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If you think men are losing half of their stuff during divorce, go talk to actual divorce lawyers. Women are lucky if they even get enough child support to take care of his children. My aunt is currently going through divorce, gave him 3 boys and US citizenship. He’s declaring bankruptcy on his real estate development company, pining after college aged women, and her divorce attorney is saying most women barely get anything through this process.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:20 AM
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No, it’s now more difficult for adult men to consistently get away with sexually abusing teens. “Research also shows pregnant teenagers typically suffered chaotic homes and childhood abuses. Girls who, in politically sanitized parlance, “initiate” sex before age 15 overwhelmingly had been victims of rape. A large majority of the impregnators of school-age girls are adult men, not school-age boys. Interestingly, teenage motherhood was perfectly acceptable before 1960, when men age 20 and older fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:16 AM
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Just say American women don’t want you. Maybe you’re just surrounding yourself with broke people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:06 PM
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Violence would dramatically decrease if we castrated violent offenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:51 AM
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As a woman, I felt this. I don’t want to be the default parent for an entire family’s needs like I’ve seen in a majority of households.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 07:01 AM
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In theory this makes perfect sense given how two men would better be able to navigate the world than constantly having to be the provider and protector of the physically weaker partner. I feel the biggest issue against this is the constant stigma around same sex partners. The constant remarks and put downs are enough to steer most from not expressing their preferences or even doing it in secret. I think another issue is that men prefer imbalanced partnerships. Women are taught from a young age h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:33 AM
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Yes, if they have a girl friend, wife, or fiancée and you hang out as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:47 PM
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They can if the man is partnered up or gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:04 PM
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I believe most men like the thought of having children for the sake of their legacy, baby trapping a woman, or pressure to have children by their family for a multitude of reasons. I don’t believe they want to actively care for them after they’re born and just expect the default parent to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:44 PM
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Would you punish women for leaving when their partner starts beating them after having children? A lot of women become single mothers when fathers become dangerous or incompetent. Again, outside the moms control as people change all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:09 AM
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Women don’t actively choose to become single parents as raising children alone is difficult. If she had children with a man, it’s because she saw the potential for a long term relationship or else she’d abort. No one can accurately gauge at the beginning of the relationship and even years into being with the person if they’ll be a dead beat. It’s only up to the parent to decide and even then it’s out of the other parents control as people change with time and experience. We shouldn’t punish the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:55 AM
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If we had more people like you shaming deadbeats like you do with single mothers, who stayed to provide for their children, we wouldn’t have so many fatherless households. But of course, it’s always easier for you to blame the women than have to upset your buddies or get beaten by these men for being so disrespectful. I bet you’re also angry at women for the current dating market and declining birth rates when comments like yours discourage women from even trying to start their own families.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:33 AM
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It doesn’t, I agree, with what you said for the dating market. But in simpler terms, it’s just first impressions, which applies to all people alike- Old men, young women, kids, etc. You take any person out, for the first time, to eat at a nice place and that’s a good way for them to gauge your finances and manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:12 AM
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It’s just first impressions. Anyone would be more interested and have a better impression of the person who took them out to eat in a nice place over the person who took them out to coffee for their first meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:53 AM
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From experience, yes. This will apply to the majority looking for specifically freshly legal teenagers. Despite what many think, an 18 year olds brain does not magically turn into that of an adult. They’re more financially vulnerable and inexperienced to not see the red flags like older women would. Theres also no reason for older men to find anything in common with a kid who just got out of high school and is not even old enough to drink. I assure you, these type of people would go younger if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:35 PM
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At 18 and even younger, I had a bunch of predatory men who were significantly older than me trying to groom me. Lots of older women have this experience from their teen years and it’s when you’re around the same age as those predatory men that you realize just how inappropriate their behavior is and why they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:05 PM
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Can’t believe I had to scroll this far to see this point brought up. I thought OP had been actively chased, followed, or had a car full of men stop to ask him if he wanted a ride like I or most of my female friends have experienced while walking alone at night. The only men I’ve actually witnessed be mugged/ beaten were homeless or hung out with the wrong crowd unlike the women I know who were just walking home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:01 AM
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Both genders are still held to a certain standard on gender roles. The difference is that nowadays women are significantly more socially pressured to uphold those standards than men. For example, we call women who participate in hook up culture as sluts and made fun of while men are excused to do the same thing. While men are considered simps for continually paying for their dates because women make money. Men get all the benefits, a woman who is socially pressured to remain pure/ loyal to famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:56 AM
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BS. This is the best time for men in regard to our modern gender roles. Nowadays women are expected to split all the financial bills in half with the man while they birth, raise, and take over 80% of the household responsibilities. This doesn’t even account for the rising number of fatherless households where men are straight up abandoning their gender roles now that social norms have become even less constrictive for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:55 AM
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Believe it. Statistics can back up that women are opting out of marriage and child bearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:00 PM
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You’d be eliminating more than half of the female dating pool. Men are vile and all of the assaults that happen are out of the victim’s control.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:51 AM
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Definitely not immoral but it heightens the risk of a man just walking away and leaving the woman to deal with all the responsibilities of child rearing. If a man isn’t even willing to commit to you through legal means before the child is born, why do women believe he’ll have the morals to support his family if there are no legal or social consequences set in place for his actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:20 PM
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You’re not a misandrist, I’d say this sentiment is pretty common. It’s hard to trust men when most women and even men have negative experiences with the demographic. In fact, I’d say you’re ahead of the curve for completely ignoring a relationship with them until you’re ready as most women will experience sa, domestic violence, molestation, etc at one point in their life so it’s better to delay it. Even being friends with men is tricky and don’t get me started on being left alone with men with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:26 AM
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Absolutely. It’s more likely that people don’t tell you about known rapists than for them to falsely accuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:36 PM
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Indirectness applies to both genders. For men it’s just excused as them not being able to open up because they’re men. And men can’t have feelings. Although both genders tend to express indirectness differently with women verbally being passive aggressive and men shutting down until they explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:56 PM
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Could be. It could also be that there’s not enough women on the app for the quantity of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:05 PM
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Men owe gay men sex. Gay men offer unconditional love, adoration, and orgasms so why don’t you put up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:31 PM
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In my experience of going out to party, this is unfortunately not true. A drunk woman will more than likely be targeted by men who will take her away to rape if she has no friends to keep her safe or “cock block” in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:27 PM
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I’ll go against the grain and say that most men are predators when given the chance. The thing is that with modern society enabling people to not be as reliant on one another and women often being told that all men are predators. It means that most women have their guards up at all times so the majority of men don’t get the chance to act on their desires nowadays. It’s no coincidence that a good chunk of rape cases happen while a woman is unconscious because she can’t fight back, with a partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:22 AM
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After Roe v Wade was established in the US, crime dropped to 17.5% and saw a 1% decline per year thereafter. It’s no phenomenon that a more productive society full of people who actually have a choice in wanting to have kids would lead to an overall happier and more cooperative society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:29 PM
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Monogamy wasn’t natural to begin with. The social repercussions for not staying monogamous are dying out so people are simply reverting back to instant gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:52 AM
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The men on here want to act like implying that the woman, carrying their child, might’ve cheated is nothing to be outraged about. Imagine, in the middle of a relationship, your partner does a background check and asks for your ex’s number to ensure that you would never abuse her when you haven’t given her any reason to suspect abuse, wouldn’t be just as outraged because of the implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:52 AM
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Men’s loneliness epidemic is a man’s issue. Why don’t they turn around to help and talk to each other instead of blaming women for not doing it for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:35 PM
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This is why men in general tend to avoid male friendships or personal relationships. Also why the male loneliness epidemic is so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:56 PM
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You’re completely right. You’re just not going to get the morally right responses from an anonymous sub that complains about womens sexual tendencies while excusing their own hypocritical beliefs. However, they will screech your statement when their own very young daughter, niece, sister tries to date these pedophilic 30+ yr old men. Because when they implied it was normal, they meant it only to excuse their own shitty behavior towards other men’s daughters, not have it done to their own. Some d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:00 PM
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I would only get married if I had kids with my partner. I wouldn’t want them or my family to go through social stigmas because I had kids outside of marriage. Other than that, it doesn’t me women unless I want to die earlier from taking up more than my share in a legally binding committed relationship due to societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:37 PM
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Comments like this are why women ignore you outside of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:28 PM
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You should be glad that the kids from the sperm banks will be getting good genetics so they won’t have to suffer like you from getting passed the crappy genetics that women don’t want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:33 PM
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Yes. You’re 24 and in a wacky point in your life because you’ve most likely transitioned from college student to the adult work force. Meaning you’re no longer in the demographic of meeting many people under 22 but you are now surrounded by people 22+. That gives you limited options as people tend to partner up with others in the 2+- age range but you most likely feel young and inexperienced to the older women, 24+, when you’ve barely fledged as a full adult. You can try meeting women 22-24 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:12 AM
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It doesn’t matter what women do, men will always find a way to objectify them. Islamic women covered from head to toe, little girls, vegative women are objectified and attacked despite not doing anything that will warrant it. Through personal experience, even wearing baggy clothing with no makeup and hair in a mess hasn’t deterred men from catcalling or groping me. Objectification will stop through the reformation of male attitude towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:47 PM
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A person never stops learning. So if much older women and fathers are telling 18 year old women that a 25+ year old man is wrong for trying to hit on them, then there is a justified reason for it. I was 18 at one point and didn’t realize how wrong it was for much older men to be hitting on me until years passed and I gained some perspective. As a legal 18 year old, you think you know everything because you’re now responsible for adult decisions but the real world bites hard without proper adult …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:49 PM
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Yes, you just explained why age gaps are difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:36 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/138ghcu/only_810s_need_apply/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:30 PM
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You’re right. I interpreted this post wrong and didn’t think op meant a boy with criminal tendencies. I had a different definition of bad boy in mind which deviates from what this post narrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:09 PM
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Definitely not. Disney has shows where being the popular kids meant hanging around the bullies and dating the jocks because there’s a hierarchy. Typically this type of aggressive behavior tends to escalate but I wouldn’t define bad boys as abusive aholes. What you described is domestic abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:29 PM
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This would’ve applied to me in high school when I thought it was cool because I saw it on Disney. Being in college now, this type of behavior would physically repulse me and make me lose respect for the person. I can’t imagine any grown women finding this cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:05 AM
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That’s because women also face their own difficulties when dating that the men on here refuse to acknowledge. Your post is asking people to sympathize and acknowledge that victims of earthquakes have it worse than victims of hurricanes when both are tragedies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:13 PM
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This is not a female teacher issue as much as it is a justice system flaw. Less than one percent of rape perpetrators get any legal repercussions in which 90%+ of these perpetrators are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:33 PM
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Yes, I’m in college and so many women are opting out of relationships. They talk about growing old with their pets or female roommates if they don’t find an adequate relationship to be in. It seems that finding a male companion is becoming less of a priority like having kids because it’s more trouble than it’s worth for all the reasons op stated above.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:06 PM
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With our current economy, men and women have to take up the provider role. However, women in general take up more shares of the provider role in the aspect of maternal and financial care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:52 PM
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I think most people outside of Reddit agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:04 AM
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This is what I was thinking. Women have to work and earn money as well so I don’t understand what the point of this post is. Even better yet, they’re more resourceful with their money hence, the reason why women are more likely to own a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:13 AM
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I wouldn’t call men expendable as much as both genders having different biological capabilities. I think most people outside of Reddit would agree that sending women out to physically fight in wars is a bad idea. Most women wouldn’t be able to haul their male companions much less win in a physical fight against one man. Plus, they’d be treated like war spoilage being gang raped and trafficked. Then, their women would bear innocent, unwanted children whose heritage is intertwined with the enemy’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:16 AM
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From personal experience, I can tell you women are not embellishing. If you have female friends, I suggest you go ask them about their experiences. All of them will tell you a story. You can even ask your mom or sisters if you don’t converse with women since the most understanding men I’ve met regarding these issues are those who have multiple female companions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:57 PM
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The average woman isn’t assaulted by Cosby. And yet all women I know have been assaulted, harassed, or made uncomfortable by various men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:53 PM
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This is very hard to believe because many women have experience harassment by a group of men proving that it is not selective as much as cultural. Have you heard stories where hundreds of men team up to rape women when given the opportunity or of sex trafficking? Because I personally know many women who were raped by a man and their buddies encouraged it or did nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:51 PM
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Was going to comment this. How is 5-10% reasonable when every woman I know has been harassed, sexually assaulted, or had some uncomfortable experience with a man. I mean, I and many others have experienced so many uncomfortable behaviors from men who have no prior track record or give off creep vibes until given the opportunity. Not only that, but it’s scary how disproportionate violence against women is when reading subs like r/creepyencounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:52 PM
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It’s a combination of biological strength and societal influence leaning more towards the social aspects. I mean if we look towards poverty stricken neighborhoods, we’ll see a lot more violent cases committed by men. As opposed to men from well off areas who are more likely to commit other non violent crimes. As for rape, if there is any opportunity to rape a woman, I believe 50%+ of men will take it and it goes up to 90%+ especially if it is done as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:36 PM
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Everyone can agree that men in general are more horny. My question is whether their higher horniness levels are attributed to biological or social factors. If sex with women weren’t so celebrated amongst men and make them look powerful in their social circle, would they be trying to have so much of it? Would shaming men for having sex with women like they shame men for being gay decrease their biological libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:38 AM
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If you zero options for food, wouldn’t you consider eating the worm or even blades of grass if it came to that point? I mean you’re not just going to let you body starve, at some point you’ll be looking for available alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:33 AM
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My argument is that men in general are hornier than women. But I am trying to differentiate whether their higher horniness levels are due to a biological or social factor. For example, if sex with women wasn’t so celebrated and looked favorably amongst men, would they be trying to have so much of it? Would their sexual libido just be a bit higher than women’s if it weren’t so celebrated and seen as peak chadness or would it drop if they were shamed and called sluts like women are for having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:30 AM
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You made a sound argument. Sex is both psychologically and biologically driven meaning men can control themselves to all extents. It’s society that has made up excuses and perpetuated the notion that men can’t control their horniness. Which has unfortunately made them feel unaccountable for their actions. Men won’t feels as horny over the woman who everyone knows has riden the cock carousel because society has labeled them sluts. But will simp over the “pure” woman with a supposed small body cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:21 AM
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I should’ve added why don’t “more” men fuck each other. Gay and bisexual men exist. Because a lot of people tend to perpetuate the notion that men are endless black holes of sexual libido. This seems to ring true for women who are constantly pestered by sex requests from men and the endless cases of rape, paying for sex, etc that society seems to just accept because men are “simply more hornier.” This thinking doesn’t make sense to me since men mainly go after women for sex but will refuse sex f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:49 PM
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If this were true then why don’t more men fuck each other? If someone is starving, they’ll eat just about anything so why do men refuse to hook up with other men with similar libidos? There surely has to be a psychological or societal, besides biological reason, why most men choose to only engage with women for casual sex. If they were truly hornier and looking so badly for one night stands, wouldn’t they start looking towards other men instead of women, drunk men and women, or children? I’m gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:00 PM
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Don’t know what type of women you hang around but most people grow out of that phase after their teenage years due to growing maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:59 AM
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Did I say 22 yr old women were infants or did I state that significant age gap relationships are predatory? let me add in for BOTH genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:42 PM
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If that were true then the age of sexual consent would be legally increased until marriage. Now really think about why immature 18 yr olds who can legally drive and are as “rational” as you believe are not allowed to drink at that age by the government? American beliefs have long shifted from puritan to a more liberal stance. The reason why our democracy even had to set a consent limit is because we recognize how easy it is to take advantage of a young person and as a large majority can recogniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:39 PM
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Why do you think the legal drinking age is 21 in the US? As far as I know, DiCaprio and porn with supposed 18 yr olds have been hugely criticized. I think they’re both awful and depict the wrong idea to desperate lonely men. I’m in my early 20 and know I definitely hold the power to manipulate some 18 yr olds. You’re either in denial or don’t have basic persuasion skills. Vulnerable people like those who are 18 are one of the large demographics to fall victims to scams or abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:38 PM
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What would you think if your 18 yr old daughter/ sister/ niece brought a 30+ yr old home? Society holds each other to social norms because we wouldn’t want someone messing with our own family. Like how we dissuade murdering or stealing because we wouldn’t want one of our relatives to be the victim of that crime if it were normalized. Most of the times, majority rule is favorable and considered common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:26 PM
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I’m in my early 20s and most of my similar aged peers find it disgusting to date a man significantly older. We understand it’s predatory and so do older women because they’ve also been 20 at one point and would be pestered by those predatory men. Older women could care less about these older men being swept away by 20 yr olds since they’re not even looking for relationships to begin with at their age according to statistical evidence. Lots of men on here fantasize about getting revenge on those …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:51 PM
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Even if it is junk science, its still available research explored which is more than what most men have on here who argue for dating 18 yr olds. They don’t have any statistical evidence to back themselves up because most people don’t agree on dating people under 25 when you’re 30+. Its also considered true for many because it confirms many people’s bias on how anyone under 25 is not developed because they’re still in the schooling stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:46 PM
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That’s because development is not a linear path, it’s a stage process. From 18-22/24 most people are in college, wearing their backpacks, and coming home to their parents after a long day at school. The government can grant them many adult authorities as they are of majority age but that doesn’t take away the fact that at this stage they’re out and about partying and living up their finances/ life youthfully with their classmates. This stage is vastly different from someone 25+ who has most like…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:39 PM
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One of the reasons why that age is referred to so much is because many men do not care about common sense when it benefits them but will back off a bit when you bring up studies done. You can tell them that to most of American society it feels unethical to date someone as young as 18 because they do not have the same life experiences as a 30 yr old. Theyll question it but back off when studies suggest that the brain doesn’t develop until people are 25 because they don’t have statistical evidence…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:21 PM
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Thank you for the reply! I’m currently in college and this has been my experience as well. You put into words exactly what I’ve seen and even explained the experience so elaborately well. I agree that the men on here are in denial but know deep within that this is actually what’s happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:39 AM
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Nope I’ve seen, heard, and read too many stories of these women going after older men for their resources and then going home to fuck their similar aged partner. Women aren’t attracted to older men just their wallets and once it runs dry they quickly disappear. The average age gap is 2.3 years statistically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:50 AM
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There are too many cases where older male figures abuse girls below the age of consent. You’d be surprised to know how many women have been molested/ raped by step fathers/ grandfathers/ etc and they’re the same men who would go after 18 years olds if the could. Going after an 18 year old when you’re 25+ is something only mentally ill people do who use the power dynamic to their advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:42 AM
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Statistics show young women are having the least amount of sex in all history. Also those hot women are not going after significantly older men unless they’re mentally ill or sugar babies who exchange only companionship for expensive gifts which are not common. The majority of women I know though are planning for a future by themselves if they don’t find their ideal man who obviously doesn’t look and perform like a prune.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:36 AM
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This was the norm in biblical times and now in less developed countries who don’t have a legal consent limit or don’t take it seriously. There are also too many cases where older males figures like step fathers or grandfathers abuse girls below the age of 18 because it’s easier to get away with. Guess what, these men are the same men who would go after 18 yr olds if given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:25 AM
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Animals by nature have instincts to kill and breed without any rational thought as to why they’re doing it. This is vastly different to humans who are more complex and can communicate what they want. I refer specifically to the US because it wouldn’t be appropriate for me to comment about countries whose cultures and society I am not integrated into. Here in the US however, many people find it morally reprehensible to date a barely legal 18 year old since that is the age in which 47 states consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:15 AM
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Yes, I mean I won’t deny some women are with older men but that’s not the majority. Most men on here are delusional and think women my age would date significantly older which is not common. The average age gap I’ve seen is a 2-3 yr difference. The rest are in situationships and I know the same amount of lesbians partnerships as partnerships with women who are dating significantly older.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:09 PM
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Honestly, observation. I’m in college and the majority of women I know are in situationships that I know they would define as a relationship. I however do know some women but to a lesser degree who date older guys, are lesbians, or sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:36 PM
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What statistics or who said men hit their looks peak around 28? Post wall/ peak is only a concept Reddit men invented to make themselves feel better about women not choosing to be in relationships with them when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:25 PM
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Love how you excluded the “by nature” part because it didn’t benefit your argument. The age of consent currently ranges from 16-18 in all states and it is morally reprehensible by society to go below 18. You also forgot to mention how you find it repulsive to have any of your female relatives be considered breedable by men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:21 PM
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But they do exist and contribute to why more women are in relationships as being a lesbian has become more acceptable. However the large majority fall in the other categories I listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:58 PM
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No because they’re at different stages of their life and would be determined an outcast if their social circle, which they probably don’t have if they’re going after an 18 yr old, were to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:08 PM
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No they’re sharing men their age, unclear on their relationship status or gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:03 PM
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That’s why I specified that this circumstance ONLY pushes a power dynamic because no one of significant age is pursuing a relationship with an 18 yr old because they genuinely “just like them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:55 PM
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Statistically speaking, the average age gap relationship is around 2 years. Currently, women wanting much older men is something only the media portrays and redditors fall for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:47 PM
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This is why humans developed higher thinking and have set limits against messing with those below 18. You’re no animal by nature and know better than to rape a “breedable” 12 yr old because we developed communication skills. Your argument falls flat because I’m sure you wouldn’t want a 30 year old raping your “breedable” female relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:40 PM
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Most women are checking out. Men are stressed by the lack of competition and go after 18 yr olds who aren’t as experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:34 PM
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They don’t want 18 yr olds because they go through less trauma, they want them because they’re too young to understand how much of a loser the guy is and are more free to abuse them. This is why it is so common for men to go after women with bad familial ties, drunk women, and step daughters/ children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:28 PM
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This is a problem because most of the people who would date 18 year olds are the same ones who would argue for dating 12-17 yr olds if it were legal. The thing that attracts them is not the looks of the individual but the inexperience of the person which leads to a power dynamic and is similar to pedophilia. I’m in my early 20s and 18 yr olds look like children to me so I don’t understand how people older than me can even entertain the idea of going after a person who’s barely entered the adult …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:15 PM
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Statistically speaking the average age gap is around 2 years. Anything more significant than that, in this day and age, is an anomaly, abusive, or not serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:06 PM
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Out of curiosity, what subreddits were you visiting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:02 AM
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Reading your replies made me cringe. You need to go out and socialize more with women if these aren’t troll remarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:56 PM
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I don’t believe it’s an issue that you should care about since unknown women’s lifestyles and choices are not something you should be concerned with in the first place. I’m just adding perspective to her statement since I’m sure everyone’s been noticing the decline in sexual relationships between young people- making her statement biased. Most of which involve women who choose to stay away from men due to prominent gender generational issues such as taking on the majority of house work and child…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:15 AM
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Nope. I’m in my early 20s and she’s right about the part where many young women don’t want men anymore. Even though I know friends who are in committed partnerships with men, there’s more young women I know who are planning on growing old and single with their animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:52 PM
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It’s morally wrong because everyone knows that those types of people would go lower in age if they were not legally bound. An 18 yr old has nothing in common with a 30 yr old just like a 12 yr old has nothing in common with an 18 yr old despite the smaller age difference. The people that say “who cares” would absolutely not allow their child to be in a relationship with someone 10+ years their senior at 18 so why pretend like it’s not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:42 AM
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We’re having less sex. In fact, we’re going out less and not hanging out with people as much because most of us would rather be on our phones or watching tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:33 AM
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Did your parents not beat your sisters when they went out of line? My parents are of a conservative mindset and they would beat us all equally if we went out of line. The difference is the women would be beaten for events that the men were often congratulated for like having partners or staying out late with friends. Their leniency and double standards for men were enviable to the women in the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:24 AM
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Men do the majority of crimes due to their poor emotional regulation over logical reasoning. Find your spouse cheating? Statistics show men are more likely to kill one of the perpetrators. Hit by a drunk driver? Statistics show a man will be the one driving. Go to anger management classes. Most of the people in those classes are male. Emotional decisions are something men are just as capable of committing but society doesn’t deem anger/ violence to be as irrational as displaying weaker emotions …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:49 PM
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I disagree with this. The reason why women make up the most numbers in lower paying jobs is not because they don’t work like men but rather because society saddles them with the majority of household responsibilities. It’s been studied that young women tend to make significantly more money than their young male counterparts. Why? Because most young women aren’t married, have kids, or elderly parents to care for so they work even harder than men. Nowadays, women are opting out of these household …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:05 PM
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Ha. Go ask any police officer if this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:38 PM
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I don’t think men understand what exchanges women have to make in order to get everything handed to them like having their shoes tied. Constant pestering for sex, picking up extra household responsibilities, potential for abuse, rape, violence, pregnancy, etc. I’d say the truly smart women are the ones who stay away from male partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:36 PM
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Heels were invented for men. Not sure why it became a cultural thing for them to stop wearing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:50 PM
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Yup. It’s the same thought process that goes into buying an engagement ring for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:28 PM
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Women only need men when men are violent. Fortunately, we now live in a society that doesn’t force women to be with violent men. Now women are better taught to avoid men altogether and carry weapons for self defense as to avoid having to rely on other men for protection. This is where the sexless issue is arising from and why modern women are happy to be living a single, happy, and fulfilling life where men aren’t an issue unless you surround yourself by them. We don’t have to bring anything to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:16 AM
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Speaking statistically, most people aren’t having as much sex as they previously were so I’m aware that being sexless is more than a .000001% of a Reddit man issue. I’ve noticed most men start off putting women on a pedestal and then switch to becoming lazy, nasty, or abusive once they feel comfortable. Men need women just like women need men. You’re children, female partners, elder/ disabled relatives, etc are always going to be better cared for, taught, and nursed back to health by other women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:42 AM
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Same here. I hate the fact that Im so physically weak and thus have to rely on others for some activities. I can’t physically take down my younger brother much less any man with the intentions to harm me. I’ve had men and women act in a condescending/ threatening way which I know they’d think twice about if I was a man with the potential to harm them. I feel for most women, children, and weak, short men in this society because they’ll always be a liability and the most “pathetic” in a situation …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:19 AM
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Yea, I’m not disagreeing with you. Although it wasn’t at your level of trauma, my parents and their extended families were pretty disappointed when they found out their oldest was going to be a girl. Men just have more advantages and most people know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:19 PM
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From experience, I’ve found that, in many instances of childhood abuse, men tend to go after the girls and not their male counterparts despite having the same opportunities for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:48 PM
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Your comments are the most realistic take I’ve seen on being a man. It’s crazy how men on here will do anything to deny their advantages because they’re mad they don’t have easy access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:45 PM
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Yea but even if I were born a poor man, I’d take that over being a poor woman. I grew up poor and saw the physical, mental, and societal disadvantages women have in a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:31 AM
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If I lived the life of a man. I would just practice general safety tips like most men and women I know. The statistics you’re talking about don’t apply to the male population as a whole. Men aren’t being randomly killed. The men who are most likely to die in masses are those living in impoverished communities and conditions. White collar, upper class, and educated men are living a life of security, longevity, and financial security. As a woman who falls into these categories, being born a man wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:24 AM
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I have a strong feeling you’re overestimating how dangerous being a man is. Most men I know are doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:59 AM
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Difficulty in food intake is psychological as much as it is genetic. Men wouldn’t have fits of anger if they weren’t socialized to be so aggressive and have that equate to being a man. Under the right upbringing, most men don’t lash out and assault unless there is a need to like most people. However, when they’re raised in communities where fighting is the norm, both men and women take part. Testosterone isn’t necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:55 AM
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No, it’s because I’ve seen the advantages that men possess and I want them for myself naturally. I come from tall male descendants so I know I’d have a strong advantage over my current weak female body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:44 AM
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Most of our presidents have been over 6ft in height for a reason. Being a tall man automatically gives you merit as more competent despite going against others who have more intellectual and potential capacity than them. Unfortunately, women are socialized to not be as competent. I hope tv shows and other forms of media start changing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:40 AM
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The world is the male paradise. You should also try taking some history lessons on male privilege since you’ve clearly forgotten all the advantages that come with being a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:33 AM
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There are studies that prove men are more likely to listen to other men. Just like white men are more likely to listen to other white men. I didn’t know that your life is over as a man when you make a mistake! Who knew men could not make mistakes. /s You’re the only person so far who has acknowledged some advantages men hold. Makes me a bit glad since everyone went into defensive mode considering how they all know periods are a pain to deal with. Immigrants who come to America, religious people,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:26 AM
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Idk.. seems like sex is a big topic in every male dominated forum I’ve visited.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:58 AM
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I can agree that men are more likely to be assaulted by men. But only because men tend to engage more and do not try de escalating strategies with other men. Most don’t engage in safety precautions like women do because that’s unfortunately not the way they’re socialized. In this case, I would just follow general safety rules like my brother and male friends who have never been assaulted and don’t engage with raging men. As a woman, I have no idea how powerful testosterone can be, but I find it …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:57 AM
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Yes. 100%. I’ll switch right now haha. Being realistic though, besides finding a partner, men just have so many advantages. Want to be treated as competent and actually listened to? No periods, pregnancies, and more muscle growth than half the population. Being able to live in cultures where men take priority. Doing the bare minimum and getting congratulated for it. Sign me up! I would give anything to be born a man in my next life considering how their most talked about concern is being sexless…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:11 AM
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That’s because no matter what women wear or do, men will always find a way to objectify them. I mean look at iraq women, the majority of them are covered from head to toe and follow religious guidelines, yet they’re still raped, objectified, and killed at similar rates if not more than progressive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:09 AM
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I’m in my early 20s and find that most women my age and younger are starting to have the same mindset as you. Not sure how old op is but most women are starting to check out as a result of all the dangers that come with dating, especially sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:34 AM
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And yet most men do anything to get pussy. Why? Because everything that you’ve listed is not common so most men don’t have to worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:31 AM
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That’s because single motherhood is inevitable. Not for all but for a good chunk of partnerships. If a partner one day decides he/ she does not want to stay in the child’s life, then there’s nothing one can do to make them stay. Now I’ll admit that screening a partners behavior towards parenthood can be a good indicator to how they will raise their own children, but it is not the end all be all. Just like how you can deter robbers from entering your home with added security but not entirely prev…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:32 AM
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Single motherhood can not be prevented even if you think 30 years ahead and choose the right partner. Peoples personalities can do a 360 at any point in time and straight up leave you. Unfortunately, underlying trauma/ other complex factors are hard to discuss because there is so much you can do at the time to prevent certain circumstances but people only end up figuring it out once they get help or they come to terms with it overtime. For many that’s soon with the right support group but for mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:03 AM
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We don’t know if she has a history of mental health issues, was raped, has underlying trauma, or didn’t have access to reliable contraceptives, etc which led to a child.But I do know that not many people willingly choose single parenthood. Everyone knows raising a child is hard enough, let alone choosing to do it by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:02 AM
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She didn’t choose single motherhood, she just made bad decisions. Not many people would willingly choose to become single parents due to all the hardships and negative stereotypes that come with the role.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:36 AM
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Why aren’t deadbeat fathers accountable for their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:58 AM
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My point is that being married doesn’t automatically mean you’ll be the best parents. I was providing an arbitrary definition. Just like my main point is that women are not ducking deadbeats. Most women abstain from ducking until they can trust their partner or establish a sense of security with them. What’s happening in the main post is that women are picking up additional responsibilities because most men can’t care to do so. You can be the best wife out there and do everything right but the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:29 AM
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What’s wrong with having a baby out of wedlock? Marriage is just a social construct that legally binds people with a piece of paper. There exists great parents who aren’t married just like there are awful parents who are married. It really depends on the individuals and their morals. The majority of people that I know of get STD’s from cheating partners which is a different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:16 AM
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You must not have many female companions as you don’t understand that most women are not dropping their pants on every first date. Sex is inherently risky for women since there is always the chance of rape, stealthing, and STI’s from men they barely know. The few that do are either really attracted to the person, have unresolved mental health issues, or have a combination of other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:03 AM
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This is what women are doing and men are still complaining on how women’s standard are too high and how they don’t understand why they don’t give it up on the first date while the one Stacy they know does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:15 AM
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No. Only 2+/- years until I turn around 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:38 PM
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Tall men, women, and children tend to be more successful and have better opportunities than most of their average/ short peers despite being in similar circumstances. I personally prefer taller men for safety purposes. Most people will not try engaging in suspicious behavior with me with simply having a man around. But what differs from being with a tall vs average height man is that tall men are far more intimidating and command more authority in case someone thinks to try anything funny. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:12 AM
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By this logic, then we should also blame victims of murderers for making themselves easy targets. If you unknowingly encounter a murderer, then it would fall on you to take the proper precautions to prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:16 AM
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I have had the same general experience. My two best friends are 5’6 and 5’3. They are both in their early 20s, have been diagnosed with adhd, and are not anywhere close to being financially stable. Now, I’m not sure if it’s because I’m a woman or my friends are just really lucky but they’re both engaged so im unsure how the men on here are struggling. I’ve noticed that most men, even the unattractive ones, are paired with women so the issues mentioned on here must be due to other factors that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:00 PM
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I am a woman and if I were to be born again, I’d rather be born a man. The benefits of being a man vastly outweigh the small advantages that women have. It always baffles me to think about all the small things I wouldn’t have to deal with if I were a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:22 AM
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Women are not trying to convey anything. We’re going to get hit on and stared at no matter what we wear so we might as well go in something we find comfortable. Last time I almost got groped, I was wearing sweat pants and a baggy t shirt with no makeup and messy hair. It’s pretty sad to hear people blame clothing for bad actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:33 AM
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People date within their social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:48 AM
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Jack Harlow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:26 PM
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Being choked is about breathing control- not a biological thing. A woman’s orgasm is heightened when there is a lack of oxygen. Even holding their breath or pacing their breathing is enough to get them to orgasm but ofc it also feels better when a partner aids them in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:44 PM
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My intention isn’t to shame you and at 19, she’s old enough to make her own decisions. I would just find the relationship odd because what interests can you pursue with a 19 yr old? She can’t even buy her own alcoholic beverages or get into clubs yet. Even showing her off to your peers would be odd because what would she be able to contribute to conversations if she’s barely starting out. And no… there’s no such thing as an old soul/ teenager. Thats a paradox, no matter how mature you think she …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:02 AM
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This. She’s barely getting out of her teenage years and op is already heading to his 30s. If I were close to either person, I’d be concerned since people typically date within their age range due to similar interests. I still remember being hit on by a 27 year old classmate when I was just turning 19 and now, looking back on it, I realize how creepy it was even though he was a decent person. At the time, we were both college students but I still knew better than to get into a relationship with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:19 PM
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Although I do believe that many women can be sexist, it’s absolutely insane to think that they just wake up one day and choose the worst men they can find. Numerous younger women think men are trash because they go the majority of their lives being sexually harassed, put down, etc without provocation by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:42 PM
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No, I’m not part of FDS and am currently in college as an on campus student. I’d personally prefer the 25 year old and so would most of the women my age. I only know one woman who would certainly choose the older guy and frankly, she has many issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:26 PM
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Absolutely. Men don’t even have to be intoxicated themselves to do so. History, college parties, and personal experience have shown me that as soon as alcohol is involved, ulterior motives come out. Of course not every man will rape, but a good majority will especially when given the right circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:37 PM
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This can be disproven through the example of domestic violence. If men were self sacrificial towards women, then why do the majority of dv cases demonstrate the man perpetrating against the woman? If men put women on a pedestal, why do some of them physically, emotionally, and financially abuse them? As for the women in these situations, if they were wired to to be selfish around men, then why do some of them stay in these toxic situations? One answer to this is because men are not disposable. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:22 PM
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21 F. I lost it at 16 to my 16 year old boyfriend around our 6 month relationship mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:45 AM
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To clarify that article shows the amount of people trafficked in the U.S. when sex work is illegal. Now if that many people are being trafficked for sex work when it’s illegal, imagine how many more would be trafficked once it becomes legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:52 PM
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I agree with that as long as it’s consensual, unlike all the traffickers/ pimps that will try to profit off the legalization of sex work and allow the rape of it’s “workers’” autonomy for a few bucks. Which I might add make a vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:48 PM
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The likelihood of a prostitute going to prison for sex work is slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:45 PM
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Definition of a whore: prostitute. No my claim is not “think of the children” but rather have some empathy if this were one of your loved ones. I had to throw it in because many of you will neglect the facts provided from others on here detailing how dangerous the work is, plus there are too many comments on the stats already. Thus, I had to throw in some emotional substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:43 PM
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Shame her- make it illegal. No it won’t stop all of them- yes it will deter the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:37 PM
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Last I checked, becoming a soldier/ athlete is a choice. Many prostitutes are forced into it and thus raped/ abused. I’d rather have no prostitution than have a portion of it condoning rape/ pimping/ sex trafficking/ etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:36 PM
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Legal prostitution allows for human trafficking meaning that a large number of workers are being raped including men, women, and children. https://www.ncjrs.gov/ovc_archives/ncvrw/2005/pg5l.html
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:34 PM
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Wtknight explains that “sex in general attracts people with ill intent.” Prostitution just happens to be one of those paths with sex and malicious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:32 PM
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Why would we ban consensual casual sex? Rape does not equal casual sex. We need to ban prostitution because of the large amount of people forced into it. This article shows that a huge sum of people are being trafficked into it which is unethical. https://www.ncjrs.gov/ovc_archives/ncvrw/2005/pg5l.html
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:28 PM
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The only issue I had with your nudes example was how there are many variables to it (e.g. revenge nudes/ genital only nudes). I make this point because it’s the same with onlyfans. I can not predict human nature and there are limited studies showing the dangerous side of this industry. However, I would imagine that it is more likely for an obsessed fan to premeditate the harm of the individual rather than a random stranger at a bar. I’m against anything prostitution, this includes the industry a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:07 PM
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Thank you for the response. Read comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:51 PM
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Freedom of expression vs my child having a high probability of being raped are two different things. I wouldn’t want my child to pursue a career on YouTube but I’m definitely not going to stop them when the probability of them being hurt are so low. The same goes for posting nudes as it’s low stakes since people know to maintain a low profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:48 PM
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I might be projecting for the reasons stated above. However, I also know plenty of men including my own family members and friends that would definitely object because of how high stakes it is. It’s great to hear that you would 100% support your family but would you say that the benefits of prostitution outweigh its risks? If so, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:40 PM
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If you wouldn’t want to see your children/ loved ones prostituting themselves, then don’t advocate for its legality. It’s amazing to hear men support it’s legalization as long as their own family members aren’t involved. This is because they know prostitution entails high levels of human trafficking, rape, and overall abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:59 PM
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I hate how much they contradict themselves on this sub. For example, they expect their partner to be a virgin but complain about how women won’t fuck them on the first date. Then, their views on independent women are so negative but they expect their partners to financially contribute equally or else they’re gold diggers. Furthermore, they loathe women who have preferences for tall men but expect their partners to not be fat -etc. Unfortunately, there’s just no correct way to be a women for them…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:40 AM
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The movement was created to reduce body dysmorphia since all platforms mainly showcase skinny women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:55 PM
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-5. Centrist and purple pilled. I tend to have a mix of values.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:11 PM
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I don’t wear sexy clothing in public and still get harassed. Therefore clothing is obviously not the problem. My typical outfit for going out in public consists of a baggy shirt and sweatpants with no makeup on and somehow I will still have old men trying to grope me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:44 PM
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Get rid of testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:41 AM
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If I can see myself marrying the person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:03 PM
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