earns good money for sure, but their relative value to their wife is worsened and they might be making less money than they could have otherwise. This is a bit like if you told me "CEOs care about employees making good money?" and the answer is no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:26 PM
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I'm against sexism and racism. DEI is sexism and racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:00 PM
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James is likely not poorer than her. So she's not giving it to her, she's still gaining wealth both from her job and from her man. While Joe needed that salary more as he is only gaining wealth from his job and losing wealth to a wife, if he has any. The point with taking men and women as a single entity is that you cannot manipulate the scenario at will disregarding what typically happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:59 PM
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There's also a bunch of random people betting on it, and a bunch of random world wide event that can affect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:26 PM
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There's no such thing as housewife's unpaid labour. It's paid for. She builds wealth on his income. Which she's going to get half of when she divorces. Her bills are paid as well. She's quitting a "partnership" or breaking a "contract" and guess what jobs are: partnerships and contracts. Alimony on the other side, is asking to be paid after the contract is over. Which makes no sense. Just find another job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:44 PM
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I was just joking around he's likely not talking of himself. Ugly ppl wouldn't post themselves as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:41 PM
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First of all, stock market is kind of gambling Then, he said he wants domapine hit from hedonism not from stock market operations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:41 PM
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The dopamine is from the hedonism not from the money gain. not everyone is a gambling addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:24 PM
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Himself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:18 PM
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Daily reminder that "contentless rethoric" and "contentless rethoric blue pill edition" aren't the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:17 PM
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Would you receive alimony from an ex husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:53 PM
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Answer the Q then I'll have enough context to answer yours knowing your point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:53 PM
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She takes 50% of the remaining money after you paid 80% of the bills. Sounds like paying twice for the same thing in my book. But it is justified cause the point of marriage is putting everything in common. And then alimony makes you pay a 3rd time for the same thing. And equivalent would be that you still get to fuck her and get meals prepared for you long after the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:50 PM
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When you quit your job you don't expect to be paid by your boss years after leaving the job. You find another job. If your job is being a housewife then you find another job. Or you don't divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:49 PM
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Why do you think people should pay for a person who decided to leave the household and no longer does contribute to your home?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:46 PM
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I think this is precisely because women are working full time that you get posts like this complaining about having to raise kids and doing chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:44 PM
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"men want women to work for them for free, btw 50/50 is disrespect towards women, men should pay the bills" When you marry someone, you are agreeing that your assets are now shared and will be split 50/50. I thought this was a post about how men want women to work for them for free and how bad is it, but so far you're arguing in favor of it. When you marry someone, you are agreeing that your chores are now shared as well. And while she’s doing this, they don’t care that these years are making he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:37 AM
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That's not incompatible, every man grows tired of fucking the samechick. Doesn't change anything. Maybe one day you’ll get the opportunity to learn the truth of that statement for yourself. I have actually..... that's exactly why I come to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:08 AM
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Nah I just think that many of you are actually disappointed at how mid the "hot chicks" actually are, because they are just that: overglorified mid women. Or maybe you let yourself psyop by social media into thinking masculine handsome women are hot and beautiful, they're still essentially mid, only femininity drags affection from men. And that you eventually settle for another mid woman who is your type and who you are comfortable with/in love with. The truly hot women have men beg for them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:41 AM
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Hotness doesn't wear off for me. I'd find that weird that it does to anyone else. And the second guys out there, who are into casual sex, find someone who is actually hot all accross the board they want to commit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:07 PM
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Not being allowed abortions isn't lack of bodily autonomy rights, it's women being told "don't have sex if you don't want babies, you won't die", which is the same as telling men "you won't die from not having sex or relationships".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:44 PM
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You should look at the economic studies - inflation kept happening but salaries stagnated. How can you say "we only benefited" lol. Oh sorry, did some better woman take your job? Women I know in dev are generally aware they get hired not because they're better, but because they're women. They're literally told that by their employer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:40 AM
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Yeah no I think it's that and I don't think you followed the topic. People have difference stances on casual sex but casual sex in someone's past isn't indicative of sexual compatibility. Unless you have some irrational hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:29 PM
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That sounds irrelevant to sexual compatibility. Are you sure you're not just disgusted at the idea of sleeping with someone who had casual sex before?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:33 PM
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"what's stopping you from becoming brad pitt?" "genetics" "you're black pill! knew it!" ....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:30 PM
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Society thinks every problems that feminists, wokes, pocs, or poor people raise are problems to be solved. Which all often time results of people not wanting to date them, treat them well, give them free stuff, hire them, house them, ect.... Do you have the same opinions on every other problems? Gays do need to be married to be happy? Can't they be happy with just being together? Women do need to have the right to abort to be happy can't they just stop having sex if they don't want to risk it? S…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:11 PM
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This is addressing a point such as "does it make sense on an evo psych to consider men to increase in value with age?" and disagrees with it. Now if the point is "do men lose less value with age than women" this is still not countering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:51 PM
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Sexisms that are balanced are not hypocritical unless they are also anti-sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:23 PM
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Highest answer isn't answering the post as usual. Which part of "I was a fucboi with a great career and a great body" made you unable to get a relationship??? The point is that when you're hookup material women simply treat you better. Nothing stops you from committing to a woman unless you are not commitment material at all. But you were commitment material before you became hookup material so it should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:47 AM
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This sounds a lot like lower value women's problems. Maybe it made sense beck in the day when men paid for everything, but in todays age it is just plain lazy and unfair that men still expect women to shoulder this burden. So you agree the entire problem is women making too much money and wanting equality? It's not plain lazy and unfair that men expect women to work for the bills. Since women expect men to work for commitment, since women take away from men's salaries by working and having caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:44 AM
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Congrats on being attractive and experiencing the next step problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:22 AM
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What rule did he break?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:34 AM
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Don't come here if you don't intent to respect the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:27 AM
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good for you bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:21 AM
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you'll care about staying civil though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:21 AM
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Then don't come here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:07 AM
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I'm on tinder and I've literally had 0 matches with women interested in meeting. Obviously I've had matches with asian crypto scammers but I don't count them. And I'm capable to get women and dates otherwise. Tinder is rly rly bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:01 AM
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I don't take seriously anybody using the word "objectify" unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:59 AM
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Why are you so mean to him do you know him?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:42 AM
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These last 2 months I divorced a health (19.5 BMI) woman and am now dating and fucking a healthy (20 BMI) woman. And still fucking the exwife in the meantime. What are you waiting???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:42 AM
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Top comments are always personal attacks and contentless rethoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:40 AM
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Yes. But not only. Literally INTPs are weird non conformist thinkers according to mbti. And your belief set is the most conformist non weird shit there is. Makes it unlikely for you to be INTP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:55 PM
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It's an accumulation of parameters that make it unlikely. INTPs aren't blue pill and aren't feminist, and female INTPs are even rarer. These are practically saying "I'm ISFJ" tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:54 AM
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My MBTI knowledge is fine. But heuristics can fail, by definition, they're no absolutes. IDK what "thinly veiled Thinker supremacy" is but my point is rather around N: everyone wants to be N, and a lot of people get mistyped N.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:58 PM
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Doubt any of yall are female blue pillers and feminists are anywhere INTP. Especially if your ref is 16p website.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:36 PM
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Uh no feminism is a female empowerment movement. But to get everyone on board with empowering them it needs to appeal to men's guilt and protectiveness. It very much is asking society to provide for women because they can't do things for themselves other than complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:43 PM
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They don't exactly behave normally though, they're asexual in behavior. Can you fuck someone who is asexual? Zero complicity, zero rizz, all stress, all insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:35 PM
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I need to bathe him PERSONALLY and thoroughly … I wouldn’t trust him to do it himself Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:34 PM
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The same way they designed feminism to be perpetually paiting women as victims and unprivileged when they're in fact perpetual privileged class.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:33 PM
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Yeah women do not WANT to take advantage of men. They TAKE advantage of men period. By for ever designing "partnerships" in a way where men are forever supposed to be thankful that a woman chose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:30 PM
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At the same time, we tell men not to ever bother women and to let them come. Eventually, women can totally do the first move, but it's a lie to say that men and women won't have different strategies to build.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:28 PM
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They won't since they are conditionned to be indirect when men are conditionned to approach. Men aren't even conditionned to approach. What stops women from learning to approach? The answer: The inate belief they should have everything handed to them with no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:02 PM
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You have yet to explain how women don't have the privilege to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:24 PM
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I am pretty sure lots of the guys who complain never heard the experience of the "ugly" girl of the group who is never approached. Why ? Because men have the choice Yes I do, I've talked to many of those. I have no sympathy for them when they don't do efforts to be outside, to be approachable, or to approach people themselves. All complains zero efforts, despite twice the options that men have. Men never get approached unless they are very attractive. Mind you I have no sympathy for men who comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:00 PM
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Well my experience says otherwise. Run and get sick, get tired, get hungry. HIIT boosts you sky high and even makes you better at more steady cardio. There was a time I'd run 45 min 3 times a week. And nothing made me progress faster at that than NOT RUNNING FOR 45 MIN. The second I started implementing higher intensity training my performances skyrocketed, my muscle gain and fat loss too. so if you pack on 30 lbs of muscle which is a lot you'll be burning an extra 180 a day Versus -90 for pure …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:15 AM
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I don't know what "terp screeds" mean. But RP being descriptive and not prescriptive is like an ABSOLUTE BASIC universally agreed on here. So no we probably do not read the same thing and you're very likely in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:10 AM
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Even then, there's little else that melts fat off faster than running Last time I checked, the best fat melting activities were, high intensivity things (like HIIT/tabata) or very slow cardio (walking). And that lifting's impros calories out overall over a long period of time while cardio is more one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:40 AM
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That's a different concern from "actions speak louder than words". Someone can tell me they're redpill, if they prove to me the ideology they subscribe to is not redpill then I'm not believing they're redpill. Which is a frequent occurence here. Also feminism isn't about equality, it's about female empowerment regardless of men. Its ideology is designed to perpetually set women as inferior to men, so it'll never stop at equality, and in action it effectively never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:03 AM
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I get your concern but "I'm happier thanks to <<blackpill belief>>" isn't plausible :') at worst it's likely I'd be having purplepill beliefs. but I disagree on AWALT, “woman is the eldest teenager”, dread game etc. I think if you have to use these things, it means your partner is not reliable or mature enough to be in an LTR. Dread game to me is more of an overcomplication of "every relationship works on a balance force rapport". Dread game in a LTR is more about maintaining some degree of bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:27 AM
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I just wasn’t sure what beliefs you were taking about. Eulen we're on PPD on a topic about red pill, wtf do you think we're talking of :'( Yes I'm more LTR oriented. Yes it helps in getting one and keeping one. Getting was the difficult part for me when I was young and blue pilled, because I was specifically told not to be sexually assertive, yet that is absolutely mandatory, regardless of if you seek casual sex or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:11 AM
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That's for humans, not for ideologies. We're debating ideologies, and you keep signaling to me you don't know the red pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:10 AM
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Well, people aren't often dickheads on purpose, or what you register as "dickhead" are just people who put themselves first. I dislike delusional or clueless people in general. But it's more easier for me to pardon people being clueless and selfish (red pill), rather than people being perfect yet still choosing to hurt you (blue pill).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:07 AM
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I'm not familiar with the term "hot and cold games", is this push pull? Acting or being inconsistent to make the other crave your validation more? yes I share these beliefs that these things work, are true or are necessary. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:04 AM
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A lot of things women complain about are things they impose to themselves. Chores are another example of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:02 AM
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If you act like red pill is prescriptive and not descriptive, then no, you don't understand red pill well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:00 AM
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Why does it matter it's not the topic? I could literally ask the same question about blue pillers. Blue pill education is so hateful of men and glorifying of women. And that made me hate women, because it presented me women as perfect and mature and then they'd pull the most insane emotionally immature things constantly. It makes more sense to believe that everyone is clueless about who they are and how their sexuality works. Women were in fact humane after all. That's what redpilling myself bro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:43 AM
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You do not sound like you know red pill much. It doesn't tell you to like or hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:37 AM
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I redpilled myself on my own without being aware such beliefs or communities existed online. It made me alter my behavior in a way that made me less stressed, less inhibited, and eventually resulted in me being happier. It also made me understand and accept women more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:30 AM
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First of all, cutting is diet, not workout. Then, yes it's both, when people say running makes ppl look like shit it's because of the muscle to fat ratio. Obviously if runners started lifting weight and eating more proteins, that'd probably be fine. But cardio makes your body want to drop weight, both muscles and fat. Obviously some people are managing well with it. In my case, running makes me extremely hungry, tired, sickly, and exhausted. I get why there's this idea around that cardio as the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:00 AM
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People who run all look like shit. That's why they don't promote it lol. It feels like shit as well. Makes you hungry as hell. The only ppl who manage to cut through cardio are people who are into sensory deprivation. Normal people lose weight by managing their hunger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:43 AM
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Funny cause when I was younger, jogging was the only fucking thing ppl could ever come up with for how to lose weight. And it would always make me hungry as shit and absolutely tired to oblivion. Resistence training or high intensity short workouts were always better. Nobody believed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:12 AM
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Promiscuity and rape are different things. One is having lots of consensual sex. The other is forcing a sex act/s on someone. Then explain to me why people's sexism regarding sex is the same as their sexism regarding rape? Why is the gender that wants sex the most also the gender that's considered lucky for being raped? This is the same sexist belief and definitively not a man only sexist belief. And the other side of that sexist belief is considering women less sexual and more victim of rape, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:20 PM
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Do yall understand that SEX doesn't imply CONSENT and that people's SEXISM regarding SEX is going to transfer to RAPE just as much??? This is like you're telling me physical assault isn't physical touch. Here is a definition of sex: sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse. I urge you to understand we're within a DEBATE context and not a social context. Again proving the point that women will strawman anything into men being rape apologists. Nobody has equated rape to consensua…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:17 PM
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Bellow 19 is underweight. You need muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:32 PM
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Men are the ones who downplay rape of men. No, women downplay rape of men, and women downplay any societal attempt from men to raise awareness as misogynistic. Not saying men do not participate in that though, but women have their share of responsibility. Most women have consistent views regarding promiscuity and, separately, rape which are two completely different things. They're not COMPLETELY different things, sexism on sex is going to affect sexism on rape. I don't think we should consider m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:32 PM
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Oh no I do tell them they have it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:41 PM
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If you think personal attacks and debate are the same you need to be banned from here. Rape includes sex, sexism around sex and sexism around rape originate from the same ways of thinking. That you cannot see it and need to resort to personal attacks to express your misunderstanding is the true abjection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:59 AM
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"natural weight"? Yeah if your fat distrib is shitty you need to stay at 19. Being hit on or not isn't really a reflexion of how attractive you are though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:18 AM
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very interesting that sexism about sex is put in the same bucket as sexism about sex indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:16 AM
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The link is both boil down to the same sexism regarding sex. As much as this post seems useless it's kind of true, women want their prejudicing double standards to go while reinforcing men's negative double standards that are on the same versant. The post is just too specific. Men's issues regarding sex must be considered seriously if women want their issues regarding sex to be considered just as seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:07 AM
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I just tell women IRL their tinder experience is the same as any other women. Nothing happened to me bro. Women even like me for my sincerity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:03 AM
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Tried marvel rivals, doesn't quite feel right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:01 AM
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Guess what education/informedness/exposure do: Give you a culture. The difference is you seem to believe education makes ppl somehow smart enough to be taking smarter decision, when in reality education is making them just different and not necessarily better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:23 PM
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On a macro and micro level, it seems more cultural than educational. Correlation is just higher with culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:11 PM
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Obviously it does yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:48 PM
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looking at it in detail, it doesn't seem correlated with education all that much. Even I am wrong. It seems rather cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:47 PM
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Because men can have as many kids as they want at once, they have a bigger interest in being pro-active and attracted. Women can make only one kid at once and are vulnerable and need resources while doing so. They gain from being picky and hesitant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:31 PM
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To me this is a map of "nothing else to do".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:29 PM
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IDK, so many parameters including ability for kids to help you... I think education is actually not that high of a parameter unless you mean culture and propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:11 PM
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are just holding back their real fun and interesting personalities as part of a game? I think they genuinely are emotionally numb. But those who do it intentionally are putting conscious effort to make you unappealed to them so that's rly dumb. You do not just seduce into sex you can also seduce men into gifting you stuff, nothing makes me want to split the bill more than an uninterested woman. A woman who is sexy will have my dick hard, a woman who is fun and interested will make me more likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:09 AM
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Women you have to "entertain" aren't fun and don't engage back much, they expect you to exite them and to be the source of fun and of interesting. But it takes two to tango. Why seduce? Just because I can fuck any woman doesn't mean I won't prefer sex with the hot chick who also has a hot personality and who is enthusiast about me. It doesn't have to be intentionally seducing you know, but it can be expressing interest, enthusiasm, or expressing yourself. I think you just don't have an idea of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:55 AM
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In my experience, women who expect big dicks don't take it all in their mouth, pussy or ass, it's just for the aesthetics and they're bad sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:46 AM
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that's a wide range for average but that's legal I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:45 AM
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IDK about over 40s but I frequently see early 30 women who look late 40s on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:37 AM
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Shit tests, having to entertain them, having to seduce them while they know they don't have any seducing to do themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:31 AM
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It's not just education it's also outlets. The more diversified hobby and goals you can have in your life the less likely having kids is going to be your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:30 AM
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Just catching up on women doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:28 AM
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Men don't overally treat their partners like emotional punching bags. Men in general do act more sensitively around women. Since I noticed a trend (dated 5 guys with this issue) The trend might be coming from your partner selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:13 AM
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Amber heard and johny depp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:12 AM
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that's interesting a lot of this is essentially "I suck and I wish to learn from experience" and that's a lot of things women reproach to men despite men can't quite learn from experience the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:33 AM
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Agreed, that still means that a non negligible amount of women start dehaving like men to men who are in the top 10%. Unlike what blue pillers often forecast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:29 AM
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Ok but not russian women. Joke aside, a lot of ppl look the same in their 20s and 30s, but for having entered dating back again at 36 I can tell you some ppl are majorly wrinkled more than the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:26 AM
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That is an exelent argument for kicking women out of money making industries. Is this what you want? Do you somehow think that women provide amazing sex? (all of which women still statically do more even in todays world where things are SUPPOSED to eb equal). Clearly things aren't. Women might have the impression they're settling but very likely he's above in many fashions or she's a burden in many ways. Women might be doing most of the chores they IMPOSE on the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:47 PM
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30s for incels is probably hell because their expectations are high and their options are poor. But for men who have lived their life, women with baggages is not so much of a problem. It's true that there's a hole in which there aren't a lot of single women in between age 30 and 38, so men who are mid/late 30s are probably struggling more than men who are early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:23 PM
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In a country with tame political parties, it's fine. In a country with extreme political parties, a lot of people are going to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:19 PM
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Address my points if you're addressing me. Your points are a strawman OP didn't make a loaded question. As I said, you may disagree with the premise and argue against it. OP Just didn't say "those who refuse to date me hate me"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:57 AM
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Thanks for that solid answer to this post. I feel I'm going crazy lately with how every single best answer is never on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:02 AM
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That's literally not the title of the post. Avoid using the word "literally" from now on if you plan to just straight up lie. "it's not hate to not date you" where is that writen in the title that it's hate to not date you literally? Tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:00 AM
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Sounds like you're just not concerned by this thread then, why address it? You don't hate men who use onlyfans? Then ignore that thread lol. Or flesh out an answer as to how women en large aren't hating men who pay for onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:08 PM
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That's not the premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:07 PM
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As usual, the highest voted answer is not answering and dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:47 PM
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wishing this to be your future then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:11 PM
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And then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:34 PM
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That's why you'll go on a date with me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:23 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:23 PM
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Nope not anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:22 PM
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It's a well documented phenomenon called "women are wonderful effect"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:10 PM
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sudoku is a bit boring
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:03 PM
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And then you send me a pic of you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:07 PM
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Crazy how a girl just told me "and then?" 3 times in a row and it made me offer to meet up despite I had no plan to do that. Girl game exists, yall just suck at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:28 AM
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Women have always been shallow about looks money and status while insisting they pick nice interesting and respectful men first and foremost. There's nothing contradictory in redpill men complaining that women are shallow while telling them they should indeed start picking nice interesting and respectful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:37 PM
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You don't need to be red pilled to be baffled by hypocrisy. But it's true a lot of blue pillers here will seem purple next to the extreme blue pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:23 AM
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In a desert everything is about water, when there is water there can be growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:20 AM
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This is gonna sound like rage bait but bear with me, Bruh posting ragebait 24/7 wants to convince us he serious for once
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:38 PM
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hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:10 PM
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came here to say I won't read this wall of nonsense text, title is also not suggesting much what the content's going to be, 0/10 for OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:17 PM
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I don't think a lot of men are like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:14 PM
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Maybe they go for relationships because it's their best way to get frequent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:08 AM
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What exactly do you mean when you say that showering a woman with affection, attention and promises, creates an "ideal"? "Love bombing" can come from women as well, I was kind of victim of it just last week lol. Women expect it from men. Or it can come from a differential in expected intensity. It doesn't create an ideal? Men who need intensity might be disappointed when it's not reciprocated is it what you mean? It's still not creating anything, they're not having what they want, it's that simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:46 AM
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When men have higher standards, nothing happens. See: japan
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:26 PM
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You delegate your opinion to "scientists" who produce pseudoscience, study useless things to draw irrelevant conclusions. Ain't no fence to sit on, ain't no truth in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:15 PM
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You pay too close attention to scientists this is wrong. Scientists are full of shit. Life is simpler than that. Is she happy after that thing she calls orgasm, and is she frustrated after not experiencing it? That's damn close to orgasm in my book. That's good enough. No need for science in any possible fashion. And no need for it to be considered exactly like the male one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:00 PM
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Oh yeah, funny how they all complain afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:27 PM
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I do think people may project past relationship frustrations and defensiveness onto the general audience in online dating. I do think that women do project all past failures, including non relationships, as something new men will need to compensate for. It's not great marketing or mindset but there's literally no downside for them when they do this. I've not seen much but for the few I've seen, men generally know to say as little as possible or stay as positive as possible, or phrased as somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:46 PM
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Beyond sex, women often believe that dating apps are simple: you log in and plenty ppl want to talk to you. Then they usually say it's hard to find someone interested and with who it clicks well. But they've usually no idea that dating apps are a desert for men. This is also true for sex. Women know it's difficult to get sex, they don't understand why. Because their concern is to filter the men approaching them. Men's concern is to even exist in the vincinity of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:20 PM
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I'm on tinder and on something with more fleshed out profiles. They're signaling parts of who they are in a way that suggests you have to do something for that, have to tolerate it, have to love it, even though it's either deffects or efforts. Profiles that say "I'll make your life better" in a direct or indirect way are rare. Profiles are more "You'll have to make my life better". Profiles that signal neutral things and compatibility things are rare. No one HAS to like me and my jiggles. Lots o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:17 PM
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Fatherhood is so disrespected you're not even considering it a thing. and then disappear as soon as they are born. You think they're here when women are pregnant? This is a very fallacious argument anyway, they're against socialism, therefore any person in need isn't going to get help. This isn't about women nor motherhood in particular. "Be single girl, be free, 35 year old is still too young to even think of a baby", Nah. Not a common noise to hear. Then, culturally, there is still a societal …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:42 AM
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Why the "nah"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:02 AM
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Most women I know in software engineering know they've been hired because they were women. The only people hostile to them are actually female clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:49 AM
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That looks like an evidence that this one is on women. Because even when all they're asked is to be nice and not fat, they can't do that and still demand everything from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:28 AM
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Been on dating apps lately. Women signal a lot what they want but rarely what they can offer other than list their literal deffects. Like "You must be perfect and must love me for being fat" basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:19 AM
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It depends if you grew a lifelong habbit of finding clever shortcuts so you had to do less things less consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:22 PM
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Be born with the personality that gets stimulated by being consistent. AKA fairly dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:17 PM
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This isn't what this clip is showing. This clip is showing a woman exposing a situation where a woman is low EQ. And complains that the men aren't trying to compensate for the low EQ of that woman with extra emotional labor. She tries to further elaborate that low EQ in women is innate and tries to blame the men for not stepping up, weirdly suggesting that women can't help themselves but men should be able to be better. Which is just sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:32 PM
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Same goes for physical violence, people will greatly downplay how badly it affects someone to be violented, and will reproach men of retaliating/defending against women. Even when the retaliation is pushing them away to not be violented more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:04 PM
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Yes, any man deemed misbehaving was pushed away or heavily demonized. There were male teachers and coaches, just not anybody deemed controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:18 PM
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The problem is that when boys have no men to look up to, they have no example to follow. I had no example to follow because it's women who kicked them out or silenced them. And then I looked to popular media and... it was just blue pill fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:37 PM
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I report these for contentless rethoric but they're never removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:36 PM
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Check out remedialherstory.com - they have the data on it. I'm not even from the USA, and this isn't a strong point. if they care about changing the world for men and boys. Reforms of education should happen first, and more investment. There's also no reason women shouldn't learn how to educate boys better, as a general rule society should consider masculinity more legitimate, accept it, and focus on channeling it the right way. Like feminism, it can't be one gender effort only.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:11 PM
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Why don’t boys do well in history class despite men being the majority of the historical record and men being the majority of history teachers? I've majoritarily had or seen female history teachers. History in the way is taught is fairly dumb and unappealing and school is still more adapted to girls. And just because there are more male history nerds doesn't mean the average male is into history. Math is one of these matter where I've found the gender of the teacher will decide which gender in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:44 PM
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This isn't an advice sub, if you agree you don't answer, if you disagree you argue his points. Highest upvote answer always the most dismissive one and the disguised ad hom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:22 AM
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It's likely you're unable to interpret a lot of things men tell each others or do to each others. But also yeah, if you're rural american... American culture is honestly very third worldy for some reason. Very anti-intellectualism, anti-education, andi-criticism, very hysterical, bully-like and shamy. Some big american cities seem more modern/civilized, with the problems that come with it: blue pill, feminism.... I also don’t know how boys are more sensitive to education when most of em aren’t f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:52 AM
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they’d self-express and talk about their feelings more. They do. Society just doesn't deem that as "self express" or "feelings", and endorses only the men who do so in a feminine way. Modern American masculinity yeah sure rural american men something something. The world is bigger than rural america. Notice though that this isn't peer pressure, that's education. Men seem more sensitive to education than women. Peer pressure is from equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:15 AM
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That cohort is minuscule in men and gigantic in women. waves at the entirety of tiktoks and instagram that is 90% women pretending to have the dream life to sell product and lifestyle advices to other women But no comment on that? Clearly your opinion is biased. There's a reason why looks/status maxxing trends don't pick up with men much, it's because they're vastly less sensitive to this kind of advertisement because men are less succeptible to peer pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:49 AM
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Not here to disagree with you, but I want to add, if men are physically strong, and abuse of physical strength is physical violence. What you describe is women being socially strong, and this is social violence. Now I don't think this is super common after breakup, other than her tarnishing his reputation in her close social circle. Unless they're celebrities. I think this is more common for women to try and tarnish men who they've had disagreement with or been/have rejected rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:55 PM
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Ok? Sucks to be in a home where stealing food is allowed. Not the topic I was talking of tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:21 AM
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The man gets the larger portion. Smh people have to be told that? Male teens are black holes for food.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:02 AM
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Maybe you should only debate on this sub if you know what you're debating and what kind of belief best fit you. Again, saying dick in vagina is masturbation is just self contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:12 PM
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Yeah I know you pink pillers with default random usernames are against the idea. I don't even need to read the comment I know it. There's something fundamentally weird about believing that it's masturbation to have a dick in the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:45 PM
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All this sounds irrelevant towards the phenomenon I raised in my last comment. You keep making it about what men want or do, I insist that the issue very often comes from women requiring specific clitoridal stimulation only them are good at. Especially with the prevalence of BC pill and antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:10 PM
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Yeah, most also have experienced that the man can hardly touch their clit while moving, the right way and for long... So they help, because sex isn't just him doing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:46 PM
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When I suggested "women should touch their own clit more" plenty of them started telling me that if it's to masturbate then sex is not worth it... x)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:00 AM
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French people don't mix too much with PPD, but they do post a lot online about their distress and loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:46 PM
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they pointed out that your argument was weak because it hinges on emotion Not an argument. not evidence. Nobody has evidence on PPD, they didn't have any, they didn't even attempt at addressing the points I make, they called me angry and called it a day. hat’s not dismissal, it’s analysis. And since they didn't address anything, there was no analysis. It's dismissal. And you're here solely arguing that their dismissal was analysis, instead of dealing with my point. Furthermore sealing this discu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:59 PM
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instead of addressing someone's argument or position, you irrelevantly attack the person So instead of addressing my argument, they irrelevantly called me angry. And to you that doesn't fit the definition, when literally this is one of the oldest dismissive debating tactic of all times? You women should know a lot about being dismissed because of imagined emotions, right? If I said she was being hysteric, I'd have gotten a ban from PPD in the next few minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:40 PM
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Your baits are getting worse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:03 PM
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Aw not the blue pill women coalition angry That's ad hom doesn't affect you that's something else but still a fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:01 PM
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You don't know statistics either. You want to stick emotions on my points and want to shame me for... debating on a debate sub. Things don't have to affect me to be wrong, flawed, criticizable, debatable or discussable. My points are simple. Alimony is at women's favor by design and doesn't make a lot of sense. You claim that women earning more helps in reducing alimony, but the cost is more systatemic on making men less competitive, and again, is at women's favor. There isn't anything in there …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:14 PM
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I'm both an incel and inorphancel :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:46 PM
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waaaa waaa moms too picky :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:25 PM
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If you're rich, you can adopt me :3 I'll behave like a toddler I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:22 PM
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Me too, with kids. Proof I function very well at reproducing. Well, not married for long tho. The kids shall remain existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:19 PM
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An ad hominem to deflect the obvious flaws I exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:19 PM
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Yah, and judges are known to be very impartial :')
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:12 PM
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Omg women too picky :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:11 PM
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This is like saying "men who obsess over sex are doormats". Women should obsess over marriage, it's at their entire benefit. "pickmes" will compromise female incentive to seem like better deals by men, which would be rather "Oh don't worry I don't care about marriage" instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:31 PM
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So a judge is going to look up case per case and decide for alimony? Sounds like a good recipe for rampant sexism where they'll think women stunt their career for men but won't see all the men stunting or inhibiting theirs because their wife cunted them into taking less risks. In real life nobody asks their boss to pay them after they quit because they've been underpaid and could have been paid better elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:19 PM
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I'm not too sure about that. Women are still hypergamous. Which means alimony are still a thing for women. Which means the law is still designed in such a way that money flows from men to women and more often than not men are aserviled to women. The fact women make their own money isn't making them choose less rich men, at least not at a satisfactory rate. That means the advantage you gain from hypothetically paying no alimony is lost in you being a lot less competitive economically anyway, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:22 PM
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It's not zero, but very probably the ratio of women receiving alimony/men receiving alimony is worse than a 85/15 ratio which seems to be the typical ratio of hypergamy/hypogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:45 AM
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That offer wasn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:34 AM
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yeah, I do that in factorio and satisfactory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:55 AM
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Want help with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:54 AM
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Woman's habbit of calling anything not idolizing them "disrespect" will never stop it seems. But rest assured the same thing happens with work this is why nobody wants to work. Society is ran by corporate sharks no wonder you feel like you're treated the same by your government as private company treat its employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:49 AM
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What percentage of women pay alimony to their ex husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:46 AM
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My answer covers her question and many more. This isn't anywhere close to being a setup where whataboutism is callable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:26 PM
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Being accused of "whataboutism" for not answering directly a loaded question, cute that you thought you could outwit me with basic rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:20 PM
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Overrate women, underrate men, everytime. Then one pregnancy and she becomes fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:43 AM
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There's an old meme for that called "women love all kinds of men" Also you're getting matches a week? :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:15 AM
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link?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:13 AM
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fake lips steroid man Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:13 AM
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It is, just have to think a little bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:54 AM
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I think people generally do care about poor people and about poor women especially yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:51 PM
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because decades of feminism didn't happen with men not caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:49 PM
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We're constantly asked to care about women's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:49 PM
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It's hard to explain in one definitive sentence while being specific. It's about showing interest for them sexually and romantically, and better it be your own way so that it never feels like work or forced. It can begin simply as not being ashamed to look at them, telling them the compliments you are feeling while looking at them, being willing to close the distance and touch them...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:36 PM
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In real life it's more complicated if you start considering actual dating pools. Because women prefer same age and older, and that creates an average age gap that's generally reducing younger men's dating pool, while young women's dating pool is virtually all men. Add to this that most countries have a shrinking population, it's even worse. Because there are more older men than there are younger women, even considering a similar amount of year above and bellow. So you're competing for a tiny poo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:30 PM
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My bad. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:20 PM
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Do you really believe that this will be different for these men IRL ? If they are rejected on apps, they will be most likely rejected the same way IRL and for the same reasons. Ratio of men/women on dating apps: 10 Ratio of men/women in real life: 0.98 or so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:25 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:56 PM
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Stay naive instead of maturing? Odd advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:22 PM
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If you're here for that reason then you're not here for the right reason. We debating here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:21 PM
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CS wil ltell you that no woman does CS because men are hostile to women. No, nobody likes CS, and then a minority of men like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:02 AM
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I didn't write that. It's not about engaging in sexual way, it's about treating you like not a man. Again, there's a difference in how women treat attractive men even when they're platonic to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:11 PM
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Women don't typically treat their platonic attractive male friends like their platonic female/less attractive male friends. I relate to a lot of what OP relate to. Raised by women, been told not to sexualize, ect... Until I learned to properly sexualize my behavior to women, they'd treat me like an asexual human, I think it's a better description than "like one of the girls".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:45 PM
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I'm a nooticer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:49 PM
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I know you joke, but you probably have raised your brothers eitherway, which screams either muslim familly in europe or rural american familly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:10 PM
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1) this isn't real 2) because they insisted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:00 AM
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Rural americans have the wildest takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:57 AM
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Always the AdjectiveNounDigits with the dumbest baits
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:56 AM
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It's not a metaphor. Products don't choose you back but sellers might not want to sell to you. There is never a market where both agents don't have agency. Job market is a market just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:46 AM
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Men are looking for clean water in a desert, women are looking for champagne in the river.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:43 PM
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Saying "it's bullshit" is also not nice, yet it was enough to get a "be civil" for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:28 PM
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TRP says "women are emotional children and therefore shouldn't vote". I don't believe TRP says women shouldn't vote. This book is more like "you should cherish women because they're emotional creatures who crave connection". This is how most long term red pilled men think. The ones that are past bitter phases or to who transitioning to RP beliefs made them accept women more (like me).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:22 PM
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This proves that TRP ideas are not new at all. You say that like it's a bad thing, why? However, the difference is that this book doesn't have an underlying "women bad" tone Which part of "care to them like a child" is not underlyingly "women bad"? The entire point of TRP being considered misogynistic is that it considers women like emotional children, and that men are advised to just seek sex if they want to. It doesn't call you a "beta cuck" or if you don't live according to its rules. So you …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:11 PM
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I said a dude was saying bullshits on the daily once and got a warning immediately. I am told I "cry and whine" within a debate post, and the comment is still there 7 days after reporting it. I get contetnless rethoriced for sightly diverting from the main topic, 20 different people can answer out of topic shit on my post and have no problem. Definitively helicopter moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:01 PM
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Forget trans women. They're problem. Find a woman who is a gay man in their head instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:47 AM
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Some people struggle with feeling empathy, maybe because they were neglected as kids or something. Or because they lack the brain function to do so and will never acquire it. Some people also confuse empathy with agreeing or sympathizing though Yes. Many times you'll see people without empathy accuse people with empathy to not have any. Empathy isn't sympathy. It's because I empathise that I can judge if I agree or disagree with people's decisions. It's because I empathise that I can tell they'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:45 AM
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Because PPD attracts an higher percentage of people who value critical thinking and reason above emotions and cultist behaviors. The problem is exarcerbated by the fact reddit is essentially american, and american culture is very shamy of critical thinking in general, even the american left. I have found that french and german subreddit were more open to debate and criticizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:42 AM
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Your ideal partner is likely a woman who is a gay man in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:39 AM
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that top exists and AI still kinds of suck at reproducing such things. LIkely enhanced by AI but not pure AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:49 PM
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You're low BMI stacy-lite, but somehow also desesperate and virgin? Something doesn't math here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:10 AM
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That naturally filters for similarity in age, education, values. Similarities, very often still above them. Yeah, women often date older, but that’s not some plot No one says it's a plot. Blue pillers tend to say women don't like it, don't prefer it, don't look forward to it. Men are encouraged to mature slower No. Men are not ENCOURAGED they are mislabeled immature. A society that judges men by how much they're like women is for ever going to believe men are broken, delayed and disfunctional. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:13 AM
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Life is more than looks, but what you don't have you pay it back one way or another. There's a reason why men are expected to do everything and to overprove themselves. One way or another it's because women feel the man is beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:14 PM
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To me that's mainly people marry people who are similar to them, which has nothing to do with hypergamy. It's not incompatible with hypergamy, but blue pillers do tend to claim that hypergamy is not true or not common because women prefer their "equals", which means assortative mating. genetic similarity across different species is a very poor predictor for animal behavior Ok sure, completely irrelevant though. Humans don't have the same behaviors depending on their sex. Some blue pillers will c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:12 PM
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Equating feminism wanting to have gender equality in the sense that women should be more willing to settle is making a straw man. Who claims that? Feminism, blue pillers and women do claim that women are not hypergamous but assortative. The goal of my post is to show their idea of assortative is still hypergamous. there's no biological or intrinsic characteristic that makes women pursue men with more resources. A blue piller who is actually blue pilled. What else but biology would make women pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:35 PM
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Blue pillers and women in general will claim that hypergamy is not true and assortative mating is most common, as in women both prefer and pick equal to them in all fashion possible fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:24 PM
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I see women try to expose that but most of the time they're just not attractive and it's a coping mechanism. Men are just not attracted to career or masculine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:52 PM
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If you do not agree that anecdotes are an extremely bad information source to build your view of the world on, then it's pointless to discuss with you. I don't build my worldview on your anecdotes, nor on studies. But I'd prefer the authenticity of it than a studies. Studies are going to multiplicate biases and be of no relevance, your anecdote can give a color to your logical points and explanation. I can't stress how abject "studies" are. Over the last years, the article and the word changed i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:11 PM
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uneducationed Your personal attacks and shamy debating style are not worth an answer. But I'll write this for readers: Enough animal species have hypergamous behaviors without language. Language doesn't change anything to the equation, and some of our body language is innate. It's well established in biology that our brain and chemistry work differently based on our gender and the chemistry it, ON AVERAGE of course. Many "I have a degree in biology" online debaters have insane takes nowadays on …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:58 AM
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So that's not a sign of hypergamy, that's a sign of "no matter how you pair up men and women, men will always make more money on average and you cannot interpret this as women going for men who earn more". The hypergamy doesn't come from the fact they earn less no matter what, but from them looking forward to it. You'll hardly find them assort themselves with men who have had the same useless degrees or low end careers, they'll specifically target men more competitive than them and call it "asso…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:41 AM
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That raised in isolation a woman would still exhibit hypergamous behaviors. I believe most women would. And then a way smaller subset of women would only acquire it socially. And then a minority will go against it no matter what. If that was true, we would not expect variance. What piece of logical reasoning allows you to say that? I would suggest taking an actual biology class to get up to speed here. I return that suggestion to you as well. And would add that you stop bringing up biology when …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:29 AM
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"Compatible" is cryptic and often includes looks and status either explicitly or implicitly, and sometimes also integrate notions of "equal or superior". People are not "vapid or not", they're "conscious or not" of their vapidity. It's easy to feel justified when you self convince yourself when your expectations are hidden behind cryptic words like "compatible" "respect" or "chemistry".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:20 AM
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Your point is valid. But women are the ultimate choosers and most vocal about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:18 AM
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Why do you want to compare traits that are immediately important for survival with traits that aren't? There's variance in traits because they're not directly tied to survival. Just like we say that men are taller than women. There are still a minority of women that are taller than most men and invertedly a minority of men shorter than most women. Similarly, you'll have minority of couples that don't respect gender roles, and minority of individuals who won't have the same sexual incentives as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:36 AM
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I actually made a post about this. Check the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:27 AM
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Moreover, there is data suggesting that even on money, when women mate down, these relationships are worse off in general, as a pattern. Good point, I forgot to talk of that when writing my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:27 AM
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How is stating that Hypergamy doesn’t really exist an agreement with your point? You haven't stated that. If you think you did, maybe it'd be time for you to expose your reasoning flat. Unless you’ve decided to tweak the meaning of Hypergamy so that it fits your definition and not the standard definition. You're free to debate the meaning of hypergamy and expose your version of the meaning of hypergamy. What do you imagine is the "standard definition of TRP hypergamy", which is the standard defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:13 AM
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First real answer, thank you. Women are the older partner in approx 15% of marriages as well: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships That to me fits with the argument that woman are 'innately' hypergamous. 15% is very well within the human variance you'd expect for an "innate" behavior. Women have more freedom in mate choice today yes, and yet we're not getting 50/50 anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:12 AM
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I have a pretty good idea of why you made this post lol Then why are you answering it with zero disagreement and points relevant to anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:51 AM
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I don't see any attack on my post, there's nothing to defend, I made an edit just to add you to the list. If you read the post you'd maybe see why I don't consider what you say to be contradicting anything. Have you considered that if you're wondering why I made this post, then maybe you weren't supposed to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:41 AM
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I'm not sure what your point is. Hypergamy isn't just "the list of things women uniquely want in men", it's a general tendency for women to want above themselves. Some of these criteria can be found in men's RMV criterias as well. Money is an abstraction for resources, before money there was still resources or ability to provide. And yes that may include dominance, power, competence. Formal hierarchies don't need to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:22 AM
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That post is clearly not addressed at you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:51 AM
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The joke in your statement is that what ppl think is a 6/10 man is actually a 8/10 man, and a 6/10 woman a 5/10 woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:05 AM
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This is bad faith behavior and exactly why I don't answer out of topic questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:01 PM
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You failed to understand, and failed to stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:32 AM
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Saying that people are only entitled to certain things does not infringe upon their personal freedoms because there is no way to give carte blanche to anyone without the end conclusion being a violation of someone else's freedom/safety ect. That is then, a logically consistent argument. I don't think you've understood my comment as I quite literally talked of the opposite of "carte blanche to anyone", personal freedoms are the opposite of that, but I get that americans have a hard time with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:15 AM
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People are strawmaning the idea that some men want actions taken by society to make their life better into "forcing women to have sex with men", which they then deny with "nobody owes you sex". "nobody owes anything to anybody" is derived from personal freedoms, the same freedom they derive "nobody owes you sex" from. So it's not a case of me saying "X does not eat shrimp therefore nobody eats food", it's them saying "Nobody eats food therefore nobody eats shrimp". Society is in fact doing thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 10:51 AM
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What I believe doesn't matter. They have a logic, I spin it, and I arrive to a situation they probably do not want. Which is why you should ask THEM if they're against public healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:16 PM
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Ask that to the previous person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:37 AM
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society isn't applying any oppression Was that also your opinion of society before 1900 or even 1950 regarding women? Back then society wasn't allowing women to be independent from men. Nowadays, society in most countries is still not allowing men to be independent from women. In my country, men cannot 1) pay for prostitutes 2) buy the services of a surrogate mother 3) adopt. Not that a lot of men would like to adopt on their own, but technically you can't have your anything that women usually p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:19 PM
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Nobody is owed anything. Some people are still pushing for society to guarantee some things to people, and women more than anybody else. Guess who will be crying first that society is turning to shit and recessing uh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:09 PM
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You're not supposed to "focus", you should improve every aspect of your life at once. Nothing teaches you how to interact romantically with women but attempting to be romantic with them. So lonely men should get started as early as possible. I was struggling when I was 16-18, and then it worked out very well for me. I did nothing to improve anything regarding career, fashion, hobbies, money, weight, gym. The only thing that changed was how sexual I behaved around the women I was into. That's it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:57 AM
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He IS above people, the second you say something that yould be mistaken as a personal attack then a mod intervenes to censor and warn you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:11 PM
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Can you explain what a mainstream feminist patriarchy theory is? Are you saying women still believe in feminist ideas that patriarchy is still up and oppressing women? Or that the current system is a feminist patriarchy, men at the top doing things for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:25 AM
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Fuck yes it'd totally make my life better if I didn't have to wait in line to anything. It's like rich ppl who claim money doesn't bring happiness. Give all that to me and keep your mentall illnesses it'll make me happier than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:22 AM
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Almost like real life, weird how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:20 AM
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PSA for men: Anything that has conflict solving power or punishing power is not your friend. You are literally last priority, behind higher ups, behind richer ppl, behind women. Only conflicts with other men will maybe lead to a fair judgement, if you're against anybody with more status than the conflict solvers themselves, or with a woman, you're automatically guilty. Works for everything: reddit mods, human resources at your job, the administration of your school, police or the justice court o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:16 AM
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I mean she was being insanely cringe this is a legal answer...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:12 AM
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like from yesterday to today she left cause she found a bf? What a fucking traitre.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:29 PM
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why did equal leave? Also these were people only active on the daily, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:15 PM
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Or, you could see it as society failing to provide what men built it for, while society tries to pressure them into contributing to it, and people being unhappy about it. Which would make your post no better than bosses would are like "nobody wants to work anymore" because they pay bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:12 PM
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It's helpful. I don't want stupid people reading you and immediately jumping on roller skates then crying 2 weeks later that they didn't lose their virginity and they hate roller skating with a passion. Can't count how often people burn themselves out doing something they don't want to do just because they hope something else will happen, it's not even just incels, works for women too and their infamous "I was USED for sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:15 AM
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General rule is don't do something you don't want to do in hope something else happens. Don't do hobbies to meet women, approach women is women is what you want. Hobbies are for things you want to do, socializing is a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:04 AM
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I was never directly approached. But some girls signaled interest in indirect ways, which to me counts as female approaching. They were all far less attractive than the girls I could seduce by approaching myself. I'd not say they were more my league, but rather that they resembled me the most, almost like they were me but female.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:54 AM
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if a guy is struggling with women, he’s also struggling with friends too and possibly family as well. For having struggled with everything initially, I can tell this ain't true. Women are the most difficult one therefore you can have everything work well and women not work. Because the attitudes and skills you need to make friends or to be good with family will only render you friendzoned with a woman. you need to uniquely be sexually assertive with women or they don't view you as a sexual being…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:06 PM
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Typical sensory deprivation junky: needs no pleasure in life or then they'll immediately want all the pleasures in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:45 PM
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Society has done a lot to virtualize men, it can also virtualize providing. Pay me and my wife to raise that many kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:47 PM
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They exist, but they're not common. Nothing more idealistic about parenting than a childless person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:39 PM
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Nah. Horrible character.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:30 AM
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Shadowhearts > laezel > gale > wyll > karlach > astarion Astarion gets executed every time, no exception. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:48 AM
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I'm tired of black ppl on the internet doing so much effort to virtue signal their parenting. Not that I also enjoy other ppl's parenting videos, but people seem to overshare them around like it's something we need to witness... The comments have a bunch of women talking about how they just want to scoop the kid up They don't have kids. When you have one you get real tired of this shit quick. Teaching your kid to self sooth and to grow a thicker skin is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:18 AM
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It gets worse the more you dive into it. If you lacked meaningful connexions in your childhood it also stunted your growth and puberty. And kids very early pick their friends by attractiveness. It's all vicious circles, the uglier you are, the uglier you get, the earlier you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:08 PM
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I know. I'm the one teaching people about fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:03 PM
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I've not seen you debate yet so IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 04:38 PM
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why is everyone parroting "sub dying" "discord dying" ect... at the slightest change in intensity. If anything the useless people might be leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 04:27 PM
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It's garbage but it's my garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:53 PM
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I'm procrastinating hard but I'm supposed to be composing musics for my tiny video game project. I've no experience in composing musics other than toying a lil bit with the software. I'm also trying to learn to replace my whistling with hand flute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:43 AM
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He's an infiltrated hetero man trying to get you through shady ways. He's after your anal virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:37 AM
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Nobody said there wasn't solutions. Some people are just specialized in making it known, and you'd reject them. Truly a politician manoeuver.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:32 AM
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No. Men are dependant on women and the laws are preventing men any outlet or virtualization of women. Demographics are just the main reason why there's disproportionate amount of celibacy among young men. If artificial wombs existed, men in europe would probabl be forbidden from using one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:59 PM
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Actual sins of a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:31 PM
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Watch Irreversible instead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:21 PM
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Most of us were never talked to by adults about dating and love, and we mostly figured it out ourselves along the way. Being told nothing is generally better than being told the wrong things. I plan to not say much things to my son and daughter, and especially daughter, because I don't want to negatively bias themselves. Of course not everyone grew up with a blue pill discourse. Especially not ethnics and foreigners. Who didn't struggle as much. It's a leftist white people's thing to purposely s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:12 PM
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Hey you, yes you, adjective-noun-number ppd user has a fallacy to expose to you, engage at your own risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:02 PM
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And calling debates "complaining" is uncivil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:53 PM
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I knew exactly why no girl had a crush on me. And we were told that it's because they were immature. It's not that people are so dumb that they didn't understand something was off when they interacted with girls during puberty, it's that they likely lost many years of proper socializing due to the gaslight and propaganda. Take a look at media aimed at women. We were told it's trash and women into it are immature and a minority Just being nice, isn't enough to get attention. Again, how do you not…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:52 PM
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Why should we discuss when you don’t want to solve a problem, you just want to portray men as victims — the exact thing OP is calling out? The discussion is if the problem exists not how to solve it. You're proving here the bad faith comes from you. It’s a personal attack because you made it so, right here: If you agree with me that these things are a problem sufficiently impactful for some men to feel like victims, then I'm good. I'm talking of me being happy to agree with you and stop it here,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:38 PM
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Try to read my comment and address its points.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:25 PM
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It's a fallacy. My points aren't wrong because I don't offer a solution. You should debate my points is you hope to prove me wrong. If you don’t want to solve a problem I didn't say I don't want to. why should I take it seriously or consider it anything but whining? Argue why you shouldn't take it seriously in your own thread about the seriousness of male sexlessness. I'm merely just arguing that there are historical reasons to interpret the current state of society as oppressive to men and ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:24 PM
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Literally writen on the comment you answer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:15 PM
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You're finally admiting it then. You're going to pretend a phenomenon or problem don't exist if the pointer isn't providing a solution. That is a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:07 PM
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If you agree with me that these things are a problem, sufficiently impactful for some men to feel like victims, then I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:54 PM
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nd oppressed by society Not logically something that is said the logical remedy is to force us to do it to remedy the oppression and lack of contribution and accountability Again, I don't come here to discuss solutions, but I'm unsure why you're only envisioning punishment as a way to influence people. Again, I'd want more freedom, not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:44 PM
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It's already in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:33 PM
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No, previous commenter talked of women having to give themselves to incels. It's a strawman from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:33 PM
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I concede nothing. I don't make loaded statements, I make statements. Nobody's confused, many are trying to fallaciously deny the problem I raise without even addressing the actual points I make.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:25 PM
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And the problem with society is women not be held accountable for not contributing I didn't say it was the problem. The cultural atmosphere in which men are held accountable and not women. Women not being held accountable isn't a problem in itself but rather the sexist double standard. Yes, laws intended to improve things should improve things, no? Yes, it should improve things in its design, it doesn't have to concern sufficient amount of people to still be right. Are you in favor of trans righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:22 PM
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That's not what previous commenter claimed I insinuated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:13 PM
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And control women. It’s not just to control the men. I was under the impression that laws regarding prostitution were essentially directed against the buyers. Which would be essentially men. So in all the countries with legal sex work and the areas within countries where it’s legal you think life is much better? I think the law is much better as it doesn't remove a freedom. I don't think it's enough to fix the problem of incels. As I said in my original comment, other things are provoking the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:13 PM
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How are we currently neglecting people who contribute to society, other than not legalizing prostitution ? Strange that you mix these two unrelated things. I don't believe I wrote anything insinuating they were related.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:09 PM
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Laws have to improve things by a significant amount to be done right and ensure equality and freedom? how should we hold women accountable for insufficient fertility? Who said we should? Not me, not even insinuated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:07 PM
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I'm not insinuating that, whatever you wrote, which you think is fucked up, came from your mind alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:04 PM
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It's INTERESTING to discuss solutions if you agree there's a problem. It's not relevant in proving or disproving the existence of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:01 PM
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According to you, a law is automatically right if it doesn't affect a lot of people's freedom. Don't you see a fallacy in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:59 PM
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Still out of topic. Do you think countries with legalized prostitution are significantly different in sexlessness and fertility than those without? I think modern issues are mostly the product of population shrinking and age gap in relationships. If women prefer men same age or older, then a shrinking population is putting young men under insane competition for a very few amount of women. I think beyond legalization there needs to be cultural shifts regarding prostitution and masculinity. Incels…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:57 PM
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Are you saying a phenomenon considered to be a problem can't be truly existing if the one pointing at the problem doesn't have a solution to expose? That is a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:52 PM
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Women are not independent in their sexual desires. Most straight women strongly desire sex with an attractive man. Yes, some women may put male incentives at a high priority and would benefit from these lesgislations just the same. Sadly for these women, prostitution is generally forbidden solely to protect women and control men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:49 PM
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You really think single men want to adopt kids in significant numbers? Does it change anything to my point? And it’s weird that you’ve assumed an oppression that doesn’t exist yet What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:48 PM
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Men's freedom was "regulated" because it was limiting women's rights! If men's anything is actively stripping women of freedom then it's not a freedom and you're talking of something else, which is offtopic. Why do you equate giving women more independence as regulating men's freedom? And that's a strawman or you've still not read me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:47 PM
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You can guess some of it by reading the initial comment, it's free! In the mean time, it's not the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:42 PM
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Why is it that every time there is a conversation about a relationship with an age difference, it is automatically assumed that the man is evil? Fixed that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:42 PM
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I'm not offering any solution, I'm here mainly to expose the problem, attempting to denigrate my point of view by saying there's no solution isn't going to change anything. But overall I want ethical consistency, freedom, and equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:38 PM
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So when productive men don’t want to have kids they also aren’t contributing? Yes, but men ain't the bottleneck nor the ones with decisional power. Should I remind you that women have the right to abort. How should we hold all the men not sexually pleasing the women of this world accountable? By not providing sex to them. And men should in turn not provide to these women. Problem being, women don't need that anymore, they're independent, and men are not. Men's outlets for a female companion are …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:36 PM
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have you actually read my comment thorougly? what do you expect to be done about this? That you acknowledge it? That men are more free? That men's incentives aren't systematically controversial and legislated? That people who contribute to society are properly rewarded? there's no solution that doesn't infringe on women's freedom Why is the solution to anything regulating men's freedom though? Nobody is keeping men dependent. Legislations are removing outlets from men so that they have no other …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:26 PM
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shrinking population, increasing sexlessness What are women not contributing? Take a guess. For Americans reading Is prostitution legal in most states?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:21 PM
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I'm here debating not here asking for solutions to an hypothetical problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:55 PM
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People also claim that sex robots are going to fulfill men's needs. And people are already talking of legislation to make sex robots able to reject men. Single men already can't adopt kids. What makes you think legislations are going to be enabling men to be independent later once the technology is unlocked, when it's already not enabling men to be more independent NOW with the current technologies?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:50 PM
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Nobody's forced to marry you and give you children. Yet, sperm banks exist. And suggorate pregnancies are forbidden in a lot of countries. Prostitution is forbidden most places as well. There's a general societal effort to make women independant from men, but to keep men dependent from women. So yes, nobody is victim of other's personal freedoms. However there's some sort of problem going on if society keeps maintaining men dependent but doesn't hold women accountable for not contributing. And b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:46 PM
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don't size shame him!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:49 AM
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you can't fuck shower gel tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:55 AM
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I prefer calling people out than consciously having to wear a face mask. Women thinking they can cut you in line hoping you won't react is so funny. People can believe I'm an asshole and a small dick energy all they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:36 AM
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I (21F) often hear from other women that successful women have a harder time dating because men are intimidated. This is a cognitive reframing and a self-serving bias. Reinterpreting a negative outcome (rejection) in a way that protects one's self esteem or the group's self esteem, while throwing shades at the other. It's a common defense mechanism women use. I don't believe successful women are actually more "aggressive", I believe they're simply less feminine, less available while having high …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:27 AM
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The most uncivil people to me are women. Street demarchers who dared to touch me and physically block me were always women. And if you reject them and tell them not to touch you, people say you're an asshole. People bumping me in the street were always women. People trying to cut me in line were always women. People lying about being handicaped/priority to cut me in line were always women. People occupying way too much space in subways and trains were mostly women. People taking all the space an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:46 AM
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I don't think HE thinks it's a traditional value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:19 PM
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If it's well done and concealing flaws or traits, while creating non existent traits, yes. A lot of makeup is making women look worse though. Same for aesthetic surgeries, still, that's lies. Your original point was still then insinuate that women are ugly without cosmetics. Why do you think looking worse = looking ugly? My point is simple. Women on this subreddit often call men liars, and somehow do not realize that they're lying all the time as well, in their own ways. WHile at the same time, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:37 PM
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Plenty of things. Sex being part of it. They'll want immediate and unapologetic commitment and providership, marriage rather quickly, and then lowball sex and anything else. Albeit older women in my country are wiser and more chill, but it's a side effect of the country being secular.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:14 PM
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Even you claim his age match would offer him nothing because they are old. Yes but not because they're ugly, rather because they're unwilling yet very demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:09 PM
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About their facial traits. Obviously more concealing makeup is worse. But even eyeliners expanding eye width has a feminizing effect that's affecting men no matter how aware they are about it. It's a lie. a tiny one, but still a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:04 PM
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No it's just that every woman thinks every woman is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:53 PM
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Nope, maybe some... kalb el louz maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:30 PM
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You'll have to give more clues I'm afraid :[ I know a nigerian woman living in the USA but you do not talk with her tone at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:41 PM
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tsk tsk who are you already
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:16 PM
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Black pill is the belief that only looks matter to MEN and that women can look like shit and still be successful. I doubt there are a lot of female black pillers. FDS is prescriptive red pill in its ideal form. But its users were very angry pink pillers/4B types of women yes. Redpillers also employ looksmaxxing in their strategy Yes, and blue pillers admit that looks matter a little. The key is in how black pill and pink pill think it's the only thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:25 PM
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literally EVIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:06 PM
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You've not talked to enough femcels I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:05 PM
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What strategy are you talking about? The only thing I see from pink pillers is obsession with looks. FDS isn't pink pill. I get why both are put together but it's not the same. FDS in theory is red pill, FDS in practice was full of pink pillers who would come up with every reasons to reject every men, it was pure hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:31 PM
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The chances to fall on someone completely unreasonable and just master baitist trolls is just higher in pink and black pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:25 PM
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And what maximizing strategy is there in the pink pill beyond looksmaxxing? If you're going to tell me it's FDS stuff then I'll be left no choice but to cast a the "You're all wrong" spell on the entire sub. I get why people might conflate FDS with pink pill, there's a lot of overlapping personality traits in its users, but same could be said about TRP and black pill. Pink pill started as women's exclusive black pill. If it got diluted then that's still even moreso revolting because it's clearly…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:22 PM
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There are non incel black pillers too. All it takes is to believe only looks matter. they're NOT struggling attracting men, they're struggling attracting "quality" men. that's not a femcel. If you believe a femcel is someone who can't attract anybody you'd be wrong. We both know that incels are capable 99% of the time to get a gf, their innaction is the problem. Femcels are the same, albeit in their case their systematic rejection of most men, on top of their innaction, is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:11 PM
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It is strictly the female equivalent of black pill. The strategies are the same as black pill: looksmaxxing. There's no behavioral strategy which you'd find in red pill women. A notional pill taken by femcels (female incels) who have adopted a nihilistic philosophy that unattractive women will never be sexually or romantically successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:06 PM
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Have you read the definitions?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:04 PM
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Did you not read the part where I gently describe them as not being able to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:56 PM
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Yes, it's your comment that I misunderstood. Sorry. No hint that he wants traditional women to marry though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:55 PM
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Why do you feel responsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:52 PM
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Where does he say he wants traditional women and traditional relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:43 PM
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You say that like white women in their 50s want this guy. What are you suggesting? That he should work harder to be wanted by people who have little to offer to him and who constantly neg him? I wouldn't be sorry for him if a vietnamese young woman ends up using him. But it's not like the alternatives are better for him. He just went somewhere where people wanted him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:40 PM
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Why is their a pink pill flair when black pill flairs are forbidden? It's a subset of the black pill, they say the same things and employ the same disingenuous debating tactics. Should be equally silenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:36 PM
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Who is "they"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:27 PM
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You've been lying about what is writen in my comment, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:26 PM
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Anything besides the actual definition of the word? involving two people or two sides who oppose each other You and your baker oppose each other, you both want to maximize your gains from the other while minimizing your costs. From your logic, you hate your baker inherently for perceiving that your goals are adversarial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:24 PM
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It's fascinating that I laid a scenario in which the group is explicitly hypocritical and you choose to imagine it says a bunch of things it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:21 PM
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Adversariality isn't hate so quit misrepresenting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:20 PM
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The author couldn't even come up with a decent backstory excusing this guy's infinite amount of cringiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:16 PM
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Projection, you do not understand that word, so you accuse me of not knowing how to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:14 PM
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You'd find out that unwillingness often correlates to grave incompetency, even involuntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:11 PM
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I'm not complaining and I'm not insinuating that. Why are you lying? As I said, female tactic on PPD to try and stick emotions on the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:08 PM
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If you can't partake in a debate... or in a shit flinging contest... without being under the impression you are personally hated, you shouldn't be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:07 PM
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Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:06 PM
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The "loneliness epidepic" is due to a shrinking population and an average age gap in relationship. But you could also bring up the fact that it's women who complain about men not doing chores or not being good to them. If you shoot too high you pay it one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:05 PM
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I'm not answering loaded questions. The alternative to "men above your league" isn't "men who hate you".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:03 PM
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The horror for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:02 PM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:02 PM
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Typical female reaction: If you disagree with someone on PPD find a way to make it about their skill or something, even if unrelated to the topic. Also make sure to stick emotions on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:01 PM
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If it's one of the first 4, you're legally not a woman anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:57 PM
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Not a tradcon man, but thought it would be fun to still say it: my wife burns things when she attempts cooking. Can't even heat something in the microwave, she'll forget about it and it'll turn to coal, she somehow can't just set the exact amount of time necessary either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:56 PM
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Tell women this* they're the one growing bigger standards from meaningless attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:54 PM
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Eh they said attention not unconditional marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:54 PM
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LaL I'm not interested in whatever bable you have to write but you outdid yourself today with the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:52 PM
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Typical female reaction to being told they're liars: blame men for a made up reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:52 PM
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gRoOmInG
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:50 PM
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No saske please. He's cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:09 PM
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Low hangign bait of the day Women: Men are the pathological liars. Also women: Fake tits, fake hips, fake asses, fake lips, eyelashes, fake nails, fake tans, contouring, make up, push up bras, padded bras, anglefrauding, beauty filters, photoshop, hair dye, hair extension, shaving, aesthetic surgeries, "my past is my business", heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:08 PM
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What do you think the "loneliness epidemic" even is? It's literally because the population is ageing and because there's an average age gap in relationships. Every young man is in competition with older men, who are in greater numbers, for women their age. And women still consider men younger than them like they're kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:09 AM
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I don't adhere to this ideology that wants to push all wrongs on a group. It's the same ideology that wants to blame a group for their ancestor's actions. It's inherently sexist, racist, and anticonstitutional, and that makes them hypocrites. I understand the pushback is american intoxication with sociological pseudoscience. We have to be afraid of every man on the street cause they could all be threats. Men also consider other men as potential threats. And statistically, men are more in danger …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:50 PM
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"men bad, CMV" is that your post? And you dare to even call men misogynistic while having all these misandrist takes? *Unempathetic beings. Men aren't enempathetic, they're just not sensitive to women's emotions and struggles, which a lot of women actually seek in other men because that complements them. Not in tune with their emotions at all, From whose perspective? Do you think men perceive women as in tune with their emotions and inward character flaws? Everything else you said is equally sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:43 PM
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"bad shit" is more than sexual violence. But yeah men are less likely to report these too. Typically men are more exposed to physical violence and don't report it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:24 AM
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When I was an electrical technician student, every saturday morning was 4 hour of exam. Every afternoon during the week was evaluated practical exercises. Those were the days. How are you married and a student tho? Your timeline is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:10 AM
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It's usually women who don't realize how hard it is to prove rape. Men don't report a lot of the bad shit that happen to them for similar reasons, and they learn that early in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:08 AM
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Nice rage bait, you post it everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:06 AM
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Why are people going to animal shelters to adopt animals that they have to provide food shelter education and protection to? When I go and adopt a pet I don't feel like chasing it, you're misrepresenting the situation. Same for women, it's only a chase if you're out of breath while reaching them, I'm not. If you chase women because of how they look, why would they not end up feeling entitled? Because they know all what their looks gives them is your penis and then they get more if they're a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:00 PM
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It's like that in mine too. I've friends stressing out about their job but refusing to quit them because of that. So I'm asking them why they even stress when literally any outcome is positive. I've continuously downgraded how much effort I provide for my job (albeit I'm growing more competent), and they're still not firing me. Guess that's just how much I'm worth? It's the same with dating, you're not the one who should judge yourself, it's them, it's their problem. Why self reject or anticipat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:13 AM
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I thought you weren't a fit woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:08 AM
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that's a dad bod for an ectomorph, for anybody else that's just how they looked their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:05 AM
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No one's going to look like that without a olympic athlete's diet and training. And no your dudes in pilate don't look like this, you probably overestimate how muscular they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:00 AM
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Like what you do as a job but it's too demanding and you pressure yourself too much? You don't want to leave because you're not getting unemployment benefits? Do what you want at your rhythm. Either you get fired or you get to work at your rhythm. Win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:56 AM
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Yeah you're extremely far from being red pilled. You're just a 15 year old teenager who started interacting with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:30 AM
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Exactly, however this happened to me on my own, I never knew about TRP back then, I just was struggling between believing my observations vs believing the main narrative. Thankfully interracting with women did help quickly figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:27 AM
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The ones most commonly described as red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:41 AM
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It was the opposite for me, when I decided that the sexual dynamics I was seeing were innate and the fruit of evolution, I forgave women for being the way they were, and I was less jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:37 AM
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Couldn't think of a more annoying female demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:50 AM
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I am not under the impression men are generally judgemental of how women talk on dating apps unless they're just "one word" low effort. But rather that women often expect men to have good starting lines and to be good conversationalists. So who ever you fell onto are above your league if they have this much standards about conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:07 AM
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Nothing? Cultivate happiness in being unexploitable and unfathomable. It's like being on PPD, people will attempt the most absurd debating tactic and fallacies. Just name the fallacies and walk away from the argument, you'll never convince them, but you have to feel good about simply not yielding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:05 AM
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Blame the women to who it works on, they're the ones who trained him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:03 AM
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Women would be unhappy that they have to approach. Avg men would still not be approached. More people would be single all in all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:55 AM
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I'm always disappointed when a man obviously can't tell fake tits from real tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:51 AM
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First it was "less women are going to college than men, let's change that!" Then, when more women were going to college than men it was "Women own most of college student's debts, let's change that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:51 AM
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Can't you tell the difference between a debate sub and a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:47 AM
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If you're neurodivergent, you know you're not fit to use yourself as an example of normalcy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:46 PM
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Introspection and acuity aren't gifts given to a lot of people. Not only YOUR experience of women could be limited, but even if it's not, your ability to get the right conclusions from it could be limited. Do you not see you're not neurotypical? Have you never experienced social exclusion because you were uncapable to fit in female spaces without causing issues? Or maybe you've never experienced normal female spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:21 PM
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You are wrong and just a contrarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:23 PM
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I'll quote the first comment for you There is a stereotype that women don't understand generalizations or averages, and if they don't like one, will immediately point to an example outside of the average You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:42 PM
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This post might help you understand the problem with your intervention: https://np.reddit.com/r/ExplainTheJoke/comments/1k3mqvs/the_woman_is_above_average_height/ You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:39 PM
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Nobody asked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:23 PM
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It's fine, as long as people aren't lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:21 PM
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I'd appreciate that people don't lie on a debate sub. Women are shallow and them pretending otherwise is harming the discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:27 PM
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Why do you have to tell him anything? Can't you tell the difference between a debate sub and a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:13 PM
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Is the entire argument "we need to do white lies so the neurotic men can avoid facing the truth"? Sorry this is a debate place, we care about the truth here. Silencing lies that women's spaces love to do have no business being here. Those who are hurt by the truth have work to do on themselves. Keeping them in the dark is only diserving them. You can always debate that this isn't the truth though. I cannot stress enough that this female space incentive to compromise the expression of the truth t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:50 PM
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they tend to go for sexually uninhibited women That's half of them. The other half are sexually inhibited women who have a small count of orbiters. What these women have in common is that they don't perceive male favors and attention as inherently interested. Or in the case of the desinhibited women they know perfectly and are fine with it because they don't perceive the asexual presenting men as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:32 PM
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I'd not call that oppression. But rather that women are free to get all the benefits from society without ever interacting with men, and are free not to contribute to it the way they were originally expected to. In france it's even obvious in how laws are designed around reproduction and sex: Sperm banks are free, women can freely get inceminated artificially, welfare for single mothers are high. Surrogate pregnancies are forbidden, buying sex is forbidden. Everything is done to make men optiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:54 AM
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Yes but this is an inflated example which isn’t the norm. It's not the norm for women to do it but it's frequent for men to experience it at least once. For every 10 women with zero friendzoned men orbiting them there's one with 10 men orbiting her. This is also how you know the fault is equally on the woman, because it's specific behaviors that trigger friendzones. Men offering bf behavior and a woman accepting it without reciprocating. Normal women would instead be repulsed by all these men ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:48 AM
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Takes two to tango. Friendzone is real as in you both maintain it that way. Plenty of women have zero friendzoned men, and some women have a dozen. Some female behaviors enable it, and some stop it before bad patterns emerge. Can't be entirely the man's attitude. And yes, for the male side, it is fixed with more sexual assertiveness. First time I got friendzoned, I still told the girl I was interested and I was into her, didn't stop it from happening. Your intentions being known aren't sufficien…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:45 AM
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I’m not convinced that men are more likely to have a “funny gene" Being a joker, a jester or a crowdworker takes some degree of dominance, aggression, proactive seduction and loose social barriers. All of which are helped by higher amounts of testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:34 AM
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Being funny is a gender role. It's expected from men but not from women. That makes women likely not to even want to be funny, and therefore not be funny. And the rare times women develop funny traits, it's to appeal to women, which doesn't work on men. You can say the same about men being funny to other men. Some women are offended at men specializing in male humor. Men still have more incentive to grow funny to women than women to men. Jokers, jesters and crowdworkers also come packed with var…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:33 AM
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Right it's like a woman who wants to punch a guy 3 times taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:24 PM
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There's no solution for those who find you unattractive, but you talk like there's zero women who could be sensible to seduction. I'm literally 5'5 and obese in a country where the average is 5'11 and 22 BMI, and I'm telling you it's necessary. You can't be less attractive than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:58 PM
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Yes it's a solution. Nobody said it'd work everytime. In fact, not a single human would believe a single second that you can seduce and be loved by anyone you target. Stop inventing problems where there isn't. Men should prefer to be seen as creeps/perverts rather than being friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:06 PM
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Welcome to PPD, I see you indulged in the common practice of not reading what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:28 AM
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The one that makes the most sense regarding reality. We seem to agree that men pay more bills and women do more chores, and she even said that couples with the man who earns more and pays more bills while the woman does more chore are having equal amount of labor and money all things considered. But she insists that it's not fair for women. So to me, I won.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:10 AM
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It’s been documented over and over that men work more overtime after they become fathers. It's also been documented over and over that men take more time to take care of their kids more than ever. we are compensated much less for it. You are compensated by having your bills paid as you just explained. And again, this is what women are angry about. They want part of his salary but don't want to do part of his chores. And when women become the breadwinners instead, their husbands do much less tota…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:07 AM
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I'm not selling a solution to seduce any women. I'm telling you what are the mandatory components of seduction. You can try approaching women while being a gentle asexual being and they'll treat you like a female friend. Go on and try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:56 AM
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You mean the family’s standard of living? Raising children is expensive af in wealthy countries. No I mean the useless idealized standard of living women bring up with themselves. Getting kids will humble some of them though. Fathers also work more overtime and get more promotions after having kids than their non-married counterparts, too. Opposite in my experience, fathers don't want to work overtime anymore, they've other duties now. Single men are more competitive. Why do you act like husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:23 PM
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Men really don’t have to face this financial problem; being married as a man is correlated with a higher salary, especially as you age. Being married would be correlated with a higher salary only because women marry men with higher salaries. Marriage doesn't increase salaries, they lower men's competitiveness as well as punctioning money from the men, to satisfy the woman's standards of living. A lot of women’s contributions in a marriage in general are in the form of unpaid domestic work. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:48 PM
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You're totally wrong indeed, women got richer and more independent and still push the idea that they want "equal or higher" than them no matter what. Gender roles won't flip.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:54 PM
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I used to struggle because I wasn't assertive and sexual. And it seems like the main reason for a lot of men. But even by knowing the solution, it doesn't work, you can't convince people who don't want to do anything. Some even don't want to do it because they deem immoral other attitudes. You can't decide it's time to change for them, but at least they know there isn't only one narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:30 PM
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she's actually the most useless semi-main character
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:02 AM
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These statistics aren't about being harmed. Women are hardly ever harmed by men, they're just scared. The same way work around, you will be psychology hurt by an abusive female partner even if she legit can't hurt you physically, you know you're never going to retaliate without repercusions. Plus crazy gfs like to use knives which no muscles are needed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:53 AM
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We can't, or we haven't tried yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:49 AM
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"Women are naturally inherently more valuable, since they can produce children" Appeal to nature That's not an appeal to nature, society really does value women for that. Which indeed is contradictory with the fact that we allow women to be childfree without any form of compensation for the lack of contributing to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:48 AM
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Reminds me of this video where they brought together 5 or 6 people, to measure their IQ, and the doctorate annoying girl was making fun of the military guy with no degree, and she ended up having the lowest IQ in the room even behind the fabulous artistic gay dude. But the dumbness doesn't stop here. Women do not want someone on their "level intellectually", they want someone on their level or above in term of social status. Which is just hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:15 AM
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I'm sorry you felt that I was acting in bad faith, I hope you'll get used to the way people communicate things on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:06 AM
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You can minimize violence in a lot of games that don't reward you for it or punish you for the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:01 PM
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Why is the graphicness of it so important? If it's so important why don't I see ppl complain so much about these killcam things where you see victim's internal organs be destroyed by blades and bullets? I don't know which game does it but it does exist we saw many videos of it. What's important is the depiction of pain and horror. You don't feel an empathetic response to a bunch of humanoid robot-dolls falling dead. Battlefield however is known for its extremely realistic death animations and vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:18 AM
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You can't compare needing to kill animals for foods when the equivalent would be killing animals for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:10 AM
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The comparison doesn't work, it's a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:03 AM
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which is typically It's not that typical. Think GTA.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:22 AM
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The biggest difference is that murder can be justified But it isn't justified most of the time in video games. Most video games are still about you inflicting pain and death for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:21 AM
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Let's talk of the sims or of animal crossing then where people and especially women do evil things legitimately worse than rape. But you're right that there isn't very often a focus on the victim's fear and pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:19 AM
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I'm sure I saw the opposite. That violent video games don't make people more violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:17 AM
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Men: if it’s harmless and nothing wrong with it would you let your girlfriend/wife or potential girlfriend know you play these video games? Argumentum at populum fallacy. Just because people believe it doesn't make it true. Murder can be justified, such as in self defense. That’s a reason. There’s NEVER a JUSTIFICATION or REASON for rape. You can play most games minimizing the amount of violence, assault and murder. Most people don't attempt to minimize it though. The only viable difference betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:14 AM
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This is a really great comparision. It's a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:06 AM
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Funny that's how I think as well but for the opposite. If you don't see why fictional SA and rape aren't worse than fictional assault and murder, I'd suggest entry level course on ethics and philosophy, but I don't have high hopes that it changes anything. You're also doing a false equivalency, something you might have picked up at an entry level community college course on philosophy. Killing for food isn't the same as killing for killing. Most video games put you in situations where you have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:06 AM
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Yes, it is obvious my quote was meant to be understood as me summarizing the contradictory points of your post and not as me pretending you actually said that black on white. I'm not sure people who wouldn't understand this are calibrated to be discussing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:55 AM
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It really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:53 AM
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I've ALSO seen women say that about men they never talked to, and the "something" was mostly the size of his bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:06 AM
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Yes, I should be 10 minutes early outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:00 AM
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I've read it and this is what you're basically saying. You can always claim this is a strawman but I don't see anywhere in your post where it's suggested that men's sense of self worth is also being hijacked by women's opinions in places where it doesn't matter. I don't see an issue having your self worth for something specific being tied to the actual results you're getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:49 AM
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Men's sense of success with women depends on how successful they're with women Nobody could have guessed! Men's sense of self when it commes to intellect and other stuff unrelated to women stays unrelated to women. Incels don't typically stop themselves from getting to high paying jobs if they can just because of how they feel women don't like them. But men's sense of their own attractiveness is tied to how women see them which is absolutely the sensical thing to do... And you try and make it so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:08 AM
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she is a little fat and robust looking tho. Ai'nt ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:04 AM
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another day, another wall of text from \r\n abuser bro that I'm not going to read
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:03 AM
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That's rude there's a 24/7 kebab just in front of our building she can get one there and they like/fear her they'll give her some extra for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:01 AM
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Accept that they have a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:59 AM
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Men just like pretty women not these ogres looking conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:59 AM
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Are you kidding me? You really read "better" and thought this meant zero?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:41 PM
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I don't think you do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:37 PM
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for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:35 PM
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No. Instant divorce otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:35 AM
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This totally is a genuine interaction between 2 humans who exist and look like this, and not some advertisement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:33 AM
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Yeah that's just one level in which it usually fucks up. I'm presenting 2 other levels. Studies truly don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:12 AM
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Yes, yes they are initially at least a bit attracted. You're free to not do that and be miserable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:29 AM
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Most men are physically attractive to the women they pick at least a little. It goes away eventually but literally nothing can happen without a bit of attraction. Men are also not as heavily binary as you make it sound like. It's not a flip switch from "attractive" to "not attractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:22 AM
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Some women relate to it still "dripping" for a day after, some don't, it's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:10 AM
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Because there are actual statistics that back up the correct sides of these arguments. Studies aren't statistics Most people slapping links to their arguments aren't even links that agree with their claims. And when they do, it's very often because the journalist slapped their own conclusion on data that do not suggest anything. And when all things still align, the study is still not representative, badly conducted, have bad caveats, ect ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:08 AM
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Some men have heavy madona/whore dichotomy and some don't. I'd say it's a 50/50. So while the madona/whore guys aren't attracted romantically to the women they watch in porn, the other half doesn't separate sexual attraction from romantic attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:02 AM
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to an ideology that revolves around hate and anger. This is about red pill not black pill Because that woman is just one woman. She is not a representative of the female gender. No but mean women often say outloud what others think, they're more informative than those who just ghost you. The entire reason why I've had any success with women was thanks to the mean ones who would tell me what's wrong directly or indirectly. And thanks to the older women I was friend with who would have enough self…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:48 AM
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Because women's interactions with men are clearly better than men's with men's. And men aren't as wary as women around men, at least not without some heavy dose of profiling. What men reproach women isn't to be wary around men, but for some of them to continuously pick the men they need to worry about, and then complain about it, and blame the men who are of zero threat to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:48 AM
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Red pill isn't radical, black pill is. Checkmate bluïd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:45 AM
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pin her down an grope her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:59 PM
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cringe show
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:23 PM
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If I was part of that gender that cry like a little baby about a natural biological function they have every month I'd not be talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:51 PM
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I’m starting to give up I'm 36, I have 10 times his density and I'm considering going bald already...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:41 PM
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I care as in she can bring her home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:11 PM
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This is a study for cisgender men you're going to have only one participant and it's going to be that one FtM PPD user.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:31 AM
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The daily being synchronized with my day for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:38 AM
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low 50s is crazy too man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:42 PM
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bruh I'm obese, 15 year older, and I can't even run for long or quickly, you must have better cardio than me, how tf is your heart rate higher than me. Might be just your particular conditions, just lik ppl who don't do cardio are nearing 50 at rest, but still, 90 seems high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:32 PM
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I'd think someone who does cardio as often as you would be far lower than 90 at rest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:29 PM
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Oh so they're going to turn into some bohemian bourgeois annoying fucker. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:28 PM
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ALso forgot to mention most of these chick aren't old enough to have actually lost "baby fat" which is really just people calling "normal young woman fat" which doesn't go away in their late 20s but rather in their 40s (may vary depending on the individual ageing, but actresses tend to age slower). Actual "Baby fat" goes away around 6 years old. And if you want a good example of that you got jennifer connely and no she didn't look better without it. Again, whatever they're seeing is not "women l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:57 PM
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It's american magic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:55 PM
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"you're saying" followed by a strawman? You're a Purplepilldebate user ain't you? This is a red pill subreddit, SMV has a meaning. Dark skin is a negative SMV trait especially for women. "we all have our preference" is a platitude people throw at others to divert them from what they ask for, should not be allowed on a sub that qualifies as "red pill".
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 06:59 PM
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defaults to blaming men AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:53 PM
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Seeing the answers, this sub is hardly red pilled lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 06:52 PM
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Dark skin isn't a flaw! We all have our preferences Didn't expect blue pill on RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 06:50 PM
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that's not "lost their baby fat", that's "lost the american fat, got some surgery, and took professional pictures with professional make up artists". Like literally some of them are comparing candid pictures with professional photo shoots. And even for some of those that are legitimate, their faces being more angular isn't better, it's just women prefering masculine women, AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:08 PM
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That makes no sense. To you. With enough experience of life and an open mindness you'd eventually find out most human metrics look like bell curves. And no that's not the case, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships yes, it's the case, 6 to 9 more common than -2 to -3. Only 15% of marriage where the man is younger. plus the average is usually girl being younger than old guy by 3 or 4 years. So, you agree the average is above zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:15 AM
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My bad. I tend to ignore long strings of lowercase letters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:12 AM
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back, shoulders, elbows, knees, fingers, ankles, toes. Used to be able to crack my jaw as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:23 AM
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it's self care to see the horror on other's face
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:17 AM
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I do that often too. How is that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:04 AM
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That's men's default, they'd answer and match tone, only more direct tone. So eventually all men get banned and blue pill/pink pill women win. I'm all in for debating purity though, if you can't debate, you get banned, simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:36 AM
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There is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:48 AM
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Well are you talking to them to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:28 AM
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I'm all in for the omelette, however why the toasted bread? That's feels kind of dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:24 AM
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Daily reminder that philosophical dialectic on PPD is self care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:21 AM
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Yes, yes it does. It just doesn't fix mentally ill people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:18 AM
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Who are you on the discord?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:17 AM
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I'm 36, you're an incel? What advices do you need on?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:17 AM
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Greater representation in medical health: A lot of things we know today about health is due to the subjects of these studies being primarily men. This is why women have “unusual presentations” for heart attacks — Because women do not typically die of that...? Women have almost a decade more life expectancy than men, you'd expect that medical field studies what kills men the most around 50. Same shit for what kills women the most in between 30 and 50: pregnancies, it's studied a lot. Similarly, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:13 AM
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Why is it hilarious? you probably report people too. That's just how it works in this subreddit, if you don't like being insulted you don't have to answer, you can just report.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:03 AM
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That isn't how math works indeed because that's not about maths. That's about reality. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships And reality says, 6~9 is more frequent than -2~-3 You can expect most human metrics to look like bell curves if you didn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:53 AM
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Cool slippery slope bro. Not a slippery slope when we have literal statistical evidences: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships 6 to 9 age gap is more likely than -2 to -3 age gap. The argument is about how developmentally alienated two people are from each other. That sounds like a slippery slope now. My entire point in this thread is that men can on PPD often talk of age gaps because men are often told from very early on that it's immoral to not go for women your …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:47 AM
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That is blue pill equivalent for "confident, assertive and strong but that I personally agree of".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:15 AM
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I view other people's actions through the lens of how they benefit others and how it makes them react a certain way, because that is literally the topic. You decided to make it sound like it's about me because that is easier to make it sound like something bad. That is what's commonly called in debate communities a STRAWMAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:13 AM
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If the average is above 0 then extreme age gaps are more common than reverse tiny age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:11 AM
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you think that our personal preferences are something we’re doing to shame, ostracize, or hurt you. That's a strawman. My former comment explains everything quite clearly, if you have any doubt, try rereading with a neutral mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:26 PM
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My former comment quite literally would be a good answer to your comment. Guess we're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:17 PM
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The overcompensating ones are aggro, overly assertive and grandiose, yes. Doesn't mean it's not used for weak, inhibited and unassertive men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:04 PM
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Yes it does include "weak, inhibited and unassertive". I've seen women use it for both. And one simple evidence is that "big dick energy" means strong, courageous, and assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:00 PM
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Nobody serious about this topic is talking about couples within 2-3 years of each other lol. Nobody serious about this topic sees an average of 2-3 years and thinks this isn't going to lead to age gaps people disapprove of. Again, 7 year is as frequent as -1. 7 is problematic in the eyes of most people for couples under 30. Women who don’t have a kink for older men do not look at their own peers as not “looking like men,” They tend to view men their age or younger as "kids". White men tend to lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:59 PM
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you say "false" then proceed to not contradict me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:53 PM
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Maybe it's less true with gen Z but women don't choose guys their age. In my generation, which was the generation that was raised with the belief that gender roles were wrong, I'd hardly ever see girls dating their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:52 PM
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I'm seeing it as rejection which it is, and which is more tangibly impactful than being shamed. Shaming someone for a physical trait they can't control is eventually only hurting someone if they know it's effectively leading to rejections. You'd know this if you were born and raised a man. You'd be shamed left and right by other male kids for no reason 24/7. Men start to care when it relates to reality and when it's perpetrated by women. Thus why I say, doesn't matter if you find "better people"…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:49 PM
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pic or gtfo :V
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:41 PM
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lmao yeah I forgot about that one as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:41 PM
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Your lack of willingness to date educated women with careers will either leave you single or saddled with multiple dependents you actually cannot afford. You somehow believe that men can realistically en masse date richer and more educated women and actively be provided for by them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:06 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:03 PM
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Why is it always that comments starting with "So" are followed by an absolute strawman? I consider people responsible for their ability to perceive the world correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:51 PM
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Just like "cope" and other incel dismissive formulas generally warrant an immediate warning. I'd like to inquire to our mods to do the same for pinkpiller speeches such as "this says a lot about you" or "this is very telling" that add nothing and are just ad homs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:38 PM
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It's telling what exactly? That I understand it matters in a topic that talks about size mattering? Please tell me, you wouldn't post a comment on a debate sub without content. That'd be breaking rule 3. Being rejected is being rejected, the shape of the rejection can differ but it's still rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:34 PM
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Even if you find "better" people, they're simply not going to shame others but they still won't fuck them. So in the end it doesn't matter, selection works the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:21 PM
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Small dick energy is used to describe men who think they are cooler than they are. While your example works, this isn't what it means. SMall dick energy includes both overcompensating men and men who are seen as weak, inhibited and unassertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:20 PM
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It's largely because of current misogyny Real experienced misogyny or hallucinated? Can't count how often I've seen women report misogyny in the workplace all the while being literally privileged and just having no idea that men went through worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:17 PM
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Women sightly overpopulate men btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:16 PM
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What do you mean 200 years ago they believe you should be paying back for what modern men do and what privilege you have. Privileges that are all debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:10 PM
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2-3 years really IS an age gap. If the average is 2-3 then 7 is as frequent as -1. I’m talking about high schoolers dating men in like their mid 20s, and college women dating men who are pushing 30. I.e vastly different life stages. Yes that's literally what I'm talking of. HS+college or HS+working can easily be nothing or way too much. And IME you could find more women infiltrating older people's spheres than men infiltrating younger people's spheres. As I said it in another comment, women can …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:06 PM
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Most women I knew in HS and college were respectively with college/working men. It wasn't big age gaps but the average was definitively in the 2~3 year age gap. SO while women claim they prefer same age, they in fact don't prefer same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:21 AM
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Men on a fringe subreddit will openly admit to wanting to be in an age gap relationship but you hardly ever see young women expressing the same desire. Then you'll go IRL on any frat/student campus party and see buttload of younger women who have nothing to do there, who clearly prefer to date a guy with money, a car, a place, with booze and drugs, with facial hair and higher muscle mass, than a younger man with none of that or a lot less of that. And you'll see plenty of incel male student who …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:17 AM
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That patriarchy, matriarchy, and neutral societies all end up protecting women at the expense of men doesn't mean military conscription is matriarchy at play. All societies of all flavors are going to do just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:03 AM
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Real men don't virtue signal they vice signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:46 AM
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Lilith functions effectively as an influencer. Out of overflow of content she'll pick one negative one and build her "content" on it, not forgetting to inflate its importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:06 AM
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That's the same level of facety as the arguments used by american pro-choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:05 AM
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Its better that early oopsie pregnancies are terminated instead of them resulting in children who will be neglected, unwanted, abused, etc. So that's an argument in favor of abortion. But also an argument in favor of leaving men with a choice. Pregnancy does not happen in men's bodies, and men do not get to decide what happens in women's bodies. But men's money isn't in women's hands why would they get it? guess what? The men are now fathers and on the hook for child support if the choose not to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:50 AM
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Because it’s not about punishing women for having sex, but rather preventing children whose parents don’t want them and/or aren’t prepared to care for them from being born. Seems fairly convenient to put the limit at preventing birth instead of preventing conception. Again, all these arguments could apply to men's financial involvement. Because body autonomy. Nope, absolutely false. Otherwise there would be no limit and no regulation. If pregnancy happened in men’s bodies, we would also permit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:09 PM
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It's more "getting winter tires don't matter if you're not even going to drive during winter". A lot of people are stuck preparing and optimising themselves and never doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:35 PM
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and asking for what I wanted. Only this part is important. The joke is most of TRP is promoting for some blue pill shit nowadays of "you shouldn't care about women but care about being the best" The only advice that really works well is to be more sexually assertive is sex is what you want. Any advice telling you to do anything else is going to very often be telling someone to be someone else. I never lifted, I never had a straight back, I am short and fat. Sexual assertiveness worked incredibly…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:41 PM
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men are making decisions that lead to children who deserve provision from their fathers That's absolutely a good argument against abortion. Women have sex knowing it could lead to pregnancy. Why are we allowing them a way out? Why are we allowing women right of life and death over a human embryo? Ethically we shouldn't, but we do, because we believe in giving ppl second chances and more decisional power. Why wouldn't men get that kind of options as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:17 PM
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You know I screencaped you to show my ppd friend and they immediately recognized you despite I blurred your name. "Oh it's that polish woman, yeah just give up she's just ranting and systematically refuse any solution"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:57 PM
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Yeah ok... Though, I remember hearing this kind of speech from a girl, who simply wasn't into her boyfriend. When she was with a man she was attracted to and who made her want sex, it changed everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:18 PM
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Ah ok. Since you answered to this comment thread initially I thought you were saying like other women that it's men's duty to pleasure you entirely and if they can't they suck. What about oral? Does nothing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:04 PM
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No ok, I read you wrong before, you did say multiple times you don't masturbate often and don't like most sextoys. You don't like sex, your libido is low. And it is fine. But, why is it men's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:00 PM
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Sex is about giving each other pleasure, right? Not only. I feel aroused by giving pleasure, even if I know I'm not going to receive any, I'll be tempted to just get myself off from the arousal. So I think it’s understandable to be bitter about not receiving pleasure from it. Yeah, but at this point I don't believe it's men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:53 PM
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IDK what to say, I've never heard this kind of opinion in my life before. Everyone I've talked to seems to prefer sex over masturbation even if the sex involves them being a bit proactive with their own pleasure. People are usually aroused by their partners being aroused themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:50 PM
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Effeminate and LTR focused gay men I know have a preference for gay men over 30. Sex focused ones not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:44 PM
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That sounds absolutely not broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:43 PM
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"I shouldn't have to walk I should be able to teleport!" I'm not sure who you're saying "you should"??? You just sound like you do wish sex was more pleasurable but you refuse to do anything for it out of nonsensical barriers and gatekeeping of what constitutes sex. Do yourself a favor, buy a sextoy of the brand "womanizer" and use it with him, either from your hand or his.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:49 PM
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That's her fault for consealing this information to him. That virtually changes nothing for him. As everyone told me on this thread, biology isn't fair. I'm not sure why that means we have to make laws even less fair for men. Biology is already enough unfair to men in in other ways. If laws were here to compensate for it, men would be allowed to retire far earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:47 PM
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Uh that's like a jail worker saying he's confronted to criminals all day and who thinks the average person is a criminal as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:45 PM
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would have nothing to do with my husband anyway. You don't think it's going to be stronger or more emotionally/physically rewarding because of his presence, the intimacy, ect...? If no, then that's just pretty sad from my perspective, and you don't sound like you are heterosexual. Me masturbating to orgasm would be only fair if he had to use his own hands to cum as well. I sometimes do and my wife likes to look at me cum on her. Sex is supposed to be fun, and you sound like you bring way too muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:43 PM
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Can you cum from him touching your clit while he's also humping? All women can't, men's gestures can't be precise enough. Women are also not quite perfect with their hands for men, not all men can cum from their woman's hands alone. And women relate to orgasm during sex, even if they have to touch their own clit, is better than just masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:57 PM
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So you just starfish? No moving? no stimulating him or yourself? He has to do everything? Like do you not touch yourself while doing oral? Can you cum from him touching your clit while also humping? Which most women would find is very poor stimulation and wouldn't lead to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:36 PM
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Are men who owe child support and who wanted the kid outweighting men who pay child support all in all?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:18 PM
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If you don't see the point of sex if you have to do anything then I feel that is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:43 AM
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No, the real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is age gaps in relationships and an inverted pyramid of age. Men's dating pool is women same age or younger than them and women's dating pool is men same age or older. Naturally that leaves only a few women for young men while women's dating pool starts huge. Men are always competing with older men from the get go. But now with an inverted pyramid of age, there are more older people than younger ones, making this dynamic even worse. Evidenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:51 AM
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That's literally why my first comment was to correct what was the actual popular opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:46 AM
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Fathers should have the right to opt in or opt out from the moment they learn she's pregnant or that they have a kid. No basksies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:45 AM
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No, it's not nearly as common nor an uncontroversial opinion among men that they want to be able to paper abort far after the facts, unless it's proven it's not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:43 AM
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Weird we don't see you ask the former commenter for source that men majoritarily have a problem for paying for kids they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:42 AM
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All those are excelent arguments against abortion. Abortion is allowed, therefore those arguments aren't standing any ground. As you said, if men have no business taking any decision for women's body, women have no business taking any decision for men's money and labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:39 AM
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My personal experience says otherwise and your personal offense has nothing to do on a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:02 PM
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French people have too many emotional reactions overall . It’s exhausting and it distracts from the facts . Like no one cares about your feelings we’re trying to solve a problem . It's still a bit better than in the USA though, french ppl are more open to debating I feel. Depends where and some topics stay taboo. cum pet Lol. I knew cum stain but not cum pet Sorry you mum was a dick by the way . Mine was too . I was just access to money for her and she didn’t care about me at all . Too many wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:46 AM
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If you’re married and the kid not biologically your’s you should be let off the hook , this shouldn’t even be up for debate Most french people I talked to IRL and online have an emotional reaction to this and think men should feel glad the law is protecting them. As in, we should feel happy that we can continue being the legal father of a kid that isn't ours if we want to. And they think those who want to drop their responsibilities upon learning the truth are wrong and they don't think they sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:59 AM
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That's not the majority and they're not even supported by other men. That's a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:37 AM
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That’s not necessarily true . My dad was married to my mum for three years before he fucked off with his mistress and thought child support was above him. Then that's not reasonable and doesn't reflect what most men complain about. Most men complain about men being tied to a woman's decision. Men would prefer she abort but she doesn't, as a consequence they shouldn't be expected anything, it's what most men who have issues with child support push for. Men usually call it paper abortion. This isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:34 AM
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Thanks for the downvote and the unrelated answer. I'm just correcting you. Alimony and child support aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:56 AM
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This is alimony not child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:27 AM
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Men have a problem with paying child support for kids they didn't want or kids they don't have legal right to raise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:27 AM
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Has never been in a good state, the whole "we need more devs" was always a trick to pull salaries down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:09 AM
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Yes. Especially if you're not part of the talented passionate ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:08 AM
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Well first one, my wife's going to be so fucking annoying if she's stronger than me, also she's super clumsy she'll just kill me accidentally. "Hey asturae look the new armlock I Learned" kicks my balls
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:04 AM
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Least hypocritical religious person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:03 AM
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What you do not seem to get is that men here are complaining about the women who now have the option to not choose, and still choose in accordance to picky gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:25 AM
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Fuck deadlines imposed by others tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:43 AM
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That's usally the case because that's how women envision "interesting", not men. At least that's the women people complain about on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:57 AM
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Oh oh weird how when women drop gender roles a little bit life is better for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:55 AM
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When I was a freshman at college, I started to improve my life by quiting video games and playing soccer which was always a thing that I've always wanted to do instead of sitting right in front of the computer all day in my free time. So you went from not talking to women to talking to a bunch of men and still no women by making considerable amount of female friends or acquaintances. My bad, so you went from not talking to women, to talking to women but asexually and playing the social circle ga…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/25 02:53 PM
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Bold assumption that boring guys arent aggressive too. The way women perceive men, the two are opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:42 PM
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They don't avoid "aggressive" guys. They avoid "boring" guys for "aggressive" guys instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:09 PM
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All I'm reading is "Don't say 'choose better' and then get mad at women for 'choosing worse'". The entire point is that picky women don't choose correctly and then complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:02 PM
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Funny, the only people I know who are trying to tell others how they should live and what their goals should be are gym bros who think everyone should want to be as big as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:41 AM
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Go explain that to israel
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:03 AM
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Most people somehow can't figure out this kind of pattern despite having been put in hours and hours of history lessons in their childhood... :>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:48 AM
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Meanwhile, my wife is an informatic technician, the 3 jobs she had, they told her within a few weeks she was hired for being a woman. Same for many female software engineer graduates I studied with. Meanwhile, project chief at my job declares she prefers to work with women, I get kicked out of the project. (The woman who replaced me quit 2 month after lmao) My school was accepting in women with worse grades. One girl had bad grade and couldn't get her degree, she cried and they gave it to her. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:41 PM
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Ok but did you piss yourself tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:53 PM
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personally don't think it makes them less attractive as well. It's like nothingburger. Which pisses my wife off because she thinks her tattoos make her more attractive, nah, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:53 PM
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to encourage male abuse you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:52 PM
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If someone tells you "I could see myself cheating" you'd date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:51 PM
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What even would be your evidence of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:19 AM
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When they say "imagine" here I do not assume it is "can you imagine yourself jumping off this cliff" which is a thought people have which is their brain playing out bad scenarios for them to know not to do it. By "imagine" I assume they mean "would you".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:39 PM
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Sexual assaults are physical violence, false claims are social violence. Women are stronger than men socially and have greater capacity, and propensity for social violence. And they do not need to be sociopathic to be socially violent because social violence and strength conveniently allow the emitter to feel like a victim while victimizing someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:37 PM
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Doesn't take much to find out that people who imagine themselves doing immoral and illegal stuff are actually a potential problem to you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:31 PM
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How would anyone know actual prevalences though? Men are notorious under reporter and deniers of themselves being victims of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:30 PM
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that's a nice deadlift form
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:36 PM
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What about "they have to not be in a relationship with you"? Was that not an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:35 PM
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You sentence makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:49 PM
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Oh I'm not shitting on her for doing porn. But I'll shit on religious people and women with fake boobs 24/7 tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:16 PM
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maybe because your "fictional" couples have reverse gender roles and reality doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:49 PM
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Indeed but it's still pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:48 PM
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Step 1: hot porn actress Step 2: ugly aesthetic surgeries ruining her looks Obviously step 3 wasn't going to be a smart move when historically she's only done bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:47 PM
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If you think everyone has to accomodate to you and never the opposite, you deserve to get ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:45 PM
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it's literally just one way and it's sex tho. Colorblind: There's only one color and it's grey tho what other ways men use that women ignore? What are women's even?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:38 AM
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I know people with slight parasocial relationship with AIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:15 AM
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why do you think you’re a virgin? One week without sex, it regrew
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:14 AM
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Do you think she's right? She's a psychologist. That means no. Female psychologist siding with women Crazy how that works. Couldn't be that women strawman his display of affection as only sexual and can't perceive all the masculine ways to be affectionate. AKA again women treating men like disfunctional women for not displaying female affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:12 AM
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I'm gonna say it's because women have been conditioned since we were little into having internalized misogyny. You see women hating men for being with men and you manage to make it about women hating women. You'll have to explain that one. You'll also explain to me how you live life as a woman and never hear other women badmouth bi men. Bi men are considered less masculine, both because being attired by men is just not masculine, but also being penetrated by men makes someone feminine by design.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:07 PM
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"objectification" "dehumanization" "abuse" "whataboutism" "feminicide" "mansplain" all the feminist buzzwords are fallacy powerhouses playing on the social strengths and privileges of women to try and intimidate people/win arguments/appeal to emotion. And simply stating that a lot of people will simply think you're a monster. It is that bad. Some of these words have legitimate meaning and usage, but often misused to serve other purposes. And one of the joke is I know some women who will constant…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:25 AM
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General, I think I'm just sick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:42 AM
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I'm so lazy these last 2 weeks, I'm always tired, I can't sleep much, and I can't work myself up to workout anymore. I'm also horny as shit so the little energy I have I spend it masturbating. How do I spyral out of it. Edit: Alright I found out, I'm just sick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:15 AM
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I was mocking that it wasn't "all" and you confirm it smh instead of hysterically sobbing about how picky you are :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:42 PM
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And what they've not told you is they've rejected most who tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:45 PM
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I can have a stable weight for 6 month straight the second I eat nutella I gain weight for ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:30 PM
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all the short guys subs are about dating, all the mental health subs are about dating, even the MGTOW ended up just being about shitting on women and not just men going their way. These are not support groups, they are more circlejerk communities, who work exactly the same way as any female community of the same genre. Which I shall remind you include all the feminist communities. Subs like twoX are a lot of shitting on men and they're not only mega popular they're endorsed by the website.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:27 PM
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And also earn at least the same as me And also to be at least my age And also to be physically fit and taller than me in heels That's all And also to vote left and to not be racist, political compatibility is important That's all And also he needs to be white That's all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:22 PM
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The weekly post from random women saying it's reasonable to want a partner who earns "at least" the same as her aren't enough to convince you? I don't know a single woman who would be ok with dating someone who earns less and provide for them. Men are fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:20 PM
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Whatever will men do their support to each others are going to be collaborating to have more stuff and to have a prosperous environment for them without stepping on each others, and their families. And women will call that a patriarchy indubitably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:17 PM
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AI helps people who know what they're doing, they don't replace them. It's as stupid as saying computer will replace people, nah, people learned to work with computers and those who didn't were unhirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:15 PM
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also oof that dude is a fucking bootlicker god damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:14 PM
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Why would these be necessarily shitty behavior? Feminists demanded men to stop hiring only men and to take women seriously professionally. But hiring men and paying them well was how men supported men. So now men have double the competition for less salaries, while women demand men to earn more while earning more themselves. This is an edifiant contradiction especially knowing women promised they weren't shallow and would gladly endorse male gender roles if they were earning more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:11 PM
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I don't pretend I'm doing anything. I'm here to debate, what I do has nothing to do with this contradiction. What do you think you do for men's mental well-being?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:10 PM
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It was already dead and had the exact same issues as early as I can remember AKA 2010. Companies were already crying that there wasn't enough software engineers while every single of jobs offers were having 100 applications at least. And everytime they'd brush away any software engineer that hasn't worked exactly on that particular technology. Despite a software engineer is specifically educated on computer science to not be technology dependent but to be able to learn and adapt on anything. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:08 PM
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That is canon libfem and radfem logic, there isn't a popular strain of feminism that doesn't think this way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:02 PM
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Feminism: Patriarchy needs to stop! men need to stop supporting other men! Also Feminism a few decades later: All of men's problems are men's fault, they don't support each others like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:54 PM
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mom bod happens for a good reason No. Same logic applies. If men can't have reasons to grow fat when their wife is pregnant and that they're obviously working towards amenaging their life to the future kid, then moms who have grown fat during the pregnancy have no excuse as well. Especially considering pregnant women get a lot of things accomodated for them and that the husband usually has to do more to compensate. Same for right after birth. In FRANCE, a FIRST WORLD COUNTRY, men are getting a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:51 AM
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or getting a mom bod which is still less accepted than a dad bod ??? This is pink pill propaganda or just toxic female space stuff. even though there are actual physiological reasons behind ‘looking like a mom’. Just the same as physiological reasons behind dad bod? You got a kid, you're stressed out and sleep deprived. I'm not counting having a saggy belly, tits and stretch marks as being fat. And when it comes to aging, having faster metabolism as a 20 year old than as a 40 year old is actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:22 AM
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The official point of pink pill isn't that, but yes pink pillers are using Fear Uncertainty and Distrust to justify being even more shallow and ruthless, but most of the time it's just to justify not even trying. Nobody's really getting just "fat and lazy" and nobody's just getting fat from pregnancy. Most people get fat from stress linked to a lot of stuff together, or from ageing without adapting lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:51 AM
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The problem with some pink pillers isn't that they're not describing shallow things, it's that they claim all men do it when it's very far from being the norm. It'd be funny if someone very adamant that men are shallow and heartless would turn around and be like "well he caught some fat and now I'm repulsed".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:37 AM
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Pregnancy is a separate issue, weight gain is kind of inevitable when you’re growing a human in your body. Not true. My wife's pregnancy weight gain was tiny, if you saw her from the back you'd not be capable to tell she was pregnant. It was the after that led to greater weight gain. Stress, sleep deprivation, bad eating habits, all combined are a huge bitch. I was healthy weight before kids as well and I gained a lot because of the same issues. He’s a relatively young man in the physical prime …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:34 AM
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Sadly I'm just a man, so when my wife caught weight because of the pregnancies and bad eating habbits, I never dared to tell her anything other than acknowledging she caught weight but that she was still hot (she was fr). Picking a long time partner is a skill and part of that is picking one that you'll still find attractive even with some fat, wrinkles and white hair. But she was always aware that I consider slim to be optimal. Eventually she worked herself up back to slim weight on her own. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:24 AM
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Now tell me are you a normal person or are you one of those pink pillers who cry left and right on the subreddit that men are shallow AF and talk constantly about women ageing and men ditching them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:55 AM
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What kind of weight gain are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:51 AM
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Keywords "at least". And that's called Hypergamy. And hypergamy is generally what sets young men to have such a hard time dating. Feminists promised that women weren't shallow and that they'd be "just like men" if men stepped down from careers and allowed women to exist professionally. Now young women are more college educated and earn more money than young men and they're still saying "at least" instead of "I'll provide for my man if necessary". Gender roles are a whole package and women insist…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:11 AM
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well we had women eating placenta so.... I believe there's a part of trolls and a part of serious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:04 PM
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may you enlighten me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:05 PM
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Look, feminists in my city have writen "drink my periods" on the walls, I think it's just fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:34 PM
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The weak and helpess part was in believing women when they said there would be benefit for men in giving them men's professional spaces. Which was possible thanks to managing the narrative from birth to adulthood, and then by paraziting the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:21 PM
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The gender essentially responsible for everyone's education believes it's not at fault for people's behavior, but the gender who grows food and builds roads is? Interesting take that doesn't fly far.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:09 PM
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Yes, with my piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:05 PM
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Men are willing to admit half of their responsibility for the state of humanity. Women are the ones who always believe it's all men's fault. Don't be hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:01 PM
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You can screencap anybody that's not making it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:17 PM
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You can screencap anybody that's not making it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:50 PM
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If they want her for casual sex they want her for everything else too. You believe that men separate the two because you're focused only on the top men who got these kind of choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:49 PM
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No, but the few flirts or actions you had, or the sex you had, weren't memored more fondly, more vividly? Even stuff up to your early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:12 PM
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It is well known that hormonal intensity tends to make memories more vibrant and remarkable. So that means that these horny phases when you were 16 are the most memorable moments of your life. This would be why people have a sweet spot for fictions in highschool involving teenager love and shit. Is it really just it? Can't we grow more fonder exiting memories? Is it not symptomatic of us being just depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:09 AM
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Probably, I'd just not quote that for rich people's ways to become more attractive though. Sadly while I can tell my hair and nails grow faster when I take hyperaliments known for their benefit on hair, nails and skin, my keratoze isn't looking any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:36 AM
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vitamins Oh no not the expensive piss maker! :')
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:11 AM
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It's not a mistery why most of HR are women. Because in both cases women are posturing as the sought after and having the market's upper hand, supposed to play hard to get, uninterested, and lowballing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:10 AM
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I'm sorry but men are proven to be more reasonable when it comes to physical standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:09 AM
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majority women do but we are prioritising a relationship rather than looks I can guess that's true for women in their 40s and 50s that they objectively think younger men are more conventionally attractive. However more sexually attractive? No, most women don't. No just for the fact I felt like they would using me. Using you? In what way? For your money? Please stop telling me what women find attractive. Stop saying wrong things about what women find attractive then. Claiming to be a woman online…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:19 PM
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The point is women aren't being abused by creepy older men, they're likely just happy to have what they want with someone who is happy to have what they want as well. You're confused because you want me to be an easily attackable strawman. If you took my points for what they are and not within a perspective that I didn't bring up, you'd have an easier time navigating this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:42 PM
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Men have always been horrible to each others in order to win competition and get the women. But they used to be less worse until women decided to invade men's spaces. In short, women are partially at fault both times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:40 PM
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Men didn't support men, yes... that's my point. What feminists demand is for men to not suppot men. Because when men do they call it patriarchy and oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:32 PM
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Capitalism sure enjoyed women entering the qualified workforce en masse. And feminists too. I'm not sure how that disproves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:29 PM
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It's a pittance for hard labor because you've experiencing it after feminism ruined it all. Men have always fought richer men for a better living of course. But tighter social landscapes have men pay and reward other men better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:19 PM
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Well I'm perfectly sane man and I was bullied by men for part of my life. Autistic people tend to feel bullied even when they aren't though. I can totaly relate to seeing autistic women feel bullied over men hitting on them and wanting their attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:16 PM
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A small age gap is usually what people go for. But that sets the tone as in favor of older men/younger women. That means a 10 year age gap with an older man is as extreme as a 3 year age gap with a younger man. And with the inverted pyramid that is our current pyramid of age, that dynamic sets a huge debuff onto young men's dating success. But honestly if more men were opened to relationships with women (40 plus) they would chose younger men (30ish). No. Women have more dating market power. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:40 PM
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Women don’t mind men a couple of years older In my experience of dating women, obsrerving women's actions and choices, and listening to women, a couple of years gap helps with sexual attraction and respect in ways equal age doesn't. While they have zero respect or attraction for men younger as they feel childlike to them. Biologically men struggle with erections more as they get older. There's usually libido gap between men and women. And usually women's libido too get biologically fucky as they…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:27 PM
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Ok thanks for mansplaining that. Contentless rethoric, strawman, ad hominem. That women aren't attracted to younger men comes from the mouth of women themselves. Women in countries where there is equality marry men closer to their age. This amounts to saying that countries where women earn more money from jobs also features women who are less greedy about marrying rich men. Probable. That's not making women attracted to younger men still. . https://www.theguardian.com/science/2025/jan/27/both-me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:13 PM
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Sounds like an argument for acknowledging it is asymetrical and for paternity tests, but phrased like an argument disagreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:53 PM
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Same for people who judge. They'll be judged as misandrists for thinking there should be repercusion for.... consented relationship with adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:24 PM
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They're going to. When I was a kid they said 20. They keep creeping older and older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:22 PM
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And the ability to take risks at certain age isn't meaning immaturity, these burst of risk taking behaviors are meant to help us at certain key ages of our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:21 PM
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Just like there was a definite difference in late 20s me and middle 30s me. We're perpetually learning. Our brains perpetually get more complex. That we shift from creating more neurons than losing neurons at 25 doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:17 PM
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The only thing that changes about women is that young women are annoying, high demand, high energy, high expectations, while the older ones are stabler. Which means relationships with young women and older men is basically just money burning, sex, and nothingburger drama. If the dude has the money and energy to endure that, then probably they find both a lot of perks in each others. If she was to be with a dude younger, that dude would have less money, more energy, more risk taking behaviors and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:14 PM
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You're at the lesbian bar with someone shaking their titties in your face, they're getting generational wealth's money from some older guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:07 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships No. Women are not attracted to younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:05 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships 7% of married couples being above 10 year age gap is a lot. And that's only for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:03 PM
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She looks insane in movies but otherwise she looks a lot plainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:51 AM
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Social punishments are not a deterrent for a lot of men It's a good sign, men deterred by social punishment have feel a bit equivalent to "blowjob is degrading" women. Incels tend to be parallized by the idea of social punishment, explaining why they're incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:47 AM
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I was a short loser and I wasn't treated like this. I can't imagine how much worse you need to be to get this bad. Maybe effeminate homosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:48 PM
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Hence why even in heavily racialised populations, you still have men/women who date out, In heavily racialised populations, you still have lots of people consider white people as ideal. Or rather some other ethnicity I shall not name as the least ideal. In every culture the same ideal emerge, and they're always tied to sexual dimorphism, regardless of what the media claim and the trends are. We've seen enough of that in our lifetime and recent history to make deductions on our history. Some is e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:32 PM
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Think about it, what do rich men do to support men? They hire them, they pay them well, they form partnerships and work together to raise the level of life of their surrounding. When men support each others, women call it oppressive patriarchy and beg men to stop doing that. Then they turn around and still reward the men with resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:22 PM
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Men can't punish each others the way they care about. It's women who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:19 PM
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I think everything you listed are essentially exaggerated reports from historians and medias. Attraction is negotiable, but what's ideal remains ideal. You might fool someone if they never knew anything better, but even people who grew up surrounded by something end up preferring the ideal when they find it out. Still, the biggest majority of people will not marry the ideal, and are more likely to find someone average. If someone can't find the average good enough they're the problem. And today'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:14 PM
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That's not happening for as long as women punish men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:09 PM
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It's not really gendered IMO. Half the population doesn't like their own gender. But what's gendered is men tend to support their beloved ones materially and women tend to support their beloved ones socially. What's gendered is hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:40 PM
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Do you think bully men treat women any differently? Think? I've seen it. They love women and women love them back. Sure they're not going to be nice with her boundaries, but that's always 10 times less than the shit they do to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:37 PM
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Are you trans?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:35 PM
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Or rather a crushing majority of the population is claiming the minority of men mocking and bullying the rest of men are all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:32 PM
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Women wanted equal rights and equity in pay and jobs. Women are now more educated than men and even starting to outearn men. The state of the pyramid of age favors women in the dating market because women generally do not want men younger than them. Maybe a good start will be with women toning down on the hypergamy instead of stubbornly still wanting men who are older, earning more and having higher status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:29 PM
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Women have yelled for decades that men being in power is leading to privilege for men and problems for women. SMH 90% of teachers and HR being female hasn't made any of you suspicious that men's problems from women might come from more than just dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:27 PM
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No. I have some subscriptions that I noticed lost 3/4 of their value in the last 5 years, but I also do piratry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:36 AM
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They're not oblivious, they consciously suffer from it at times. Just like people who can't be "themselves" suffer from it at times. Everyone yearn for more balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:29 AM
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None. They all turned into shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:28 AM
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I don't think ppl really into anything consider themselves anything. Self considerations are for posers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:09 AM
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best nongame women use to believe they're gamer girls but in reality is human trafficking simulator.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:01 AM
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My wife calls me "the building" :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:47 AM
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I'm the kindertest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:46 AM
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the gaming: animal crossing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:45 AM
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give it a couple years and the latter will disappear from your radar
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:44 AM
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Female neuroticism. Me and my friends would train walking on our hands deep in the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:48 PM
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He doesn't know he's into it YET until I show him :V
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:31 PM
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You can always one up the sex, you're just unimaginative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:24 PM
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Headstand are more a question of balance. I'm obese and older than you don't fucking tell me I can do a headstand and not you...? Push ups aren't natural for women. You should start with your knees down or simply do wall/inclined push ups. When I do rounds of cardio I mix in 45° push ups it's pretty nice to get your heart to pump while involving the upper body. Same for australian pull ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:21 PM
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I believe this is called a muscle up. No I mean push ups, those you do on the floor in plank position.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:16 PM
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Don't wanna brag but I do push ups everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:10 PM
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Nobody goes back to the shitstorm that was puberty hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:04 PM
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rewards her man with romance instead of sex You got things backward here girl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:03 PM
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That's really meaning nothing at all and I'd bet what you find attractive in men is going to be the most arbitrary shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:01 PM
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Synthesizing burden is on you, not on me. Do you do that to your boss and coworkers as well? Flood them in information and expecting them to lose their time filtering out what they care about or don't? I stop reading coworkers like that fairly quickly. Though sometimes I suspect some flood their bosses in information so the boss gives up on reading them. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:39 PM
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I snorted at this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:09 PM
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Fell for the ragebait of mouth foamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:08 PM
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can't synthesize when chatgpt is here to help you with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:44 PM
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I said I'm done with you for today, I'm not reading all that, try to synthesize.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:36 PM
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The sentence states that some women who have never masturbated, orgasmed, or explored their sexuality on their own still have sex with men, but it does not explicitly claim that this is the norm for heterosexual women. There, you have it. I'm done with you for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:21 PM
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when linking something such as a research journal would help others to take you more seriously. As if research journals had much more weight than some random's personal experience. It's all worthless bullshit. :/ Oh, ffs. Not ChatGPT. Men (and women) that use AI to help them win arguments is something that is both confounding and hilarious to me. You started it with your bandwagon fallacy "but many people didn't understand" YET A FREAKING ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE UNDERSTOOD IT AND WAS CAPABLE TO …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:54 PM
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Everyone uses hyperbole and OP is also guilty of it. Taking them too seriously after seeing a bazillion people "well achtually" the hyperbole is just sign of either being a noob or being socially oblivious. General main guideline of debate is to attack the main and most robust arguments, nitpicking ain't good. So here you have it, both social codes and debating codes would generally want you not to care too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:46 PM
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Never said or insinuated that, actually. You ask me why I'm bringing up a few anecdotes I'm telling you why, that you in particular didn't explicitly said you don't believe they exist is fine, I don't recall if you did or didn't claim that, others did for sure and this is why I bring in anecdotes. it would be just me (it’s not) that’s misinterpreting you due to lack of context. I showed them to other people who said redditor's reaction were illogical. I also asked chatgpt and their answer was: T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:31 PM
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And you're not addicted to tone policing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:09 PM
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Why didn't you interject when OP said women are main care giver like men don't do anything? "Bro" simply matched the tone of OP here, everyone knows there are exceptions. I'm replying to you so you realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:44 PM
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Skyrim modding is about putting files in folder how much less complicated do you want it to be lmao blame game devs for not making modding easier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:40 PM
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If you are under the impression that you're damned if you do, damned if you don't, the problem is being in that situation to begin with. So women aren't damned if they have fake tits and damned if they have saggy tits, they're damned for having small tits and damned for trying to fake their way out of it. The same way men are damned if they bald and damned if they wear toupees, they're in reality damned for balding and damned for trying to hide it. So men like naturally beautiful women, they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:32 PM
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So you tell me you never looked at politics and thought that it was kindergarden tier drama?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:23 PM
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to try and back up that sexual frigidity is the norm No I never said sexual frigidity is the norm, nor insinuated it, this is the indication that your reasoning are logically faulty, not mine. You guys keep claiming that sexual frigidity DOESNT EXIST so naturally having a few anecdotes is largely enough to counter that. You claim that everything you’ve said has been “black and white” Everything I said was clearly written black ON white. Black and white suggests binary no nuance. Black on white s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:21 PM
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there's no goalpost moving you're just disingenuous. OP says "women do all of the human care giving", men reply "men do all the creation of objects" which is a fair thing to say. You can't come up with exceptions for one and not the other, it's insinuated that it's not a 100% thing. Then you'll say "whataboutism" and "tu quoque fallacy" but when OP says "women do all the human care giving and that's why women are wonderful", it's absolutely a good counter point to remind OP that everyone is usef…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:13 PM
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No, most people seem to prefer cardio.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:33 AM
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No, the verbiage doesn't try to insinuate such. There's no contextual suggestion either. For someone calling out my so-called lack of comprehension (which is an ad hominem, btw) Not more than you saying I'm being illogical. I say "grappes with no seeds are sweet" someone go at me saying "this insinuates that fruits are all grappes" and you go at me with "this insinuates grappes who are sweet all have no seeds". I can't make it any clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:31 AM
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A lot of people feel stressed at any cerebral activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:13 AM
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banging the hottest (trans) women. The hottest trans women are never on par with average women, and they have a dick. If you believe this is some success you're just gay. At least nowadays they have hormonal treatment and some even had puberty blockers, surgeries have improved a lot, they should look more feminine than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:11 AM
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seltin sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:09 AM
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A very small handful of Famillies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:07 AM
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Have you told OP that when OP talks of how women do all the elderly and child care?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:06 AM
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A powerful minority of people reap all the benefits of male and female work. Then women run everything human and men run everything object in society, with a tendency for money and goods going from men to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:05 AM
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Do you think there are no male nurses and elder care giver? IDK you but I've never seen an old people's home not have a few big men to do all the heavy liftings and security. But you still will say women are the backbone of care giving in society, because it's true. Men are the backbone of everything about objects, there are exception everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:02 AM
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men have a higher affinity for violence (as a group) than women do. Precision: Because women (as a group) reward that. As you said, women have their place in the world, and their share of responsibility for the violence men commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:59 AM
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You're moving away from men as a gender but not from the comfort of society that men built. Weird how that works. The same way my "off the grid" friends are still getting electricity, water, and unemployment funds and then turn around and ask what has society done for them and why they should not be leeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:56 AM
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-Men commit the majority of crime. Men commit the most risks to save other people. People close their eyes on majority of crimes women commit. -Women are often the ones raising kids and caring for the elderly in society. And men are often the ones growing the food and running the water and electricity grid so that everyone is enabled to live comfortably -Men are attracted to very young women. Not "very". Women are attracted to rich and powerful men, which is detrimental to society and more modes…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:54 AM
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why are young ppl so bad with computers :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:08 AM
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Well I Don't think you actually read.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:05 AM
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but that’s not the norm. Again, nobody said or insinuated that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:03 AM
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Nah. My initial statements were fine and clear. That you think I've no evidence for it is fine, nobody has any evidence for anything here. But people kept pushing that I said the absolute opposite of what I said, you included. Words were very clear black on white. I think you need to take your own advice and listen to a more diverse group of women regarding this. I know perfectly about the women you know, you don't know about certain other types of women that exist. You are the ones who know les…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:10 AM
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My general culture implies that women rub their own clit when they feel like it. And that those who complain about lack of orgasm tend to be very often women who expect men to do everything and who are difficult to please. If you're difficult to please, you should take your pleasure as your responsibility. Happened to me, as a man, to take my own pleasure as my own responsibility because I was particularly numb. Women in general aren't great at finishing men off either, with their abysmally shor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:06 AM
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Then why are you also claiming that lesbians have the highest rate of dead bedrooms and that so many of them are also just as “frigid”? I don't believe frigid women default to lesbian. So no I don't believe there are so may of them being frigid. But I believe lesbians are not having as much sex and are having more deadbedrooms because I've seen it and because we used to have stats on it. Often flaunted around on PPD. Why is that? WOmen tend to have reactive sexualities and if two reactive sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:00 AM
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Again, this statement is as absurd as saying "why should I move during sex? might as well masturbate" This idea the man should do everything both for his and her pleasure can't be in anyway sensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:56 AM
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If it's foreplay then there's also tongue. But not all women can also cum from clitoris stimulation only, or sometimes tongue and fingers aren't enough. Or sometimes she cums both during foreplays and during sex. There's just no rule I'm not sure why people think I'm dictating something very precise when I say "women should rub their clit"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:46 AM
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Women who never masturbated, orgasmed, or did anything on their own, have sex with men Apples are fruits, do you believe that means all fruits are apple? That's what you're doing here, I'm describing a demographic of women who never masturbated, orgasmed, or did anything on their own, as having essentially sex with men. Insinuating that frigid women don't typically default to lesbian.... It doesn't make a comment on heterosexual women's likeliness to not masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:44 AM
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If she's having to rub her own clit she's getting herself off while you do nothing for her. While you're inside her stimulating her other erogenous areas? Moving for her while she focuses on her clit? Ever heard of the G spot? The A spot?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:39 AM
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that the average straight woman Where do you see "average straight woman"????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:38 AM
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NGL I used to feel a bit useless the first few months I met my wife when she'd rub her clit herself and not like me doing it. We've been 16 years together and she probably has had more orgasm than me. But we're both quite difficult to "finish". "womanizer" brand air pulser sextoys are an absolute game changer to women, tried it recently and it can go through my wife's birth control + antidepressant low sensitivity like it's nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:33 AM
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This argument is as stupid as saying "why do you hump her? If she doesn't ride you you might as well just masturbate".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:27 AM
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It's not about me. There's rarely a position during sex that allows the same hand movement as hers as well. encourage her rub it herself while you’re pumping while not thinking that makes her some kind of whore That's kind of what I'm talking of...? Who is saying she's some kind of whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:26 AM
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clearly you thought women jacking off was outside of the norm until just now. No. Clearly never said something like that. Women usually aren’t truthful with men about this because our culture acts like it’s slutty for us to masturbate for whatever reason. It’s a protective mechanism. So why would she also talk to me of her sexual difficulties with her bf? or the other talk to me of her childhood rape? And finally the lesbian one tell me she wants to try sex with men to see if she's really frigid…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:25 AM
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Women typically love the man they fuck, are exited by the man they fuck, enjoy pleasuring him at the same time they have pleasure, enjoy having their G and A spots stimulated by their dick, ect... isn't it like common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:18 AM
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Why would they claim to be abnormal? If they wanted to just brush me off they should have not answered or answered the normal answer. SOunds like I'm trustworthy to hear about that and even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:16 AM
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If women would easily come off from men rubbing the clit during PIV that would be known. What I hear is generally that "men can't possibly ever do it right", especially if he's the one moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:13 AM
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The literal analog would be expecting men to rub their own dick and call it sex I mean rub it during PIV I sure hope yall picked that up...?.? Or are you just not sure why men wouldn't rub it themselves? Not all positions allow for it easily, and lots of women prefer their own way of doing it and men can't quite be as good. because he shouldn't have to. The question was "what women should do" though What men should do is buy they woman an air pulser clitoris air fryer 3000, stick that on their c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:11 AM
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I'm pretty sure I suggested people to just do that, why do you talk to me like I'm disagreeing? Again, doesn't seem like this is an answer to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:54 PM
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You're really going to pretend that you saying "you said apples are fruits therefore you meant that all fruits are apple" is logically sound and pretend I'm not smart? You think you can intimidate a guy with a computer science master degree about logic? Lmao. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:44 PM
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Raisins who have no seed are tasty. Logically, that means tasty raisins have no seed. This is what you just said. Are you sure this is logical????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:26 PM
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Women don't have sex with women if they don't have a sex drive. Women with no sex drive have sex with men. Women who never masturbated, orgasmed, or did anything on their own, have sex with men. This is my opening comment. Please point exactly where I suggest that heterosexual women don't have sex drives. Explain what logic led you to conclude that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:11 PM
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Who is saying that heterosexual women don't have sex drives?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:03 PM
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Women should rub their own clit. They should know and explore their pleasure and sexuality. Men should accept that women do it and not take it as an ego hit as well. That's a fucking feminist/sexual revolution talking point, and people on this thread believe I'm being an asshole misogyne for stating it, they are being backward about it on this thread it's so ironical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:02 PM
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Nothing on PPD is proven. Nothing of what you believe has any empirical weight. So forget me about your sarcastic rants on data and proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:56 PM
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Like I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:55 PM
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Someone asked what should women do. I answered with empathy and compassion. And was downvoted by people withotu empathy nor compassion. Leo's answer isn't empathy and compassion, this is indirect speech, plausibly deniable speech, and not given to the same question. Different context. I just laugh at the difference in reaction. People who downvoted me are almost literally mysoginists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:54 PM
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the only person on this post claiming heterosexual women have no sex drive. Please quote me saying exactly that. I don't think I've made a typo or phrased things wrong, I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:52 PM
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It's more that frigid women will tend to default to heterosexuality. Or if you prefer hetero romantism since sex isn't much their appeal. On average it'll mean that lesbians are less likely to be frigid women. But you need to remember that women's sexuality is fairly reactive and 2 reactive sexualities will often trap each others in a deadlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:49 PM
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